Resource Catalog - National Funeral Directors Association
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Resource Catalog - National Funeral Directors Association
www.nfda.org/resourcestore 2015 Resource Catalog Resources to help you achieve more in your business, community and life. C A R by Continental Computers, Inc SMART DIRECTOR THE Where the rubber meets the road is the most important point for something, the moment of truth. An athlete can train all day, but the race is where the rubber meets the road and they'll know how good they really are. N O TINENT S L C P UTE M O For over 100 years we’ve been on a mission. A mission to serve you with the best products and service you can find. That simple mission includes a simple guarantee; if you are not satisfied, we are not satisfied and we’ll do everything we can to make it right. Promise. Experience the Messenger difference today! 800-827-5151 www.messengerstationery.com The Sea of Tranquility © 1998 Thomas Kinkade Promo Code: 8553 Introducing New Items for 2015....................................................................................................................... 4-6 Resources for Families Adults Helping Children and Teens ..................................................................................................8 Bilingual Resources/Recursos Bilingue ..................................................................................... 10-12 Consumer Brochures ..................................................................................................................... 13 Dying, Grief and Bereavement ................................................................................................. 14-15 For Children and Teens............................................................................................................. 15-17 History of Funeral Service............................................................................................................... 17 Holidays and Special Events.......................................................................................................17-18 Loss in the Immediate Family.......................................................................................................... 18 Table of Contents Table of Contents Multicultural/Diversity................................................................................................................. 18-19 Noted Author Series ....................................................................................................................... 19 Pet Services................................................................................................................................... 20 Planning a Funeral, Ceremony or Memorial............................................................................... 20-21 Product Sets.................................................................................................................................. 21 Suicide, Sudden and Tragic Death ................................................................................................ 22 Value of the Funeral ....................................................................................................................... 22 NFDA Merchandise .......................................................................................................................................... 23 NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities Live, Online and Home Study Courses..................................................................................... 24-28 Resources for Funeral Service Professionals Career Development...................................................................................................................... 30 Customer Service ......................................................................................................................... 30 Human Resources.................................................................................................................... 30-31 Marketing ....................................................................................................................................... 31 Professional ............................................................................................................................. 31-32 Surveys and Reports..................................................................................................................... 34 Technical Skills................................................................................................................................35 Ordering and Shipping Information............................................................................................................ 36-37 Clearance Items ............................................................................................................................................... 38 Index by Title................................................................................................................................................ 39-40 Products and prices are subject to change. Audio CD Book DVD DVD Continuing Education DVD PowerPoint 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 3. I Introducing New Items for 2015 New Items for 2015 American Afterlife: Encounters in the Customs of Mourning By Kate Sweeney A collective portrait of Americans past and present: a klatch of obit writers in the desert, a funeral voyage on the Atlantic, a fourth-generation funeral director and a Midwestern museum that takes us back in time to meet our death-obsessed Victorian progenitors. 216 pages. Product Code: BK518 Price: $24.95 “Views of funerals are changing. This book offers many ‘untraditional’ avenues to assist a family in honoring their loved one.” Bryson Price, Lewisburg, Kentucky Angel Birthdays: A Day to Remember. A New Way to Heal. A Celebration of Life. By Erin Garay Encourages children and adults alike to incorporate activities that help begin the healing process. 32 pages. Product Code: BK522 Price: $16.95 Children Teaching Children About Grief A Professor Child Production Children share their stories of losing a loved one. Helpful for a child looking for a way to relate to a peer and work through grief. 40 minutes; workbook included. Product Code: D336 Price: $34.99 DVD “Very child-centered – a unique approach.” Edith Churchman, Newark, New Jersey The Customer Rules: The 39 Essential Rules for Delivering Sensational Service By Lee Cockerell Essential rules for serving customers with efficiency and excellence – because success in any business depends on winning and keeping customers. 208 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 25.) Product Code: BK526 Price: $21.99 4. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Death and the Civil War By PBS Explores an essential but largely overlooked aspect of the most pivotal event In American history that contended with death on an unprecedented scale. 120 minutes. Product Code: D335 Price: $24.99 DVD For Better or Worse: A Handbook for Couples Whose Child Has Died By Maribeth Wilder Doerr Help for couples who often have very different paths in the grief process. 22 pages. Product Code: BK525 Price: $4 Healing a Grandparent’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Your Grandchild Dies By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. A simple, easy-to-use format to help grandparents heal. 109 pages. Product Code: BK506 Price: $11.95 Healing a Parent’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Your Child Dies By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. A simple, easy-to-use format to help grieving parents. 109 pages. Product Code: BK507 Price: $11.95 How People With Autism Grieve and How to Help: An Insider Handbook By Deborah Lipsky Explores how people with autism feel and express the loss of a loved one and how they process and come to terms with their feelings of grief. 128 pages. Product Code: BK516 Price: $18.95 Endorsed Member Benefit A Perfect Fit Relationships take work. 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Product Code: BK517 Price: $3.25 The Lost Parent Club By Lora Ann Young Facing the first year of loss while learning to walk alongside your surviving parent. 196 pages. Product Code: BK527 Price: $14.99 Ride to the Stars: A Story for Children About Life, Loss and Love By Suzanne Gene Courtney The loss of a loved one is tragic, but with hope, healing and love comes an understanding of how a life is truly infinite as well. 32 pages. Product Code: BK519 Price: $16.50 Second Firsts: Live, Laugh and Love Again By Christina Rasmussen A guidebook for navigating devastating loss, discovering the gifts of grief and re-entry into a passionate, vibrant, thriving life. 188 pages. Product Code: BK521 Price: $15.95 “It’s good for anyone dealing with any type of loss.” Sheri Stahl, Hilton Head Island, South Carolina 6. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Silent Grief: Living In the Wake of Suicide By Christopher Lukas and Henry M. Seiden For survivors; provides insights, strategies and support for those affected by a suicide. 220 pages. Product Code: BK524 Price: $12.25 The Speed of Trust: The One Thing That Changes Everything By Stephen M.R. Covey A practical look at how trust functions in every transaction and relationship and how to build credibility and trust immediately. 322 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 28.) Product Code: BK528 Price: $15.95 What Clients Love: A Field Guide to Growing Your Business By Harry Beckwith Filled with insightful tales of success and failure, this guide will help improve your marketing strategies, client relationships and bottom line. 208 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 28.) Product Code: BK529 Price: $14.99 Recommended by John McQueen, Saint Petersburg, Florida When You Don’t Know What to Say By Harold Ivan Smith Tools needed to be an effective grief companion – a person who shows up, shares a long grieving process and welcomes the interruption in order to assist a person dealing with loss. Product Code: BK508 Price: $17.99 When Your People Are Grieving By Harold Ivan Smith Help for pastors to assist grievers during trying times. Product Code: BK509 Price: $9.99 I Resources for Families Adults Helping Children and Teens Adults Helping Children and Teens A Child’s View of Grief: A Guide for Parents, Teachers and Counselors By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. A concise, informative guide that explains how children grieve and is a must-read for adults who want to help young people cope with grief. 54 pages. Product Code: BK432 Price: $6.95 The Class in Room 44: When a Classmate Dies By Lynn Bennett-Blackburn Provides examples of children’s feelings and memories when a classmate dies. Valuable for teachers. 23 pages. By David J. Schonfeld and Marcia Quackenbush A practical guidebook for teachers to provide sensitive support to students of all ages. 184 pages. Product Code: BK501 Price: $29.95 “The sections on funerals and memorials are refreshingly positive.” Jacquelyn Taylor, Newton Centre, Massachusetts Healing a Child’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Child-friendly ideas to help children mourn. 107 pages. Product Code: BK254 Price: $11.95 Product Code: BK207 Price: $6.95 Healing a Teen’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas for Families, Friends and Caregivers Great Answers to Difficult Questions About Death: What Children Need to Know By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Offers ideas to help teens heal in a simple, easy-to-use format. 109 pages. By Linda Goldman Explores children’s thoughts and feelings about death and provides guidance on how to respond to their questions with sensitive, honest, age-appropriate answers. 110 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 26.) Product Code: BK422 Price: $15.95 “A good reference during viewings, when children have questions.” Jeff Hoelzel, Northampton, Pennsylvania Grief Comes to Class: An Educator’s Guide By Majel Glido-Braden Assists school personnel with how to be caregivers for bereaved students. 48 pages. Product Code: BK490 Price: $5.50 “Shows a good way to begin talking about death when young children have so many questions.” Charles S. Childs Jr., Chicago, Illinois 8. The Grieving Student: A Teacher’s Guide 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Product Code: BK255 Price: $11.95 Helping Children Grieve By Paraclete Press A profound resource to guide adults in understanding and helping children of all ages grieve with hope and heart. 55 minutes. Product Code: V328D Price: $59.99 DVD How Do We Tell the Children? A Step-by-Step Guide for Helping Children and Teens Cope When Someone Dies (4th Edition) By Daniel Schaefer, Ph.D., and Christine Lyons Step-by-step guide for helping children cope with grief and trauma – from serious family illness to school violence or the death of a parent. 202 pages. Product Code: BK433 Price: $16.95 Cerca de me mi corazon: un cuaderno para niños después de la muerte de un ser querido By Hospice of Lancaster County A useful pamphlet for teachers or anyone working with schools. Includes common reactions to grief, types of loss and guidelines and suggestions of books and articles about grief for children and adults. 33 pages. Por Dra. Susan Foley y Regen Foley Ayuda a los niños a atravesar el proceso del duelo con ejercicios simples que les ayudan a expresar sus sentimientos. 30 páginas. Código de producto: BK458 Precio: $11.95 Product Code: BK460 Price: $5 Embalming: History, Theory and Practice (5th Edition) Teen Grief: A Guide for Adults By Robert G. Mayer Practical reference for student, novice or experienced embalmers that addresses embalming techniques and treatments based on condition of the body, not cause of death. Helps embalmers design the best method of body preservation for every situation. 731 pages. By Film Ideas Inc. Helps adults offer effective support to grieving teens. Marcia LattanziLicht, a well-known speaker on grief-related topics, provides specific suggestions for dealing with teen grief issues. 23 minutes. Product Code: V321D Price: $55 DVD Product Code: BK463 Price: $124.95 Bilingual Resources Recursos Bilingue Embalsamamiento: historia, teoría y práctica (5a. edición) Por Robert G. Mayer Referencia práctica para estudiantes de embalsamamiento, embalsamadores nuevos o experimentados, que aborda el tema de las técnicas y los tratamientos de embalsamamiento según el estado del cuerpo y no en la causa de la muerte. Ayuda a los embalsamadores a diseñar el mejor método de preservación del cuerpo para cada situación. 731 páginas. Afterwords… Helping You Heal By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Available in Spanish only. Offers compassionate and empowering messages about grief and healing to the newly bereaved. 7 pages. Product Code: BK470 Price: $2 Código de producto: BK476 Precio: $124.95 Palabras de consuelo y ayuda: después de la muerte de un ser querido The Art of Facial Reconstruction El By Gary Sokoll Provides detailed, step-bystep directions showing how to reconstruct the nose, mouth, chin, eyes and ears. Book: 100 pages; DVD: 39 minutes. Arte de la Reconstrucción Facial Por Gary Sokoll Código de producto: BK470 Precio: $2 The Art of Facial Reconstruction_2nd Ed_Spanish_Cover.indd 1 Close to My Heart: A Guided Workbook for Children After a Loved One Dies By Susan Foley, M.D., and Regen Foley Guides children through the grief process with simple exercises to help them express their feelings. 30 pages. Product Code: BK457 Price: $11.95 El Arte de la Reconstrucción Facial Por Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Solo disponible en español. Ofrece a las personas que perdieron recientemente a un ser querido, mensajes compasivos y fortalecedores sobre el duelo y la sanación. 7 páginas. Por Gary Sokoll Book Only: BK284 Price: $60 7/9/14 10:02 AM DVD Only: V303D Price: $60 El arte de la reconstrucción facial Por Gary Sokoll Brinda instrucciones detalladas, paso a paso, que muestran cómo reconstruir la nariz, la boca, el mentón, los ojos y las orejas. 100 páginas. Resources for Families I Adults Helping Children and Teens I Bilingual Resources/Recursos Bilingue A Teacher’s Guide to the Grieving Student Solo el libro: BK514 Precio para miembros: $75 Precio para no miembros: $105 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 9. I Resources for Families Bilingual Resources/Recursos Bilingue Bilingual Resources Recursos Bilingue Grief: What It Is and What You Can Do By Joy Johnson and Dr. Marvin Johnson Available in Spanish only. Covers feelings, issues, other people, rituals and caring for yourself. 24 pages. Product Code: BK403 Price: $3.50 Afliccion: Que es y que puedes hacer Por Joy Johnson y el Dr. Marvin Johnson Solo disponible en español Cubre los sentimientos, los problemas, otras personas, los rituales y cuidarse. 24 páginas. Código de producto: BK403 Precio: $3.50 Kids Learn About Death and Celebrating Life By Billie Staton Humphrey A bilingual (English/Spanish) simple story though which children learn about death, grief, cremation and the funeral service as a celebration of life. 18 pages. Product Code: BK468 Price: $12.95 Los niños aprenden acerca de la muerte y la celebración de la vida Por Alesia K. Alexander Un libro bilingüe (inglés/español) sobre una abuela, Mamita, que muere de cáncer. Su nieta incentiva a la familia a crear un mural especial para mantener su memoria viva. 40 páginas. Código de producto: BK352 Precio: $8.95 Since My Brother Died By Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne A bilingual (English/Spanish) children’s story that helps parents, grandparents, teachers and counselors help a child whose sibling has died. 16 pages. Product Code: BK405 Price: $6.95 Desde que murió mi hermano Por Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne Un cuento bilingüe (inglés/español) para niños que ayuda a padres, abuelos, maestros y consejeros a ayudar a un niño cuyo hermano haya fallecido. 16 páginas. Código de producto: BK405 Precio: $6.95 We Will No Longer Have a New Baby: For Children Whose Sibling Dies Before Birth Por Billie Staton Humphrey Un cuento simple bilingüe (inglés/español) con el que los niños aprenden sobre la muerte, el duelo, la cremación y el servicio funerario como una celebración de la vida. 18 páginas. By Marilyn Gryte Available in Spanish only. A storybook explanation for children about the sadness and loss of miscarriage. Assures children they are not to blame and that it is okay to ask questions and have mixed feelings. 12 pages. Código de producto: BK468 Precio: $12.95 Product Code: BK404 Price: $3.95 A Mural for Mamita By Alesia K. Alexander A bilingual (English/Spanish) book about a grandmother, “Mamita,” who dies of cancer. Her granddaughter inspires the family to create a special mural to keep her memory alive. 40 pages. Product Code: BK352 Price: $8.95 10. Un mural para Mamita 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore No tendremos un bebé: para niños cuyo hermano fallece antes de nacer Por Marilyn Gryte Solo disponible en español. Una explicación en forma de cuento para niños, de la tristeza y la pérdida causadas por el aborto espontáneo. Tranquiliza a los niños con respecto a que no tienen la culpa y que está bien hacer preguntas y tener sentimientos encontrados. 12 páginas. Código de producto: BK404 Precio: $3.95 Having the Talk of a Lifetime By FAMIC A guide to help you have meaningful conversations with your loved ones about life and the things that matter most. Spanish and Bilingual Grief Product sets are designed to help build your business library and bolster community awareness. 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I Resources for Families Bilingual Resources/Recursos Bilingue Folletos para consumidores NFDA tiene los siguientes folletos para ayudar educar el público sobre los servicios funeral. Tiene excelente información que servir como recursos para los clientes, y incluye respuestas a preguntas comunes. La sanación después de la pérdida de un ser querido Una ref la lexión n de rensió de Comp vida dig na de cel una cremación ebrars e La planifi funeral cación de un significat ivo Organice de planif sus pensamientos icació sobre estos n anotando y dirija sus esfue algunos rzos aspectos de la vida pensamientos Si desea Sus logro de su ser más inform s más impo querido. funerario rtantes significativo ación sobre cómo __________ ¿Qué sirve de ayuda para el proceso incluyen... 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Book: BK328 Price: $8.99 DVD: V312D DVD Price: $14.95 By Mark Scrivan A gentle, thorough book for teens that looks at ways of facing grief, how grief affects us and what we can do. Speaks to teens in a language they will understand. 23 pages. Product Code: BK279 Price: $3.99 When Leaves Die By Lisa Galjanic A gentle story for children to understand death and grief. 26 pages. Product Code: BK486 Price: $9.95 Zayde Comes to Live By Sheri Sinykin Story of a young girl and her dying grandfather that sensitively explores death from a Jewish perspective. 29 pages. Product Code: BK494 Price: $16.95 Horse-Drawn Funeral Vehicles: 19th Century Funerals Carriage Museum of America A compilation of materials found in many libraries and private collections. 414 pages. 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Wolfelt, Ph.D. Ideas to help the bereaved mourn, celebrate and heal as they keep treasured holiday traditions and create meaningful new ones. 110 pages. Product Code: BK364 Price: $11.95 Holiday Blues: A Self-help Manual on Grief Through the Holidays By Dr. Clarence Tucker Easy-to-read booklet to help grievers manage their grief during the holidays and on other special days. 31 pages. Product Code: BK426 Price: $4 “It helps funeral directors better understand what families are going through on a daily basis.” Craig Olson, West Fargo, North Dakota 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Resources for Families I For Children and Teens I History of Funeral Service I Holidays and Special Events When Death Walks In 17. I Resources for Families Multicultural / Diversity I Loss in Immediate Family I Holidays and Special Events 18. Holidays and Special Events A Ray of Hope: Facing the Holidays Following a Loss By Film Ideas Inc. Paul Alexander, psychotherapist and bereavement specialist, addresses the anxiety and stress holidays can bring. Presents helpful advice and wisdom from bereaved individuals. 30 minutes. Product Code: V318D Price: $55 DVD Thoughts for the Holidays: Finding Permission to Grieve By Doug Manning Shares special ways to cope, to remember and to survive the hurdles that the holiday season can present. 22 pages. Product Code: BK429 Price: $3.25 Loss in Immediate Family Finding Your Way After Your Parent Dies: Hope for Grieving Adults By Rev. Richard Gilbert Offers practical, compassionate suggestions for those struggling with the loss of a parent and for those providing support to someone grieving the loss of a parent. 124 pages. Product Code: BK421 Price: $12.95 “Will add to a director’s awareness of what families could be feeling during a funeral or aftercare.” Robert Moore, Wayne, New Jersey Healing the Adult Child’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Creative ideas to help adults begin the healing process. 105 pages. Product Code: BK306 Price: $11.95 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Helping Parents Grieve: Finding New Life After the Death of a Child By Paraclete Press For any parent who has experienced the death of a child and anyone who helps someone who is grieving. 60 minutes. Product Code: V330D Price: $59.99 DVD Memories Too Few: A Letter to Parents About Pregnancy Loss By Kathy Manning Burns Presents a personal message to parents who have experienced the death of a child during pregnancy. Few people understand the true depths of grief following miscarriage, stillbirth or newborn death. 31 pages. Product Code: BK430 Price: $3 Multicultural / Diversity Cremation or Burial? A Jewish View By Doron Kornbluth Analyzes the reasons people choose cremation, pointing out myths and misconceptions and explaining why Judaism and Jews have insisted on burial. 179 pages. 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Product Code: BK408 Price: $14.95 Pet Parents: A Journey Through Unconditional Love and Grief By Coleen Ellis Helps pet parents, veterinarians, deathcare professionals and others celebrate the special bonds shared with our animal companions. 133 pages. Product Code: BK453 Price: $12.95 We Will Miss You: Support for Grieving the Death of a Pet Paraclete Video Provides support for those grieving the loss of a beloved animal companion. 31 minutes. Product Code: V331D Price: $39.99 DVD When a Pet Dies By Fred Rogers Provides help for parents who don’t know what to say or do when a beloved family pet dies. 23 pages. Product Code: BK260 Price: $12.95 When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering and Healing By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Provides practical suggestions for funeral directors to help guide pet owners through grief following the death of a beloved pet, including tips on remembering and memorialization. 79 pages. Product Code: BK372 Price: $9.95 20. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Planning a Funeral, Ceremony or Memorial At Death’s Door: Facing the Terminal Illness of a Loved One Paraclete Video Helps family members acknowledge emotions about a loved one’s terminal illness. Offers guidance to help them live fully with their loved one through the last months, weeks or days of their time together. 35 minutes. Product Code: V324D Price: $34.95 DVD Building Memories: Planning a Meaningful Funeral By Doug Manning Answers consumer questions about funerals – from “Why have a funeral?” to “What choices do we need to make?” 47 pages. Product Code: BK462 Price: $5 Creating Meaningful Funeral Experiences: A Guide for Caregivers By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Insights and information about planning meaningful funeral ceremonies. Explores reasons why consumer attitudes toward funerals have changed. 80 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 25.) Product Code: BK288 Price: $12.95 Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies: A Guide for Families By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. An inspiring guide that helps families make decisions about the funeral they want and work with the funeral director to plan it. 80 pages. Product Code: BK209 Price: $12.95 By Frances S. Ponick Provides simple steps to help eulogists gather information, organize ideas and deliver a meaningful eulogy even in difficult circumstances. 99 pages. Product Code: BK467 Price: $10.95 “Numerous tips for preparing and organizing a eulogy.” Jon Deitloff, Dayton, Ohio Sacred Moments: A Minister Speaks About Funerals By Doug Manning Shares some of the profound lessons Manning has learned while walking with people on their grief journeys. 31 pages. Product Code: BK431 Price: $3 Product Sets Product sets are designed to help build your business library. Having the Talk of a Lifetime Set of 25 brochures By FAMIC A guide to help you have meaningful conversations with your loved ones about life and the things that matter most. Product Code: BR1201 Member Price: $12.50 Having the Talk of a Lifetime Set of 25 workbooks By FAMIC A guide to help you have meaningful conversations with your loved ones about life and the things that matter most. Product Code: BR1200 Member Price: $25 Helping Children Understand Death 5 books and 2 DVDs/$10 savings Product Code: CHILDLIB Member Price: $115 Nonmember Price: $125 Helping Teens Understand Death 4 books and 1 DVD/$10 savings Product Code: TEENPACK Member Price: $93 Nonmember Price: $103 Business Management and Operations 5 books/$20 savings Product Code: BUSOPSPKG Member Price: $58 Nonmember Price: $78 Purchase and donate product sets to schools, retirement communities and libraries to help your community members understand death and grief. Adults Helping Children and Teens Understand Death 5 books and 2 DVDs/$30 savings Product Code: ADULT1 Member Price: $135 Nonmember Price: $165 Grief and Bereavement for Adults 7 books and 2 DVDs/$30 savings Product Code: ADULT2 Member Price: $143 Nonmember Price: $173 NFDA Music & Webcasting Licenses Provide Peace of Mind Resources for Families I Planning a Funeral, Ceremony or Memorial I Product Sets Only Angels Can Wing It: How to Write a Eulogy Quickly and Present It Compassionately Music License The lowest-priced music license available anywhere! This license covers all three licensing organizations – BMI, SESAC and ASCAP. Music Webcasting License Protect yourself further! If you broadcast memorial services with music over the Internet, you need this license to comply with copyright laws. For more information, contact us today at 800.228.6332. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 21. I Resources for Families Value of the Funeral I Suicide, Sudden and Tragic Death Suicide, Sudden and Tragic Death Empty Arms: Coping With Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death Accompany Them With Singing: The Christian Funeral By Sherokee Ilse A compassionate guide for those who have been touched by infant death or miscarriage, with practical suggestions from time of loss through the months and years that follow. 98 pages. By Thomas G. Long Theological and cultural critiques of today’s Christian funeral. Contrasts funerals of the past, which focused on the deceased, with today’s funerals, which focus on the mourners. 224 pages. Product Code: BK434 Price: $12.95 Product Code: BK391 Price: $25 Footprints on Our Hearts: Walking Through Grief After a Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Newborn Death Paraclete Video Compassionately covers the grieving process after the death of a baby, including tips for those who want to help. 55 minutes. Product Code: D332 Price: $49.99 DVD The Art of Helping Others: Being Around, Being There, Being Wise By Heather Smith and Mark K. Smith Provides guidance in developing the capacity and the process for helping others; especially for those committed to youth work, community education, ministry and counseling. 173 pages. Product Code: BK473 Price: $29.95 FRONTLINE: The Undertaking Grieving the Sudden Death of a Loved One Paraclete Video Presents a full hour of support, wisdom and counsel from grief experts who explore how to slowly move toward acceptance when the unthinkable happens. 60 minutes. Product Code: D333 Price: $59.95 DVD Journey Through the Shadows: Hope for Healing After Someone You Love Has Committed Suicide Paraclete Video Offers help for those coping with the suicide of a loved one – from sudden initial impact through “why?” questioning, feelings of guilt, support and survival. 50 minutes. Product Code: V329D Price: $59.99 DVD “Good resource for a funeral home library.” Tammy L. Breitfeller, Allentown, Pennsylvania 22. Value of the Funeral 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore This PBS FRONTLINE documentary presents an intimate, deeply moving view of funeral service and the work of the funeral director. 60 minutes. Product Code: V326D DVD Member Price: $24.99 The Undertaking: Life Studies From the Dismal Trade By Thomas Lynch A chronicle of small-town life and death told through the eyes of a funeral director. Achieves an extraordinary range of tones united by the author’s good humor. A personal look at life as a funeral director and an homage to all who have lost a loved one. 224 pages. Product Code: BK273 Price: $14.95 Walking Papers By Thomas Lynch Praised for its elegiac elements and striking public poems. “Powerful medicine, tonics for the long haul and homegoing.” 88 pages. Product Code: BK417 Price: $24.95 Men’s Polo Shirt Color: Gray with dark gray NFDA logo Cotton/Polyester (85%/15%) NFDA Merchandise NFDA Logo Items Size: M – 3XL Price: $30 Women’s Polo Shirt Color: Pink, with light-pink NFDA logo Cotton (100%) Size: S – 3XL Price: $45 Stainless Tumbler Product Code: L502 Price: $7 Membership Plaque (Members only) This specially crafted recognition plaque identifies you as a member of NFDA. Three lines of personalization are available and can include your name, firm and/or city and state. Product Code: MB2106 Member Price: $70 Martini glass Color: Clear with blue NFDA logo Price: $12 Coffee Mug (12 oz.) Color: White with NFDA logo Price: $12 Membership Pin (Members only) NFDA logo in white on blue background with silver trim Product Code: L105 (tie tack back) Price: $8.95 Product Code: L106 (magnet back) Price: $8.95 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 23. I NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities Live, Online and Home Study Courses 2015 Home Study Courses NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities Advanced Cremation Arranging By William McQueen Provides insights to help understand cremation, promote the value of ceremony to cremation families and customize the cremation arrangement process. Earn CE anytime, anywhere – no travel required! Convenient access to comprehensive and practical business resources from the largest network of funeral service experts in the world. More than 80 distance learning CE options. NFDA helps you achieve more in your business, community and life through professional development and CE opportunities offered every day of the year! Course Package Code: 10NFDA14ABQS Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $124 / The Art of Facial Reconstruction Online Learning Courses Participate on your own schedule, at your own pace while saving time and travel expenses. Online courses offer from 1 to 6 CE hours. Simple online purchase with same-day access includes individual online testing and results. Enroll at www.olc.nfda.org. Watch for new online courses this year! Live Webinars and Teleconferences Interactive distance learning options offer from 1 to 2 CE hours for you and your entire staff, with hottopic online and audio events presented by national experts. For 2015 webinar and teleconference dates, details and to register, go to www.nfda.org/webinars. Home Study Courses Another opportunity to earn CE on your own schedule – right from your home or office. Course packages offer from 2 to 10 CE hours and include one home study test, plus either a book, CD or DVD. Additional licensees can earn CE for the same home study course by purchasing individual tests. Members: $60 per test; nonmembers: $105. Order at www.nfda.org/homestudy. All NFDA courses are CE-approved by the Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice (APFSP) and by most state licensing boards. Courses are approved through December 31 of the year purchased. 1 NFDA CE hour = .1 APFSP hour. For more information, call 800-228-6332 or +1-262-7891880. Because state CE approval varies, it is the individual’s responsibility – before purchasing an NFDA distance learning course – to verify that the course is currently approved for CE in the state(s) in which the individual is licensed. All courses and events subject to change. Audio CD 24. Book DVD DVD 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 4 hours By Gary Sokoll Provides detailed, step-by-step directions showing how to reconstruct the nose, mouth, chin, eyes and ears. 39 minutes. Course Package Code: V303DQS Member Price: $115 Nonmember Price: $160 DVD / 4 hours Breathing Life into Funeral Home Marketing with Facebook, TV … and a Sense of Humor By Brad Speaks Explores creative and unconventional advertising approaches to funeral home marketing that will help you connect with potential client families. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-15QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours Bridging the Gap between the Funeral Home and Hospice Caregiver By Lacy Whittaker, Jacquelyn Griswold, Larry Spiaggi, Susan Perry This panel discussion with hospice and funeral service professionals explores best practices for developing effective funeral home-hospice partnerships. Course Package Code: 14NFDAW03QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours A Cemetery Should Be Forever By John F. Llewellyn Explores the unique challenges of operating cemeteries and provides a comprehensive guide to all aspects of cemetery management. 299 pages. Course Package Code: BK503QS Member Price: $79.95 Nonmember Price: $124.95 Continuing Education DVD PowerPoint / 8 hours By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Insights and information to help you plan meaningful funeral ceremonies. Explores reasons why consumer attitudes toward funerals have changed. 80 pages. Course Package Code: BK288QS Member Price: $72.95 Nonmember Price: $117.95 / Course Package Code: 96NFDADVD101QS Member Price: $109.95 DVD Nonmember Price: $174.95 10 hours / Embalming Risk Management By John McQueen Strategies to help you improve profits by shifting your cremation paradigm from price to value and encouraging more than direct cremation. Course Package Code: 14NFDAW04QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours Cremation Liability Protection for Funeral Homes By Michael Nicodemus and Jack West Critical insights and guidelines to help you manage cremation risk, remedy potentially hazardous situations and prevent costly cremator fires. Course Package Code: 14NFDAW05QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours The Customer Rules: The 39 Essential Rules for Delivering Sensational Service By Lee Cockerell Essential rules for serving customers with efficiency and excellence – because success in any business depends on winning and keeping customers. 208 pages. / 8 hours Educating the Families You Serve About the WHY of the Funeral: A Guide for Funeral Home Staff By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Safeguard the future of funeral service with this practical workbook that will help funeral home staff educate today’s families about the value of funerals. 74 pages. Course Package Code: BK488QS Member Price: $89.95 Nonmember Price: $134.95 By Jack Adams, David Brown, David Green, Joe Main, Ed Robb, Mark Sommerville, Jonathan Stuchell and David Tackett Techniques for embalming and restoration of a long bone donor, as well as inner ear retrieval and restoration. Emphasizes importance of cooperation with tissue banks. (Study guide.) 180 minutes. 6 hours Cremation: It’s Not About Price Course Package Code: BK526QS Member Price: $81.99 Nonmember Price: $126.99 NEW Embalming Difficult Cases: Donor Cases / 6 hours By Jzyk Ennis and T. Scott Gilligan Explores the risks embalmers may face due to costly malpractice suits from consumers unsatisfied with embalming results and identifies common-sense steps and documents to reduce liability. 60 minutes. Course Package Code: 12DVDNFDA39QS Member Price: $75 DVD Nonmember Price: $124 2 hours / Estate Taxes, Probate and Other Challenges for Family-owned Businesses. Here’s the Plan! By Rodney S. Klein An estate planning expert provides tips and solutions for succession and business transition planning for the small family business. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-38QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2.5 hours Ethics in Funeral Service By Ralph L. Klicker, Ph.D. Explores ethical decision making for funeral service professionals with regard to the ethical treatment of the deceased and ethical business operations and practices. 75 pages. Course Package Code: BK436QS Member Price: $81.95 Nonmember Price: $126.95 / NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities I Live, Online and Home Study Courses Creating Meaningful Funeral Experiences: A Guide for Caregivers 6 hours Evaluating Third-party Cremation Providers to Protect Your Firm and Cremation Families By Michael Nicodemus Provides the due diligence guidelines you need to limit potential liability issues by evaluating every third-party crematory with which you work. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-36QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 25. I NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities Live, Online and Home Study Courses 2015 Home Study Courses FTC Compliance: Handling the General Price List NFDA Provides the information necessary to ensure that your funeral home and staff are in compliance with the FTC Funeral Rule. (Study guide.) 30 minutes. Course Package Code: CS200QS Member Price: $94.95 Nonmember Price: $164.95 DVD / 4 hours Focus on Preneed: Spend-Downs, Contracts and Consumer Protection By T. Scott Gilligan Ensure that every preplanner at your firm understands funeral options available for Medicaid applicants looking to spend down cash and insurance. Includes the information every preneed contract must have to protect consumers – and your firm. Course Package Code: 14NFDAW07QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours Funeral Service Psychology and Counseling By Ralph L. Klicker, Ph.D. Presents counseling techniques, communication skills and practical suggestions to improve communication with grieving individuals from first call through post-funeral meetings. 128 pages. Course Package Code: BK437QS Member Price: $89 Nonmember Price: $134 / 6 hours By Thomas G. Long and Thomas Lynch Two of the most authoritative voices in the funeral industry, a preacher and a funeral director, discuss the current state of the funeral and the challenges facing “the good funeral,” including exclusion of the body and the growth of cremation. 237 pages. Course Package Code: BK487QS Member Price: $85 Nonmember Price: $130 / 8 hours Great Answers to Difficult Questions About Death: What Children Need to Know By Linda Goldman Explores children’s thoughts and feelings about death and provides guidance on how to respond to their questions with sensitive, honest, age-appropriate answers. 110 pages. Course Package Code: BK422QS Member Price: $75.95 Nonmember Price: $120.95 / 6 hours Helping Families See the True Value of Funeral Service By William McReavy Provides ideas to help you educate the public about what you do as a funeral director and the value and benefits of the funeral. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-39QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours Getting Things Done By David Allen Helps busy people accomplish more with less effort and regain control of their lives with a practical work/life management system for stress-free productivity. 259 pages. Course Package Code: BK480QS Member Price: $76 Nonmember Price: $121 Audio CD 26. The Good Funeral: Death, Grief and the Community of Care Book / 8 hours DVD DVD 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Hospice and Funeral Service: From One Set of Caring Arms Into Another By Douglas Wagemann Examines the role of hospice and provides tips to help funeral directors create relationships with hospice that will better serve families. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-26AQS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / Continuing Education DVD PowerPoint 2 hours By Carol Green and Robert Prout Learn how to integrate green practices into your funeral home, profitably market them to your community and implement cost-saving green work practices. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-17QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 4 hours Insights and Tactics to Increase Your Market Share By Lynn Elliott Previews upcoming trends for Internet marketing and provides low-cost solutions for mobile marketing and website changes to help a firm capture greater market share. Course Package Code: 13NFDA-22QS Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $124 / 2 hours It’s Only a Matter of Time: Are You Ready for Natural Burials and Green Funerals? By James Olson Be prepared to make your firm a “green funeral home” and make natural burial and green funeral options available to the increasing number of families that seek them. Course Package Code: 13NFDA-16QS Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $124 / 2 hours Keep an Open Mind on the Greening of Funerals and Your Firm By Robert J. Prout Learn how to provide “greener” funeral options to the increasing number of interested families and enjoy the cost savings and health benefits of green work practices. Course Package Code: 14NFDAW06QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours 9 Powerful Practices of Really Great Bosses By Stephen E. Kohn and Vincent D. O’Connell Motivate staff to outperform the competition with easily implemented strategies for people management. 222 pages. Course Package Code: BK493QS Member Price: $74.99 Nonmember Price: $119.99 / 9 Powerful Practices of Really Great Teams By Stephen E. Kohn and Vincent D. O’Connell Create effective, successful work teams with nine practical and proven leadership strategies. 206 pages. Course Package Code: BK492QS Member Price: $74.99 Nonmember Price: $119.99 / 8 hours Online Engagement: Tech Terms and Tools Made Easy By Jaramillo Santiago Learn the technology terms key to funeral service and the tech tools you can use to boost productivity and develop a mobile strategy for your business. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-10QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2.5 hours Opening a Crematory: What You Need to Know to Do It Right By Carol Green and Michael Nicodemus Learn about the factors you must address before building a crematory, including research needed, regulations and zoning, permits, handling community relations and selecting a cremator manufacturer. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-24QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours The Removal: Professional Solutions for Challenging Circumstances By Bernard Delaney Describes a multitude of tested removal remedies guaranteed to make removals easier even in the most unique and challenging situations. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-6QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities I Live, Online and Home Study Courses How Green Practices Benefit Your Business Safeguarding Your Business From Cremation Liability By T. Scott Gilligan and Mike Nicodemus Presents best practices, cremation forms and documentation to limit your firm’s exposure to the threat of cremation liability. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-14QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours 8 hours 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 27. I NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities Live, Online and Home Study Courses The Speed of Trust: The One Thing That Changes Everything Transforming Your Business One Funeral at a Time By Stephen M.R. Covey A practical look at how trust functions in every transaction and relationship – and how to build credibility and trust immediately. 322 pages. Course Package Code: BK528QS Member Price: $75.95 Nonmember Price: $120.55 NEW / 8 hours Strengthening Hospice Relationships for Better Service to Families Course Package Code: 14NFDA-31QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / 2 hours 2014 Annual All-Staff Training With the FTC Funeral Rule Coordinator By T. Scott Gilligan and Craig Tregillus Tips to avoid slip-ups during FTC home sweeps to help ensure that your entire staff remains Funeral Rule compliant. By Patrick Lynch, Jennifer McBride, Wendy Smith Thames, Lacy Whittaker and Bob Biggins Learn from a panel of funeral service experts how to build closer, mutually beneficial relationships with hospice organizations in your community. Course Package Code: 13NFDA-12QS Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $124 / By Michael Schoedinger Presents a new value paradigm that will help your firm provide and profitably market a new level of care and grief support to meet the needs of the families you serve. Course Package Code: 14NFDATC01QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / What Clients Love: A Field Guide to Growing Your Business 2 hours Talkin’ ’Bout My Generation: Four Generations in the Funeral Home 4 hours By Lacy Robinson Provides insights and tips to resolve generational conflicts and build on the strengths of each generation to increase the success of your firm. By Harry Beckwith Filled with insightful tales of success and failure, this guide will help improve your marketing strategies, client relationships and bottom line. 208 pages. Course Package Code: 14NFDA-26QS Member Price: $80 Nonmember Price: $130 NEW / Course Package Code: BK529QS Member Price: $74.99 Nonmember Price: $119.99 NEW 2 hours 30+ Innovative Price List Offerings By T. Scott Gilligan Provides price list examples that will allow you to expand the services and merchandise you offer, make your GPL more consumer friendly, increase revenue and remain in compliance with the Funeral Rule and other laws. Course Package Code: 12NFDATC01QS Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $124 / 2 hours / 8 hours Green Funeral Practices™ Certificate NFDA’s Green Funeral Practices Certificate is the national hallmark of distinction for member firms offering environmentally friendly funeral options to families. Demonstrate your commitment to providing personalized service that is ethical, caring, creative… and green. www.nfda.org/green-funeral-practices-certificate Audio CD 28. Book DVD DVD 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Continuing Education DVD PowerPoint Live CE Distance Learning February 12 Getting to the Heart of Customer Satisfaction Ron Rosenberg February 26 Can Your Funeral Home Pass OSHA Scrutiny this Year? 2015 OSHA Update Edward Ranier March 12 Diversity Awareness: Exploring the Positive Nature of Workplace Diversity SESCO March 26 Effective Community Outreach on a Budget James Olson May 21 Talkin’ ’Bout My Generation: Four Generations in the Funeral Home Lacy Robinson July 9 Communication Skills for Connecting With Cremation Families Mike Nicodemus May 28 New Campaign Tools to Inspire Families to Have the Talk of a Lifetime Jessica Koth August 6 Professional Liability, Employment-related Practices Liability and Co-Insurance Jack West June 4 Buying, Selling or Transferring a Funeral Home Sponsored by Federated Insurance August 20 2014 NFDA Formaldehyde-Free Embalming Products Study: The Results NFDA June 18 NFDA Annual Consumer Survey Results: How to Use the Data to Market Your Firm Erin Whitaker Schedule subject to change. Visit www.nfda.org/education for the most current schedule. Changing consumer attitudes toward funerals starts with you! Get involved today in FAMIC’s Have the Talk of a Lifetime national education campaign. With your help, this campaign will help consumers understand the importance of meaningful memorialization. A variety of free, customizable outreach materials are available online, including: •Brochures •Digital Advertisements •Social Media Tools •Print Advertisements •Video •Public Relations Tools Visit www.nfda.org or www.famic.org/campaign today! Choosing a Career in Mortuary Science and the Funeral Industry By Nancy L. Stair An excellent resource for teens considering a career in funeral service. Provides an overview of the funeral service industry, the role of the funeral director and how to prepare for a career in funeral service. 64 pages. Product Code: BK286 Price: $23.95 Exploring a Career in Funeral Service – Presentation Package By NFDA Inspire others to be a part of this rewarding career while gaining exposure for your firm. Package includes informative eightminute video/DVD, set of 25 brochures, PowerPoint presentation, step-by-step instructions and more. Product Code: CAREER Member Price: $40 Nonmember Price: $80 Funeral Directing and Funeral Service Management By Ralph L. Klicker, Ph.D. Offers effective ways to conduct funerals and manage a funeral home business based on the author’s concept of a funeral service continuum of care. A practical, thoughtful and comprehensive textbook. 296 pages. Product Code: BK213 Price: $57 Customer Service Building Customer Loyalty From the Inside Out By Debra J. Schmidt Packed with practical tips and compelling customer service examples; provides powerful guidelines for creating customer loyalty. 246 pages. Career Development I Customer Service I Human Resources I Resources for Funeral Service Professionals Career Development “I truly enjoyed this book and found so much valuable information in it.” Gary Potts, Highland Park, New Jersey 30. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Product Code: BK386 Price: $19.95 Funeral Home Customer Service A-Z By Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D. Explains the evolution and expectations of today’s “experience economy” customer and offers sound steps to exceed those expectations. A must-read for every funeral director. 240 pages. Product Code: BK200 Price: $24.95 Human Resources SESCO Management Consultants, endorsed by NFDA, provides complete human resources services and develops customized employee handbooks specific to your organization and state. To receive an Employee Handbook Development Checklist to begin the process of customizing your employee manual, contact Bill Ford, SESCO Management Consultants, at 800.764.4127. Human Resources Booklets By SESCO Management Consultants Affordable Care Act Product Code: SR501 Member Price: $45 COBRA Administrative Manual Product Code: SR503 Member Price: $20 Employee Discipline and Discharge Product Code: SR514 Member Price: $35 Fair Credit Reporting Act (FCRA) Product Code: SR512 Member Price: $15 Family Business Succession Planning Product Code: SR505 Member Price: $75 Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) Administrative Manual Product Code: SR506 Member Price: $75 How to Comply With Equal Employment Regulations Product Code: SR513 Member Price: $35 How to Comply With Federal Wage-Hour Regulations Product Code: SR507 Member Price: $75 How to Maintain a Drug-free Workplace Product Code: SR504 Member Price: $20 How to Meet ADAAA Requirements in Your Business Product Code: SR502 Member Price: $45 Product Code: SR508 Member Price: $45 Human Resources Guide Product Code: SR515 Member Price: $145 Immigration Reform and Control Act (IRCA) Product Code: SR509 Member Price: $15 New Hire Reporting Act Product Code: SR511 Member Price: $15 SESCO Screening and Hiring Code Professional A Cemetery Should Be Forever: The Challenge to Managers and Directors By John F. 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Product Code: BK482 Price: $21.99 32. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore By Stephen E. Kohn and Vincent D. O’Connell Motivate staff to outperform the competition with easily implemented people management strategies. 222 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 27.) Product Code: BK493 Price: $14.99 “Good information about communication styles.” Sharon Richardson Stahl, Hilton Head Island, South Carolina 9 Powerful Practices of Really Great Teams By Stephen E. Kohn and Vincent D. O’Connell Create effective, successful work teams with practical and proven leadership strategies. 206 pages. (Also available for CE; see page 27.) Product Code: BK492 Price: $14.99 Trapped in the Family Business By Michael A. Klein, Psy.D. Shares insights on how and why individuals get trapped in their family business and how to develop a plan of action to manage and improve these circumstances. 119 pages. Product Code: BK475 Price: $22 Cremation Services Tools and resources to help you achieve more • New Member Benefits! • 2014 NFDA Cremation and Burial Report • Opening a Crematory: FAQs for Funeral Directors • NFDA Cremation Certification This program, which offers the recognized certification standard for funeral service professionals, covers ethics, crematory operations, safety, liability issues, cremation arranging and much more. The NFDA ™ Certified Crematory Operator Program meets or exceeds the criteria in most states requiring certification at this time and has been approved for CE by the Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice and most state funeral licensing boards. 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By NFDA Compares compensation and bonus information for several different funeral home positions (from owner to apprentice). Results are based on 2012 compensation data; reported at the national level as well as broken out by census district, caseload, size of city and years of experience. Product Code: SR2433 Member Price: $35 Nonmember Price: $70 Product Code: SR114 Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $175 Guide to 2010 NFDA Ventilation Study and Formaldehyde Vapor Reduction in the Funeral Home Preparation Room: Recommendations for Effective Preparation Room Ventilation 2013 General Price List Survey Funeral Home Waste Stream Audit Report By NFDA NFDA report conducted by leading HVAC consultant includes key criteria for removing formaldehyde from embalmer’s breathing zone. Includes the 5-Step Guide for Effective Ventilation and a ventilation assessment form to help funeral homes achieve peak ventilation performance. Product Code: SR2439 Member Price: $0 Nonmember Price: $70 Investigation of the Removal of Formaldehyde and Phenol by Funeral Home Septic Systems By NFDA NFDA report conducted by two leading environmental scientists confirms viability of on-site wastewater system for funeral homes when system is properly designed, installed, operated and maintained. June 2003. Product Code: SR2437 Member Price: $35 Nonmember Price: $70 By NFDA Presents 2012 General Price List cost of an adult casketed funeral and how these costs have changed over time. Detailed costs are also listed for other funeral service products and services, such as cremations, funeral packages, types of caskets and vaults. Results are presented at the national level as well as broken out by census district, caseload and size of city. Product Code: SR113 Member Price: $75 Nonmember Price: $175 Wastewater Facts – Sanitary Sewer Worker Exposure to Bloodborne Pathogens By NFDA NFDA report conducted by leading microbiologist concludes that body fluid wastes discharged by funeral homes into wastewater are not likely to present additional public health risk to sanitation workers or the general public. June 1995. Product Code: SR2434 Member Price: $35 Nonmember Price: $70 Wage and Hour Laws for the Funeral Industry Septic System Treatment of Funeral Home Wastewater By NFDA NFDA report based on comprehensive analysis of embalming wastewater concludes that preservative chemicals found in funeral home discharge are expected to be almost completely destroyed by biodegradation in septic systems. March 1998. Product Code: SR2435 Member Price: $35 Nonmember Price: $70 34. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore By NFDA An overview of the Fair Labor Standards Act (FLSA) for the funeral home owner prepared by T. 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(BK472)...................................................................................................$12.95 To Serve the Living: Funeral Directors and the African-American Way of Death (BK415).................................$19.00 A Visit to the Cemetery (BK275)...................................................................................................................... $4.00 You Don’t Have to Like It, But You Do Have to Live It: Conversations About Loss (BK435).............................$14.00 Young Professional’s Guide to the Working World (BK484).............................................................................$10.99 38. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Accompany Them With Singing: The Christian Funeral................................. 22 Adults Helping Children and Teens Understand Death (Product Set)............ 21 Advanced Cremation Arranging (CE)............................................................. 24 Advanced Funeral Planning........................................................................... 13 Affordable Care Act……………………………………........................................ 30 Afliccion: Que es y que puedes hacer .......................................................... 10 After a Parent’s Suicide: Helping Children Heal ............................................ 14 Afterwords… Helping You Heal....................................................................... 9 American Afterlife: Encounters in the Customs of Mourning........................... 4 Angels Birthdays: A Day to Remember. A New Way to Heal. A Celebration of life..................................................................................... 4 Art of Facial Reconstruction, The (CE)................................................. 9, 24, 35 Art of Helping Others, The: Being Around, Being There, Being Wise............ 22 At Death’s Door: Facing the Terminal Illness of a Loved One........................ 20 Author Series................................................................................................. 19 Ayudando a los ninos a atravesar su duelo................................................... 12 B Barklay and Eve Series.................................................................................. 15 Beyond Death’s Door: Help for the Grieving Process After Someone You Love Has Died........................................................... 14 Breathing Life into Funeral Home Marketing with Facebook, TV and a Sense of Humor (CE)...................................................................... 24 Bridging the Gap between the Funeral Home and Hospice Caregiver (CE)............................................................................. 24 Building Customer Loyalty from the Inside Out............................................. 30 Building Memories: Planning a Meaningful Funeral....................................... 20 Business Management and Operations (Product Set).................................. 21 C Capitalizing on Kindness: Why 21st Century Professionals Need to Be Nice ....................................................................................... 38 Cemeteries.................................................................................................... 17 Cemetery Should Be Forever, A: The Challenge to Managers and Directors (CE)............................................................................... 24, 31 Cerca de me Mi Corazon: Un Cuaderno Para Niños Después de la Muerte de un Ser Querido ................................................................. 9 Child’s View of Grief, A: A Guide for Parents, Teachers and Counselors......... 8 Children Teaching Children about Grief........................................................... 4 Choosing a Career in Mortuary Science and the Funeral Industry ............... 30 Class in Room 44, The: When a Classmate Dies............................................. 8 Clearance Items............................................................................................. 38 Close to My Heart: A Guided Workbook for Children After a Loved One Dies.................................................................................. 9, 16 COBRA Administrative Manual...................................................................... 30 Common Threads of Teenage Grief: A Handbook for Healing...................... 16 Companioning You! A Soulful Guide to Caring for Yourself While You Care for the Dying and the Bereaved....................................... 31 Comprension de la cremacion....................................................................... 12 Consumer Brochures ................................................................................... 13 Creating Meaningful Funeral Ceremonies: A Guide for Families.................... 20 Creating Meaningful Funeral Experiences: A Guide for Caregivers (CE)................................................................................... 20, 25 Cremation or Burial? A Jewish View.............................................................. 18 Cremation: It’s Not about Price (CE).............................................................. 25 Cremation Liability Protection for Funeral Homes (CE).................................. 25 Customer Rules: The 39 Essential Rules for Delivering Sensational Service, ... The (CE)................................................................................................ 4, 25 Customer Service in an Instant: 60 Ways to Win Customers and Keep Them Coming Back......................................................................... 38 D Death and the Civil War................................................................................... 4 Deathcare Marketing: 25 FAQs ..................................................................... 31 Desde Que Murio Mi Hermano...................................................................... 10 Duelo, en español y billingües....................................................................... 11 E Educating the Families Your Serve About the WHY of the Funeral: A Guide for Funeral Home Staff (CE).................................................. 25, 31 El Arte de la Reconstruccion Facial................................................................. 9 Embalming Difficult Cases: Donor Cases (CE).............................................. 25 Embalming: History, Theory and Practice................................................. 9, 35 Embalming Risk Management (CE)............................................................... 25 Embalming Techniques ................................................................................ 35 Empty Arms: Coping With Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death ............... 22 Embalsa mamiento: Historia, Teoria y Practica................................................ 9 Employee Discipline and Discharge.............................................................. 30 Empty Chair, The: Handling Grief on Holidays and Special Occasions......... 17 Estate taxes, Probate and other Challenges for Family-owned Businesses (CE)........................................................................................ 25 Ethics in Funeral Service (CE).................................................................. 25, 31 Exploring a Career in Funeral Service...................................................... 13, 30 Evaluating Third Party Cremation Providers to Protect Your Firm & Cremation Families (CE)............................................................................................. 25 Everything Changes, But Love Endures: Explaining Hospice to Children..... 15 F Fair Credit Reporting Act (FCRA)................................................................... 30 Family Business Succession Planning........................................................... 30 Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) Administrative.................................... 30 Finding Your Way After Your Parent Dies: Hope for Grieving Adults.............. 18 Fire in My Heart, Ice in My Veins.................................................................... 16 Focus on Preneed: Spend Downs, Contracts, Consumer Protection (CE).... 26 Footprints on Our Hearts: Walking Through Grief After a Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Newborn Death............................................... 22 For Bereaved Grandparents.......................................................................... 38 For Better or Worse: A Handbook for Couples Whose Child has Died............ 4 FRONTLINE: The Undertaking...................................................................... 22 FTC Compliance: Handling the General Price List (CE)................................. 26 Funeral Directing and Funeral Service Management..................................... 30 Funeral Home Customer Service A-Z ........................................................... 30 Funeral Home Marketing: Moving the Bottom Line....................................... 31 Funeral Home Waste Stream Audit Report................................................... 34 Funeral Service Psychology and Counseling (CE)................................... 26, 32 Index by Title A G Gentle Willow................................................................................................. 38 Getting Things Down: The Art of Stress-free Productivity (CE)............... 26, 32 Good Funeral, The: Death, Grief and the Community of Care (CE)......... 14, 26 Good Grief..................................................................................................... 14 Good Words: Memorializing Through a Eulogy Goodbye My Child......................................................................................... 38 Graceful Farewell, A: Putting Your Affairs in Order........................................ 38 Grand Messengers: Forgotten Stories of African-American Funeral Rituals.......................................................................................... 18 Great Answers to Difficult Questions About Death: What Children Need to Know (CE)........................................................ 8, 26 Grief: What It Is and What You Can Do.......................................................... 10 Grief Comes to Class: An Educator’s Guide.................................................... 8 Grief and Bereavement for Adults (Product Set)............................................ 21 Grief Recovery Kit, The: A Young Person’s Guide Through the Journey of Grief.................................................................... 16 Grievers Ask: Answers to Questions About Death and Loss......................... 14 Grieving Student: A Teacher’s Guide, The....................................................... 8 Grieving the Death of a Friend....................................................................... 38 Grieving the Death of a Mother...................................................................... 38 Grieving the Loss of a Pet.............................................................................. 13 Grieving the Sudden Death of a Loved One.................................................. 22 Guide to 2010 NFDA Ventilation Study and Formaldehyde Vapor Reduction in the Funeral Home...................................................... 34 H Having the Talk of a Lifetime.....................................................................11, 21 Healing: The Essential Guide to Helping Others Overcome Grief and Loss........................................................................................... 14 Healing a Child’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas ..................................... 8 Healing a Friend’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas ................................. 14 Healing a Grandparent’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas......................... 4 Healing a Parent’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas................................... 4 Healing a Teen’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas...................................... 8 Healing After the Loss of a Loved One.......................................................... 13 Healing Grief.................................................................................................. 14 Healing the Adult Child’s Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas ...................... 18 Healing Your Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas ......................................... 15 Healing Your Holiday Grief: 100 Practical Ideas............................................. 17 Help Them Grow or Watch Them Go: Career Conversations Employees Want....................................................................................... 32 Helping Children Grieve................................................................................... 8 Helping Children Through Their Grief............................................................ 13 Helping Children Understand Death (Product Set) ....................................... 21 Helping Families See the True Value of Funeral Service (CE)......................... 26 Helping Parents Grieve: Finding New Life After the Death of a Child............. 18 Helping People With Developmental Disabilities Mourn: Practical Rituals for Caregivers................................................................. 19 Helping Teens Understand Death (Product Set)............................................ 21 History of American Funeral Directing, The................................................... 17 Holidays and Special Days............................................................................ 38 Holiday Blues: A Self-help Manual on Grief Through the Holidays................ 17 Honoring Our Loved Ones: Going to a Funeral.............................................. 15 Horse-Drawn Vehicles................................................................................... 17 Hospice & Funeral Service: From One Set of Caring Arms into Another (CE).............................................................................................. 26 How Do We Tell the Children? A Step-by-step Guide for Helping Children and Teens Cope When Someone Dies............................ 8 How Green Practices Benefit Your Business (CE)......................................... 27 How People with Autism Grieve and How to Help: An Insider Handbook....... 4 How to Comply With Equal Employment Regulations................................... 30 How to Comply With Federal Wage-Hour Regulations.................................. 30 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore 39. Index by Title How to Maintain a Drug-free Workplace........................................................ 30 How to Meet ADAAA Requirements in Your Business.................................. 30 How to Prevent and Combat Unionization……………………………............... 31 Hug Your Customers: The Proven Way to Personalize Sales and Achieve Astounding Results.............................................................. 32 Human Resources Guide.............................................................................. 31 I I Miss My Pet ................................................................................................ 38 Immigration Reform and Control Act (IRCA).................................................. 31 In My Mother’s Kitchen ................................................................................. 38 Insights and Tactics to Increase Your Market Share (CE).............................. 27 Instant Cashflow............................................................................................ 38 Investigation of the Removal of Formaldehyde and Phenol by Funeral Home Septic Systems................................................. 34 It’s Not Your Fault.......................................................................................... 38 It’s Only a Matter of Time: Are You Ready for Natural Burials and Green Funerals? (CE)......................................................................... 27 J Journey Through the Shadows: Hope for Healing After Someone You Love Has Committed Suicide............................................ 22 K Kate, The Ghost Dog: Coping With the Death of a Pet.................................. 20 Keep an Open Mind on the Greening of Funerals and Your Firm (CE)........... 27 Kirby’s Ocean Friend: A Grief Therapy Tool for Young Children who have Lost a Parent...................................................................................... 6 Kids Learn About Death and Celebrating Life............................................... 10 Kolie and the Funeral .................................................................................... 16 L La planificacion anticipada de su funeral....................................................... 12 La planificacion de un funeral significativo..................................................... 12 La perdida de una mascota........................................................................... 12 La sanacion despues de la perdida de un ser querido.................................. 12 Lean on Me Gently: Helping the Grieving Child............................................... 6 Living When a Loved One Has Died.............................................................. 38 Los ninos aprenden sobre la muerte y la celebracion de la vida................... 10 Lost Parent Club, The...................................................................................... 6 M Memories Too Few: A Letter to Parents About Pregnancy Loss................... 18 Mom Minus Dad: The Essential Resource Guide for Busy Adults With a Newly Widowed Parent.............................................. 38 Mourning & Mitzvah: A Guided Journal for Walking the Mourner’s Path Through Grief to Healing ................................................ 38 Mural for Mamita, A....................................................................................... 10 N New Hire Reporting Act................................................................................. 31 NFDA Distance Learning Opportunities......................................................... 24 NFDA Merchandise.................................................................................. 23, 38 NFDA Membership Pin.................................................................................. 23 NFDA Membership Plaque............................................................................ 23 9 Powerful Practices of Really Great Bosses (CE)....................................27, 32 9 Powerful Practices of Really Great Teams (CE).....................................27, 32 No Tendremos Un Nuevo Bebe: Para niños y niñas cuyo hermanito o hermanita murió antes de nacer........................................... 10 O On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss (CE).............................................. 15 Online Engagement: Tech Technical Terms and Tools Made Easy (CE)........ 27 Only Angels Can Wing it: How to Write a Eulogy Quickly and Present It Compassionately (CE).............................................................. 21 Opening a Crematory: What You Need to Know to Do It Right (CE).............. 27 Order Form.................................................................................................... 37 Our Special Garden: Understanding Cremation………………….................... 15 P Palabras de consuelo y Ayuda: Despues die la muerta de un ser querido............................................................................................. 9 Pamfletos para el Consumidor...................................................................... 12 Partnered Grief.............................................................................................. 19 Pet Parents: A Journey Through Unconditional Love and Grief..................... 20 Planificación anticipada de funeral................................................................ 12 Planning a Meaningful Funeral....................................................................... 13 Planning Your Funeral in Advance................................................................. 13 Precious Gifts: Organ and Tissue Donation................................................... 15 Product Sets.................................................................................................. 21 R Ray of Hope, A: Facing the Holidays Following a Loss.................................. 18 Ready-to-Use Employee Handbook.............................................................. 31 40. 800.228.6332 • www.nfda.org/resourcestore Reflections of a Grieving Spouse................................................................... 38 Removal: Professional Solutions for Challenging Circumstances, The (CE).................................................................................................... 27 Restorative Art and Science.......................................................................... 35 Ride to the Stars: A Story for Children about Life, Loss, and Love.................. 6 S Sacred Moments: A Minister Speaks About Funerals................................... 21 Safeguarding Your Funeral Home from Cremation Liability (CE)................... 27 Samantha Jane’s Missing Smile: A Story About Coping With the Loss of a Parent.......................................................................... 16 Second Firsts: Live, Laugh, and Love Again.................................................... 6 SESCO Screening and Hiring Code.............................................................. 31 Septic System Treatment of Funeral Home Wastewater................................ 34 Shipping Information...................................................................................... 36 Silent Grief: Living in the Wake of Suicide........................................................ 6 Since My Brother Died................................................................................... 10 So Much to Think About When Someone You Care About Has Died........... 16 So You’re Cremated… Now What?............................................................... 38 Spanish and Bilingual Grief (Product Set)...................................................... 11 Speed of Trust: The One Thing that Changes Everything (CE).................. 6, 28 Six Simple Weeks: A Caring Manual for Support Group Leaders................. 15 Strengthening Hospice Relationships for Better Service to Families (CE)..... 28 T Talkin’ ’Bout My Generation: Four Generations in the Funeral Home (CE).... 28 Talking With Young Children About Death: A Message From Fred Rogers..................................................................................... 13 Teacher’s Guide to the Grieving Student, A..................................................... 9 Teen Grief: A Guide for Adults......................................................................... 9 Teen Grief: Climbing Back............................................................................. 16 Tenga la P;atica de Suvida............................................................................. 11 They’re Part of the Family: Talk to Children About Pet Loss.......................... 15 30+ Innovative Price List Offerings (CE)........................................................ 28 Thoughts for the Holidays: Finding Permission to Grieve.............................. 18 Together, We’ll Get Through This................................................................... 15 To Serve the Living: Funeral Directors and the African-American Way of Death................................................................ 38 Transforming Your Business – One Funeral at a Time (CE)............................ 28 Trapped in the Family Business..................................................................... 32 2013 Compensation Survey.......................................................................... 34 2013 General Price List.................................................................................. 34 2014 Annual All-Staff Training with the FTC Funeral Rule Coordinator (CE).. 28 U Un Mural Para Mamita................................................................................... 10 Understanding Cremation............................................................................. 13 Undertaking, The: Life Studies From the Dismal Trade................................. 22 V Visit to the Cemetery, A................................................................................. 38 W Wage and Hour Laws for the Funeral Industry.............................................. 34 Walking Papers – Poems............................................................................... 22 Wastewater Facts: Sanitary Sewer Worker Exposure to Bloodborne Pathogens......................................................................... 34 What Clients Love: a Field Guide to Growing Your Business (CE)............. 6, 28 We Will Miss You: Support for Grieving the Death of a Pet............................ 20 We Will no Longer Have a New Baby: For Children Whose Sibling Dies Before Birth............................................................... 10 What About Me? Kids and Grief.................................................................... 19 What is the Meaning of Shiva? Jewish Mourning Rituals............................... 15 What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies?......................................... 16 When a Man Faces Grief: 12 Practical Ideas to Help You Heal From Loss......................................................................................... 15 When a Pet Dies............................................................................................ 20 When Death Walks In..................................................................................... 17 When Leaves Die........................................................................................... 17 When You Don’t know What to Say................................................................. 6 When Your People are Grieving....................................................................... 6 When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering and Healing....... 20 Y You Don’t Have to Like It, But You Do Have to Live It: Conversations About Loss, Grief and the Opportunity to Grow....................................... 38 Young Professional’s Guide to the Working World: Savvy Strategies to Get In, Get Ahead and Rise to the Top, The......................................... 38 Z Zayde Comes to Live..................................................................................... 17