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Volume 4, Issue 7 Serving over 900,000 Catholics In The Diocese of Brownsville January 2013 »Feast of the Epiphany “Light of the world” The Eucharist Conference advocates reverence 4 CNS photo/L’Osservatore Romano via Reuters Pope Benedict XVI and two Italian school children release doves as a symbol of peace in this Jan. 2012 file photo. Jan. 1 is the World Day of Peace. The theme is, “Blessed are the Peacemakers.” Spirit Awards Honorees recognized for commitment 6 Family treasure Church a testament to the faith of early settlers »World Day of Peace 2013 Catholic News Service On the feast of the Epiphany of Our Lord, the Church celebrates the manifestation of our Lord to the whole world. After being made known to the shepherds of Bethlehem, he is revealed to the Magi who have come from the East to adore Him. 8 By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic T Those Who Serve Sister Leticia Ugboaja 9 En Español Artículos sobre una iglesia histórica, el aborto y una marcha pro-vida, y el día de la paz he feast of the Epiphany, marking when the Wise Men visited the infant Jesus, is celebrated each year on Jan. 6. In 2013, the feast of the Epiphany falls on a Sunday. When it falls on another day of the week, the celebration is transferred to the Sunday between Jan. 2 and Jan. 8. Epiphany comes from a Greek verb meaning “to reveal.” “The Epiphany marks the manifestation of Jesus as the savior of the world,” said Father Leo- (“The WORD is sent breathing love.”) Francis Daniels of the Congregation of the Oratory of St. Philip Neri in Pharr. “He is the light of the world, he is goodness itself. Everything is found in him.” The Wise Men were important figures as the Church began its mission of bringing Christ to the world. The Wise Men were the first Gentiles to, “see the light,” the first to come and adore Jesus. Tradition tells us that the Wise Bishop Flores to join Jan. 19 procession The Valley Catholic Courtesy A little girl joins the prayer warriors outside of a McAllen abortion clinic, where they pray for the women, babies and abortion clinic staff. While serving in Eagle Pass, Texas, Father James Erving participated in a pro-life march that processed down the city’s main street. The procession slowed traffic, grabbing the attention of passersby. Father Erving later learned that a woman who saw the procession was planning to have an abortion that week. The display inspired the woman to choose life for her baby. “You never know what kind By U.S. CONFERENCE OF CATHOLIC BISHOPS of fruits come from the witness we give,” said Father Erving, who serves as the director of the Respect Life Apostolate for the Diocese of Brownsville and pastor of Our Lady of Refuge Church in Roma. The Respect Life Apostolate is organizing a march in McAllen on Saturday, Jan. 19. Bishop Daniel E. Flores will join the procession that will begin with an opening prayer at 10 a.m. at St. Joseph the Worker Parish, continue into downtown where it will pass by the local abortion clinic and end at Sacred Heart Parish with closing prayers at about 1 p.m. Jan. 22, 2013 marks the 40th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade Where do you experience a lack of love, faith, and peace in your family, relationships, neighborhood, and in the global human family? In his 2013 Message for the World Day of Peace (Jan. 1), Pope Benedict XVI reminds us at that we all have a role to play in building peace in our communities and world. The Holy Father’s message is entitled, “Blessed are the Peacemakers” (Mt 5:9 ) and is the latest in a long tradition of papal messages to celebrate this Jan. 1 observance, beginning with Pope Paul VI in 1968. This year’s message reminds us that our commitment to pursue peace flows from the inner peace we experience through our relationship with Christ and our belief in the dignity of every person, created in God’s image and endowed with fundamental rights and responsibilities. This belief compels us to take action, especially in relationship to freedom of conscience and religion, our response to the economic crisis, and other situations affecting the global human family. Pope Benedict also reflects back on Pope John XXIII’s encyclical letter, Pacem in Terris (Peace on Earth), which marks its fiftieth anniversary in 2013. Pacem in » Please see Procession, p.14 » Please see Peace, p.15 Men probably came from Persia, which is modern day Iran. They were likely Zoroastrians, who were known for their devotion to truth and wisdom. “They were searching for what is true and good and honest and something that would make life meaningful – and they found it,” Father Daniels said. “Jesus makes » Please see Light p.15 A public witness for life 11-13 “VERBUM MITTITUR SPIRANS AMOREM” “Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star at its rising and have come to do him homage.” Mt 2:2 How are you called to promote peace? 2 DIOCESE Listening Sessions continue The Valley Catholic Three more listening sessions, or town hall-style meetings with Bishop Daniel E. Flores, are scheduled for 2013. Deacon Luis Zuniga, director of the Office for Pastoral Planning and the San Juan Diego Ministry Institute for the Diocese of Brownsville, said the purpose of the listening sessions is to provide the faithful with a direct means of communication with the bishop and to encourage greater participation in the life of the Church. The feedback will also be used for planning purposes. “The participants are invited to ask questions and share their hopes and dreams for the future of the Church in the Rio Grande Valley,” Deacon Zuniga said. The diocese is divided into eight geographical areas called deaneries (a group of parishes). The Brownsville Deanery is hosting its listening session on Monday, Jan. 28 at 6 p.m. in the gymnasium of the Immaculate Conception Cathedral. The Mission Deanery’s listening session is set for Thursday, Feb. 28 at 6 p.m. at a site to be determined. The Rio Grande City Deanery is scheduled to meet with the bishop on Wednesday, March 6 at 6 p.m. at Immaculate Conception Church in Rio Grande City. In past listening sessions, Bishop Flores has spoken about the growth of the Church in the diocese. He has expressed the need for more vocations to the priesthood so that more churches may be opened. With more than a million Catholics in our diocese, the bishop pointed out that our region has more Catholics than some archdioceses. The bishop added that he has enjoyed hearing from the faithful of the diocese. “We’ve had some great questions, questions about some of the priorities in the diocese and some of the needs we have,” Bishop Flores said. “The questions have been very timely and very well thought out. Good things are on people’s minds.” The Valley Catholic - January 2013 The victory of life over death T his month, as we continue to defend and work for the protection of the unborn against the forces of the culture of death, I am reminded of an important scripture passage in the Gospel of John, Chapter 16, “These things I have spoken to you, that indeed, you have peace. In the world you shall have distress. Have confidence, I have overcome the world.” The Lord Jesus desires for us peace, and in the passage he speaks to us of the source of that peace, that is to say his victory. “I have overcome the world,” he says. This Year of Faith is a call from the Holy Father to reinvigorate what it means to be a believer, what it means to be a man or woman of faith, a young person of faith, to recognize how it sets us apart from the world, to recognize it as a gift. Faith is a gift that comes from God and we are blessed to have received it. In the context of our renewal of the sense of faith as a gift, it is good to look upon the words of Jesus when he says, “I have overcome the world.” To believe this, is a gift of faith. It is not always what we see with our eyes or what we perceive by virtue of news reports or other sources of information, but rather a certain confidence. The bedrock of our activities as a people of love, a people of hope, is ultimately our faith in this victory that Christ Jesus has already won. It is a victory which manifests itself first of all in his victory on the cross over death. In Christ Jesus risen from the dead, we have definitively revealed before our eyes the victory of life over death. This is the sum of everything we believe as Catholics, as Christians. It is not up to us, because it is ultimately not in our power to secure the victory of life over death: He has overcome the world. What we must do is refortify our faith to act, and to live in accord with his victory. That, in a certain way, is a special call to each one of us to live with a daily conviction of the victory of life over death. The world needs to know that it is always better to appreciate the gift of life than it is to be mesmerized by the power of death. The world to which we are called to witness, to evangelize, is a world that is in some way mesmerized, almost hypnotized, by the power of death. Death has a way of covering the eyes. It is a power that stubbornly continues to express itself in this world. But Jesus says, “I have overcome the world.” His light has broken through, and the lightning strike that comes from heaven, which is MOST REVEREND DANIEL E. FLORES BISHOP OF BROWNSVILLE the Incarnation, the passion, the death and the resurrection of the Son of God, breaks through and breaks open the mesmerizing effects of sin and death. The victory that God wins is the breaking through of the power of life. It’s at the very root of the Gospel we preach, it’s at the very root of what we believe as a people of faith, that the victory is the Lord Jesus having triumphed over death and broken through with a lightning strike from heaven. The gift of life is not just a biological reality, it is a joy. Life is something to be embraced, to be extraordinarily grateful for, as something that is all encompassing and comes from God. In this Year of Faith, we must strengthen our own sense of the victory of life and the power of Christ to break through the mesmerizing effect, the fascination the world has with the morose. We must reconfirm ourselves in our faith because we sometimes get discouraged. That too is the power of death, to discourage. It is important to dedicate ourselves to believing in the victory of Christ and to invite the light of the Lord’s life and his victory of life to take greater possession of each one of us. To be someone who is pro-life, in the larger sense, is to be someone who is “pro” the goodness of life, and to give witness to that in a world that is grossly fascinated with the power of death. In the trilogy the Hunger Games, the author Suzanne Collins presents a stark world where death is the game that entertains everybody and controls everyone. There are characters in the story who are the victims of the power that makes death into a game, yet they are courageous in the defense of life. I recommend reading the book, because bizarre as the set up is, it is not unthinkable that the world could reach a stage where death is a spectacle and a game for power, control and entertainment. Read it to see little glimmers of light. I am convinced the author is looking to tell the reader that it doesn’t have to be this way. There is a lesson here for us. We are here to say, “It doesn’t have to be this way.” We don’t have to sacrifice an unborn child for somebody else to be happy. We don’t have to make economic criterion everything that governs the decisions we make in our families and in our homes. It takes a heroic, courageous breaking through and waking up from a world that so easily falls into “well, this is how the game works; death is in charge.” When Blessed Pope John Paul II called us to build a culture of life, he was calling us to give witness to the fact that life triumphs over death and that it is possible to build a civilization where everybody acts in favor of the goodness of life, from the unborn child to the aging person who is dying of a terminal illness. The respect that is due to the gift of life is something over which we are not sovereign. Our faith is something that must be shared. It is something that breaks through one person at a time. This gift of faith we have received is the only hope of the world, and it breaks through the culture of death. Our culture desperately needs an infusion of faith in the goodness of life. “I have overcome the world,” Jesus says in the Gospel, addressing his disciples. In this context, we can hear him speak these words, “Take care, little flock, for I have overcome the world,” for we are often afraid. Sometimes we think we are outnumbered, but numbers never matter with God. What matters is the conviction of his grace working through those who do believe. That’s exactly why the witness of the prolife procession scheduled this January and so much that happens throughout the year to promote life is an expression that comes out of our faith. What we are really doing is planting the victory. The victory is there. “Take care, little flock. Do not be afraid.” Our witness must be sincere and based on our faith in the victory of life. Never underestimate the power of your prayers. Some things can only be dealt with, Jesus said, with much prayer and fasting. Continue your witness of prayer and be public about it. It is possible for us to push back the tide that seems to think, “Oh well, they cannot win over the forces of death.” But we know better, because the force of life has already won. “Take care, little flock. I have overcome the world.” Amen. Bishop Flores’ Schedule January 2013 Jan. 4 9 a.m. San Juan Talk for Diocesan Stewardship Conference 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd., San Juan, TX 78589-3042 Telephone: 956/781-5323 • Fax: 956/784-5082 Bishop Daniel E. 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The rosca de reyes is a traditional bread made in the shape of a circle. It is popular in Mexico and many other Latin American countries. A small baby Jesus is baked into the bread and whoever finds him in their slice traditionally hosts a party with tamales on Feb. 2, the feast of Candlemas. All are invited to Our Lady of the Holy Rosary Parish to enjoy a piece of the bread from 2 to 5 p.m. The rosca is expected to measure 470 meters (1,542 feet). Father Oliver Ángel, pastor of the Our Lady of the Holy Rosary Church, said the idea to create the large rosca came from the youth in his parish. “It’s about much more than making bread,” Father Ángel said. “It’s a way to show the world that Jesus Christ is alive. We are promoting the presence of Jesus in the world.” Jan. 6 is a special day in Mexico. Children especially look forward to the holiday as gifts are normally exchanged on this date, not on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. The holiday commemorates the Wise Men, who traveled from afar, bearing gifts for the infant baby Jesus. “This is also a way that the youth are embracing the Mexican culture here in the Valley,” Father Ángel said. “It’s great to see them embrace both the American and Mexican cultures.” Celebrating the divine motherhood of Mary Feast day focuses on role of the Holy Mother The Valley Catholic T uesday, Jan. 1 is the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God and a holy day of obligation. On this day, we are reminded of the role that our Blessed Mother played in the plan of our salvation, said Father Carlos Zuniga, pastor of St. Pius X Church in Weslaco. “A lot of people believe we have Mass that day because it’s the beginning of the year, but we are celebrating Mary, Mother of the Church, Mary, Mother of God,” he said. “The birth of Jesus eight days earlier was possible because of Mary’s ‘yes.’ She was the first to say ‘yes’ to God, ‘may it be done to me according to your word.’” (Lk 1:38) On that day, Father Zuniga said he will ask his flock to reflect on that Mary was the “Theotokos.” “She is the God-bearer, she is the tabernacle,” he said. Father Zuniga said that on each of the feasts of the Blessed Mother, the Church is asking us to reflect and to look at the figure of Mary, that Mary is the disciple par excellence who introduces us to the goodness and humanity of God. “In my homily that day, I will remind them that she is the one who said, ‘yes’ to God so in response, we ought to say, ‘yes’ to the Lord,” Father Zuniga said. “We ought to be open to God’s will in our lives. The Solemnity of Mary helps keep us in perspective of who Mary is in our lives.” A blessing for the whole Church The Valley Catholic The Valley Catholic A statue of Our Blessed Mother is seen at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in McAllen. The Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God is celebrated on Jan. 1, the Octave Day of Christmas. Proceeds to benefit La Posada Providencia The Valley Catholic Courtesy Since 1989, La Posada Providencia has assisted about 6,000 people from more than 70 countries. The people they serve are in the legal process of seeking asylum, residency or some other legal alternative. for up to a year. Most clients arrive at the shelter with very few belongings, limited or no English language skills and no family or friends to help them. While at the shelter, the clients 3 Bishop Flores to celebrate Mass for religious Feb. 3 Hands & Hearts Fundraiser set for Jan. 26 HARLINGEN — La Posada Providencia, a San Benito shelter for indigent immigrants, asylees and asylum seekers, is hosting its annual Hands & Hearts brunch and auction on Saturday, Jan. 26 from 9 a.m. to noon at the Cultural Arts Center of Texas State Technical College in Harlingen. Tickets are $35 and all proceeds will benefit the homeless men, women and children served by La Posada Providencia. The majority of those staying at La Posada arrive as referrals from immigration attorneys and U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) officials, according to Sister Zita Telkamp of the Sisters of Divine Providence, the religious community that sponsors the shelter. They stay at the shelter as their cases work their way through the court system. Some stay at the shelter for a few days while others may stay DIOCESE are welcomed into a family-like atmosphere. Meals are prepared and eaten together and everyone is assigned chores. La Posada additionally works with the clients to help them integrate into U.S. culture with English classes and other lessons. The last year has been an especially busy time for the shelter staff and volunteers, said Sister Telkamp, program director at La Posada. In addition to serving the clients who have extended stays at the shelter, there has been an increase in requests for short term assistance. In November 2012, for example, the shelter cared for 39 shortterm stay arrivals in addition to the 12 men who were living in the shelter. “We receive frequent calls from Immigration officials requesting showers, clean clothes, overnight accommodations and transportation to either the airport or the bus station for documented immigrants released from detention,” Sister Telkamp said. “Many times, I receive these calls at 2 a.m. or 4 a.m.” For more information on the shelter or the Hands & Hearts brunch and auction, call (956) 399-3826 or visit the shelter’s website www.lppshelter.org. Sister Telkamp said event organizers are seeking additional auction items. All donations are tax deductible. “Why do you have, ‘sister’ in front of your name? Whose ‘sister’ are you?” Those are just two of the questions about religious life that Sister Helen Rottier of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Carondelet has fielded from children recently. “When you hear these kinds of questions, you know that young children don’t have a visible connection to religious sisters or brothers, which is so different from when I grew up,” said Sister Rottier, who serves the diocese in the field of Catholic education. “They were all around. They were very visible.” On Sunday, Feb. 3, Bishop Daniel E. Flores will celebrate a Mass in honor of World Day for Consecrated Life at 3:30 p.m. at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle-National Shrine. All religious priests, brothers and sisters serving in the Diocese of Brownsville are invited to attend the Mass. There are more than 200 in religious life serving in our diocese. In 1997, John Paul II called for the men and women in religious life — those serving in Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life — to be recognized throughout the Church. He declared Feb. 2, the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord, to be observed as World Day for Consecrated Life. The Feast of the Presentation of the Lord is also known as Candlemas Day; the day on which candles are blessed symbolizing Christ who is the light of the world. So too, those in consecrated life are called to reflect the light of Jesus Christ to all peoples, according to the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB). In the U.S., World Day for Consecrated Life is celebrated the Sunday after the feast in order to highlight the gift of consecrated persons for the whole Church, the USCCB notes. The Mass at the basilica is open to the public so that the faithful may recognize and pray for the religious serving in the diocese. “We need public celebrations like these because the youth are not aware of consecrated life,” Sister Rottier said. “I think it is good to have a day where religious life is recognized so that people don’t forget the whole tradition in our Church.” All Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life are alike in that they are called to bring the Good News to the Church and to the world; however, the Holy Spirit guides each one » Please see Blessing, p.15 DIOCESE 4 The Valley Catholic - January 2013 »Family Life »Making Sense Out of Bioethics Father Tadeusz Pacholczyk Lydia Pesina Director, Family Life Office Jesus had a grandmother! S t. Ann the mother of Mary was born in Bethlehem and was married to Joachim from Nazareth in Galilee. After twenty years of marriage, an angel appeared to Joachim to assure him that he and Ann would have a child they were to name Mary and dedicate to God. On Feb. 2 we will be celebrating the Feast of the Presentation which according to the Gospel of Luke 2:22-24, Mary and Joseph took the baby Jesus to the Temple in Jerusalem forty days after his birth to complete Mary’s ritual purification after childbirth, and to perform the redemption of the firstborn, in obedience to the Law of Moses (Leviticus 12, Exodus 13:12-15). I would imagine that Jesus’ grandparents Joachim and Ann were present at the temple with Jesus, Mary, and Joseph rejoicing in this special moment. It is special to remember that grandparents play such an important role throughout our lives. In our present times, the role may be one of grandparent, step-grandparent, or a grandparent raising a grandchild. One of the joys is that it is an opportunity for parents and grandparents to jointly care for and teach. The teaching role of grandparents has been one of utmost respect and reverence since time immemorial. In our present age, it is more important than ever for grandparents to relish that very unique relationship and develop that guiding and teaching role because it truly takes a village to raise a child. I am not yet a grandparent, but I hope and pray that when I am I will follow some of the footsteps that my grandparents walked with me. Our family had the great blessing of living next door to my paternal grandparents. My love of reading and writing came from mi abuelo Dionicio Reyna who was self taught but loved to read and share what he read about the atomic bomb or whatever was happening in the world as we sat on homemade benches under the mora tree. He taught us cultural and religious values through stories, legends, and through dichos (sayings). From him I acquired my devotion to the rosary which he prayed daily. Recently I had the privilege of reading some of his journals and now I know whom I acquired the journaling bug from. From mi abuela Clara Sepulveda Reyna I learned to love cooking, sewing, and singing Marion hymns. They taught us respect, manners, and to always greet the elderly. The Parent Education Program “A Better Child” describes three different styles of grandparenting: (1) The Family Historian/Living Ancestor shares the stories of the past ( I have two audio tapes of interviews with my grandmother and it is such a joy to hear her voice » Please see Grandmother, p.15 Priest of the Diocese of Fall River Brother Chris M. Alar Bishop Daniel E. Flores Stephen Ray The Eucharist... Come to the Table of the Lord Divine Mercy Conference set for Jan. 19 The Valley Catholic Fountain of Mercy Ministries, a local apostolate, is hosting its third annual Divine Mercy Conference on Saturday, Jan. 19 at 8 a.m. at the Weslaco ISD Performing Arts Center, 506 E. 6th St. The mission of the apostolate is to spread the message and devotion of Divine Mercy. What is it? The conference will advocate reverence for the Eucharist and the Holy Mass. The goal is to spread the message that the Eucharist is Jesus. Who is it for? It is for everybody, middle school age and older. Organizers said they want everyone, young and old and everyone in between, to live and treasure the Sacraments. Keynote speakers: Bishop Daniel E. Flores — The shepherd of the Diocese of Brownsville will make a presentation entitled, “The Eucharist … Come to the Table of the Lord.” Stephen Ray — an internationally-known Catholic blogger, author, speaker and documentary film producer. Ray and his wife, Janet, both Catholic converts, produced and wrote the film series, Footprints of God, which was filmed on location in the Middle East and Europe. The documentaries air on the Eternal Word Television Network (EWTN). Ray will discuss his conversion to the Catholic faith and the Eucharist. Brother Chris M. Alar — A religious brother of the Marians of the Immaculate Conception, he serves at the National Shrine of the Divine Mercy in Stockbridge, Mass. and often shares his personal tes- timony. Before entering religious life, he worked for a Fortune 500 Company and says that he, “was a man much in the world.” He will discuss how Confession brings joy to Jesus and the role of the Eucharist in St. Faustina Kowalska’s life. How much is it? Early registration is $25. Coffee and lunch are included. Organizers said that cost should not deter those interested in attending from registering as scholarships are available. Admission is free for priests, deacons and religious brothers and sisters. How do I register? Organizers ask that everyone complete the registration process, even those attending at no cost, for planning purposes. Preregistration is available online at www.fomm.us or contact Triny (956) 472-0119 or Yolanda (956) 454-2103. Precious and unique Mother-Daughter Program affirms the beauty of womanhood The Valley Catholic The Family Life Office is hosting its annual MotherDaughter Program on Sunday, Jan. 27 from 2:30 to 5:30 p.m. at the Bishop Adolph Marx Auditorium in San Juan, located behind the Upper Valley Catholic Pastoral Center on the grounds of the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle - National Shrine. Designed for mothers and their daughters, ages 10-12, the program provides an atmosphere of love and learning in which to discuss the wonder of growing up and becoming a woman. The presentations emphasize respect and appreciation for God’s gifts. The program will also encourage the girls to appreciate their femininity, as well as their changing bodies and personalities. The topics to be discussed include the physical and emo- The Valley Catholic Abby Torre and her daughter, Iliana of Donna enjoy some bonding time at the Mother-Daughter Program in this file photo. Sponsored by the Family Life Office, the program discusses the splendor of growing up while reinforcing the motherdaughter relationship. tional changes that take place in a young woman’s body in preparation for motherhood, the functions of the female reproductive system and the virtue of chastity. “One of the many blessings of the Mother Daughter Program is seeing the mothers and daughters relish their time together, increase their mother/ daughter bond, and share new learnings as well as pray, laugh and spend time together,” said Lydia Pesina, Director of the Family Life Office. The presenters will also emphasize that each girl is precious and unique, and that every girl changes and develops at different times and in different ways. While the program is very informative, Pesina noted that it should serve as a touchstone for continued dialogue between mother and daughter. The cost of the program is $10 per family and reservations are required. The deadline for registration is Jan. 21. For more information, call the Family Life Office at (956) 784-5012. Taboos and Tattoos O n TV these days, we’re seeing more and more programs about “body art” and tattoo design. Despite the apparent widespread acceptance of the practice, there are several problems with tattooing that go beyond the sanitary issues, disease transmission and unclean inking needles that can be found in second-rate tattoo parlors. Tattoos, as some who have gotten them have recognized, have negative associations. An article in the Dallas Morning News a few years ago chronicled the story of a young man named Jesus Mendoza, who was “going to great lengths to remove the six tattoos that hint at his erstwhile gang involvement.... He feels branded. ‘It’s the stereotyping,’ he said. ‘The question is: What do you think when you see a young Hispanic male with tattoos? You’re going to think gangs. And I think that, too, now.’” Similar branding concerns were raised in a recent column by David Whitley about San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick, whose arms and back are full of tattoos. “NFL quarterback is the ultimate position of influence and responsibility,” he wrote. “He is the CEO of a high-profile organization, and you don’t want your CEO to look like he just got paroled.” That branding communicates a message that can make life more difficult for those who have tattoos. It should come as no surprise that employers often associate tattooed workers with “reduced productivity” and may show a preference for untattooed employees in hiring or promotions. Even for the vast majority of tattoo recipients who have no connection with gangs or an indolent lifestyle, a psychological issue is raised by the way they seem to serve as marks of vanity. Placing tattoos in positions where they can hardly be missed — on the neck, the forearms, or even the face — can play into a disordered desire to be flamboyant, disruptive and self-seeking with our bodily image. One young woman, tattooed with the image of a fairy having “stylized butterfly wings, in a spray of pussy willow” expressed her sentiments this way: “I am a shameless exhibitionist and truly love having unique marks on my body.” These questions about vanity lead to similar concerns about modesty. Modesty in its essential meaning involves the decision to not draw undue attention to ourselves. Tattoos and body piercings most definitely draw attention, and often may be desired for precisely these immodest reasons. We ought to dress modestly, in part, to prevent others from being attracted to us out of a mere “focus on body parts.” One aspect of dressing modestly is to make sure everything needing to be covered is, in » Please see Tattoos, p.15 January 2013 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic »Sunday Readings The Word of God in the Life and Mission of the Church JANUARY 6 (Solemnity of the Epiphany of the Lord) Reading I IS 60:1-6 Responsorial Psalm PS 72:1-2, 7-8, 10-11, 12-13 Reading II EPH 3:2-3A, 5-6 Gospel MT 2:1-12 JANUARY 13 (Feast of the Baptism of the Lord) Reading I IS 42:1-4, 6-7 OR IS 40:1-5, 9-11 Responsorial Psalm PS 29:1-2, 3-4, 3, 9-10 OR PS 104:1B-2, 3-4, 24-25, 27-28, 29-30 Reading II ACTS 10:34-38 OR TI 2:11-14; 3:4-7 Gospel Lk 3:15-16, 21-22 JANUARY 20 (Second Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading I IS 62:1-5 Responsorial Psalm PS 96:1-2, 2-3, 7-8, 9-10 Reading II 1 COR 12:4-11 Gospel JN 2:1-11 JANUARY 27 ( Third Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading I NEH 8:2-4A, 5-6, 8-10 Responsorial Psalm PS 19:8, 9, 10, 150 Reading II 1 COR 12:12-30 OR 1 COR 12:12-14, 27 Gospel LK 1:1-4; 4:14-21 The word of the lord abides for ever. This word is the Gospel which was preached to you” (1 Pet 1:25; cf. Is 40:8). With this assertion from the First Letter of Saint Peter, which takes up the words of the Prophet Isaiah, we find ourselves before the mystery of God, who has made himself known through the gift of his word. This word, which abides for ever, entered into time. God spoke his eternal Word humanly; his Word “became flesh” (Jn 1:14). This is the good news. This is the proclamation which has come down the centuries to us today. 5 Brownsville Parish takes 40-hour journey of adoration E stamos haciendo historia. Those were my opening words to a full church after the 40 hours of adoration that we had on the first weekend of December. It is not coincidence that we finished the 40 hours of continued adoration on the feast of the Immaculate Conception. It was a wonderful experience for our community to have the Blessed Sacrament exposed for 40 hours for the first time in the history of our Holy Family parish in Brownsville. Parishioners were coming at different times during the day and during the two nights to adore the Lord in the Eucharist. Not a single second was the chapel without people and at times the chapel was too small to fit so many. Young people, children, married couples, entire families, came to spend some time with Jesus. I went to the chapel during different times of the day and night and there was always people looking at Jesus and He was looking at them. These moments of prayer transform a community and help the people to prepare the way of the Lord. A couple that has been married Father Jorge A. Gómez Chancellor, Diocese of Brownsville for over 40 years spent the whole night in adoration, from the moment I exposed the Blessed Sacrament at 7 p.m. until 6 a.m. they were in that spiritual communion with Jesus, with the one who loved them even before they were able to love. The people who came to adore Jesus during these 40 hours are the ones that keep our community going because they see the Eucharist not as a luxury but as a necessity, for without it, they would, in the spiritual sense, starve to death. The Blessed Sacrament is the point of contact between human beings. As a pastor I can see the tensions and disagreements that exist between parishioners, between the parochial groups or organizations but we all have something in common, our devotion and love for the real presence of Jesus in the Eucharist. In the words of saint Thomas Aquinas (1225-1274) He is the unmoved mover. Like a magnet, He moves people towards him. We read in the gospel of Mark 10:49 that “Jesus stood still and said, call him.” Jesus was still and the people were calling other parishioners and they kept on coming, like a flowing river, to worship him, to thank him and to pray for their different needs. We concluded the 40 hours journey with the Mass for the Immaculate Conception. During the Mass we asked Mary, mother of the Eucharist to intercede for us and to bless our community with holy vocations to marriage, priesthood and religious life. Estamos haciendo historia. During the year of faith we will have 40 hours of adoration every first weekend of the month. Hopefully every parish in the diocese would join us making history. ¡Animo valientes, hagamos historia juntos! — Father Jorge A. Gómez is the chancellor of the diocese and pastor of Holy Family Church in Brownsville. Consultative councils invite laity participation B ishop Daniel E. Flores signed a decree on Dec. 13 promulgating the establishment of a parish pastoral and finance council in every parish by Pentecost 2013. The Diocesan Guidelines for Parish Pastoral and Finance Councils recently published were distributed to all the presbyterate during their last Assembly. The First Synod of the Diocese of Brownsville in 2004 recommended that every parish establish a parish pastoral council in order to promote a greater participation of the laity in the Church. Both of these councils are “consultative in nature” as they give “counsel” (collective wisdom) to the pastor and the main goal is pastoral planning: creating, implementing and evaluating a pastoral plan in every parish. In November of 2010, Bishop Daniel Flores established the Diocesan Pastoral Council with representatives from the clergy, religious and laity representing the eight deaneries of the diocese. The establishment of the Diocesan Pastoral Council was also a top recommendation of the First Diocesan Synod. As a consultative body to the bishop, the council, which meets three to four times a year, is assisting in developing a pastoral plan for the next ten years. This pastoral plan will help determine the priorities for the diocese and the needs of the faithful living in the Rio Grande Valley. The 1983 Code of Canon Law (Canons 511-514) defines the pastoral council, the responsibility and the membership. In regard to the establishment of parish pastoral councils, the 1983 Code of Canon Law states the following: “Can. 536. §1. After the diocesan bishop has listened to the presbyteral council and if he judges it opportune a pastoral council is Deacon Luis Zuniga Director, Office for Pastoral Planning & San Juan Diego Ministry Institute. communities that without it the apostolate of the pastors is often unable to achieve its full effectiveness (10). In dioceses, insofar as possible, there should be councils which assist the apostolic work of the Church either in the field of evangelization and sanctification or in the charitable, social, or other spheres, and here it is fitting that the clergy and Religious should cooperate with the laity. While preserving the proper character and autonomy of each organization, these councils will be able to promote the mutual coordination of various lay associations and enterprises (26)”. to be established in each parish; the pastor presides over it, and through it the Christian faithful along with those who share in the pastoral care of the parish in virtue of their office give their help in fostering pastoral activity.§2. This pastoral council possesses a consultative vote only and is governed by norms determined by the diocesan bishop. Can. 537. Each parish is to have a finance council which is regulated by universal law as well as by norms issued by the diocesan bishop; in this council the Christian faithful, selected according to the The Valley Catholic same norms, aid Bishop Daniel E. Flores signed a decree on Dec. 13 during the pastor in the the Priest Assembly promulgating the establishment of administration of a parish pastoral and finance council in every parish by parish goods with Pentecost 2013. due regard for the prescription of can. 532.” This indicates that the faithful, by The Second Vatican Council virtue of their Baptism and full calls for the effective collaboration initiation into the Church, also of clergy and laity to promote the share in the responsibility for the quality of the pastoral life of parpastoral mission of the Church. ishes. According to Apostolicam In the spring of 2013 those Actuositatem the Decree on the elected, nominated or appointed Apostolate of the Laity (NOVEM- to these “consultative councils” BER 18, 1965) “As sharers in the will be invited to attend several role of Christ as priest, prophet, workshops that will help them and king, the laity have their work understand their role and the role cut out for them in the life and ac- of the councils to better serve tivity of the Church. Their activity their own parishes and the local is so necessary within the Church Church which is the diocese. The Valley Catholic A prayer card of St. Francis de Sales, a Doctor of the Church and patron of authors and journalists. »Feast Day - January 24 Spotlight on St. Francis de Sales Catholic News Agency/EWTN Francis was born of noble and pious parents, near Annecy, France in 1566, and studied with brilliant success at Paris and Padua. He knew for 13 years that he had a vocation to the priesthood before he mentioned it to his family. On his return from Italy he gave up the grand career which his father had marked out for him in the service of the state, and became a priest. When the Duke of Savoy had resolved to restore the Church in the Chablais, Francis offered himself for the work, and set out on foot with his Bible and breviary and one companion, his cousin Louis of Sales. It was a work of toil, privation, and danger. Every door and every heart was closed against him. He was rejected with insult and threatened with death. But nothing could daunt or resist him, and before long, the Church burst forth into a second spring. It is stated that he converted 72,000 Calvinists. He was then compelled by the Pope to become Coadjutor Bishop of Geneva, and succeeded to the See in 1602. At times, the exceeding gentleness with which he received heretics and sinners almost scandalized his friends, and one of them said to him, “Francis of Sales will go to Paradise, of course; but I am not so sure of the Bishop of Geneva: I am almost afraid his gentleness will play him a shrewd turn.” “Ah,” said the Saint, “I would rather account to God for too great gentleness than for too great severity. Is not God all love? God the Father is the Father of mercy; God the Son is a Lamb; God the Holy Ghost is a Dove — that is, gentleness itself. And are you wiser than God?” In union with St. Jane Frances of Chantal he founded at Annecy the Order of the Visitation, which soon spread over Europe. Though poor, he refused provisions and dignities, and even the great see of Paris. He died at Avignon on December 28, 1622, after giving a nun his last word of advice: “Humility.” St. Francis de Sales, a Doctor of the Church, is the patron of journalists and authors. 6 CATHOLIC SCHOOLS The Valley Catholic - January 2013 Spirit Awards Diocesan honoree embodies faith, humility and service 2012-2013 Honorees San Martin School, Weslaco Maria Romero Guadalupe Regional Middle School, Brownsville Teens Helping Kids, Inc. Our Lady of Sorrows School, McAllen Marin Espinosa St. Joseph School, Edinburg Terri Garcia Juan Diego Academy, Mission Paul R. Rodriguez Incarnate Word Academy, Brownsville Antonio Davila By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic St. Joseph Academy, Brownsville A s a child growing up in Progreso, Mary Latigo always wanted to attend Catholic school. She attended St. Joan of Arc School in Weslaco for a time but transportation problems cut the experience short. Her interest in Catholic education has remained ever since. “Catholic schools are great because God is there,” said Latigo, who has served as secretary of the diocesan Catholic Schools Office for 10 years. “You are able to practice your faith and participate in Mass. Attending Catholic school is something very blessed.” Latigo is the diocesan honoree for the 16th annual Spirit Awards, which recognizes individuals for their service and dedication to Catholic education in the Diocese of Brownsville. “When we consider candidates for the diocesan Spirit Award, we always try to find somebody who really does exhibit the meaning of what it is to serve and Mary is definitely that person,” said Lisette Allen, superintendent of schools for the Diocese of Brownsville. “She is always willing to serve and she serves with such a beautiful heart. She does so much and never expects anything in return.” The Spirit Awards banquet will be held on Friday, Jan. 25 at Msgr. Ralph Hall at Our Lady of Sorrows Parish and School in McAllen. The event raises funds for the diocesan tuition assistance program. An honoree or honorees from each of the 13 Catholic schools in the diocese will also be recognized at the banquet. The event kicks off the annual observance of Catholic Schools Week, which runs from Jan. 27 to Feb. 2. The 2013 theme selected by the National Catholic Educational Association is, “Catholic Schools Raise the Standards.” The third of eight children, Latigo was born in Progreso “right near the Rio Grande,” to Juan and Benita Latigo. She attended Progreso schools until the eighth grade and graduated from Weslaco High School in 1972. Latigo worked for the Progreso school district for 28 years before moving on to the Catholic Schools office. From a very young age, Latigo helped support her family, picking cotton, tomatoes, green peppers and onions and also fishing in the river and canals. Her family also migrated to other states for work. “As far as I can remember, I’ve always worked,” Latigo said. “At that time, there was no extra help for families. My brothers and sisters and I, we all had to work. We would get home from school, do our homework and then go to the fields.” For most of her childhood, Progreso did not have a church of its own, but the community found ways to teach and practice their faith. “The Oblate priests from St. Joan of Arc Church in Weslaco Graciela Touchy Immaculate Conception School, Rio Grande City Cresencio Rivas St. Anthony School, Harlingen Father Lawrence Klein “You can see that she enjoys what she does,” said superintendent of schools, Lisette Allen of Mary Latigo the diocesan honoree for the 16th Annual Spirit Awards. Latigo, pictured, has served as the secretary of the diocesan Catholic Schools Office for 10 years. traveled to Progreso and celebrated Mass in a grocery store, which is now the Progreso police station,” Latigo said. Religious sisters prepared the children in the community for their Sacraments at different sites, sometimes at people’s homes or even outdoors. Latigo recalls that religious education classes were even taught under a large tree. Latigo’s family and others from the community worked hard to establish a church in Progreso. The dream became a reality in 1969 when Holy Spirit Church was founded. Those experiences have led to a deeper appreciation of her faith, said Latigo, who is now in her 40th year as a catechist. In 1972, she began assisting Sister Wilfred “Willie” Ontiveros of the Missionary Catechists of the Divine Providence, teaching religious education in the rural communities of Relampago, Zacatal and Santa Maria. Latigo continues to serve the outlying areas of her community. She is currently preparing students from Holy Spirit Parish’s missions in Bluetown and Santa Maria for Confirmation. “Sometimes, people forget that the poor are out there in the colonias,” she said. “Many of them don’t have the means to attend Mass and religious education classes at the parish in Progreso so we come to them.” Latigo additionally teaches religious education to middle school students at Holy Spirit Parish, is involved in the music ministry and serves as a Extraordinary Minis- ter of Holy Communion. She also prays the rosary for the dead at local funeral homes. Latigo is also well known for her artistic talents, said Sister Maureen Crosby of the Sisters of St. Dorothy, who is a fellow parishioner at Holy Spirit Church, a co-worker at the San Juan Pastoral Center and a close friend. “She is very talented in her decorations,” Sister Crosby said. “She decorates our church absolutely beautifully. She definitely shares her gifts, she doesn’t hide them.” Latigo also decorates the San Juan Pastoral Center according to the seasons and the Church’s liturgical calendar. And even though she works in the Catholic Schools Office, she also shares her artistic expertise with other departments in the Diocese of Brownsville. Latigo developed her talent while working as the secretary at Progreso High School. “There was nobody in town selling homecoming mums for the kids and the flower shops out of town were very expensive, so I learned how to make them,” she said. “I would sell them to the kids for the cost of the supplies.” Allen described Latigo as, “very caring, very humble and very creative.” And even though Latigo will be the guest of honor at the Spirit Awards, Allen suspects she won’t sit back and relax. “She is somebody that, even though we are honoring her at the Spirit Awards, she is not going to sit down that night and I know it,” Allen said. “She will be behind the scenes, making sure the event runs smoothly.” Catholic Schools Week, Jan. 27 - Feb. 2, 2013 “Catholic Schools Raise the Standards” St. Luke School, Brownsville Irma Martinez Our Lady of Guadalupe School, Mission Michael Gomez St. Mary School, Brownsville Father Alejandro Flores Oratory Schools of St. Philip Neri, Pharr Mr. and Mrs. Vera January 2013 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic Diocese to have national representation with Young Adults 7 Oratory Schools unveil ActivTable The Valley Catholic Miguel Santos, Director of Young Adult and Campus Ministry for the Diocese of Brownsville, has been named the new vice chair of marketing for the National Catholic Youth Adult Ministry Association (NCYAMA). His oneyear term begins Jan. 1. NCYAMA is the national voice for Catholic young adult ministry in the United States and is a trusted resource for the U.S. bishops regarding young adults and young adult ministry. As vice chair of marketing, Santos will sit on the NCYAMA executive board. He will be responsible for designing and implementing a fresh marketing strategy for the organization. “Miguel Santos was selected for several reasons: experience, dedication, and faithfulness, all qualities our organization needs in its leaders,” said Paul Jarzembowski, executive director of NCYAMA. “But what most intrigued NCYAMA about Miguel was his rich, boundless, and hope-filled enthusiasm for the work of ministry. Outreach to young adults can be quite challenging, and too often, dioceses, parishes, and the ministers themselves give in to frustration and give up the work of evangelization.” Jarzembowski continued, “NCYAMA is about supporting and encouraging the Church in its outreach to young adults, building up our passion for the Gospel for those active or inactive in the faith — and a person like Miguel Santos can help our national network in doing just that by his own passion and enthusiasm.” A “young adult” is defined as an individual age 18-39, married or single. Demographically, the Diocese of Brownsville is a young diocese. The median age is 27, according to the most recent quinquennial report — or a report on the state of the diocese. Courtesy Courtesy Miguel Santos, director of Campus and Young Adult Ministry for the diocese, was named vice chair for marketing for the National Catholic Young Adult Ministry Association (NCYAMA). Santos, right, is pictured with Paul Jarzembowski, executive director of NCYAMA. “Our pews are filled with young adults, which is very different from other places in the country,” Santos said. “Our churches have a lot of young adults present yet they don’t even know they are ‘young adults’ because a lot of them have never heard of the term, so it is a new era, a new awareness that we are working to create.” Young adult ministry, Santos said, calls for a two-pronged approach. “We want to see that more young adults are coming together for peer ministry and for an opportunity to grow in their faith with other young adults, but it’s beyond just a young adult group,” he said. “That is an initial goal, but the ultimate goal is that young adults integrate more fully into the fabric of parish life; that they are really an active part of the their parish communities and that their gifts are recognized and their talents are appreciated, that they feel welcome.” Under Santos’ guidance, campus ministry programs have been established at two additional colleges in the Rio Grande Valley. He has also introduced several new initiatives to the diocese, including Awakening, a weekend retreat program and Theology on Tap, a speaker series for young adults to meet in the relaxed setting of a local pub for fellowship and reflection on their faith. Originally from Cuernavaca Mexico, Santos has long resided in McAllen where he lives with his wife Myra and their children, Antonio, Alessandra and Andrés. We are called to do God’s work after we leave Mass By LUIS ESPINOZA The Valley Catholic Most of us go to Mass every Sunday because mom or dad, or even grandma, makes us go. We are at church and join in with others at Mass by singing the hymns and saying the prayers out loud. We even get to see what heaven is going to be like. But then, we come to the end of Mass. What are we supposed to do? Usually the priest or deacon says something like, “The Mass is ended. Go in peace.” We say, “Thanks be to God.” The Mass seems to come to an end. It feels like that is it. We are done with our part by coming to Mass. We go back to our lives at home with our families or at school with our friends like if nothing happened, like if we did not receive Jesus. When we respond with the words, “Thanks be to God,” we are actually saying that now I am going to do my part. We, as a member or part of the Mystical Body of Christ, are going to go back into our daily life at home and at school WORKS OF CHARITY The seven corporal works of The seven spiritual works of mercy: mercy: 1. Feed the hungry. 1. Counsel the doubtful. 2. Give drink to the thirsty. 2. Instruct the ignorant. 3. Clothe the naked. 3. Admonish sinners. 4. Shelter the homeless. 4. Comfort the afflicted. 5. Visit the sick. 5. Forgive offenses. 6. Visit the imprisoned. 6. Bear wrongs patiently. 7. Bury the dead. 7. Pray for the living and the dead. and put into practice what we have learned and received. We hear Jesus talking to us through the readings. The priest in his homily tells us more about Jesus, what he did, and what we should do. Then, Jesus gives himself to us through his Body and Blood. If we do not pay attention, we miss Jesus talking to us. So now what do we do? We need to remember that it is very important to Jesus and to the Church how we live our lives outside of church. We are asked to go out and do the works of charity. The works of charity are ways that we can be like Jesus and help others. These works of charity are separated into two groups: The corporal works of mercy and the spiritual works of mercy. The seven corporal works are done by all of us and sometimes these are done by our priests. The seven spiritual works are done by the priests and sometimes these are done by all of us. What we do does matter. Do not let others tell you that is does not. Remember, that Jesus tells us that it is not easy to follow him, but he did promise that he will never leave us alone. God loves us and wants us to be his arms, legs, hand, and feet. Let us do his work here and now. Let us share his love with those we meet. The Oratory Academy celebrates the arrival of their first ActivTable.The global education technology company known as Promethean shakes up the classroom environment by providing a dynamic interactive learning experience. This interactive table utilizing touch sensitive technology, inspires users to take an active role in their own learning and that of their friends by driving student engagement in participation and creativity. The ActivTable is aimed towards primary school learners. At 46 inches, the screen provides one of the largest interactive surface areas on the market and allows up to six students to use it at any one time, with ample room for them to work together. The interactive nature of the ActivTable encourages inclusion and collaborative skills such as problem solving, group work, critical thinking and consensus decision making. With web browser capabilities, individual tool libraries and support for numerous applications and activities, teachers can also create tailor made activities in order to meet core curriculum learning objectives. May peace prevail on earth Courtesy Our Lady of Guadalupe Catholic School in Mission has been working on many projects to promote the Year of Faith. Sister Colette Kraus of the School Sisters of Notre Dame, who teaches third grade, began a peace and justice group, which meets after school to help promote peace in our world. Sister Kraus and the group were instrumental in obtaining a peace pole for Our Lady of Guadalupe School. Constructed of western red cedar wood, the eight-foot peace pole was planted on Sept. 21, which is the International Day of Peace. The pole was blessed by Father Roy Snipes of the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate, pastor of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church and School. The pole contains messages of peace in English, Spanish, Tagalog and Spanish. La Madre de los Niños Courtesy The students, families, and faculty of San Martin de Porres Catholic School in Weslaco participated in the 2012 Romería on Dec. 9, sponsored by San Martin de Porres Parish and its missions. The children dressed as flowers and appeared on a float created especially for the occasion. The theme of the float was, “La Madre de los Niños.” “In this Year of Faith, as we continue to build our Catholic identity, we came together to publicly manifest our faith and demonstrate our love and devotion for Our Lady of Guadalupe,” said Father Mario A. Castro, pastor of San Martin de Porres Parish and School. In the photo, Father Castro and Reyna Ortega, school principal, pose with the students. 8 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic -January 2013 »Pilgrimages close to home: St. Joseph Church, Toluca Ranch Built in thanksgiving for fresh water Historical church remains a family treasure, testament to early faith in RGV By BRENDA NETTLES RIOJAS The Valley Catholic P ROGRESO – In the infancy of the Rio Grande Valley, long before established churches and regular Mass schedules, landowners constructed small chapels on their properties for use by neighbors, employees and families. One of these private churches, recorded as a Texas Historic Landmark in 1965, remains as a testament to the faith of the early settlers. Dedicated in 1899, Don Florencio Saenz built St. Joseph Church on Toluca Ranch, just a half mile from the present Progreso International Bridge, in thanksgiving for the fresh water found on his land. He named the church after San Jose, patron of laborers. Patti Fernandez Mayers of Port Isabel, Saenz great granddaughter, said she is proud of her family’s legacy. She and her sister Birdie Fernandez Welker of McAllen shared stories as we toured the church grounds about family baptisms, weddings and funerals. Both their parents are buried next to the church. Saenz descendents have maintained the church over the years. Restoration efforts in 2007 readied the church for Welker’s daughter’s wedding and Mayers’ granddaughter was baptized in the church in 2004. Up until a few months ago, visitors could make arrangements to go to the church. Unfortunately on the day I visited, the doors and windows remained boarded. Mayers said the family had no option but to board up the church after vandals caused an estimated $30,000 worth of damages on Sept. 11, 2012, the day of her birthday. Vandals broke every window pane and damaged the shutters,. Mayers said, “It has been an extreme challenge to keep up with The Valley Catholic & Courtesy St. Joseph Church was built in 1899 on Toluca Ranch, which was part of the Llano Grande Spanish Land Grant. The private church was designated a Texas Historical Landmark in 1965. BELOW: The vaulted ceilings of the chapel were “originally made of canvas from the sails of ships that landed at Port Isabel.” the repairs, and now with the vandalism I don’t know when we will be able to fix it.” Her cousin Michael Fernandez of Weslaco, grew up next door to the chapel. “It was so devastating,” he said, “to see the destruction.” In addition to the damages, the vandals stole a statue of the Sacred Heart. Each of the statues in the church had been restored in 2007. Mayers said most of the statues are now under family care, including the statue of the Sorrowful Mother, which was donated by her grandmother Manuela Fernandez in 1945, after five of her sons returned safely from World War II. Looking beyond the boarded doors and windows, the church gives witness to the devotion of the early settlers, and the family members who continue promoting the faith. The bricks made and fired on the property for the church remain firm. Mayers said her ancestors took great care in each detail, and today descendents read the history at family celebrations. Built after a design by Father Peter Keralum, the Oblate of Mary Immaculate priest who also de- signed the Immaculate Conception Cathedral in Brownsville, the church was dedicated by Father L. Maurel, an Oblate of Mary Immaculate, on July 30, 1899. The Oblate priests, known as the “Cavalry of Christ,” for traveling by horseback along the Rio Grande River to celebrate Mass and offer the sacraments, serviced the small church. While St. Joseph Church may be small with seating for about 80 people, several features set it apart from other chapels. According to family history, the vaulted ceilings were “originally made of canvas from the sails of ships that landed at Port Isabel.” Also, the silver-lined bell which hangs in church’s belfry was purchased by Saenz in Paris at the World Exposition. The features, however, do not compare to the history contained in the Gothic revival church built in thanksgiving for finding water back in 1899. Ernesto M. Fernandez, who died in 1993, provided part of the history in “The Untold Story,” he shared with his family. According to Fernandez, during the Cristero War, 16 sisters from Matamoros, Mexico were temporarily relocated to the Toluca Ranch where they remained for 18 months. During their time in the Valley, the sisters took care of the church and provided fresh roses for the altar. Today, the altar stands behind blocked doors. While family members continue to care for the church and the small cemetery on the grounds, Mayers said she and her family are open to ideas for preserving the historic church. Father Greg Labus, pastor of St. Joseph Church in Edinburg, celebrated one of the last Masses at the chapel two years ago. He said it is important to preserve chapels like St. Joseph Church. “We need to preserve these places. We have to appreciate our history and the foundation it set for where we are now,” he said. He said the chapel served an important purpose in gathering the ranching families and providing a place for priests to bring the sacraments in the wilderness. “Remember, there was nothing out here 100 years ago.” January 2013 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic Those Who Serve: Sister Leticia Ugboaja, DMMM Providing physical and spiritual care Habit opens up communication, sister says S The Valley Catholic Sister Leticia Ugboaja of the Daughters of Mary Mother of Mercy serves as a nurse at the Women’s Hospital at Renaissance in Edinburg. “My patients often tell me that being cared for by a nun in a habit brings them comfort and gives them a spiritual lift,” she said. By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic ister Leticia Ugboaja of the Daughters of Mary Mother of Mercy works as a licensed vocational nurse in triage/ labor and delivery from 7 p.m. to 7 a.m. at Women’s Hospital at Renaissance in Edinburg. Her unit primarily identifies the level of urgency for pregnant women seeking emergency care. Sister Ugboaja, however, also acts as a spiritual guide, counselor and friend to many patients and their family members. In her bright blue habit, she stands out from all the other nurses and staff at the hospital. “I just love their openness to me because of what I am wearing,” she said. “The first thing they ask is, ‘eres hermana católica? (are you a Catholic sister?) When I say, ‘yes,’ they let out a sigh of relief and relax.” Sister Ugboaja, 42, believes the habit opens up communication with the patients, their friends and family members. “Sometimes, there are issues they don’t want to discuss with anyone but when they see that I am a nun, they feel more comfortable,” she said. “I’m not the chaplain, but people often ask me to pray with them.” And because Sister Ugboaja works the night shift, when there are rarely chaplains on duty, she finds herself comforting patients regularly. “We often have young girls and women in crisis pregnancy, who are having a hard time accepting what is going on, so I pray with them,” she said. “Unfortunately, we also have situations of fetal demise and I have to counsel the family and pray for the baby who passed away.” A native of Aba, Nigeria, Sister Ugboaja has ministered in the Rio Grande Valley for five years. She is one of five religious sisters from her community serving in the diocese. From the time she was sevenyears-old, Sister Ugboaja knew she wanted to enter religious life. “I would tell my mom that I wanted to be a nun,” she said. “I used to fix my head scarf like the nuns.” The Daughters of Mary Mother of Mercy operated the school she attended from kindergarten through high school. It was their witness that made her want to enter their community, Sister Ugboaja said. “I loved the way they sang and said their prayers,” said Sister Ugboaja, who planned to join the community after high school. “They also had an orphanage and I wanted to take care of those babies who had no one in the world to care for them.” Sister Ugboaja’s father, however, was hesitant about her entering the convent because he thought she would probably change her mind. At her parents’ insistence, Sister Ugboaja packed her belongings and prepared to go off to college. “On my way to the university, I made a U-turn and I went to the convent,” she said. “Three times, I heard a voice tell me, ‘if you proceed to the university, you will lose your vocation,’ and I knew deep down that religious life was what I wanted.” Sister Ugboaja hid the fact that she had entered the convent from her parents for an entire semester. Her parents were upset at first but quickly accepted her decision to become a religious sister. At the age of 23, she took her first vows and was sent to Rome, where she completed bachelor’s degrees in philosophy and in nursing. She served in Italy for 14 years before being sent to the Valley. In addition to her work at the hospital, Sister Ugboaja is also very involved at Our Lady of Sorrows Parish in McAllen where she helps with the religious education program and is a member of the choir. She is also a “faithful adorer” and attends morning Mass daily, said Cindy Jaime, a secretary at Our Lady of Sorrows Church. “She’s a dynamic, dynamic woman,” Jaime said. “She’s an inspiration to all of us because she lives a beautiful, religious life.” 9 »Birthday Wishes The list of birthdays and ordination anniversaries is provided so that parishioners may remember the priests, deacons and religious in their prayers and send them a note or a card. JANUARY » Birthdays 1 Rev. Leo Francis Daniels 4 Rev.Rigobert Poulang Mot 6 Rev. Msgr. Louis Brum 9 Rev. Julian Becerril 10 Rev. Eusebio Martinez 13 Rev. Alejandro Flores 22 Rev. Roberto Charlton 22 Rev. Horacio Chavarria 22 Rev. Oscar Siordia 24 Rev. Ignacio Tapia 28 Rev. Msgr. Robert Davola 28 Rev. William Penderghest 2 Deacon John P. Kinch 4 Deacon Al Crixell 14 Deacon Paulo Escobar 18 Deacon Ramon G. Leal 19 Deacon Salvador Saldivar 23 Deacon Reynaldo I. Flores 23 Deacon Rodolfo Sepulveda Jr. 24 Deacon Juan Valenzuela 28 Deacon Alejandro Flores Anniversaries » 4 Rev. Thomas Kulleck 16 Rev. Robert Charlton 28 Rev. Cesar Partida 30 Rev. Bishop Daniel Flores as priest 25 Deacon Francisco D. Pon February » Birthdays 2 Rev. Mishael Koday 3 Rev. Thomas Pincelli 11 Rev. Gustavo Obando 16 Rev. James Pfeifer 19 Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Pena 26 Rev. Juan Victor Heredia 26 Rev. Thomas G. Kulleck 2 Sister Mary N. Vincelli 14 Brother David Concannon 23 Sister Frances Salinas 8 Deacon Amando Peña Jr. 11 Deacon Gilberto Perez 13 Deacon Hugo De la Cruz 15 Deacon Jose R. Castro 15 Deacon George M. Terrazas 17 Deacon Hector Perez 18 Deacon Pedro Sanchez 22 Deacon Alvino Olvera » Anniversaries 2 Rev. Juan Victor Heredia 8 Rev. Gnanaraj Michael 11 Msgr. Robert Davola - Retired 15 Rev. Patrick Seitz 23 Rev. Gerard Barrett - Retired 25 Rev. Marco A. Reynoso 10 IN THE NEWS The Valley Catholic - January 2013 FTC’s new rules better protect children’s privacy online By MARK PATTISON Catholic News Service WASHINGTON — A generation or two ago, parents scolded their children for spending too much time in front of the TV. These days, it’s just as likely to be true about the computer or video game. Since parental complaints were first lodged about television, the industry, along with government, has taken concrete steps to clean up its act. Now it’s the online industry’s turn when it comes to children’s use of the Internet. And the federal government is showing just how, especially in this time of more insidious Web tracking through “cookies” and other devices. The Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act, known by its acronym COPPA, was passed more than a decade ago because of such concerns. Since then, the specter of online data gathering has exploded without any regard to the age of the user. And, since the children’s privacy law was passed, people’s computer use has similarly exploded, giving marketers the potential to glean even more information. Under the law the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) was charged with making the rules to protect children. After those initial rules were installed, the FTC decided to look at them again in Catholic News Service The U.S. bishops rallied for more stringent safeguards to protect children’s online privacy rights. 2010 to gauge their application in the real world. The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops is one of more than 50 organizations that asked the FTC for more stringent safeguards to protect children’s online privacy rights. Some marketers had found loopholes in the rules, the FTC found in its review. And the FTC acted to close loopholes and, as of Dec. 19, set new rules not even considered during the first goround of rulemaking. The law extends coverage in some cases to third parties that do the additional collection of information so that they, too, will have to comply with the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act. . The new rules, which will take effect on July 1, now call for “veri- fiable parental consent,” via electronic scans of signed parental consent forms, videoconferencing, use of government-issued ID, and the use of payment systems such as debit cards and electronic payment systems — a welcome relief to the parents of a child doing something innocuous online, like sharpening math skills, only to get an offer for a membership that costs $100. “The (FTC) is to be especially commended for setting guidelines for website operators regarding the release of children’s personal information to companies and for reasonable procedures for data retention and deletion,” said a Dec. 20 statement by Helen Osman, secretary of communications for the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops. LMMM Valley No. 1 LMMM Valley No. 2 2200 N. 10th St. Suite C (956) 630 2330 Mc Allen, Tx. 78505 806 S. Cage Blvd (956) 283 0995 Pharr, Tx. 78577 LMMM Valley No. 3 LMMM Valley No. 4 902 West Harrison Av. (956) 425 7018 Harlingen, Tx. 78550 3001 E. Expressway 83 (956) 968 8685 Weslaco, Tx. 78596 LMMM Valley No. 5 LMMM Valley No. 7 1627 Price Road (956) 546 7255 Brownsville, Tx. 78521 305 E. University Dr. (956) 386 1383 Edinburg, Tx. 78539 LMMM Valley No. 8 770 W. Elizabeth St. (956) 544 4806 Brownsville, Tx. 78520 “ La original y auténtica de las carnes marinadas” Vatican II is misread when Holy Spirit ignored, papal preacher says By CAROL GLATZ Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY — Incorrect interpretations of the Second Vatican Council are rooted in a denial or a misunderstanding of the role of the Holy Spirit in the life of the church, said the preacher of the papal household. The Holy Spirit “gives us the strength” to put Gospel principles and church teachings into practice, otherwise “even the Gospel precepts, without the grace of the Holy Spirit, would be ‘a letter that kills,’” said Capuchin Father Raniero Cantalamessa. As preacher of the papal household, Father Cantalamessa was leading a series of weekly Advent reflections for Pope Benedict XVI and top Vatican officials in the Redemptoris Mater Chapel of the Apostolic Palace. His Dec. 14 reflection offered a look at how to interpret the council, which began 50 years ago. “The insufficient attention paid to the role of the Holy Spirit explains many of the difficulties that arose in the reception of the Second Vatican Council,” Father Cantalamessa said. There have been two opposing interpretations, he said, while the position of Pope Benedict —that of “renewal in continuity” — has stood between the two extremes. Traditionalist groups that reject the council represent “a tradition wherein the Holy Spirit played no role at all. It was a collection of beliefs and practices fixed once and for all,” he said. “To freeze the tradition by making it begin, or end, at a certain fixed moment means making it a dead tradition,” he added. The other extreme willingly speaks of “the ‘spirit of the council’, but unfortunately it was not the Holy Spirit,” he said. He said this vague sense of spirit “is open to every whim” and is coupled with the belief that “greater innovative courage” didn’t make it into conciliar texts due to “the resistance of some and to the compromises” that would have been necessary. “The ‘implementation’ or carrying out of the council is not a simple straightforward matter of applying its decrees in a literal and almost mechanical way. Rather, we must seek to apply them ‘in the Spirit,’” that is, the Holy Spirit, that offers the “healing grace of faith” and brings to life the word of Christ, he said. The paradox of “renewal in continuity” or “permanence in change” is resolved by the Holy Spirit’s action within the church, Father Cantalamessa told the pope and Vatican officials. The Holy Spirit “doesn’t create new sacraments and new institutions. Rather he renews and perennially enlivens” everything Jesus has already created. The papal preacher said, “The council represents a discontinuity with the church’s recent past and instead represents a continuity with respect to the remote past,” specifically a return to the origins of the church, “to the biblical and patristic sources of the faith.” Enero 2013 - The Valley Catholic NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL 11 »Peregrinaje cerca de casa Dando gracias por el agua potable Iglesia histórica sigue siendo tesoro familiar, testimonio de fe en el Valle Por BRENDA NETTLES RIOJAS The Valley Catholic P ROGRESO – En los primeros años del Valle del Río Grande, mucho antes de que se establecieran iglesias y Misas regulares, los terratenientes construían pequeñas capillas en sus propiedades para que los vecinos, empleados y familias las usaran. Una de estas iglesias privadas, registrada como Monumento Histórico de Texas en 1965, se mantiene como testimonio de la fe de los primeros colonos. Dedicada en 1899, Don Florencio Saenz construyó la Iglesia San José en el Rancho Toluca, a media milla del puente internacional de Progreso, en agradecimiento por el agua potable que encontró en su tierra. Nombró a la iglesia San José, patrón de los obreros. Patti Fernández Mayer de Puerto Isabel, la bisnieta The Valley Catholic y fotos de cortesía ARRIBA. La Iglesia de San José, construida en 1899 en el Rancho Toluca, cerca del puente internacional de Progreso, Tx., fue eregida en agradecimiento por el descubrimiento de agua potable en los terrenos del lugar. En la imagen se muestra el interior de la iglesia la cual actualmente permanece cerrada. DERECHA. Patti Fernández Mayer, Michael Fernández y Birdie Fernández Welker, descendientes de Don Florencio Saenz, han ayudado mantener la Iglesia San José a través de los años. de Saenz, dijo que está orgullosa del legado familiar. Ella y su hermana Birdie Fernández Welker de McAllen compartieron historias sobre los bautizos familiares, bodas y funerales mientras explorábamos los terrenos de la iglesia. Sus padres fueron enterrados a lado de la iglesia. Los descendientes de Saenz han mantenido la iglesia a través de los años. Los esfuerzos de restauración en el 2007 prepararon la iglesia para la boda de la hija de Welkers. En el 2004 celebraron el bautismo de la nieta de Mayer. Hasta hace unos meses, los visitantes podían hacer arreglos para ir a la iglesia. Desafortunadamente, el día que yo visité, las puertas y ventanas permanecían tapadas. Mayers dijo que la familia no tuvo más opción que cerrar la iglesia después de que unos vándalos causaron aproximadamente $30,000 en daños el 11 de septiembre del 2012, el día de su cumpleaños. Los vándalos rompieron todos los cristales de las ventanas y las persianas. Mayers dijo, “Ha sido un gran reto mantenerse al día con las reparaciones, y ahora con el vandalismo, no sé cuándo la vamos a poder arreglar.” Su primo Michael Fernández de Weslaco, creció a lado de la capilla. “Fue devastador,“ dijo, “ver toda la destrucción.” Además de los daños, los vándalos se robaron una estatua del Sagrado Corazón. Cada una de las estatuas habían sido restauradas en el 2007. Mayers dijo que la familia está cuidando la mayoría de las estatuas, incluyendo la estatua de nuestra Señora de los Dolores, la cual fue donada por su abuela Manuela Fernández en 1945, después de que cinco de sus hijos regresaron a salvo de la Segunda Guerra Mundial. Viendo más allá de las puertas tapadas y las ventanas, la iglesia da testimonio de la devoción de los primeros colonos, y de los miembros de la familia que continúan promoviendo la fe. Los ladrillos hechos y templados en la propiedad se mantienen firmes. “ Ha sido un gran reto mantenerse al día con las reparaciones, y ahora con el vandalismo, no sé cuándo la vamos a poder arreglar.” Patti Fernández Mayer Mayers dijo que sus ancestros tuvieron mucho cuidado en el detalle, y hoy en día los descendientes leen la historia en las celebraciones familiares. Construida a base de un diseño del Padre Peter Keralum, el padre Oblato de María Inmaculada quien también diseñó la Catedral, la iglesia fue dedicada al Padre L. Maurel, un Oblato de María Inmaculada, el 30 de julio de 1899. Los Padres Oblatos, conocidos como “La Caballería de Cristo” por viajar a caballo por el rio para dar Misa y ofrecer los sacramentos, dieron servicios en la pequeña iglesia. Aunque la Iglesia San José puede ser pequeña, con capacidad para 80 personas, muchas cualidades la separan de otras iglesias. De acuerdo con la historia familiar, los techos abovedados “fueron hechos originalmente del lienzo de los barcos que llegaron en Puerto Isabel.” Además, la campana forrada de plata, que cuelga en el campanario fue comprada por Saenz en Paris en la Exposición Mundial. Las características, sin embargo, no se coparan con la historia contenida en la iglesia gótico construida para dar gracias por el agua encontrada en 1899. Ernesto M. Fernández, quien murió en 1993, dio parte de la historia en “La historia nunca dicha,” que compartió con su familia. De acuerdo con Fernández, durante la guerra de los Cristeros, 16 hermanas de Matamoros, México fueron realojadas temporalmente en el Rancho Toluca en donde se mantuvieron por 18 meses. Durante ese tiempo en el Valle, las hermanas cuidaron de la iglesia y pusieron rosas frescas en el altar. Hoy, el altar se encuentra tras puertas cerradas. Mientras los miembros familiares continúan cuidando la iglesia y el pequeño cementerio en el terreno, Mayers dijo que ella y su familia están aceptando sugerencias para preservar la histórica iglesia. El Padre Greg Labus, pastor de la iglesia San José en Edinburg, celebró una de las últimas Misas en la capilla hace dos años. Él dijo que es importante mantener capillas como la Iglesia San José. “Necesitamos mantener estos lugares. Tenemos que apreciar nuestra historia y la fundación que dio a donde nos encontramos ahora,” él dijo. Él dijo que la capilla tuvo el importante propósito de reunir a las familias rancheras y proveer un lugar en donde los padres pudieran dar los sacramentos en tierra desierta. “Recuerden que no había nada en este lugar hace cien años.” NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL 12 The Valley Catholic - Enero 2013 »La Alegría de Vivir ¡Necesitamos reformas, no migajas! L os Estados Unidos deben de tomar la decisión de pasar la reforma comprensiva de inmigración, reconociendo lo que muchos estudios han demostrado: los inmigrantes tienen un efecto positivo en la economía nacional, ya sean inmigrantes legales o indocumentados, pues todos pagan impuestos, desde el impuesto por ventas hasta los impuestos de sus propiedades. Recientemente el Banco de la Reserva de Dallas y el Instituto George W. Bush presentaron una conferencia titulada “Inmigración y el 4% de crecimiento de la economía estadounidense” refiriéndose a la contribución que la comunidad inmigrante hizo a la economía en el pasado año. El Instituto Bush concluye en sus estudios que los inmigrantes no solo suplen la necesidad de mano de obra en ciertos sectores de la economía, sino que los inmigrantes tienden a desarrollar sus propios negocios desde la primera generación en este país, que la necesidad de trabajar los hace desarrollar sus ideas y ponerlas en práctica, y esto se demuestra al revisar los archivos de patentes, donde la proporción de nuevas patentes registradas por profesionales extranjeros es mucho mayor a la que registran los americanos, sobre todo en áreas de ingeniería y tecnología. Ya el alcalde de la ciudad de Msgr. Juan Nicolau Párroco, Iglesia de Nuestra Señora del Perpetuo Socorro en McAllen Nueva York, Michael Bloomberg ha declarado que el deportar a los inmigrantes que no han cometido un crimen es un suicido nacional durante tiempos de una economía frágil. La cámara nacional de comercio tiene un reporte de los mitos y hechos acerca de la inmigración que aborda las creencias erróneas que usualmente siguen quienes se oponen a una reforma migratoria y expone los hechos acerca de las aportaciones de los inmigrantes. En el reporte se incluye lo siguiente: deja claro que los inmigrantes no reemplazan a los trabajadores americanos, sino que complementan la fuerza laboral de quienes son nacidos aquí. Además recalca que el trabajo y las contribuciones de los inmigrantes serán necesarios cuando se retiren los 33.4 millones de “baby boomers” en el año 2016, sobre todo si consideramos el descenso de nacimientos en los estados unidos. El seguro social cuenta con un fondo de contribuciones no reclamadas que asciende a 500 billones de dólares, en parte gracias a los inmigrantes que han pagado sus impuestos estatales y federales pero que no hacen reclamos. Los inmigrantes no hacen que se rebajen los sueldos de los trabajadores americanos, al contrario hay estudios que demuestran un incremento en los sueldos por año de los trabajadores americanos. Otro hecho importante que reporta es que el promedio de encarcelamiento por crímenes es menor en la comunidad de inmigrantes que en la de nacidos aquí. Los Estados Unidos necesitan pasar una reforma comprensiva de inmigración que reconozca la realidad y que tenga como prioridad el defender la unidad familiar, que facilite la integración de los inmigrantes en la comunidad, que brinde una oportunidad de regularización para quienes trabajan sin papeles. Pidamos a Dios por que en esta nueva sesión del congreso se considere seriamente una Reforma de Inmigración comprensiva, que tome en cuenta los valores que los inmigrantes traen a la sociedad y la economía de los Estados Unidos y no se ofrezcan migajas a quienes tienen hambre de crecer y vitalizar el desarrollo del país que han escogido para vivir. — Mons. Juan Nicolau, Ph.D. STL Párroco de la iglesia de Nuestra Señora del Perpetuo Socorro. Es psicoterapeuta familiar y consejero profesional. »Vida Familiar El papel de los abuelos ¡Jesús tenia una abuela! Santa Ana, la madre de María, nació en Belén y estuvo casada con Joachim de Nazaret en Galilea. Después de veinte años de matrimonio, un ángel se le apareció a Joachim para asegurarle que él y Ana iban a tener una hija que llamarían María y consagrarían a Dios. El 2 de febrero estaremos celebrando la Fiesta de la Presentación, la cual según el evangelio de Lucas 2:22-24, Asimismo, cuando llegó el día en que, de acuerdo a la Ley de Moisés, debían cumplir el rito de la purificación de la madre, llevaron al niño a Jerusalén. Allí lo consagraron al Señor, tal como está escrito en la Ley: Todo varón primogénito será consagrado al Señor. Me puedo imaginar que los abuelos de Jesús, Joachim y Ana estaban presentes en el templo con Jesús, María y José ¡regocijándose en este momento especial! Es extraordinario recordar que los abuelos tienen un papel muy importante a lo largo de nuestras vidas. En estos tiempos, este papel puede ser de abuelo, de abuelo adoptivo o abuelo que cría a su nieto. Una de las alegrías es la oportunidad que tienen los padres y los abuelos para cuidar y enseñar en conjunto. Las enseñanzas de los abuelos han sido las más reverenciadas desde tiempos inmemorables. En esta época, es más importante que nunca que los abuelos disfruten de esa relación única y desarrollen ese papel de guía y enseñanza porque en realidad se necesitan muchas personas para criar un niño. Lydia Pesina Directora, Oficina de Vida Familiar Aún no soy abuela, pero espero y rezo para que cuando lo sea, siga los pasos que mis abuelos caminaron conmigo. Mi amor por la lectura y la escritura viene de mi abuelo Dionicio Reyna, quien era autodidacta pero amaba leer y compartir lo que leía sobre la bomba atómica o lo que estaba pasando en el mundo, mientras nos sentábamos en las bancas hechas a mano bajo el árbol de mora. Él nos enseño valores culturales y religiosos a través de las historias, leyendas y dichos. De él adquirí mi devoción al rosario, el cual rezaba a diario. Recientemente tuve el privilegio de leer algunos de sus diarios ¡y ahora se de donde obtuve el gusto por los diarios! De mi abuela, Clara Sepúlveda Reyna, aprendí a amar cocinar, cocer y cantar himnos Marianos. Ellos nos enseñaron respeto, modales y a siempre saludar a los ancianos. El programa educacional de padres “Un niño mejor” describe tres tipos de abuelos: (1) El historiador familiar/Antepasado viviente comparte las historias del pasado (Tengo dos grabaciones de entrevistas con mi abuela y es una alegría el escuchar su » Please see Abuelos p.14 El aborto, gran problema en el Valle del Río Grande Procesión Pro-vida programada para el 19 de enero The Valley Catholic Mientras servía en Eagle Pass, Texas, el Padre James Erving participó en una marcha pro-vida que caminó en el centro de la ciudad en la calle principal. La procesión detuvo el tráfico, acaparando la atención de los que pasaban. El Padre Erving después supo que una mujer que vio la procesión planeaba tener un aborto esa semana. La marcha inspiró a la mujer a escoger la vida de su bebe. “Nunca puedes saber qué clase de frutos dan los testimonios que ofrecemos,” dijo el Padre Erving, quien sirve como director del Apostolado Respeto a la Vida de la Diócesis de Brownsville y pastor de la Iglesia Nuestra Señora del Refugio en Roma. El Apostolado Respeto a la Vida está organizando una marcha en McAllen el sábado 19 de enero. El Obispo Daniel E. Flores va a guiar la procesión que empezará con una oración de apertura en la capilla San José Obrero, continuando hacia el centro donde pasaran por la clínica local de abortos y terminará en la capilla Sagrado Corazón con oraciones de clausura. The Valley Catholic En esta imágen de archivo, sosteniendo pósters relacionados a Jesucristo y recién nacidos, un grupo de manifestantes apoya la marcha pro-vida afuera en Mcallen. Enero 22, 2013 marca el 40ª aniversario del dictamen de la Corte Suprema Roe vs. Wade, que legalizó el aborto y los pro-vida en la nación están aprovechando la ocasión con eventos de oración y acción. “La Iglesia continua dando testimonio a los valores culturales de la vida,” dijo el Padre Erving, un padre de los Misionarios Oblatos de María Inmaculada. “El gobierno puede pasar la ley que quieran pero las enseñanzas de la Iglesia se mantienen fieles.” En años pasados, el Apostolado Respeto a la Vida tuvo procesiones en la Basílica de Nuestra Señora de San Juan del Valle Capilla Nacional, en o alrededor del aniversario de Roe vs. Wade, pero este año, los organizadores optaron por llevar su mensaje provida a las calles. El área del centro de McAllen atrae a cientos de compradores todos los días, especialmente en sábado. “Estamos tomando este lugar porque queremos más testigos públicos,” dijo el Padre Erving. “Muchas personas nos van a ver marchando por las calles.” Catherine Hake, directora del Centro de Embarazos en McAllen, dijo que el aborto en el Valle del Río Grande “es un problema mucho mayor de lo que tendemos a admitir.” Se hacen más de 2, 700 abortos cada año en el Valle, de acuerdo con las estadísticas del departamento del Estado de Texas para los Servicios de Salud. Además de dar asistencia gratis y práctica así como pruebas de embarazo, ultrasonidos y artículos de bebé para mujeres en embarazos críticos, el Centro de Embarazos de McAllen ofrece un ministerio de consejería afuera de la clínica de abortos en McAllen. Hake dijo que la clínica de abortos recibe un flujo continuo de visitantes. “Estamos afuera de la banqueta, todos los días vemos a bastantes mujeres entrando y saliendo,” dijo Hake. Muchas de las mujeres tratan de ignorar a los consejeros en las banquetas; otras son receptivas a sus mensaje y al final escogen la vida de sus bebes. A través de los esfuerzos del Centro de Embarazo de McAllen, cientos de bebés han sido salvados. Phyllis Young tuvo un aborto a la edad de 18, tres meses después del dictamen de Roe vs. Wade. Fue una experiencia “horrenda” que le cambió la vida por completo. Ella espera que a otras mujeres se les evite el dolor y la angustia que ella sintió después de abortar. Young es la líder del Rachel’s Vineyard en el Valle del Río Grande. Rachel’s Vineyard es un retiro Católico de sanación para aquellas mujeres que han participado o han tenido un aborto. El retiro ocurre dos veces por año. “Realmente no me di cuenta en aquel entonces de cuanto me afectaba hasta que tuve mi sanación, entonces me di cuenta de cuanto había impactado mi vida,” dijo Young. “No puedes quitarle la vida a tu propio hijo y no ser afectada en una infinidad de formas.” Young dijo que mujeres –y hombres- afectados por el aborto a menudo se involucran en comportamientos destructivos incluyendo el uso de drogas y alcohol, promiscuidad, desordenes alimentación y relaciones abusivas. Muchos incluso tratan de suicidarse y apartan a Dios de sus vidas por la culpabilidad que sienten. También hay efectos menos obvios del aborto, señaló Young, algunos que vivió de primera mano. “Tuve tanto miedo de perder otro hijo, que cuando tuve hijos, fui obsesivamente maternal con ellos, fuera de lo que es normal,” dijo. “He visto todas estas repercusiones post-aborto y otras. Las personas no se dan cuenta que el aborto te afecta en muchos niveles. En realidad deja su marca.” Enero 2013 - The Valley Catholic Las familias fuertes propician una sociedad saludable, dice vocero del Vaticano Por CINDY WOODEN Catholic News Service CIUDAD DEL VATICANO — Al promover y defender a la familia tradicional como un bien para la sociedad y el mundo, la Iglesia Católica la considera como “la primera barricada” en contra de “la dictadura del individualismo”, dijo el presidente del Consejo Pontificio para la Familia. El arzobispo Vincenzo Paglia, presidente del consejo, dijo: “en una civilización individualista cada persona se antepone a todos los demás. La familia es la primera barricada en contra de esa postura porque representa el primer ‘nosotros’”. Las enseñanzas católicas sobre el matrimonio y la vida de familia se fundamentan en la interpretación bíblica de toda la creación y en el lugar que los seres humanos ocupan en ella, dijo en una entrevista del 21 de diciembre con Catholic News Service. “Cuando en el libro del Génesis se dice: ‘No es bueno que el hombre esté solo’, no es una afirmación superficial o simplemente cultural. Es la afirmación de la verdadera esencia de la persona humana y la necesidad de tener una familia que está escrita en el corazón de cada persona”, dijo. La verdad de tal afirmación estriba en el hecho de que cada persona de todas las culturas, dijo, “tiene temor de estar sola”. Las enseñanzas religiosas de la iglesia con respecto al matrimonio como sacramento (celebrado) entre un hombre y una mujer, comprometidos mutuamente de por vida y dispuestos a procrear hijos coincide con la verdad que nos enseña la misma naturaleza, dijo el arzobispo. La Iglesia Católica, dijo, siente la obligación de promover a la familia tradicional y defenderla de los intentos que algunas personas hacen de “minarla; a veces, incluso, utilizando, metafóricamente, un martillo hidráulico, debido tanto a su significado religioso como a su importancia para los individuos y la sociedad. En cada cultura, dijo el arzobispo Paglia, la familia es el primer lugar y el más importante para la educación de buenos ciudadanos pues es el lugar en donde la gente aprende “a vivir colectivamente, a brindarse cuidado mutuo, a amarse, a generar y reproducir vida, a crear relaciones entre los que son diferentes, a perdonar a los semejantes, a ayudar a otros y a soñar acerca del futuro”. “Desafortunadamente, hoy en día, esto se ha ido suprimiendo”, dijo. Una aplastante mayoría de jóvenes todavía sueñan con tener respectivamente esposo o esposa y vivir enamorados por siempre, “pero dentro de la cultura moderna se les dice que no hay tal”. Cuando alguien le pre- gunta que si no es posible que dos hombres o dos mujeres se amen, que quieran ser fieles mutuamente de por vida y formar una familia juntos o juntas, dijo el arzobispo: “la familia es una cosa; otra clase de relaciones es cosa aparte”. En la definición de “familia” se debe de incluir la posibilidad de genera hijos juntos y edificar una pequeña comunidad unida tanto por el amor como por lazos de sangre, dijo. “No niego que pueda haber afecto” entre personas del mismo sexo, dijo el arzobispo Paglia, “como tampoco niego que pueda haber afecto entre padre e hija; pero ciertamente rechazo la idea de que un padre se case con su hija”. Cuando se le pone la etiqueta de “amor” a los sentimientos de atracción y afecto por otra persona y después se les confunde o se les equipara con “el amor conyugal” que existe entre un hombre casado y su respectiva esposa, dijo, se coloca demasiado énfasis en los sentimientos de cada individuo por separado, en lugar de poner el énfasis en el compromiso de la verdadera pareja y su proyecto de vida. “En la cultura de hoy día se enfatiza en forma exagerada el valor del individuo en sí mismo (egoístamente); y eso se usa como la vara de medir todo, con el riesgo de querer colocarse uno mismo incluso en el lugar de Dios”, dijo. NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL 13 Día de la Paz Catholic News Service Peregrinos se dan el saludo de la paz durante la ceremonia de clausura del encuentro mundial del Día de la Juventud en el aeródromo Cuatro Vientos en Madrid, España en agosto 2011. Los hacedores de paz aman, defienden y promueven la vida, dice el papa Benedicto XVI Por CINDY WOODEN Catholic News Service CIUDAD DEL VATICANO — Los verdaderos hacedores de paz defienden la vida humana en cada etapa de su existencia y promueven el bien común por medio de su política de acción aplicada a la economía y a sus propios actos, dijo el papa Benedicto XVI. En su mensaje anual en celebración del Día de la Paz, para el 1o de enero, el papa Benedicto dijo que los ataques contra la vida humana y contra los derechos humanos debilitan los esfuerzos para lograr la paz en el mundo, comprendiendo desde un aborto a una eutanasia que limitan la libertad religiosa, y desde un fanatismo religioso hasta “un capitalismo financiero” que rebase las normas. El mensaje del papa fue dado a conocer el 14 de diciembre en una rueda de prensa dada en el Vaticano, dirigida por el cardenal Peter Turkson, presidente del Consejo Pontificio de Justicia y de Paz. Y al tiempo que el papa reiteraba las enseñanzas católicas acerca de la santidad de cada vida humana y acerca de los riesgos de una economía de libre mercado que rebase las normas, el papa Benedicto explicó en su mensaje que esas enseñanzas son lógicas, fundamentadas en principios naturales necesarios para una vida que se distinga por su dignidad y coexistencia pacífica. De hecho, dijo, quizá algunas personas no se den cuenta de que promueven “una paz falsa” cuando exigen adopciones legislativas de “valores falsos o libertades falsas” empleando “el ingenioso uso de expresiones ambiguas dirigidas a la promoción de supuestos derechos de aborto y eutanasia”. Los verdaderos hace- dores de paz, dijo el papa, “son aquellas personas que aman, defienden y promueven la vida humana en su dimensión total”. “Cualquier persona que ame la paz no puede tolerar ningún ataque ni acción criminal en contra de la vida”, dijo. El papa Benedicto también dijo que los hacedores de paz necesitan poner atención en forma distinta en la importancia de la familia tradicional que transmite los valores que promueven la paz y resuelven los problemas y tensiones que debilitan la paz. “El tema de la familia es un material social indispensable para lograr una cultura de paz”, dijo. El cardenal Turkson, al presentar el mensaje, dijo que el papa Benedicto había sido muy concreto al ayudar a que las personas entiendan lo que se necesita para promover una paz verdadera. “El papa quiere que la atención se dirija hacia los problemas más urgentes, como una perspectiva correcta del matrimonio, el derecho a la objeción de conciencia, la libertad religiosa como ‘una libertad para’ (contribuír a la sociedad), la cuestión de trabajo y desempleo, la crisis de alimentos, la crisis financiera y el papel de la familia en relación a la educación”. Como parte de la alocución del papa Benedicto acerca de la libertad religiosa, insistió en que los gobiernos reconozcan y mantengan “el derecho de invocar los principios de objeción de conciencia ante leyes o medidas del gobierno que ofendan la dignidad humana, como lo hace el aborto y la eutanasia”. “Tristemente”, dijo, “incluso en países que han gozado de larga tradición cristiana, se han dado casos de intolerancia religiosa que se hacen más numerosos, es- Un globo con la imagen de una paloma flotando se aprecia mientras el Papa Benedicto XVI saluda tras haber pronunciado el Angelus desde la ventana de su departamento en la Plaza de San Pedro. pecialmente en relación a la cristiandad y a aquellos que simplemente portan símbolos de su religión respectiva”. Para todas las personas de buena voluntad, dijo el papa, el Año Nuevo les trae esperanza de un mundo mejor y más pacífico. A pesar de esto, dijo, “es alarmante ver focos de tensión y conflicto causados por casos que van en aumento de desigualdad entre ricos y pobres, por la prevalencia de una mente egoísta e individualista, que también se manifiesta en un capitalismo financiero que rebasa las normas”. El papa Benedicto dijo que los verdaderos hacedores de paz deben de trabajar para que desaparezca la noción popular que va en aumento de que “se debe de buscar el crecimiento económico aún en detrimento de las responsabilidades sociales del estado”. El derecho a tener un trabajo seguro “es uno de los derechos sociales que se encuentra bajo serias amenazas”, dijo. Con énfasis en la promoción de mercados libres, el derecho y la necesidad de tener trabajo con frecuencia se trata simplemente como una variable de mercado. 14 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - January 2013 Abuelos, continuación de pág. 12 voz y escuchar sus historias años después de su partida); (2) El educador, mentor y modelo a seguir son los educadores que dan estimulo y apoyo, especialmente en tiempos críticos; y luchan por encontrar el balance entre el estímulo y el control; (3) El compañero de juegos y héroe pasa tiempo con los nietos leyendo libros, llevándolos al parque o de día de campo. Al mismo tiempo tratan de tener el oído atento y estar disponibles consistentemente sin importar las diversas situaciones que los padres puedan experimentar por la muerte, lo económico o problemas con los padrastros. Procession, continued from pg. 1 Supreme Court ruling that legalized abortion and pro-lifers across the nation are observing the occasion with events of prayer and action. “The Church continues to witness to the values of the culture of life,” said Father Erving, a priest of the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate. “The government can pass whatever laws they want but the Church’s teachings remain the same.” In past years, the Respect Life Apostolate held a procession at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle-National Shrine on or around the Roe v. Wade anniversary, but this year, organizers opted to take Los nietos traen alegría, amor, risas, energía, optimismo, actividad, juventud y propósito a la vida de los abuelos, como también nuevas oportunidades de aprender y crecer. Al mismo tiempo, los abuelos proveen de madures, conocimiento, estabilidad y amor incondicional. Tal vez uno de los papeles en la “descripción de trabajo” de los abuelos es cerrar la brecha al vivir para Guiar, Afirmar y Rezar con y por ellos. Confío y le rezo al Señor para que le de a todos los abuelos la sabiduría y la gracia para aceptar su papel de enseñanza y guía, y que los nietos de todas las edades busquen el Espíritu Santo al aceptarlos mientras todos nos aventuramos en este camino de plenitud y santidad. their pro-life message to the streets. The downtown McAllen area attracts thousands of shoppers every day, especially on Saturdays. “We’re changing the venue because we are desiring a more public witness,” Father Erving said. “A lot of people will see us walking through the streets.” Catherine Hake, director of the McAllen Pregnancy Center, said abortion in the Rio Grande Valley “is so much more of a pervasive problem than we tend to talk about.” More than 2,700 abortions are performed in the Valley each year, according to statistics from the Texas Department of State Health Services. In addition to providing free, practical assistance such as Celebrating history Cathedral to close for repairs The Valley Catholic BROWNSVILLE — The Immaculate Conception Cathedral in Brownsville will be closed from Jan. 9 to June 30 for repairs, according to Oblate Father Michael Amesse, rector of the cathedral. Masses will be held in the gymnasium across the street. The cathedral, which is the see of the Diocese of Brownsville, was built in 1859 by the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate. The Gothic Revival style cathedral is listed in the National Register of Historic Places and bears a Texas Historical Marker. Courtesy Bishop Daniel E. Flores and Father Juan Pablo Davalos celebrated an outdoor Mass and led a procession at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Santa Rosa on Dec. 8, 2012. The parish hosted a three-day celebration to mark the 75th Anniversary of the church’s start as a mission. It was later established as a parish in 1967. pregnancy tests, sonograms and baby items for women in crisis pregnancy, the McAllen Pregnancy Center operates a sidewalk counseling ministry outside the abortion clinic in McAllen. Hake said the abortion clinic receives a steady stream of visitors. “We’re out on the sidewalk every day and we see quite a few women going in and out,” Hake said. Many of the women the sidewalk counselors serve try to ignore them; others are receptive to their message and ultimately choose life for their babies. Through the efforts of the McAllen Pregnancy Center, hundreds of babies have been saved. Phyllis Young had an abortion at the age of 18, three months after the Roe v. Wade ruling. It was a “horrific” experience that changed her life completely. She hopes that other women will be spared the pain and grief that she felt after her abortion. Young is the site leader for Rachel’s Vineyard in the Rio Grande Valley. Rachel’s Vineyard is a Catholic healing retreat for those who have participated in or had an abortion. The retreats are held twice a year. “I really didn’t realize at the time how much it affected me until after I received my healing then I realized just how much it had impacted my life,” Young said. “You can’t take your own child’s life and it not affect you in a multitude of ways.” Young said that women – and men – affected by abortion often engage in self-destructive behaviors, including drug and alcohol use, promiscuity, eating disorders and abusive relationships. Many also attempt or commit suicide and push God out of their lives because of the guilt they feel. There are also less obvious effects of abortion, Young pointed out, some of which she experienced firsthand. “I had such a fear of losing another child, that when I did have children, I was obsessively ‘overmothering’ them outside of what was normal,” she said. “I have seen all of these post abortion stresses and more. People don’t realize that abortion affects you in so many ways. 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Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. changed race relations in America forever. This provides a glance at his tireless efforts to end racial injustice through the Civil Rights movement. Tattoos, continued from pg. 4 fact, adequately covered. Placing tattoos in unusual positions on the body may tempt us to dress immodestly so as to assure that the tattoo is visible and exposed for general viewing, in the same way that elective breast augmentation may tempt some women to lower their necklines. Tattoos, chosen as a permanent change to one’s own body, may also suggest issues with psychological self-acceptance. One young woman wanting to get a tattoo expressed her desire to look “edgier,” after concluding that she was just too “squeaky-clean” looking. The simple beauty of the human body constitutes a real good and that basic goodness ought to be reasonably safeguarded. Permanent, radical changes to the human body can indeed signal an unwillingness to accept its fundamental goodness, and in certain cases of very radical tattooing and body piercing, one can even discern a subtle form of self-rejection and self-mutilation. There is a spiritual dimension involved as well. Russell Grigaitis, who now regrets getting several tattoos in his 20’s, argues in a National Catholic Register interview, “God created the body. A tattoo is like putting graffiti on a work of art.” He compares it with trying to improve a painting by Michelan- Length:224 pages, paperback Author: Julie Dortch Cragon Publication: Our Sunday Visitor (2012) The facts:This animated time-travel adventure features an all-star cast and is a delight for kids and adults alike. When Matt, a black teenager, has to go on a class field trip to the museum of Martin Luther King Jr., he thinks that he’d rather play baseball. But the trip turns into an exciting adventure when he and his best friend, Randy, who’s white, are sent back in time to meet Dr. King. to read a little bit of Scripture every day plus an inspiring reflection. This is a great resource for daily prayer. gelo. Some argue that there can be good spiritual reasons for getting tattoos. For example, people have gotten Crosses or an image of Jesus tattooed as a sign of permanent commitment to Christ, or a ring or a spouse’s name tattooed as a sign of their marital commitment. Yet isn’t a personal commitment to Christ or to one’s spouse more effectively manifested through the realities of inner virtue and a life of outward generosity than by a tattoo? It’s unsurprising that many who got tattoos in their younger days have grown to regret it later. Pop musician Robbie Williams remarked: “I wish it was like an Etch-a-Sketch where I can wipe them all out: it would be nice to have a pure, clean body again.” The American Academy of Dermatology reported in 2007 that “tattoo regret” is now quite common in the United States. Tattoo removal is a costly and difficult procedure, and can leave translucent areas on the skin that never go away. The most effective remedy, of course, is to not seek tattoos in the first place. — Rev. Tadeusz Pacholczyk, Ph.D. earned his doctorate in neuroscience from Yale and did post-doctoral work at Harvard. He is a priest of the diocese of Fall River, MA, and serves as the Director of Education at The National Catholic Bioethics Center in Philadelphia. Bishops’ Retreat January 19 5 p.m. Columbian Squire State Convention January 31 6 p.m. Fr. 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Peña’s January 7-11 January »From the Bookshelf »Worth Watching SAT Mission Seguin 1st: Vocations to the Consecrated Life (active and contemplative) and for the Sisters and Brothers in our diocese and the success of their mission 2nd: Vocations to the Permanent Diaconate the deacons (permanent and transitional) of the diocese and their families 3rd : Vocation to Married Life: for the welfare and sanctification of all the families in the diocese and for building up the Kingdom in our domestic churches 4th: Vocations to the priesthood and the priests of the diocese for the success of their ministry 5th: Vocations to the Pro-Life Intentions The facts: A fulfilling, yet simple way Peace, continued from pg. 1 Terris emphasized our duty to help build a world that services human dignity and is directed toward the common good, justice and peace. The Holy Father said that while the world has changed significantly in the past 50 years, “Pope John’s encyclical was and is a powerful summons to engage in that creative dialogue between the Light, continued from pg. 1 life meaningful. “The stars guided them, the light guided them. So began the concept that the truth is Jesus, the light is Jesus.” Father Daniels noted that the feast of the Epiphany, which dates back to the second century, is actu- Blessing, continued from pg. 3 differently. Each one has a distinct mission, spirituality and charism. The religious priests, brothers and sisters in our diocese serve in a variety of ministries, in schools, churches, hospitals, jails, the colonias and more. Sister Leticia Benavides of the Missionaries of Jesus, who serves as a counselor at Catholic Chari- Grandmother, continued from pg. 4 and listen to her stories years after her passing); (2) The Nurturer, Mentor, and Role Model serve as nurturers who provide encouragement and support, especially in times of crisis; and strive to find a balance between encouragement and control; (3) The Playmate and Hero spend time with grandchildren reading books, taking to the park, or having picnics. At the same time they strive to be a listening ear and be consistently available regardless of the diverse situations their parents may be experiencing due to health, finances or stepfamily situations. Miraculous Medal The Story of Our Lady’s Appearances to Catherine Labouré Length: 107 pages, paperback Author: Mary Fabyan Windeatt Illustrator: Gedge Harmon Windeatt Publication:TAN Books and Publishers (1994) The facts: Many are familiar with the Marian apparitions in Mexico, Fatima and Lourdes, but many do not know the story of St. Catherine Labouré, the Daughter of Charity to whom Mary appeared, requesting that the Miraculous Medal be stamped so that all who wear it would receive great graces. church and the world, between believers and nonbelievers, which the Second Vatican Council set out to promote.” The late pope’s plea for peace, for respect for human dignity and freedom and, more basically, for respect for what is right and good, holds out “a message of hope to a world that is hungry for it, a message that can resonate with people of all beliefs and none, because its truth is accessible to all,” Pope Benedict said. ally older than the feast of Christmas. “We didn’t celebrate Christmas in the early Church,” he said. “After four centuries, at a time when Jesus’ identity was under attack, the Church decided to establish a day celebrating God becoming man. And so, they established the feast of Christmas. Really, the culmination of it is, the highest point, is the Epiphany.” ties of the Rio Grande Valley, said that she also enjoys, “catching up,” with the other religious in the diocese at this annual event. “It’s a good time to get together and meet with the other sisters and brothers and priests,” she said. “It’s not just about celebrating consecrated life but also about celebrating each other.” Religious needing more information about the Mass and private dinner may call (956) 702-4088 or email [email protected]. Grandchildren bring joy, love, laughter, energy, optimism, activity, youthfulness, and purpose to the lives of grandparents as well as new opportunities for learning and new growth. At the same time, grandparents provide maturity, knowledge, stability, and unconditional love. Perhaps one of the roles in the “job description” of grandparent is to close the GAP by living the G.A.P. (Guiding, Affirming, and Praying with and for them). My hope and prayer is that the Lord will grant all grandparents the wisdom and grace to embrace their teaching and guiding role and that grandchildren of all ages seek the Holy Spirit in accepting them as we all journey in this path to wholeness and holiness. 1 Mary, Mother of God (DiocesanOffices Closed) 1 New Year’s Day 4-6 Catholic Engaged Encounter (Family Life Office) 6 Epiphany 8 Professional Day (Office of Catechesis) 12 Sponsor Couple Training - I English (FLO) 12-19 National Vocations Awareness Week 19 Convalidation Conference (Family Life Office) 19 March for Life (Respect Life Apostolate) 25 Spirit Awards Banquet 27 Mother Daughter Program (Family Life Office) 28 Brownsville Deanery Listening Session at Immaculate Conception Cathedral, Brownsville 27- Feb 2 Catholic Schools Week (CSO) Febuary 2 Sponsor Couple Training II – English (Family Life) 2 Knights of Columbus Youth Conference: Enduring Faith 3 Sponsor Couple Training II – Spanish (Family Life) 5 Professional Day (Office of Catechesis) 9 World Marriage Day (Family Life Office) 9 Teen Sexuality and Relationship Retreat (St Paul, Mission) 13 Ash Wednesday 14 Valentine’s Day 14 Advisory Team (Office of Catechesis) 16-17 Remarriage Retreat (Family Life Office) 16 Vital 3.0 18 President’s Day 19 Rite of Election (Office of Catechesis) 21 Rite of Election (Office of Catechesis) 22 Principals Retreat (Catholic Schools Office) 22-23 CRS Food Fast Weekend 23-24 Retiro Pre-Matrimonal (Family Life) Please submit your schedule to be published in The Valley Catholic by the first Friday of each month by email at [email protected] or fax: (956) 784-5082. 16 DIOCESE Our Catholic Family The Valley Catholic - January 2013 Sharing memories, stories The Valley Catholic StoryCorps, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to recording, preserving, and sharing the stories of people from all backgrounds and beliefs, recorded interviews in McAllen and San Juan from Nov. 28 to Dec. 20 as part of its cross-country MobileBooth tour. StoryCorps’ MobileBooth—an Airstream trailer outfitted with a recording studio—was parked at Diocese of Brownsville Pastoral Center in San Juan near the Basilica of Our Lady San Juan del Valle from Dec.12 to Dec. 20. Stories will be archived at the American Folklife Center at the Library of Congress for future generations to hear. KMBH-88FM, the Valley’s NPR station, will air a selection of the local interviews recorded in the StoryCorps MobileBooth and create special programs around the project. Segments of select interviews may also air nationally on NPR’s Morning Edition. The Valley Catholic ABOVE: Bishop Daniel E. Flores shared his vocation story and stories about his grandmother and his family in Zapata, Texas during a StoryCorps interview in December. RIGHT: Deacon Francisco Flores, left, a deacon at St. Paul Catholic Church in La Puerta, and his son, Father Alex Flores, a priest at St. Joseph the Worker in San Carlos, took some time to sit together for a StoryCorps recording. 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