Lent - Catholic Diocese of Brownsville
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Lent - Catholic Diocese of Brownsville
Volume 4, Issue 8 Serving over 900,000 Catholics in the Diocese of Brownsville Every Altar Needs a Priest Marching for Life Close to 1,000 gather to support the unborn 3 February 2013 Pick up the challenge for Lent Penitential season an opportunity to deepen our spiritual life By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic Lent Guidelines for 2013 from the bishop’s office 6 Go Outdoors By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic Finding prayer spaces in nature 8 O n the last weekend of February or the first weekend of March, the faithful of the Rio Grande Valley will be asked to participate in the Bishop’s Annual Appeal. This year, the theme of the appeal is, “Ev- ery Altar Needs a Priest,” and the proceeds will benefit our seminarians in formation for service in our diocese. “We know that the spiritual strength of the Church flows from the Eucharistic sacrifice celebrated daily in our churches (by our priests),” said Bishop Daniel E. Flores. “Christ » Please see Appeal, p.14 Those Who Serve Deacon Roberto Cantu of Mercedes 9 »World Marriage Day En Español Artículos sobre la Cuaresma y el Día Mundial del Matrimonio 11-14 Honoring husbands and wives Bishop Flores to bless couples celebrating milestone anniversaries By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic “VERBUM MITTITUR SPIRANS AMOREM” (“The WORD is sent breathing love.”) “My mom’s cousin married her aunt, so we have known each other all of our lives,” said Bernardino E. Mendez, who is celebrating 25 years of marriage with his wife, Olga Lydia, in 2013. “We grew up attending the same birthday parties, the same gettogethers, the same celebrations.” “Not long ago, one of our relatives posted a photo on Facebook of us as little children and there we were at the same birthday party,” Mrs. Mendez said. One day, when they were teenagers, they took a horse ride around his ranch at sunset. This marked the beginning of their romantic relationship. The Mendezes married on May 27, 1988 in their hometown of Gómez Palacio in the Mexican state of Durango. Today, they have six children, ranging from age seven to 23. The Mendezes will be among the couples celebrating milestone anniversaries at a World Marriage Day Mass set for 2 p.m. on Saturday, Feb. 9 at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle- The Valley Catholic Bernardino and Olga Lydia Mendez of McAllen will celebrate 25 years of marriage in 2013. National Shrine. Bishop Daniel E. Flores will celebrate the Mass and recognize the couples, who are celebrating » Please see Blessing, p.15 BROWNSVILLE — “Every year, I challenge myself and my congregation to look a little deeper during Lent,” said Father Thomas Pincelli, pastor of Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish in Brownsville. “Lent is not about what you have been told to do, but what God wants you to do.” Lent, which begins on Wednesday, Feb. 13, is a penitential season during which we strive to deepen our spiritual life by acknowledging our sins and living in a way that helps us live more purposefully as faithful Christians. Many Catholics, ages 14-60, in the United States abstain from meat on Ash Wednesday and on all the Fridays of Lent. The faithful may also fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, in accordance with the Code of Canon Law. Many Catholics additionally choose to “give up” something for Lent. All of this is done as a means of being in solidarity with Jesus, who fasted 40 days in the desert. “By the solemn 40 days of Lent, the Church unites herself each year to the mystery of Jesus in the desert,” the Catechism states. In addition to following the prescribed rules for fasting and abstinence and “giving up” something, Father Pincelli, challenges us to take our Lenten sacrifices a step further. He challenges us to overcome the tendency to, “do what we’ve been programmed to do during Lent.” “Giving up something definitely can make a difference, but I think that we have to look at the entirety of what the Gospel is asking us to be about,” Father Pincelli said. “We have to honestly look at our life and identify those areas that need the most time and effort— and pick up the challenge. “I think it is much more important to get down to the nitty-gritty and get down deep inside those core values and core elements that we are still struggling with.” Avoiding those issues prevents us from being as fulfilled as we » Please see Lent, p.14 diOcESE 2 Apoyo para las vocaciones sacerdotales E l trabajo de la Iglesia envuelve a todos para que nos ayudemos mutuamente en el camino a la salvación. Aquí en el Valle del Río Grande, veo esta generosidad comunitaria todos los días, en nuestras parroquias, escuelas, en nuestras obras de caridad, y en nuestros esfuerzos de evangelización. Innumerables laicos, religiosos y religiosas, diáconos y sacerdotes trabajan juntos para hacer que la presencia de Cristo sea más visible y efectiva en nuestra diócesis. ¿Cómo sucede todo esto? En este Año de la Fe, profesamos que es la gracia del Señor que mueve los corazones de tantas personas para trabajar juntos por el bien común. Esta gracia nos llega principalmente a través de la acción vivificante de Cristo en la Misa. Sabemos que la fuerza espiritual de la Iglesia deriva del Sacrificio Eucarístico celebrado diariamente en nuestras iglesias. El Señor Jesús se ofrece al Padre por nosotros en el gran sacrificio de amor. Él nos alimenta en la Eucaristía con su propia entrega generosa. Este alimento que baja del cielo sostiene y fortalece la vida y actividad de la Iglesia. En cada uno de los tres años que, por la gracia de Dios, he gozado del privilegio de servir como su obispo, les he pedido que apoyen a la Campaña Anual del Obispo para ayudarme a sostener el trabajo de la Iglesia en el Valle, especialmente en las zonas donde los recursos son particularmente escasos. Gracias a su generosidad, hemos podido apoyar reparaciones parroquiales, programas para la juventud, así como la formación permanente del clero (por nombrar algunos proyectos). Este año creo que es sabio y prudente prestar especial atención a nuestra responsabilidad como iglesia local para promover y apoyar las vocaciones The Valley Catholic - February 2013 Support for vocations to the priesthood T he work of the Church involves everyone as we help one another on the way to salvation. Here in the Rio Grande Valley I see this communal generosity every day, in our parishes, schools, in our charitable works, and in our evangelization efforts. Countless laymen and women, religious, deacons and priests work together to make the presence of Christ more visible and effective in our diocese. How does all this happen? In this Year of Faith, we profess that it is the grace of the Lord who moves the hearts of so many to work together for the good of all. This grace comes to us principally through the lifegiving action of Christ in the Mass. We know that the spiritual strength of the Church flows from the Eucharistic sacrifice celebrated daily in our churches. The Lord Jesus offers himself to the Father for our sakes in the great sacrifice of love. He feeds us in the Eucharist with his own generous self-giving. This food that comes down from heaven sustains and strengthens the life and activity of the Church. In each of the three years I have, by the grace of God, been privileged to serve as your bishop, I have asked you to support the Annual Bishop’s Appeal as a way of helping me sustain the work of the Church in the Valley, especially in areas where resources are particularly scarce. Thanks to your generosity, we have been able to support parish repairs, programs for youth, as well as continuing al sacerdocio, a fin de asegurar que siempre tengamos sacerdotes buenos y santos para celebrar la Eucaristía en nuestras iglesias. Cristo se nos da en la Misa y es la vida y la fuerza de cada uno de nosotros. Apoyar las vocaciones sacerdotales es apoyar la fuente vital de fuerza espiritual que nos sostiene a todos. El número de los seminaristas es cada vez mayor. Este año tenemos 25 y es una gran bendición. Espero que esta tendencia continúe a medida que más de nuestros jóvenes den un paso adelante respondiendo a la llamada de Cristo a través de su Iglesia. En promedio, cuesta $30,000.00 para educar a un MOST REVEREND DANIEL E. FLORES BISHOP OF BROWNSVILLE education of the clergy (to name but a few). This year I think it is wise and prudent to focus particular attention on our responsibility as a local Church to promote and support vocations to the priesthood, so as to ensure that we always have good and holy priests to celebrate the Holy Eucharist in our churches. Christ given to us in the Mass is the life and strength for each one of us. To support vocations to the priesthood is to support the vital source of spiritual strength that sustains each one of us. The number of our seminarians is growing. This year we have 25, and it is a great blessing. And I expect this trend to continue as more of our young men step forward in response to the call of Christ through his Church. On average, it costs $30,000 to educate a single seminarian for one year. Thus, you can see it requires a significant monetary investment to provide for the proper formation and education of our future priests. I am asking all of our parishes to participate in this year’s appeal, and all of the seminarista sólo por un año. Por lo tanto, se puede apreciar que se requiere una inversión monetaria considerable para proporcionar la formación y educación adecuada a nuestros futuros sacerdotes. Les pido a todas nuestras parroquias que participen en la Campaña Anual del Obispo 2013, y a todo el Pueblo de Dios que den lo que puedan para apoyar nuestro programa de formación en el seminario. Su donación a la Campaña de este año, no importa cuán grande o pequeña, es muy necesaria y agradecida. Será destinada a la educación de un seminarista en nuestra diócesis. Espero también Bishop Daniel E. Flores Publisher Brenda Nettles Riojas Editor Rose Ybarra Assistant Editor The Valley Catholic email: [email protected] Follow us on facebook Catholic Diocese of Brownsville www.cdob.org Subscription rate ZBG Studio/Graphic Design $15 per year • $17 outside of Texas $25 out of U.S. Terry De Leon South Texas Circulation The Valley Catholic, Circulation Advertising (956) 784-5055 Gustavo Morales Lower Valley (956) 266-1527 Gilbert Saenz Upper Valley (956) 451-5416 a publication of the Diocese of Brownsville, is published monthly Member of the Catholic Press Assocition Yours in Christ, +Daniel E. Flores Bishop of Brownsville que los ingresos de este esfuerzo sean suficientes como para permitirme seguir asignando un poco de ayuda a las parroquias que enfrentan dificultades financieras debido a las emergencias que puedan surgir durante el año. Además de participar en la Campaña, también les pido urgentemente que oren por las vocaciones al sacerdocio, en especial durante sus oraciones ante el Santísimo Sacramento. Y les pido que apoyen los programas en sus parroquias y en la diócesis diseñada para promover las vocaciones al sacerdocio y la vida religiosa. Todos recibimos fuerza y alimento del ministerio sacer- Bishop Flores’ Schedule 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd., San Juan, TX 78589-3042 Telephone: 956/781-5323 • Fax: 956/784-5082 faithful People of God to give what you can to support our seminary training programs. Your donation to this year’s appeal, no matter how large or small is very much needed and appreciated. It will go toward helping educate a seminarian for our diocese. I am hoping also that the funds from this year’s appeal will be sufficient to permit me to continue to allocate some help to parishes facing financial strain due to emergencies of one kind or another. In addition to participating in the appeal, I also urgently ask you to pray for vocations to the priesthood, especially during your prayers in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament. And, I ask that you support the programs in your parishes and in the diocese designed to promote vocations to the priesthood and religious life. We all receive strength and nourishment from the priestly ministry; let us all offer to God our prayers and our support of priestly vocations as a sign of our gratitude for the priests who have served us in the past, for the priests we have, and for the priests God will give us for the future. I thank you for your kindness and generosity, your great love for the Eucharist and the priesthood, and your faithful participation in the life of the Church. Feb. 2 11 a.m. McAllen Mass for 10th Annual Knights of Columbus Youth Retreat Feb. 2 1 p.m. McAllen Open Mic. Session for 10th Annual KC Youth Retreat Feb. 2 5:30 p.m. San Juan Basilica Mass Feb. 3 7:30 a.m. Pharr St. Margaret Mary Church-Mass (Spanish) Feb. 3 10:30 a.m. Pharr St. Margaret Mary Church-Mass (English) Feb. 3 Noon Pharr St. Anne Church-Mass (English) Feb. 3 3:30 p.m. Basilica Mass for World Day for Consecrated Life Feb. 6 6 p.m. La Grulla Confirmations at Holy Family Church Feb. 7 9:30 a.m. San Juan Talk at Professional Day for Catechetical Leaders Feb. 7 11:30 a.m. San Juan Mass at Professional Day for Catechetical Leaders Feb. 9 2 p.m. Basilica Mass for World Marriage Day dotal; ofrezcamos a Dios nuestras oraciones y nuestro apoyo a las vocaciones sacerdotales como signo de nuestra gratitud por los sacerdotes que nos han servido en el pasado, por los sacerdotes que tenemos, y por los sacerdotes que Dios nos dará en el futuro. Les doy las gracias por su amabilidad y generosidad, por su gran amor a la Eucaristía y el sacerdocio, y por su participación fidelísima en la vida de la Iglesia. Suyo en Cristo, + Daniel E. Flores Obispo de Brownsville February 2013 Feb. 9 6 p.m. Pharr St. Anne Church-Mass (Spanish) Feb. 10 7:30 a.m. Pharr St. Margaret Mary Church-Mass (Spanish) Feb. 10 10:30 a.m. Pharr St. Margaret Mary Church- Mass (English) Feb. 10 Noon Pharr St. Anne Church - Mass (English) Feb. 10 5 p.m. Weslaco Mass for Catholic Scouting Ceremony - St. Joan of Arc Feb. 13 Noon Brownsville Ash Wednesday Mass Gran Salon at UTB Feb. 16 5 p.m. El Ranchito Community Wedding Vows - St. Ignatius Feb. 19 6:30 p.m. Harlingen Rite of Election (Lower Valley) at St. Anthony Church Feb. 21 6:30 p.m. San Juan Rite of Election (Upper Valley) at the Basilica Feb. 27 6:30 p.m. TBD Juan Diego Academy Fundraiser Feb. 28 6 p.m. Mission Mission Deanery Listening Sessions - Our Lady of Guadalupe To subscribe to The Valley catholic name __________________________________ Address _________________________________ city _____________ state ________Zip ________ e-mail address ____________________________ for more information call (956) 781-5323 To receive a copy at home each month mail your payment with your contact information to: 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd. San Juan, TX 78589-3042 $15 per year / $17 outside of Texas February 2013 diOcESE - The Valley Catholic How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk(ette) 3 Marching for Life The Valley Catholic The Family Life Office of the Diocese of Brownsville is sponsoring P.I.C.K. (Pre-marital Interpersonal Choices and Knowledge), a partner program based on John Van Epp’s best-selling book, How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk(ette). This five-week program is designed to provide single adults with a plan for pacing a relationship and exploring the key areas that foreshadow what a partner will be like in marriage. Included in the sessions will be some of the Catholic Church’s teachings on sexuality and Sacramental Marriage. Sessions will be held weekly on Monday evenings at the University of Texas-Pan American (Catholic Campus Ministry Center), 1615 W. Kuhn St. in Edinburg and the University of Texas-Brownsville (Catholic Campus Ministry Center) 1910 University Blvd. in Brownsville, beginning on Feb. 4 from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. Cost for the five-week course is $10.00 for the workbook. For registration and information, please call the Family Life Office at (956) 7845012 or (956) 542-2501 ext. 412. Readers step up for Mission wife, mother battling cancer The Valley Catholic In the Dec. 2012 edition of The Valley Catholic, we featured Norma Rodriguez, a wife and RODRIGUEZ mother from Mission who is battling cancer. More than $1,400 in cash and gift cards, plus Christmas gifts for her two children was collected for the family through Catholic Charities of the Rio Grande Valley. “The readers of The Valley Catholic really came through for Norma and her family,” said Yesenia Guzman, a caseworker for Catholic Charities. “It is heartening to see so many generous people in our community.” Rodriguez has health insurance but the family’s income exceeds the maximum income level for government assistance such as food stamps. The family is struggling to make ends meet because of the mounting medical bills, co-payments and travel expenses. Rodriguez, 31, is currently undergoing treatment at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston and requests prayers from the faithful of the Rio Grande Valley. The Valley Catholic close to 1,000 people participated in a pro-life march in McAllen on Jan. 19. Organized by the respect Life Apostolate of the diocese, Bishop Daniel e. flores led the procession, which began with opening prayers at st. Joseph the Worker Parish and continued into downtown. The procession stopped at the local abortion clinic before continuing to sacred Heart Parish for closing prayers and remarks from the bishop. Jan. 22 marked the 40th anniversary of the roe v. Wade supreme court ruling that legalized abortion and pro-lifers across the nation observed the occasion with events of prayer and action. “forty years,” Bishop flores said in his closing remarks. “I say we must continue to work to change the law because the law teaches our children what is right and what is good. How can we wonder if our children grow up usurping life if the law tells them it’s ok if the life isn’t born yet? We underestimate the power of the law to form a people and we wish to be a just people. We wish to be a people who are conscious of the goodness of life and that’s why this law cannot stand. It may take time but we cannot give up.” No food, no drink Fasting provides opportunity to experience hopeful waiting By ANGEL BARRERA The Valley Catholic Catholic spirituality has always held the practice of fasting, coupled with prayer and almsgiving in a special regard. In the liturgical cycle’s most penitential moments, the faithful are called to join in solidarity and fast from their regular diet. St. John Cassian, an early desert father from the 4th century, writes in his Conferences about the seven deadly sins. Interestingly, the first of the all sins he describes is gluttony. He essentially describes the sin of gluttony as a gateway to the others. A lack of moderation in our appetite leads us to a lack of moderation in the flesh and eventually our spirit. I’ll be the first to admit that fasting can be difficult. Going without food puts me into my “hangry” mode; a wicked combination of being hungry and angry at the same time. In a culture that emphasizes excess, moderation can come across as a radical deviation. But Christianity has always demanded that we walk the strange way of Christ. The way that lays in the footsteps of a God-made man that was born, lived, died and resurrected over 2,000 years ago. We live in a culture in which fasting is a foreign concept. A few years ago, an article was published by the news agency Agence FrancePresse detailing the extremes that exist in different parts of the world. According to the article, “In statistics used to underline the unequal access to food, the IFRC (International Federation of the Red Cross) stressed there were 1.5 billion people suffering obesity worldwide last year, while 925 mil- ABOUT crs fOOD fAsT Time: 9 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. Date: Saturday, Feb. 23 Place: Auditorium at Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle BasilicaNational Shrine Cost: $10 per person Info: Contact Monica Benitez at [email protected] or (956)7815323 lion were undernourished.” The practice of fasting is the opportunity to re-prioritize our lives into what’s most important. It is a time to reclaim our lives from our desires that can run amok sometimes, as can be evidenced by obesity and excessive credit card debt. Let us look at fasting as a unique opportunity to experience hopeful waiting. Each week, the Church asks that we fast one hour before the reception of the Holy Eucharist. Formerly, the Eucharistic fast began at midnight on Saturday. This regular and brief experience of fasting reminds us that no food or drink (or any material thing) can quench our deepest spiritual yearnings as only Jesus can. The Eucharistic fast is an expression of solidarity with the Church for the water of everlasting life that Jesus offered the Samaritan woman at the well, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again; but whoever drinks the water I shall give will never thirst; the water I shall give will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life” (Jn 4:1314). On Saturday, Feb. 23, the Office of Youth Ministry will sponsor a Catholic Relief Service Food Fast, a hunger awareness retreat focusing on global poverty and hunger, for high school juniors and seniors. The local retreat will include a food fast for eight hours and will provide activities for students to learn about the realities faced by people around the world who live in poverty and the actions they can take to help end global hunger. diOcESE 4 »Family Life Lydia Pesina Director, Family Life Office The Ten Commandments of Love I t is a wonder to remember that the Ten Commandments have been around for hundreds of years before the time of Christ. (Scholars speculate between 600-1200 years before) And since we just began the year 2013 A.D. (Ano Domini- In the year of our Lord) the revelation of God to Moses who brought down the tablets from Mount Sinai could possibly have happened close to 3,000 years ago! In Exodus 32:15 we hear: “Moses then turned and came down the mountain with the two tablets of commandments in his hands, tablets that were written on both sides, front and back; tablets that were made by God, having inscriptions on them that were engraved by God himself.” I believe that there are many ways by which we can view these great guides of life. A writer stated that for those from a Judeo-Christian tradition, “ the Ten Commandments concern only matters of fundamental importance: the greatest obligation (to worship only God), the greatest injury to a person (murder), the greatest injury to family bonds (adultery), the greatest injury to commerce and law (bearing false witness), the greatest intergenerational obligation (honor to parents), the greatest obligation to community (truthfulness), the greatest injury to moveable property (theft).” It is amazing to think that the Ten Commandments apply to us today as much as they did thousands of years ago. In our present technological society, something that happened last year can sometimes seem outdated, especially to children and young people who live in a world where a cell phone that was the rave last year is outdated now. Perhaps for some, especially the young, the Ten Commandments are not only outdated, but also irrelevant to daily living. And perhaps some can view them as negatives in a world where “don’t” or “you shall not” is considered “offensive.” But every “don’t” has a “do”; every negative a positive. In God’s great wisdom He has taught us throughout the ages that HE IS LOVE and that His great LOVE creates us, sustains us, teaches us, and guides us. Perhaps we can see the Ten Commandments as the Ten Commandments of Love. 1) I am the LORD your God. You shall worship the Lord your God and Him only shall you serve. Love God with all your heart, with your entire mind and with all your soul and serve Him by loving and serving your family and serving the poor. 2) You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain. Love the power that your words have upon others and use them wisely to honor God and not diminish others. 3) Remember to keep holy the Sabbath » Please see Commandments, p.16 The Valley Catholic - February 2013 Event features national presenters Catholic women’s, mens conferences scheduled for Feb. 22-23 Father Tadeusz Pacholczyk Priest of the Diocese of Fall River The Pill as health care? The Valley Catholic WESLACO — The Rio Grande Valley Catholic Men’s Fellowship and Real Men Pray the Rosary are sponsoring conferences for both women and men on Feb. 22 -23 in Weslaco. A Catholic Women’s Conference has been scheduled for Friday, Feb. 22 from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. at San Martin de Porres Church, 901 N. Texas Blvd. in Weslaco. The men’s conference is scheduled for Saturday, Feb. 23 from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. at the Catholic War Veteran’s Hall on Farmto-Market Road 1015 between Weslaco and Mercedes. Admission to both the women’s and men’s conference is free. Men are encouraged to pre-register on the RGV Catholic Men’s Fellowship website for planning purposes. The speakers for both the women’s and men’s conference are: Michael Cumbie — A former Protestant pastor, he was, “a pew jumping, tongue speaking, devil chasing, Bible thumping, shut your mouth preacher, like those guys on television … I used to do that,” he said in an interview on The Journey Home, a program on the Eternal Word Television Network (EWTN) that features converts to the Catholic faith. “I began a journey searching for the truth,” Cumbie said. “If you had told me that the truth would have led me to the Roman Catholic Church, I probably would have slapped you and your mama.” Hector Molina — A lay Catholic speaker and apologist from Brooklyn, N.Y., Molina has more than 20 years experience in professional pastoral ministry. In 2012, he joined the staff of Catholic Answers, the largest lay-run apostolate of Catholic apologetics and evangelization in North America. He is also a husband and father of five children. Peter Herbeck — The host of the Ave Maria Radio program, Fire on Earth, Herbeck aims to MARTIN HERBECK CUMBIE MOLINA Men’s cOnference Date: Saturday, Feb. 23 Time: 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. (sign in from 7 a.m. to 8 a.m.) Mass: 5:30 p.m. Place: Catholic War Veterans Hall, 1501 N. International Blvd., Weslaco Admission: Free Info: www.rgvcmf.org help listeners respond personally to what the Holy Spirit is saying. He is the vice president and a director of missions for Renewal Ministries, an organization devoted to Catholic renewal and evangelization throughout the world. A husband and father of four, he resides in Ann Arbor, Mich. Ralph Martin — An author of several Catholic books, Martin is the president of Renewal Ministries, which sponsors the radio and television program, The Choices We Face, which is distributed throughout the world and engages in a wide variety of mission work in more than 27 countries. He also worked for a number of years for the National Office of the Cursillo Movement and subsequently became a leader in the national and international development of the charismatic renewal movement in the Catholic Church. The mission of the RGV Catholic Men’s Fellowship is to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ to all men seeking to come to a fuller understanding of what it means to be a Catholic Christian man, according to their website. The organization sponsors a men’s and women’s conference featuring nationally-recognized presenters about once a year. Real Men Pray the Rosary was created to “promote [the Rosary] with conviction” to all Christians but especially Catholic men and their families, according to their website. The apostolate promotes prayer, family and community with numerous events throughout the year. Bishop Flores to commision team of young adults By MIGUEL SANTOS The Valley Catholic As part of the Year of Faith initiatives, the Office for Campus and Young Adult Ministry (CYAM) announced the creation of a group of young adults who Bishop Daniel E. Flores will commission to serve as his ambassadors throughout the diocese. In a recent letter addressed to priests and parishes, Bishop Flores stated: “I am commissioning 16 young adults (two per deanery), that will be known as “Bishop’s Ambassadors for Young Adult Ministry.” My goal is to listen to and learn from them identifying first-hand their spiri- »Making Sense Out of Bioethics tual needs and how we can be more responsive to them as a Church.” The team of Young Adult Ambassadors will meet in person twice a year with Bishop Flores, and regularly with the CYAM office. They will also utilize technology to communicate via Skype, conference calls, and video chatting. This team has two specific goals: 1. To advise Bishop Flores and the CYAM Office on the concerns and issues facing young adults in their 20s & 30s across the diocese, offering feedback on the work and initiatives of the Diocese of Brownsville and its CYAM office. 2. To work together in planning and implementing diocesanwide activities for young adults. These activities include spiritual, service and social justice-related, social/sports, faith formation, and evangelization initiatives that go beyond what any one parish or ministry can do on its own. For more information on becoming one of Bishop’s Young Adult Ambassadors, please contact Miguel Santos via email for an application: msantos@cdob. org. Deadline is Monday, Feb. 25. P hysicians will sometimes prescribe a hormonal regimen (in the form of a hormonal contraceptive like the Pill) to treat certain gynecological problems like heavy menstrual bleeding, dysmenorrhea (painful periods), PMS (pre-menstrual syndrome), endometriosis, or other conditions like severe acne. In these cases, the Pill is used not as a contraceptive, but as a therapy for a medical condition. This can be morally permissible under the principle of double effect, which allows for the treatment of a serious medical problem (the good effect), while tolerating its unintended consequences, when other less harmful treatments are not available. In this case, the unintended consequences would be the impeding of one’s fertility and the potential health risks and side effects of the Pill (the evil effect). Married couples may sometimes struggle with the question of whether a pathology is serious enough to warrant the therapeutic use of the Pill. The wife of one couple I worked with reflected on the matter and concluded, “Yes, the bleeding is intense, and I’m basically wiped out for at least two or three days each month, but it’s not so debilitating that my husband and I can’t manage, and we’d really prefer, morally and medically speaking, not to get mixed up with a powerful pharmaceutical like the Pill.” Other treatments beside the Pill may at times be available to remedy these medical conditions without having to impede fertility. Some young women, though, may be content to opt for a treatment that also offers more latitude for sexual activity. Approaching the medical use of the Pill in this way can raise concerns about ambiguous intentions. A friend of mine who dated several young women who were on the Pill for a medical condition described his own experiences and struggles this way: “Those I know who have done this also tended to be the ones who were sexually active…. I believe it does have an effect on one’s psyche and soul. In fact, in the past I’ve dated two women who were doing this and it made it really, really hard at times to be chaste. When I brought up alternative ways to treat something that doesn’t involve the Pill, they got very defensive. So I think it definitely blurs a line even in the minds of the most faithful Catholics who rationalize that this is what the doctor ordered.” Lines can blur not only in the minds of those who may be dating, but also in the minds of medical students, who may be taught to prescribe the Pill almost reflexively for various gynecological issues rather than addressing » Please see The Pill, p.15 February 2013 »Sunday Readings The Word of God in the Life and Mission of the Church February 3 (Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time ) Reading I JER 1:4-5, 17-19 Responsorial Psalm PS 71:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 15-17 Reading II 1 COR 12:31—13:13 OR 13:4-13 Gospel LK 4:21-30 February 10 (Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading I IS 6:1-2A, 3-8 Responsorial Psalm PS 138:1-2, 2-3, 4-5, 7-8 Reading II 1 COR 15:1-11 OR 15:3-8, 11 Gospel LK 5:1-11 February 17 (First Sunday of Lent ) Reading I DT 26:4-10 Responsorial Psalm PS 91:1-2, 10-11, 12-13, 14-15 Reading II ROM 10:8-13 Gospel LK 4:1-13 February 24 (Second Sunday of Lent ) Reading I GN 15:5-12, 17-18 Responsorial Psalm PS 27:1, 7-8, 8-9, 13-14 Reading II PHIL 3:17 - 4:1 OR PHIL 3:20 - 4:1 Gospel FAiTH - The Valley Catholic LK 9:28B-36 The word of the lord abides for ever. This word is the Gospel which was preached to you” (1 Pet 1:25; cf. Is 40:8). With this assertion from the First Letter of Saint Peter, which takes up the words of the Prophet Isaiah, we find ourselves before the mystery of God, who has made himself known through the gift of his word. This word, which abides for ever, entered into time. God spoke his eternal Word humanly; his Word “became flesh” (Jn 1:14). This is the good news. This is the proclamation which has come down the centuries to us today. Disciples in Mission: Six Weeks with the Bible 5 Priestly celibacy for the Kingdom of Heaven W hen addressing the issue of priestly celibacy, in both ecclesiastic and non-ecclesiastic spheres, some misunderstandings and discrepancies in opinions arise, in addition to critiques with regard to it. The present discipline of the Catholic Church says that those who approach Holy Orders must profess vows of perfect chastity (celibacy). Today this discipline, more than ever, is necessary. First, we should clarify that priestly celibacy is not a dogma of faith, but a Church discipline that can be changed, that has changed throughout the history of the Church, and that hypothetically can keep changing. One often hears that the Church imposes celibacy on priests; however, nobody is forced to be celibate. Although celibacy is a “law” of the Church, it is not fair to say that the Church imposes or coerces it. Through free and voluntary decision, any man who receives Holy Orders voluntarily renounces human fatherhood to devote exclusively to spiritual fatherhood. The Second Vatican Council beautifully states that, perfect and perpetual continence for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven, commended by Christ the Lord and through the course of time as well as in our own days freely accepted and observed in a praiseworthy T Father Manuel A. Razo, STL Parochial Vicar, St. Luke Parish in Brownsville manner by many of the faithful, is held by the Church to be of great value in a special manner for the priestly life. It is at the same time a sign and a stimulus for pastoral charity and a special source of spiritual fecundity in the world... celibacy has a many-faceted suitability for the priesthood. For the whole priestly mission is dedicated to the service of a new humanity... Through virginity, then, or celibacy observed for the Kingdom of Heaven, priests are consecrated to Christ by a new and exceptional reason. They adhere to him more easily with an undivided heart, they dedicate themselves more freely in him and through him to the service of God and men... The priest is another Sacramental Christ. According to the Gospels, our Lord Jesus Christ never imposed celibacy on his apostles. However, He recommended it through the example of his celibate life and his sole and total dedication and service to all humanity. The ministerial priesthood must be an imitation and a configuration to Christ, the High Priest. Celibacy allows the priest to exclusively devote himself to Christ and to the service of humanity. Celibacy does not mean to renounce or refuse love; on the contrary, celibacy is synonym of love and a sign of total love. In the same way that Christ loved the Church, the priest loves her and Christ. It is this love which allows the priest to leave everything in order to follow Christ, and to love and take care of his Church in the same way Christ has loved and taken care for her. The Gospels tell that the Apostles left everything to follow Christ: family, house, wife, etc. “We have given up everything and followed you” (Mt 19:27). In the same way today’s priests must have the same disposition of detachment as the Apostles had — to renounce and give up everything to follow Christ. Today’s priests and religious people choose celibacy for the sake and love of the kingdom of heaven. This love of the Kingdom of Heaven is a universal and nonexclusive love that is manifested in the love the celibate priest offers to all people and not only to one person, imitating God’s fatherly love. Such love indivisibly unites the priest with all mankind putting him at its service, and configur» Please see Celibacy, p.9 “Increase our Faith, Lord” he Apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!” And the Lord said, “If you had faith like a mustard seed, you would say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and be planted in the sea’; and it would obey you” (Lk 17). In this Year of Faith the same challenge is before us as we echo the request of the Apostles for the Lord to strengthen us to believe and to live the faith we have received at our Baptism. The Holy Father Pope Benedict XVI is his apostolic letter “Porta Fidei” for the induction of the Year of Faith summons us to an authentic and renewed conversion to the Lord, the one Savior of the world. “In the mystery of his death and resurrection, God has revealed in its fullness the Love that saves and calls us to conversion of life through the forgiveness of sins” (cf. Acts 5:31). For Saint Paul, this love ushers us into a new life: “We were buried ... with him by Baptism into death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life” (Rom 6:4). Through faith, this new life shapes the whole of human existence according to the radical new reality of the resurrection. To the extent that he freely cooperates, man’s thoughts and affections, mentality and conduct are slowly purified and transformed, on a journey that is never completely finished in this life. “Faith working through love” (Gal 5:6) becomes a new criterion of understanding and action that changes the whole of man’s life (cf. Rom 12:2; Col 3:910; Eph 4:20-29; 2 Cor 5:17).” The Pope reminds us that the faith into which we were baptized is faith in the Lord Jesus Christ that we profess every Sunday during the Creed. “Profession of Deacon Luis Zuniga Director, Office for Pastoral Planning & San Juan Diego Ministry Institute. faith is an act both personal and communitarian. It is the Church that is the primary subject of faith. In the faith of the Christian community, each individual receives Baptism, an effective sign of entry into the people of believers in order to obtain salvation. As we read in the Catechism of the Catholic Church: “ ‘I believe’ is the faith of the Church professed personally by each believer, principally during baptism. ‘We believe’ is the faith of the Church confessed by the bishops assembled in council or more generally by the liturgical assembly of believers. ‘I believe’ is also the Church, our mother, responding to God by faith as she teaches us to say both ‘I believe’ and ‘we believe’.” (Porta Fidei). 158 The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) teaches that “Faith seeks understanding.” It is intrinsic to faith that a believer desires to know better the One in whom he has put his faith and to understand better what He has revealed; a more penetrating knowledge will in turn call forth a greater faith, increasingly set afire by love. The grace of faith opens “the eyes of your hearts” to a lively understanding of the contents of Revelation: that is, of the totality of God’s plan and the mysteries of faith, of their connection with each other and with Christ, the center of the revealed mystery. “The same Holy Spirit constantly perfects faith by his gifts, so that Revelation may be more and more profoundly understood.” In the words of St. Augustine, “I believe, in order to understand; and I understand, the better to believe.” (CCC #158). In “Porta Fidei,” the Pope encourages us to look at the faith of those who have witnessed Christ throughout the history of our salvation. In a special way we recall the faith of the first disciple of Christ, his own mother the Blessed Virgin Mary who was faithful to her Son Jesus from the womb to the tomb. “By faith, Mary accepted the angel’s word and believed the message that she was to become the Mother of God in the obedience of her devotion (cf. Lk 1:38). Visiting Elizabeth, she raised her hymn of praise to the Most High for the marvels he worked in those who trust him (cf. Lk 1:46-55). With joy and trepidation she gave birth to her only son, keeping her virginity intact (cf. Lk 2:6-7). Trusting in Joseph, her husband, she took Jesus to Egypt to save him from Herod’s persecution (cf. Mt 2:13-15). With the same faith, she followed the Lord in his preaching and remained with him all the way to Golgotha (cf. Jn 19:25-27). By faith, Mary tasted the fruits of Jesus’ resurrection, and treasuring every memory in her heart (cf. Lk 2:19, 51), she passed them on to the twelve assembled with her in the Upper Room to receive the Holy Spirit (cf. Acts 1:14; 2:1-4).” Today we live in a world that hungers for more, for meaning, for purpose; without realizing that we hunger for God who wants to save us. When life’s challenges make us question “Where is God?,” we can always find answers in the Mystery of Faith that is the Paschal Mystery, which we celebrate every Sunday. May the Lord transform our hearts as he changed water into wine at the Wedding at Cana so that we remain committed to him in this Year of Faith. Catholic News Service Blesseds francisco and Jacinto Marto, are shown in this 1917 photo. They and their cousin Lucia witnessed the apparitions of Our Blessed Mother at fatima. »Feast Day -Feb. 20 Spotlight on Blessed Francisco and Jacinta Marto Catholic News Agency/EWTN Francisco, 11, and Jacinta, 10, are the youngest non-martyrs to be beatified in the history of the Church. The brother and sister, who tended to their families’ sheep with their cousin Lucia Santo in the fields of Fatima, Portugal, witnessed the apparitions of Mary, now commonly known as Our Lady of Fatima. During the first apparition, which took place on May 13, 1917, Our Lady asked the three children to pray the Rosary and to make sacrifices, offering them for the conversion of sinners. The children did, praying often, giving their lunch to beggars and going without food themselves. They offered up their daily crosses and even refrained from drinking water on hot days. A transformation took place in their lives, one we could call radical: a transformation certainly uncommon for children of their age, Pope John Paul II said at the beatification of Francisco and Jacinta on May 13, 2000 in Fatima. After the apparitions ended, Francisco was enrolled in school but played truant as often as possible. He preferred to spend time praying to the “Hidden Jesus” in the Tabernacle. His great concern was to console His sorrowing Lord and the Heart of His Mother. When asked what he wanted to be when he grew up, Francisco answered, “I don’t want to be anything. I want to die and go to heaven.” Jacinta complied with many requests for her intercessions. On one occasion she seems to have bilocated, in order to help a wayward youth find his way home. Lost in a stormy wood, he had knelt and prayed, and Jacinta appeared and took him by the hand, while she was at home praying for him. In October 1918, Francisco and Jacinta became seriously ill with the Spanish flu. Our Lady appeared to them and said she would to take them to heaven soon. Pope John Paul II beatified Francisco and Jacinta, on the 83rd anniversary of the first apparition of Our Lady at Fatima, teaching us that even young children can become saints. 6 diOcESE The Valley Catholic - February 2013 Guidelines for Lent From the Office of the Bishop BROWNSVILLE — The time of Lent is to be observed by Catholics as a special season of prayer, penance, and works of charity. Fast and Abstinence Ash Wednesday and Friday of the Passion and Death of Our Lord are the most important penitential days of the liturgical year. They are days of both fast and abstinence. All Fridays in Lent are days of abstinence. Canon 1250 states: All Fridays through the year and the time of Lent are penitential days and times throughout the entire Church. Canon 1251 states: Abstinence from eating meat or another food according to the prescriptions of the conference of bishops is to be observed on Fridays throughout the year unless they are solemni- ties; abstinence and fast are to be observed on Ash Wednesday and on the Friday of the Passion and Death of Our Lord Jesus Christ. Canon 1252 states: All persons who have completed their fourteenth year are bound by the law of abstinence; all adults are bound by the law of fast up to the beginning of their sixtieth year. Nevertheless, pastors and parents are to see to it that minors who are not bound by the law of fast and abstinence are educated in an authentic sense of penance. (Adults are those who have attained 18 years of age.) Canon 1253 states: The Conference of Bishops can determine more precisely the observance of fast and abstinence, as well as substitute other forms of penance, especially works of charity and exercises of piety, in whole or in part, for abstinence or fast. In the United States, fasting on all weekdays of Lent is strongly recommended; on all Fridays of A time for prayer, penance, fast, abstinence and works of charity the year, the USCCB recommends that we select one or more of the following: abstinence from meat, prayer, penance (especially by eating less food) and almsgiving, for the sake of world peace. The rule of fasting states that only one full meal may be taken per day. Two small meals, “sufficient to maintain strength,” are allowed but together they should not equal another full meal. Eating between meals breaks the fast but drinking liquids does not. Abstinence refers to the eating of meat of warm blooded animals (e.g. beef, lamb, chicken, pork). Under the present law, it does not include egg or milk products, meat broth or gravies. The substantial observance of the laws of fast and abstinence is a serious obligation. Those who are not able to observe the laws because of work or health related issues are excused from fasting and abstinence. The individual conscience can decide if there is a proper cause to excuse. A more serious reason should be present to excuse from the Ash Wednesday and Good Friday penance. Parents and teachers should see to it that even those who are not bound by the laws of the fast and abstinence because of age are brought up in an atmosphere that is conducive to a sense of penance. Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation The faithful should be clearly and positively encouraged to receive the Sacrament of Penance during Lent. There should be adequate time scheduled for Confessions before Easter. When Penance services are celebrated for a large group of the faithful, individual confession and absolution is required for each penitent. Although group penance services should not be scheduled for the last days of Holy Week, any reasonable request for the sacrament by an individual should be honored, even during the Triduum (cf. Canon 986). It is fitting that a parish-wide Penance liturgy take place toward the end of Lent. The duty to confess at least once a year applies only to “serious sins” (Canon 989). For the integrity of the sacrament, a member of the Christian faithful is obliged to confess in kind and in number all serious sins committed after baptism and not yet directly remitted through the keys of the Church nor acknowledged in individual confession, of which one is conscious after diligent examination of conscience. (Canon 988 #1). The practice of confessing only a sin or sins of personal choice is, therefore, reprobated. It is recommended to the Christian faithful that venial sins also be confessed. (Canon 988 #2) February 2013 diOcESE - The Valley Catholic Be a Disciple! CCHD sponsors 2013 multimedia youth contest The Valley Catholic The Catholic Campaign for Human Development (CCHD) is sponsoring a Multi-Media Youth Contest to engage young people in grades 7-12 in learning about poverty in the U.S., its root causes, and faithinspired efforts to address it, especially through the Catholic Campaign for Human Development. Through the contest, young people learn about poverty, its causes, and a faith response and then become educators themselves as they use their art to creatively communicate what they have learned. The 2012-13 contest theme is: Be a Disciple! Put Two Feet of Love in Action. The contest consists of two divisions: 7th-9th grade and 10th-12th grade. Any form of multimedia work is welcome for the contest. Short stories, PowerPoint presentations, videos, songs, painting, drawing, photography, and drama are all eligible for the contest. The diocesan deadline for artwork submission is Wednesday, March 20 to the 7 Put Two Feet of Love in Action San Juan Pastoral Center. For more information about participating in the contest or scheduling a catechetical youth session about Catholic social teaching, please contact Angel Barrera at (956) 781-5323 or [email protected]. You can also visit www.CDOBYM.org for information and contest details. The contest receives support from RCL Benziger, publisher of Catholic religious education materials for parishes, schools and families since 1792. “ “The conscience is called by this social teaching to recognize and fulfill the obligations of justice and charity in society.” –Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church, no. 83 About the “Two Feet of Love in Action” Catholic disciples on mission are called to put Two Feet of Love in Action! This foundational tool describes two distinct, but complementary, ways we can put the Gospel in ac- tion in response to God’s love: social justice (addressing systemic, root causes of problems that affect many people) and charitable works (short-term, emergency assistance for individuals). Social Justice “concerns the social, political, and economic aspects and, above all, the structural dimension of problems and their respective solutions” (Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church, no. 201). We step with this foot when we work to address the root causes of problems facing our communities by advocating for just public policies and helping to change the social structures that contribute to suffering and injustice at home and around the world. Charitable Works are our “response to immediate needs and specific situations: feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, caring for and healing the sick, visiting those in prison, etc.” (Deus Caritas Est, no. 31). We step with the Charitable Works foot when we work to aid or assist others both locally and globally to meet their immediate, short-term needs. Examples include engaging in direct service or providing food, clothing, shelter, or monetary assistance to help those in need. USCCB Image from The Two feet of Love in Action handout. complete handout available at www.usccb.org/beliefsand-teachings/what-we-believe/catholic-social-teaching/two-feet-of-love-in-action.cfm Listening session with Bishop Daniel E. Flores Thursday, February 28, 2013 Our Lady of Guadalupe Church, Mission, Texas (Includes all parishes in the Mission Deanery) WritersÊ Workshop!Ê TakeÊ aÊ TripÊ IntoÊ theÊ WritingÊ LifeÊ withÊ JanÊ SealeÊ Saturday,Ê Feb.Ê 9,Ê 2013Ê Ê Ê Ê 9Ê a.m.Ê –Ê 3Ê p.m.Ê Harlingen Public Library Auditorium, 410 ‘76 Drive, Harlingen, TXÊ JanÊ SealeÊ CreativeÊ writingÊ teacher.Ê 2012Ê TexasÊ PoetÊ Laureate. authorÊ of books of poetry (7) short fiction (2) nonfiction (3). Ê TransportÊ yourselfÊ fromÊ creationÊ toÊ revelation.Ê LearnÊ . . . how to get started on a subject what it takes to keep going how to edit your work before other eyes see it ÿ keeping-on-keeping-onÿ Ê forÊ theÊ longÊ haul how to identify your particular subjects and your writing strengths how to shape your work Receive . . . specific guidelines for writing poetry, fiction, and nonfiction handouts, examples, exercises, and time for questions and answers networking and inspiration time with other writers JavaÊ Cafÿ Ê brown-bagÊ lunchÊ freeÊ ofÊ chargeÊ forÊ eachÊ registrantÊ RegistrationÊ fees: BylinersÊ membersÊ Ê -Ê $25 non-membersÊ -Ê $30 if paid before FebÊ 1st, $35Ê if paid at the door the day of the event studentsÊ withÊ aÊ highÊ schoolÊ orÊ collegeÊ I.D.Ê cardÊ -Ê $10. Make checks payable to Valley Byliners and mail before FebruaryÊ 1stÊ to: Valley Byliners, c/o Jose Alvarez, 130 Pizarro Ave., Rancho Viejo, TX 78575 More info at (956) 399-8505 8 diOcESE The Valley Catholic - February 2013 »Pilgrimages Close to Home By BRENDA NETTLES RIOJAS The Valley Catholic W ESLACO – Surrounded by the sounds of the black bellied whistling ducks, northern shovelers and other varieties feeding near the shallow ponds in Estero Llano Grande State Park in Weslaco, I was reminded the outdoors serve as a natural pilgrimage site. Sometimes all it takes to embark on a pilgrimage is a step into our own backyards. We don’t have to travel far to find an hour or more to sit in a garden or beneath a tree and spend time in prayer and silence. We might choose to travel a little further to the beach, a city park or one of the state parks or national wildlife refuges. The Rio Grande Valley is blessed with thousands of miles of natural habitat. In this New Year, as I continue on these pilgrimages close to home, I want to include the outdoors. During my first pilgrimage to Estero Llano Grande State Park, on a cold and cloudy day in January, the ducks weren’t complaining about the cold, so how could I. I went bundled and made it a point to sit in silence. Sitting still can be a challenge, but the natural rhythms of the wildlife in my midst created a perfect setting. Among the honey mesquites, Texas Ebonies and Huisache (Sweet Acacias), the kiskadees, ducks and even the alligators, I felt at peace. Blessed Pope John Paul II valued his time outdoors. “Whoever really wants to find himself,” he said during one of his vacations in the Dolomites mountains, “must learn to savor nature, whose charm is so intimately linked with the silence of contemplation. The rhythms of creation establish so many paths of extraordinary beauty, along which the sensitive and believing heart easily catches the echo of the mysterious, loftier beauty that is God Himself, the Creator, the source and life of all reality.” Msgr. Heberto Diaz, Jr., vicar general for the Diocese of Brownsville and pastor of St. Mary’s Church in Brownsville, said he finds peace outdoors and likes to pray in his garden. He said everyone needs to find their own “prayer space” and Go outdoors God created natural pilgrimage places “ Contemplating the beauty of creation inspires us to recognize the love of the Creator, that love which “moves the sun and the stars.” Pope Benedict XVI The Valley Catholic ABOVe: Turtles sunbathe in a pond at estero Llano Grande state Park in Weslaco, a 230 plus-acre refuge which serves as one of nine sites for the World Birding center network. restoration efforts transformed an agricultural field into a wetlands environment for migratory and wintering ducks. rIGHT: A 12-foot alligator is among some of gators that live at estero Llano Grande state Park. some people find it outdoors. Msgr. Diaz, who vacations each year in national parks and served as a park ranger at Big Bend National Park in the 1980s, said he encourages his parishioners, as part of establishing a discipline of prayer, to set aside a space. He added, “There are so many beautiful, natural places that God created. To me these are natural pilgrimage places,” he said. Msgr. Diaz said as one observes the natural beauty of the outdoors, “each tree, each branch, you can’t help but think, ‘God’s hand was in this.’” One of his favorite spots is Emerald Lake in Rocky Mountain National Park (in Colorado). “I like to go on early morning hikes to be the first one there (Emerald Lake) to be in a quiet space by myself with God.” Pope Benedict XVI in 2011 after a midday Angelus, talked about nature as a “magnificent gift that presents to us the grandeur of the creator.” “Contemplating the beauty of creation inspires us to recognize the love of the Creator, that love which “moves the sun and the stars,” he said in his message for World Day of Peace in 2010. Closer to home, I returned to Estero Llano Grande on a sunnier day and enjoyed the visit as much as the birds and ducks relished their chance to leave their shelters and hunt for food. Estero Llano Grande State Park is one of the nine locations for the World Birding Center. The World Birding Center in the Rio Grande Valley features nine sites from South Padre Island to Roma. As a migration corridor, more than 500 bird species have been recorded in the four-county area. The centers include, BentsenRio Grande Valley State Park in Mission, Edinburg Scenic Wetlands, Estero Llano Grande (Weslaco), Harlingen Arroyo Colorado, Old Hidalgo Pumphouse, Quinta Mazatlan (McAllen), Resaca de la Palma (Brownsville), Roma Bluffs and South Padre Island Birding and Nature Center. The state parks and national wildlife refuges draw birders from around the world. Some days can get busy, but even on a busy day visitors can find some quiet near one of the ponds or trails. Estero Llano Grande, which sits on 176 acres, has more than five miles of hiking trails. The shadier spots are near the Alligator Lake. There are also some nice sitting areas near the butterfly gardens. Susan Keefer, a volunteer at Estero Llano Grande from Vermont, said the stillness in nature energizes her. “It charges me.” She and her husband who retired 15 years ago started coming south when they started following the migration of the birds. “We became a migratory species,” she said. Keefer and her husband lead educational programs at the park and have led them as well in Maine where they volunteer during summer months. One of the lessons she teaches students is to stop and sit still. “Magic moments,” she said, those moments when a butterfly will rest on your shoulder or a bird will approach to eat nearby, “only come when you stop.” As I attempt to visit each of the state parks and national wildlife refuges in the Valley this year, I am thankful for the inspiration the Lord provided in January as I sat and hiked at Estero Llano Grande, “the wet place on the big plain.” HOW TO GeT THere Address: 3301 s. International Blvd. (f.M. 1015), Weslaco Directions: from expressway 83 exit f.M. 1015/International Boulevard and take f.M. 1015 south for two miles. Look for the brick park entrance sign on the left side of the road. Hours: 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., daily Admission: Adults, $4 ; children, free February 2013 - The Valley Catholic diOcESE Those Who Serve: »Birthday Wishes deacon Roberto cantu He pays attention to detail Deacon reaches out to parishioners, finds gratification in ministry By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic MERCEDES – Every morning, Deacon Roberto Cantu of Our Lady of Mercy Church picks up the telephone and calls parishioners to wish them a happy birthday. It’s a simple, but powerful gesture, said Diana Enriquez, secretary of Our Lady of Mercy Church. “Many of us wish people happy birthday on Facebook, which takes just a few seconds, but he takes the time to call everyone personally,” Enriquez said. “He calls them one at a time; he asks them how they are doing. “It’s a beautiful ministry that he has. It gives people joy on their birthday, especially those who don’t have anyone else to wish them a happy birthday.” It is Deacon Cantu’s attention to detail and his willingness to serve that make him a good spiritual leader, said Sylvia Bernal, a member of the parish council at Our Lady of Mercy Church. “He puts a lot of thought and effort into every funeral, every wedding, every quinceañera, every visit that he makes to the sick,” Bernal said. “He makes it a practice to make everybody feel important.” Born in Robstown, Deacon Cantu, 74, moved to Mercedes as a baby and was raised there. He Celibacy, continued from pg. 5 ing in him the love of God for all humanity. The Apostle Paul in the first letter to the Corinthians says: “But I say to the unmarried and to widows that it is good for them if they remain even as I” (1 Cor 7:8). “But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried The Valley Catholic Deacon roberto cantu of Our Lady of Mercy Parish in Mercedes regularly calls parishioners and his brother deacons from around the diocese on their birthdays. “He makes it a practice to make everybody feel important,” said sylvia Bernal, a member of the parish council at Our Lady of Mercy church. was ordained to the permanent diaconate on May 12, 1990 and has served the faithful of Mercedes since then, with assignments at both Our Lady of Mercy Church and at Sacred Heart Church. For the last five years, he has been assigned to Our Lady of Mercy Church. “I’m pretty sure he knows everyone in town and everyone knows him,” Enriquez said. “He knows the families, their histories, where they live. He knows all the streets in Mercedes, all the neighborhoods.” Deacon Cantu was a catechist and an active parishioner when he entered the diaconate formation program as a way to strengthen his faith and ministry. He wanted to be able to share the Catholic faith with more knowledge and in greater detail. “For me, there was no lightning bolt, no thunder,” Deacon Cantu said. “I experienced a radical change in 1967 through the Cursillo Movement and from that moment on, my life changed and my faith has strengthened steadily.” Deacon Cantu said he didn’t know what to expect when he was first ordained, “but it has been so much more than I could have ever imagined.” He said, “It has been very fulfilling. Being there for people in their time of need — you may not be able to solve all their problems — but you’re there. You can pray for them, pray with them, pray through them, and it’s very gratifying.” is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, and his interests are divided” (1 Cor 7:32-34). of God, and wants to please him. The priest, in order to fully devote and exercise his ministerial work, should be free from the worries that having a family entails. The Church professes and believes that priestly celibacy is a gift from God, given to a few. The source of celibacy sprouts from a special experience of God who enters into the life of some man or woman. God leaves in them a mark so deep that enables their hearts to leave everything The fundamental principle of celibacy is that it is impossible and incompatible to serve both God and family. The one who has embraced celibacy is concerned and dedicated solely to the things Deacon Cantu also implemented a cross-referencing computer index to carefully track the sacramental registers for the 104-yearold parish, whose boundaries once encompassed the present parishes of La Feria, Harlingen and Raymondville and along old Military Highway from Progreso to Las Rucias. The index has made it much easier to locate records, Enriquez noted. Father Jean Olivier M. Sambu, who has served as pastor of Our Lady of Mercy Church since July 2012, was a seminarian when he first met Deacon Cantu in the late 1980s and considers him a good friend. “This is a man I can count on, a man who is ready to serve at any time,” Father Sambu said. “I couldn’t ask for a better deacon.” In addition to his duties at the parish, Deacon Cantu also serves as a liaison between the deacons in the diocese and Father Edouard Atangana, the director of permanent deacons. Deacon Cantu keeps in contact with the 92 other deacons in the diocese and their wives by phone and email and provides briefings to Father Atangana. Deacon Cantu calls each permanent deacon about three times a year, on their birthdays and if they are married, on their wife’s birthday and on their wedding anniversary. He also calls or visits as needed, such as when a deacon is ill or is dealing with a death in the family. Deacon Cantu and his wife, Rosa Lilia, recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. They have four children, 11 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. behind and give up everything to follow, in love, the example of Jesus Christ. Celibacy is the fruit of a deep faith, infused in special people, who are chosen by God to this vocation. The reasons given above lead us to conclude the Church and the world need celibate priests. — Father Manuel Alfredo Razo Canales, STL, is the parochial vicar of St. Luke Church in Brownsville. 9 The list of birthdays and ordination anniversaries is provided so that parishioners may remember the priests, deacons and religious in their prayers and send them a note or a card. February » birthdays 2 Rev. Mishael Koday 3 Rev. Thomas Pincelli 11 Rev. Gustavo Obando 16 Rev. James Pfeifer, OMI 19 Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Pena 26 Rev. Juan Victor Heredia 26 Rev. Thomas G. Kulleck 2 Sister Mary N. Vincelli, CSJ 14 Bro. David Concannon,CFC 23 Sister Frances Salinas 8 Deacon Amado Pena, Jr. 11 Deacon Gilberto Perez 13 Deacon Hugo De La Cruz 15 Deacon George M. Terrazos 17 Deacon Hector Perez 18 Deacon Pedro Sanchez 22 Deacon Alvino Olvera » anniversaries 2 8 11 15 23 25 Rev. Juan Victor Heredia Rev. Gnanaraj Michael Msgr. Robert Davola Rev. Patrick Seitz Rev. Gerard Barrett, OMI Rev. Marco A. Reynoso March » birthdays 2 6 7 9 10 24 25 26 29 Rev. Eduardo Ortega Rev. Timothy Paulsen, OMI Rev. Salvador Ramirez Rev. Manuel Alfredo Razo Rev. Rodolfo Franco Rev. Vicente Azcoiti Msgr. Patrick Doherty Msgr. Pasquale Lanese, OMI Rev. Gerald Frank 6 17 21 23 30 Sister Dorothy Carey, SHSp Sister Patricia DeBlieck, CSJ Sister Mary Sardinha, SSD Sister Zita Telkamp, CDP Sister Therese Corkery, PBVM 2 9 9 16 21 Deacon Gerardo J. Rosa Deacon Jose G. Garza Deacon Manuel Sanchez Deacon Salvador Rojas Deacon Daniel Zamora » anniversaries 5 Rev. Francisco Castillo 19 Rev. Jose E. Losoya, CO 10 in THE nEWS The Valley Catholic - February 2013 Minister of the sacraments Pope baptizes babies, reminds godparents of role San Antonio auxiliary bishop to serve in Las Cruces, n.M. Houston native succeeds Bishop Ricardo Ramirez Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY — The Sistine Chapel sounded a bit like a nursery Jan. 13, as Pope Benedict XVI baptized 20 babies, whose crying provided a constant accompaniment to the two-hour Mass on the feast of the Baptism of the Lord. Referring to the day’s reading from the Gospel St. Luke, which recounts the baptism of Jesus by St. John the Baptist, Pope Benedict said that in choosing to receive the sacrament, Jesus showed he “was really immersed in our human condition; he lived it to the utmost — although without sin — and in such a way that he understands weakness and fragility.” The pope told the parents that their children’s baptism would bring them into a “personal relationship with Jesus” that would give their lives meaning: “Only in this friendship is the great potential of the human condition truly revealed and we can experience what is beautiful and what is free.” Reminding the godparents of their duty to assist parents in raising their godchildren in the faith, Pope Benedict noted that “it is not easy to demonstrate what you believe in openly and without compromise, especially in the context in which we live, in the face of a society that often Catholic News Service L’Osservatore Romano via Reuters Pope Benedict XVI baptizes a baby during a Mass in the sistine chapel at the Vatican Jan. 13. The pope baptized 20 babies as he celebrated the feast of the Baptism of the Lord. The pope told parents that baptism would bring their child into a “personal relationship with Jesus” that would give their lives meaning. considers those who live by faith in Jesus to be old-fashioned and out of date.” Contrary to a widespread view that Christianity is “detrimental to personal fulfillment,” the pope said, faith in Jesus frees us from egoism and “keeps us from being turned in on ourselves, in order to lead a full life, in communion with God and open to others.” As the chief shepherd of the Catholic Church, the pope plays many roles, among them minister of the sacraments. The babies whom the pope baptizes in the annual January rite usually are the children of Vatican employees, as was the case this year. The pope also traditionally administers the sacraments of Christian initiation — baptism, confirmation and first Communion — to a group of adult converts in St. Peter’s Basilica on Holy Saturday every year. He is also scheduled to confer the Sacrament of Confirmation on a group in Rome on April 28 of this year, one of the events organized for the Year of Faith. Pope Benedict ordains priests in St. Peter’s Basilica every year on the World Day of Prayer for Vocations, Good Shepherd Sunday, which will be April 21 this year. Since his election as pope, he has also ordained 22 bishops. LMMM Valley No. 1 LMMM Valley No. 2 2200 N. 10th St. Suite C (956) 630 2330 Mc Allen, Tx. 78505 806 S. Cage Blvd (956) 283 0995 Pharr, Tx. 78577 LMMM Valley No. 3 LMMM Valley No. 4 902 West Harrison Av. (956) 425 7018 Harlingen, Tx. 78550 3001 E. Expressway 83 (956) 968 8685 Weslaco, Tx. 78596 LMMM Valley No. 5 LMMM Valley No. 7 1627 Price Road (956) 546 7255 Brownsville, Tx. 78521 305 E. University Dr. (956) 386 1383 Edinburg, Tx. 78539 LMMM Valley No. 8 770 W. Elizabeth St. (956) 544 4806 Brownsville, Tx. 78520 “ La original y auténtica de las carnes marinadas” WASHINGTON — Pope Benedict XVI has accepted the resignation of Bishop Ricardo Ramirez of Las Cruces, N.M., and named as his successor Auxiliary Bishop Oscar Cantu of San Antonio. The changes were announced in Washington Jan. 10 by Archbishop Carlo Maria Vigano, apostolic nuncio to the United States. The Diocese of Las Cruces was established in 1982 and Bishop Ramirez, now 76, was named its first bishop. Canon law requires bishops to submit their resignations when they turn 75. Bishop Cantu, 46, has been an auxiliary bishop in San Antonio since 2008. At the time of his appointment, he was the youngest bishop in the U.S. “I am humbled that the Holy Father would appoint me to lead a beautiful diocese in a state that I am not terribly familiar with,” said Bishop Cantu, the son of Mexican immigrant parents. “There is a deep sense of ‘being sent’ — sent, as the apostles were by Christ, to announce the good news of the Gospel to the four corners of the earth.” A Houston native, Bishop Cantu received his bachelor’s degree in English from the University of Dallas and two master’s de- grees from the University of St. Thomas in Houston. He was ordained a priest of the Diocese of Galveston-Houston in 1994. Ten years later, the diocese was made an archdiocese. He did graduate studies in theology at the Pontifical North American College in Rome 1998-2002. He was administraBISHOP CANTU tor of the Archdiocese of San Antonio between the departure of Archbishop Jose H. Gomez to the Archdiocese of Los Angeles and the installation of Archbishop Gustavo GarciaSiller. In 2008, Bishop Cantu took part in a “torch run” to honor Our Lady of Guadalupe. He said the runners would meet with groups supporting immigration reforms during their journey to New York. In 2010, Bishop Cantu was one of three U.S. bishops to visit Cuba to see how the island nation was recovering from three hurricanes that had hit it the year before, and to press for further easing of restrictions on Cuba Archbishop Siller in a statement expressed “heartfelt joy” over his auxiliary’s appointment but said he will miss “his constant presence, valued friendship and the tireless collaboration we shared in our ministry.” February 2013 nOTiciAS En ESpAñOL - The Valley Catholic Toma el reto de la cuaresma Temporada penitencial es oportunidad para profundizar vida espiritual Por ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic BROWNSVILLE — “Cada año, me reto a mí y a mi congregación a mirar más profundamente durante la Cuaresma,” dijo el Padre Thomas Pincelli, pastor de la capilla Nuestra Señora del Buen Consejo en Brownsville. “La Cuaresma no se trata de lo que te han dicho que hagas, sino de lo que Dios quiere que hagas.” La Cuaresma, que empieza el miércoles 13 de febrero, es una temporada penitencial durante la cual tratamos de profundizar nuestra vida espiritual al reconocer nuestros pecados y actuar de una forma que nos ayude a vivir con propósito como fieles Cristianos. Muchos Católicos, edades 14-60, en los Estados Unidos se abstienen de comer carne el Miércoles de Ceniza y los viernes de Cuaresma. Algunas veces los fieles también ayunan los Miércoles de Ceniza y el Viernes Santo, de acuerdo con el Código de la Ley Canónica. Muchos Católicos adicionalmente eligen “renunciar” a algo The Valley Catholic Miércoles 13 de febrero inicia la cuaresma con la imposición de la ceniza sobre la frente de los católicos. “Porque eres polvo y al polvo volverás”(Génesis 3,19). en la Cuaresma. Todo esto se hace para ser solidarios con Jesús, que ayuno por 40 días en el desierto. “La Iglesia se une todos los años, durante los cuarenta días de la Gran Cuaresma, al Misterio de Jesús en el desierto.” señala el Catecismo. Además de seguir las reglas prescritas para el ayuno y abstinencia y “renunciar” a algo, el Padre Pincelli, nos desafía a llevar nuestros sacrificios de Cuaresma un paso adelante. Él nos reta a superar la tendencia a, “hacer lo que estamos programados a hacer durante la Cuaresma.” “Renunciar a algo puede hacer una diferencia, pero pienso que tenemos que ver lo que en general nos está pidiendo el Evangelio que hagamos,” dijo el Padre Pincelli. “Tenemos que ver nuestra vida honestamente e identificar esas áreas que necesitan el mayor tiempo y esfuerzo— y aceptar el reto. “Pienso que es igual de importante ver los pequeños detalles y llegar al fondo de esos importantes valores y elementos principales con los que aún estamos batallando.” Evitar esos temas nos impide sentirnos tan plenos como es posible, añadió el Padre Pincelli. “Si tenemos dificultades dentro de nuestro núcleo familiar o con amigos o compañeros de trabajo, por ejemplo, enfócate en eso,” él dijo. “Has eso tu sacrificio. Trata de desarrollar paciencia, entendimiento y com- pasión. Vuélvete más generoso, más abierto, sabiamente Cristiano, involucra a personas en tu vida. Sé más hospitalario.” La Iglesia le pide a todos los Católicos el preservar el carácter Católico y el propósito de la Cuaresma a través de las normas de ayuno y abstinencia y ese aspecto en común es positivo, dijo el Padre Pincelli. Él señaló, sin embargo, que el camino Cuaresmal de cada persona debe de ser individual y único.” “Es nuestro crecimiento personal,” añadió. “Requiere nuestro compromiso personal, nuestra introspección, nuestro deseo personal, para hacer que las cosas sean lo mejor que puedan ser.” Has de la Cuaresma una experiencia más significativa • Toma el tiempo para pensar, reflexionar, toma tiempo para rezar, tal vez para pasar un tiempo extra en la iglesia pidiéndole a Dios Su ayuda para discernir lo que necesitas hacer esta temporada de cuaresma y hacer el compromiso para hacerlo. • Lee las escrituras del Misal diariamente. Reflexiona en ellas y observa cómo tocan tu vida. Trata de encontrar ese pasaje que te habla directamente de una lectura en particular. • En oración, enfócate en lo que Dios te está diciendo en ese momento. ¿Qué quiere Él que mires? ¿Qué quiere Él que cambies? ¿Qué quiere Él que seas? 11 El Papa: Sólo aceptar a Cristo llena el corazón humano ACI/EWTN Noticias VATICANO – El Papa Benedicto XVI aseguró que “lo que llena verdaderamente el corazón humano” es aceptar “el don de la fe y la esperanza en Cristo”. En su saludo a los peregrinos de lengua española tras culminar el rezo del Ángelus, en la Plaza de San Pedro, el Santo Padre recordó que el Evangelio del 20 de enero “nos habla de las bodas de Caná, donde Jesús realizó el primer signo de su misión en el mundo”. “Él viene a colmar con su don la plena salvación del hombre, que por sí solo no puede alcanzar”. El Papa también pidió hoy por “el don de la unidad de los cristianos”. “Y, como en aquellas bodas, María nos indica el camino para que Dios entre en nuestra vida: ‘Haced lo que Jesús os diga’”. “Hagamos confiadamente cada día lo que dice nuestra Madre del cielo. Feliz domingo”, concluyó. nOTiciAS En ESpAñOL 12 The Valley Catholic - February 2013 »La Alegría de Vivir L Tierra de sueños rotos as políticas actuales de inmigración, enfocadas solamente a en forzamiento de nuestra frontera, han forzado a más de once millones de inmigrantes indocumentados a vivir en un mundo constreñido, encerrados por el temor y por la falta acceso a las oportunidades, un submundo que no permite a estudiantes talentosos el continuar sus carreras, donde los padres muchas veces tienen que abstenerse de la mas básica de las necesidades, proveer comida para sus hijos, si es que tienen que llevarlos a un médico por razones de emergencia. Vivir en esa atmosfera de temor les impide incluso llamar a la policía si es que presencian algún delito pues temen a las consecuencias. Esa situación se presta a la explotación de los trabajadores, ya que pueden ser intimidados y obligados a callar los abusos que sufren. Individuos en esta situación sufren la incertidumbre de no tener una manera de legalizar su estatus, se ven impedidos de contribuir en su total potencial como integrantes cívicos de nuestra sociedad. La inhabilidad de nuestro gobierno de tener una reforma comprensiva de inmigración previene a millones de personas a contribuir con sus talentos a nuestra sociedad, les impide alcanzar sus metas y ha volteado de cabeza el concepto del sueño americano. Al mantener a millones de personas como ciudadanos de segunda debido a los excluyentes y exhaustivos pasos del proceso de inmigración actual, se ignoran gravemente dos realidades relativas a la inmigración y a los inmigrantes: primero, que estos individuos quebrantando la ley Msgr. Juan Nicolau Párroco, Iglesia de Nuestra Señora del Perpetuo Socorro en McAllen son en realidad familias que vinieron a este país porque sentían que no tenían otra opción, padres de familia que solo querían asegurar para sus hijos una mejor vida y la garantía de una educación de calidad y jóvenes que llegaron siendo muy niños o incluso bebés. Y segundo, de acuerdo al Pew Hispanic Center, ahora hay menos inmigrantes viviendo indocumentados en los Estados Unidos que hace cuatro años, y son bastante menos los que entran al país anualmente comparados con la década anterior, lo que significa que los esfuerzos por reforzar la frontera están trabajando. Pero en realidad no se está combatiendo el verdadero problema, se necesita abordar el tema de las obsoletas políticas de inmigración que continúan forzando a miembros de nuestra sociedad a vivir en las sombras y perdiendo poco a poco la dignidad de su humanidad. Las historias de niños sin seguro básico de salud, o de los sueños truncados de jóvenes estudiantes, son demasiado comunes en el valle del Rio Grande y para la comunidad inmigrante son señales del fracaso de esta nación al no alcanzar una comprensiva de la ley de inmigración. Dicha reforma debe tener dos partes, primero debe establecer un proceso por el cual los inmigrantes puedan entrar a nuestro país, y segundo, debe reconocer a los millones de inmigrantes que desde hace muchos años viven en nuestro país y proveer un sistema para su legalización. Para lograr dichos cambios los legisladores deben pasar leyes que permitan el canalizar recursos para mejorar las condiciones económicas de los países de origen de los inmigrantes, además de aumentar la cuota del número de inmigrantes permitidos a ingresar por año para trabajar en nuestro país. A la par de todo lo anterior, los legisladores tienen que reconocer a los millones de personas que están viviendo aquí sin la documentación necesaria, y crear un proceso dentro del sistema de inmigración para que dichos individuos puedan regularizar su papelería y lograr legalizar su estancia, teniendo un camino incluso para la ciudadanía si es que cumplen todos los requisitos necesarios. Nuestros legisladores deben encontrar la forma para sacar del limbo legal a tantos millones de seres humanos a los que se les priva de sus derechos por no tener papeles. Como residentes del Valle del Rio Grande nosotros estamos en las trincheras, o en la primera línea, en el debate de inmigración, y es nuestra responsabilidad educarnos acercas de la realidad para exigir de nuestros representantes en el capitolio a lograr una reforma humanitaria y comprensiva de inmigración, y cuando llegue el momento de las elecciones: votar, pues solo nuestro voto podrá lograr los cambios. — Mons. Juan Nicolau, Ph.D. STL Párroco de la iglesia de Nuestra Señora del Perpetuo Socorro. Presidente del equipo de acción sobre inmigración de Valley Interfaith. Es psicoterapeuta familiar y consejero profesional. Retiro para matrimonios programada para el 9 de febrero Por IRVING TAPIA The Valley Catholic SAN JUAN — Diacono Juan Pablo Navarro, Socorro Navarro y el equipo de coordinadores de Alianza Misionera Apostólica (AMA) extienden una invitación a todo matrimonio para participar en un retiro titulado, “Unidos Bajo La Unción Del Espíritu Santo.” El evento se llevará a cabo el sábado 9 de febrero de las 2 pm. a las 9 pm. y el domingo 10 de febrero de las 10 am. a la 1 pm. en el salón Bishop Marx en San Juan. “La familia es la comunidad en la que, desde la infancia, se pueden aprender los valores morales, se comienza a honrar a Dios y a usar bien de la libertad. La vida de familia es iniciación a la vida en sociedad” (Catecismo de la Iglesia Católica 2207). “Los matrimonios ungidos por el Espíritu Santo por consecuencia son más felices y dirigen mejor a sus familias,” agrega Diacono Navarro. Es por eso que AMA, una misión oficial de la Diócesis de Brownsville enfocada en ayudar familias, ha organizado el evento e igual como re- spuesta al “Año de la Fe.” En su carta Apostólica “Porta Fidei” dirigida a todo Cristiano, el Papa Benedicto XVI explica uno de los objetivos este primer año es “volver a descubrir, cultivar y testimoniar el don de la fe”. Abre la Puerta a la Fe (Hechos 14:27), el tema para el Año de la Fe, inicio el 11 de Octubre 2012 y concluye el 24 de noviembre de 2013. Para más información sobre el retiro para matrimonios comuníquese con Socorro Navarro al (956) 372-9466. o (956) 838-1217. Abra cuidado de niños. »Vida Familiar Los diez mandamientos del amor E s una maravilla recordar que los Diez Mandamientos han estado con nosotros por cientos de años antes del tiempo de Cristo. (Académicos especulan que 600-1200 años atrás) Y como acabamos de empezar el año 2013 A.D. (Ano Domini- Año de nuestro Señor) la revelación de Dios a Moisés quien trajo las tablas del Monte Sinaí pudo haber pasado hace alrededor de 3,000 años atrás. En Éxodo 32:15-16 escuchamos: “Moisés volvió y bajó del cerro. Traía, las dos tablas de Declaraciones divinas en que las leyes estaban escritas a grabadas por ambos lados. Las tablas eran obra de Dios, como también la escritura era la escritura de Dios, grabada sobre ellas.” Yo creo que hay muchas formas de ver estas valiosas guías para la vida. Un escritor dijo que para aquellos pertenecientes a la tradición Judeo-Cristiana, “los Diez Mandamientos se refieren solamente a asuntos de fundamental importancia: la mayor obligación (adorar solamente a Dios), el mayor daño a una persona (asesinato), el mayor daño a los lazos familiares (adulterio), el mayor daño a los negocios y las leyes (levantar falso testimonio), la mayor obligación intergeneracional (honrar a los padres), la mayor obligación a la comunidad (la verdad), el mayor daño a la propiedad movible (robo).” Es asombroso pensar que los Diez Mandamientos se aplican a nosotros hoy en día como hace miles de años. En nuestra sociedad tecnológica actual, algo que salió el año pasado puede incluso parecer viejo, especialmente a los niños y jóvenes que viven en un mundo en donde los celulares que estaban de moda el año pasado son anticuados hoy. Tal vez para algunos, especialmente los jóvenes, los Diez Mandamientos no solamente son anticuados pero también irrelevantes para el vivir diario. Y tal vez algunos pueden verlo como negativo en un mundo en el que “no” o “no deberás” se considera ofensivo. Pero cada “no” tiene un “si”; cada negativo tiene un positivo. En la gran sabiduría de Dios, Él nos ha enseñado a través de los tiempos que Él ES AMOR y que Su gran AMOR nos crea, nos mantiene, nos enseña, y nos guía. Quizás podemos ver los Diez Mandamientos como los Diez Mandamientos de Amor. 1) Yo soy el Señor tu Dios. Deberás adorar al Señor tu Dios y solamente a Él servirás. Ama a Dios con todo tu corazón, con toda tu mente y con toda tu alma y Lydia Pesina Directora, Oficina de Vida Familiar sírvele a Él al amarlo y servir a tu familia y servir a los pobres. 2) No tomarás el nombre del Señor tu Dios en vano. Ama el poder que tienen tus palabras en otros y úsalo con sabiduría para honrar a Dios y no sobajar a otros. 3) Acuérdate del día de sábado para santificarlo. Ama la Liturgia Eucarística Dominical porque es de la mesa del Señor que recibimos los nutrientes necesarios para vivir nuestras vidas por la proclamación de la Palabra de Dios y por el Cuerpo y Sangre de Cristo en la Eucaristía. 4) Honra a tu padre y a tu madre. Ama a tu madre y a tu padre, o tu padrastro, padre adoptivo, abuelo y todos aquellos que no solamente te traen a la vida pero te mantienen en esta vida a través de comida, techo, sabiduría y guía. 5) No matarás. Ama y respeta la vida; la tuya y la de los demás, desde la creación hasta la muerte natural porque ellos pertenecen a Dios, el autor de la vida. 6) No cometerás adulterio. Amate a ti mismo y a tu cuerpo y mantenlo sano y santo y compártelo solo con tu conyugue. No permitas a la promiscuidad o la pornografía disminuir lo que eres. 7) No robarás. Ama lo que tienes y posees con un corazón agradecido; da lo que tienes generosamente; respeta y alégrate por lo que otros tienen y poseen. 8) No levantarás falso testimonio contra tu prójimo. Ama a tu prójimo como a ti mismo y alágalo con palabras que sean verdaderas y edificantes y corrige solamente con gentileza y humildad. 9) No codiciaras la mujer de tu prójimo. Ama a tu conyugue como Cristo amó a la Iglesia. Ama a tu conyugue diariamente como el día que se casaron para amarse, honrarse, disfrutarse, protegerse, guiarse y envejecer juntos. 10) No codiciaras la casa de tu prójimo. Ama contar tus bendiciones y que tus bendiciones y las de tus vecinos sean multiplicadas y compartidas con aquellos que las necesitan. Quizás el celular del año pasado es anticuado, pero los Diez Mandamientos están tan vigentes hoy como lo estuvieron hace algunos miles de años. Permitamos que las verdades de Dios nos guíen para aprender a amar de verdad. Conferencia en la Iglesia Santa Juana de Arco The Valley Catholic WESLACO – En el marco del Año de la Fe, la parroquia de Santa Juana de Arco en Weslaco invita a los fieles a su encuentro cuaresmal, Avivamiento 2013. Se llevará a cabo el sábado 9 de marzo a las 8:00 horas, en el salón parroquial de Santa Juana de Arco, 109 S. Illinois Ave. en Weslaco. El conferencista prin- cipal es Padre Pedro Nuñez de la arquidiócesis de Nueva Orleans, mejor conocido como el conductor de la programa, “Conozca Primero Su Fe Católica” que se transmite en EWTN, el canal Católico. Cooperación de $7 por persona. Para más información, llame al (956) 968-3670 ó (956) 4679960. February 2013 nOTiciAS En ESpAñOL 13 - The Valley Catholic Día Mundial del Matrimonio El Obispo Flores bendice parejas celebrando 25, 30, 40, 60 y más de 60 años de matrimonio Por ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic “La prima de mi mamá se casó con la tía de ella, así que nos hemos conocido todas nuestras vidas,” dijo Bernardino E. Méndez, quien celebra 25 años de matrimonio con su esposa, Olga Lydia, en el 2013. “Crecimos yendo a las mismas fiestas de cumpleaños, los mismos convivios, y las mismas celebraciones.” “No hace mucho, uno de nuestros parientes puso una foto en Facebook de cuando éramos niños y estábamos en la misma fiesta de cumpleaños,” dijo la Sra. Méndez. Un día, cuando eran adolescentes, montaron a caballo alrededor de su rancho al atardecer. Esto marcó el principio de su relación romántica. Los Méndez se casaron el 27 de mayo de 1988, en su ciudad natal Gómez Palacio en el estado mexicano de Durango. En la actualidad, tienen seis hijos de siete hasta los 23 años de edad. Los Méndez estarán dentro de las parejas celebrando aniversarios significativos en el Día Mundial del Matrimonio programado para el sábado 9 de febrero a las 2 p.m. en la Basílica de Nuestra Señora de San Juan del Valle- Santuario Nacional. El Obispo Daniel E. Flores celebrará Misa y reconocerá a las parejas, quienes celebran 25, 30, 40, 50 y más de 60 años de matrimonio en el 2013. El matrimonio más largo que participe será reconocido y recibirá una ben- Foto de cortesía Bernardino e. Méndez con su esposa, Olga L. Méndez estarán dentro de las parejas celebrando aniversarios en el Día Mundial del Matrimonio. el Día Mundial del Matrimonio se celebra alrededor del mundo el segundo fin de semana de febrero de cada año. dición especial del obispo. “La Celebración de la Misa del Día Mundial del Matrimonio en nuestra diócesis es una gran oportunidad para ver casi 300 matrimonios dar testimonio con su presencia de la santidad de la vida matrimonial y cómo Dios nos transforma a través de nuestro amor y vida y nos convierte en personas que aprenden a tratar de vivir un amor sacrificador como Jesús nos enseña,” dijo Lydia Pesina, directora de Family LIfe Office para la diócesis. El Día Mundial del Matrimonio se celebra alrededor del mundo el segundo fin de semana de febrero cada año, homenajeando y afirmando la vocación de las parejas casadas y realzando el impacto que un matrimonio fuerte tiene en la sociedad. Los Méndez, quienes viven ahora en McAllen, recordaron los primeros años de su cortejo. El Sr. Méndez había dejado México para ir a la universidad en USA, primero en Edinburg y luego en lo que ahora es la Universidad de Texas A&M –Kingsville. La pareja mantuvo su relación a larga distancia por meses antes de casarse. “Nos escribíamos cartas,” dijo la Sra. Méndez. “No había internet en aquel tiempo. Recuerdo emocionarme mucho al checar el correo para ver si había escrito.” “No tenía teléfono en mi departamento así que iba al teléfono público en la tienda de la esquina a llamarla,” dijo el Sr. Méndez. “Juntaba cinco dólares en monedas para poder hablar con ella por unos minutos.” Los Méndez, instructores en- trenados de la Planeación Natural de Familia (NFP), creen que el estilo de vida del NFP ha fortalecido su matrimonio. La Planeación Natural de Familia es una forma segura y saludable, aprobado por la Iglesia Católica, para que las parejas prevengan o logren el embarazo, sin usar medicamento, aparatos o formas artificiales. “Hoy en día la gente dice que ya no tienen química, pero con la Planeación Natural de Familia, la química va a estar ahí todo el tiempo porque es química de verdad,” dijo el Sr. Méndez. “Es química hormonal que está ocurriendo y el cuerpo del hombre va a percibir todas esas señales. Es una experiencia de unión verdadera.” Los Méndez dijeron que los secretos para su matrimonio duradero han sido Dios, respeto y perseverancia. “Respetarse mutuamente y poner al otro primero,” dijo la Sra. Méndez. “Entre más das, más recibes y será mejor para los dos. Tengan a Dios en sus vidas y recen antes de cada decisión que hagan como pareja.” El Sr. Méndez recuerda una conversación que tuvo con su madre antes de su boda. Cuando el Sr. Méndez era un niño, sus padres pasaron por un tiempo difícil y consideraron separarse, pero le aconsejó a su madre que no lo hiciera, diciéndole que el divorcio tendría un efecto negativo en él y en toda la familia. “Mi madre me recordó de la vez que, cuando era un niño, le dije que el matrimonio debía de ser para siempre y que el divorcio hace que toda la familia sufra,” dijo él. “Eso se ha quedado con migo a través de nuestro matrimonio. Tienes que mantener tu matrimonio, no importa lo que pase.” Para registrarse para la celebración del Día Mundial del Matrimonio en la Diócesis de Brownsville, favor de llamar al (956) 784-5012. Jefe de doctrina del Vaticano dice que la política en la que se ignora a Dios está destinada al fracaso Por CINDY WOODEN Catholic News Service ROMA — Los políticos que quieren actuar como si Dios no existiera y como si no hubiera cosas tales como verdades objetivas de moral están destinados al fracaso en sus esfuerzos para promover el bien común, dijo el presidente de la Congregación de la Doctrina de la Fe. “La política que se sigue hoy en día en Europa y Norteamérica que carece de fundamento ético, sin referirse a Dios, no puede resolver nuestros problemas, incluso los problemas del Mercado y del dinero”, dijo el arzobispo Gerhard L. Muller, prefecto de la Congregación de la Doctrina de la Fe. El arzobispo, coordinador del proyecto para publicar la obra completa de Joseph Ratzinger-papa Benedicto XVI, dijo que una de las enseñanzas clave del papa es la importancia de la fe y la razón que se desarrollan en forma paralela, mano a mano. En una alocución del 11 de enero, en la librería del Vaticano, en el Centro de Roma, el arzobispo Muller dijo: “La fe y la razón son como dos personas que se aman cns/nancy Wiechec esta Biblia con cubierta de terciopelo fue usada por Abraham Lincoln al presentar juramento como presidente de los estados Unidos en 1861. conocida como “Biblia de Lincoln” pertenece a la división de colecciones de libros raros y especiales de la Biblioteca del congreso. el presidente Barack Obama uso esta Biblia, en su instalación del 21 de enero, de la misma manera como lo hizo en 2009. una a la otra profundamente, que no pueden vivir una sin la otra, y que fueron hechas íntimamente una para la otra, y a tal grado que no se les puede considerar separadas una de la otra y no pueden lograr sus metas en forma separada”. E hizo una cita de un discurso del papa Benedicto XVI dirigido a los diplomáticos, el 7 de enero: “Es precisamente el olvido de Dios por parte de los humanos, y su falla en darle gloria, lo que da origen a la violencia. Y sin lugar a dudas, una vez que ya no hacemos referencia a una verdad objetiva y trascendente, ¿cómo será posible lograr un diálogo auténtico”? El arzobispo Muller dijo que en el tiempo preparatorio a las elecciones italianas él ha sabido que algunos políticos quieren que la Iglesia Católica “hable de amor, caridad y misericordia de Dios”; pero no insisten en que las ver- dades predicadas se mantengan. “¿Pero en dónde está el amor sin la verdad”? preguntó el arzobispo. El arzobispo hizo sus comentarios durante una corta presentación de su nuevo libro escrito en italiano, con el título de “Ampliare L’Orizzonte della Ragione. Per una Lettura di Joseph Ratzinger-Benedetto XVI” (“Ampliación del horizonte de la razón: Para una lectura de Joseph Ratzinger-Benedicto XVI”). En el libro, el arzobispo Muller enfatiza la importancia que el papa Benedicto le da a la necesidad de la fe y de la razón para apoyarse y purificarse mutuamente; la insistencia del papa en que el cristianismo es ante todo acerca de una relación con Jesucristo y no simplemente una aceptación de las normas y doctrina; y el papel principal que el estudio de la vida y obra de San Agustín ha tenido tanto en la teología del papa como en su ministerio. Durante la presentación, el arzobispo también subrayó qué tan profundamente el papa Benedicto cree que la liturgia, y especialmente la Misa, son partes centrales de la vida y el futuro de la Iglesia. Cada altar necesita un sacerdote Convocatoria Anual del Obispo lanzada en febrero Por ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic En el último fin de semana de febrero o el primer fin de semana de marzo, a los fieles del Valle del Río Grande se les pedirá participar en la Convocatoria Anual del Obispo. Este año, el tema de la convocatoria es, “Cada altar necesita un Sacerdote,” y los fondos beneficiaran a nuestros seminaristas en formación de la diócesis. “Sabemos que la fuerza espiritual de la Iglesia deriva del Sacrificio Euc ar íst ico celebrado diariamente en nuestras iglesias,” dijo el Obispo Daniel E. Flores. OBISPO FLORES “El Señor Jesús se ofrece al Padre por nosotros en el gran sacrificio de amor. Él nos alimenta en la Eucaristía con su propia entrega generosa. Este alimento que baja del cielo sostiene y fortalece la vida y actividad de la Iglesia.” Actualmente hay 25 seminaristas estudiando para el sacerdocio en varios seminarios a través del país, preparándose para servir 69 parroquias y 45 misiones in la Diócesis de Brownsville. Nuestra diócesis tiene una grave escasez de sacerdotes, con un sacerdote por cada 8, 376 Católicos, en comparación con el número nacional de un sacerdote por cada 1, 640 Católicos. Mientras el creciente número de vocaciones al sacerdocio es muy positivo para la diócesis, cuesta, en promedio, $30,000 al año, por seminarista para educar a un futuro sacerdote. Una vez que un hombre es aceptado como seminarista, el costo del cuarto, la comida y la matricula asociados con el seminario son pagados por la diócesis. La diócesis además cubre el seguro médico del seminarista y le ayuda con el costo de los libros y otros gastos. “Por lo tanto, se puede apreciar que se requiere una inversión monetaria considerable para proporcionar la formación y educación adecuada a nuestros futuros sacerdotes,” dijo el Obispo Flores. “Les pido a todas nuestras parroquias que participen en la Campaña Anual del Obispo 2013, y a todo el Pueblo de Dios que den lo que puedan para apoyar nuestro programa de formación en el seminario.” Un breve video delineando la convocatoria del obispo será presentado durante todas las Misas de feb. 23-24 o marzo 2-3. También se le ha pedido a cada sacerdote compartir la historia de su vocación. Nuestra diócesis tiene seminaristas y sacerdotes de todas las edades, de todos los caminos de la vida y de todas las orillas del mundo. “La idea es no sólo presentar a los seminaristas pero también compartir el camino hacia el sacerdocio, para escuchar cómo nuestros seminaristas y sacerdotes son llamados a servir,” dijo Rosie Rodríguez, directora de desarrollo para la diócesis. 14 diOcESE The Valley Catholic - February 2013 »Peregrinaje cerca de casa Dios creó lugares naturales de peregrinación Ve al exterior Por BRENDA NETTLES RIOJAS The Valley Catholic W ESLACO – Rodeada por el sonido de los patos de velo negro, patos cucharos y otras variedades alimentándose cerca de los estanques en el Parque Estatal Estero Llano Grande, en Weslaco, recordé que el exterior sirve como un lugar de peregrinación natural. Algunas veces todo lo que se necesita para iniciar un peregrinaje es ir a nuestro patio. No tenemos que viajar lejos para encontrar una hora o más y sentarnos en el jardín o debajo de un árbol a pasar tiempo en oración o en silencio. En ocasiones podemos elegir viajar un poco más lejos a la playa, un parque local o un parque estatal de refugio nacional para animales. El Valle del Río Grande esta bendecido con miles de millas de hábitat natural. En este año nuevo, mientras continúo con estos peregrinajes cerca de casa, quiero incluir el exterior. Durante mi primer peregrinaje al Parque Estatal Estero Llano Grande, en un día frío y nublado de enero, los patos no se quejaban del frío, así que porque me quejaría yo. Fui equipada y con el propósito de sentarme en silencio. Sentarse en silencio puede ser un reto, pero el ritmo natural de la vida silvestre a mi alrededor creó el escenario perfecto. Entre los mezquites de miel, los ébanos y huisaches, los pecho amarillos, patos e incluso el lagarto, me sentí en armonía. El Santo Papa Juan Pablo II apreciaba el exterior. “Quien quiere verdaderamente encontrarse a sí mismo,” dijo durante una de sus vacaciones a las montañas Dolomitas, “debe aprender a gustar de la naturaleza, cuyo encanto se relaciona mediante íntima afinidad con el silencio de la contemplación. Las modulaciones de la creación constituyen otros tantos recorridos de belleza extraordinaria, a través de los cuales el ánimo sensible y creyente no se cansa de recibir el eco de la belleza misteriosa y superior, que es Dios mismo, el Creador, de quien toda realidad recibe su origen y vida.” Msgr. Heberto Díaz, Jr., vicario general para la Diócesis de Brownsville y pastor de la Iglesia Appeal, continued from p. 1 given to us in the Mass is the life and strength for each one of us. To support vocations to the priesthood is to support the vital source of spiritual strength that sustains each one of us.” There are currently 25 seminarians studying for the priesthood at various seminaries across the country, preparing to serve the 69 parishes and 45 missions in the Diocese of Brownsville. Our diocese has a severe shortage of priests with one priest for 8,376 Catholics versus the national figure The Valley Catholic Un papamoscas bermellón descansa por solo un momento durante el atardecer en el parque estatal estero Llano Grande en Weslaco . Un grupo de tortugas disfrutan del sol en un charco del parque estatal estero Llano Grande en Weslaco, alrededor de 230 acres sirve el santuario de aves como uno de los nueve sitios de la cadena World Birding center. Santa María en Brownsville, dijo que encuentra paz en el exterior y le gusta rezar afuera en su jardín. Dijo que todos necesitamos encontrar nuestro propio “espacio para rezar’ y algunos lo encuentran en el exterior. Msgr. Díaz, quien vacaciona cada año en parques nacionales y fue guardaparques en el Parque Nacional Big Bend en los 80s, dijo que anima a sus feligreses, como parte de la formación de una disciplina de oración, a apartar un espacio. Añadió, “Hay tantos hermosos lugares naturales que Dios creó. Para mí, estos son lugares naturales de peregrinación.” Msgr. Díaz dijo que mientras se observa la belleza natural del exterior, “en cada árbol, cada rama, no puedes evitar pensar, ‘la mano de Dios estuvo aquí.’” Uno de sus lugares favoritos es el Lago Esmeralda en el Parque Nacional Rocky Maountain (en Colorado). “Me gusta tomar caminatas temprano en la mañana para ser el primero en llegar (al Lago Esmeralda) para estar en un lugar callado, sólo con Dios.” El Papa Benedicto XVI en el 2011 después del Ángelus de mediodía, hablo sobre la naturaleza como “un regalo magnífico presente a nosotros por la grandeza del creador.” “Contemplar la belleza de la creación nos inspira a reconocer el amor del Creador, ese amor que “mueve el sol y las estrellas,” dijo en su mensaje para el Día Mundial de Paz en el 2010. Cerca de casa, regresé a Estero Llano Grande un día más soleado y disfruté mucho mi visita mientras los pájaros y los patos saboreaban su oportunidad para dejar sus refugios y cazar su comida. El Parque Estatal Estero Llano Grande es una de nueve locaciones para el Centro Mundial de Avistamiento de Aves. Dicho centro mundial en el Valle del Río Grande of one priest per 1,640 Catholics. While the growing number of vocations to the priesthood is a positive for the diocese, it costs about $30,000 per year, per seminarian to educate a future priest. Once a man is accepted as a seminarian, the room, board and tuition costs associated with the seminary are paid for by the diocese. The diocese additionally covers the seminarian’s health insurance and assists with the cost of books and other expenses. “Thus, you can see it requires a significant monetary investment to provide for the proper formation and education of our future priests,” Bishop Flores said. “I am asking all of our parishes to participate in this year’s appeal, and all of the faithful People of God to give what you can to support our seminary training programs.” A brief video outlining the bishop’s appeal will be shown during all Masses on Feb. 23-24 or March 2-3. Each priest has also been asked to share his vocation story. Our diocese has seminarians and priests of all ages, from all walks of life and from all corners of the world. “The idea is not only to introduce the seminarians but also to share the journey of the priesthood, to hear how our seminarians and priests were called to serve,” said Rosie Rodriguez, director of development for the diocese. Lent, continued from p. 1 incluye nueve lugares desde la Isla del Padre hasta Roma. Como corredor migratorio, más de 500 especies de pájaros han sido grabadas en un área de cuatro condados. Los centros incluyen, Parque Estatal del Valle del Río grandeBentsen, en Mission, Edinburg Scenic Wetlands, Estero Llano Grande (Weslaco), Harlingen Arroyo Colorado, Old Hidalgo Pumphouse, Quinta Mazatlán (McAllen), Resaca de la Palma (Brownsville), Roma Bluffs y el Centro South Padre Island Briding and Nature Center. Los parques estatales y los refugios nacionales de vida silvestre atraen a observadores de aves de alrededor del mundo. Algunos días pueden estar atareados, pero incluso en días concurridos los visitantes pueden encontrar calma cerca de alguno de los estanques o los senderos. Estero Llano Grande, situado en 176 acres, tiene más de cinco millas de senderos para caminata. Los espacios sombreados están cerca del lago de lagartos. También hay buenas áreas para sentarse cerca de los jardines de mariposas. Susan Keefer, una voluntaria de Vermont en Estero Llano Grande, dijo que la quietud de la naturaleza la energetiza. “Me carga.” Ella y su esposa quienes se retiraron hace 15 años, empezaron a venir al sur cuando empezaron a seguir la migración de los pájaros. “Nos volvimos especies migratorias,” dijo ella. Keefer y su esposo dirigen programas educacionales en el parque y los han dirigido también en Maine en donde son voluntarios durante los meses de verano. Una de las lecciones que enseña a estudiantes es el detenerse y quedarse quietos. “Momentos mágicos,” dice ella, esos momentos cuando una mariposa descansa en tu hombro o un pájaro se aproxima a comer cerca, “sólo ocurren cuando te detienes.” Mientras intento visitar cada uno de estos parques nacionales y refugios de vida silvestre en el Valle este año, me siento agradecida por la inspiración que el Señor me dio en Estero Llano Grande. cOMO LLeGAr Dirección: 3301 s. International Blvd. (f.M. 1015), Weslaco Indicación: Del expressway 83 tome la salida f.M. 1015/International Boulevard, en la calle f.M. 1015 maneje hacia el sur por dos millas, buscando el letrero de ladrillo a la entrada del parque a mano izquierda de la carretera. Horario: 8 a.m. - 5 p.m., diariamente costo: adultos, $4; niños gratis possibly could be, Father Pincelli added. “If we have difficulties within the context of our families or with friends or coworkers, for example, work on that,” he said. “Make that your sacrifice. Try to develop patience, understanding, and compassion. Become more generous, more outgoing Christian-wise, involve people in your life. Be more welcoming.” The Church asks all Catholics to preserve the penitential character and purpose of Lent through the rules for fasting and abstinence and that communal aspect is positive, Father Pincelli said. He pointed out, however, that each person’s Lenten journey should be individual and unique. “It’s our own personal growth,” he said. “It takes our own personal commitment, our own personal introspection, our own personal desire, to make things the best that they possibly can be.” Tips to make Lent a more meaningful experience: • Take the time to think, take the time to reflect, take the time to pray, maybe spend a little extra time in church just asking God to help you discern what you need to do this Lenten season and then make the commitment to do that. • Read the daily Mass scriptures. Reflect on them and see how they touch your life. Try to find that issue that speaks to you from those particular readings. • In prayer, focus on what God is saying to you at this particular point. What does he want you to look at? What does he want you to change? What does he want you to be about? OnLine For videos and photos some of the milestones in the life of the Church in the Rio Grande Valley and to listen to Bishop Daniel E. Flores’ homilies and presentations, visit the Diocese of Brownsville website at www.cdob.org February 2013 diOcESE 15 - The Valley Catholic »Media Resource Center » Calendar of events Recommended by SISTER MAUREEN CROSBY, SSD Coordinator of the Media Resource Center - Diocese of Brownsville »From the Bookshelf »Worth Watching What Is Temptation, really? Format:VHS Year of production:St. Anthony Messenger Press (1992) Length:27 minutes The facts: This video is the first of a four-part series that takes us through the Lenten journey. Host and author Father Michael Himes draws insights from Lenten Sunday liturgical readings to help us reflect on the implications of our baptismal faith. This series is good for anyone who wants to do something more for Lent. The First Valentine Format:VHS Starring: Jonathan Farwell, Kaleena Kiff Year of production: Envoy Productions (1989) Length:25 minutes The facts: This video presents the true story of St. Valentine, bishop and martyr. It reminds us that there really was a St. Valentine and that the holiday is not all chocolates and roses. In the story, a modern teenager meets a legendary saint. St. Valentine shows her what it means to love others as Jesus loves us and to receive that love in return. The Lenten Pharmacy: Daily Healing Therapies Length: 126 pages, paperback Author: Father Edward Hays Publication: Ave Maria Press (2006) The facts: Experience Lent in a whole new way with a daily trip to the Lenten Pharmacy. Written by Father Edward Hays, a priest of the Archdiocese of Kansas City, this book challenges us to get serious about observing Lent. As the book says, “some of these prescriptions will seem difficult or unpalatable, like bitter medicine, but all will lead to abundant life.” February Little Nellie of Holy God Length:31 pages, paperback Author: Sister Mary Dominic, RGS Illustrator: Sister M. John Vianney, SSND Publication: Tan Books (1961) ) The facts: Known as the Little Violet of the Blessed Sacrament, Nellie Organ (19031908) lived to be only four-and-a-half years old. In that time she demonstrated an incredible love for God and the Blessed Sacrament. This is a good book to introduce children to children saints. It is also a good reminder for all of us: that we shouldn’t take the Eucharist for granted. 2 Candlemass – The Presentation of the Lord Feast 2 Sponsor Couple Training II (Family Life Office) 2 KOC Youth Conference (Youth Ministry) 3 World Day for Consecrated Life (3 p.m. Mass at basilica) 5 Professional Day (Office of Catechesis) 9 World Marriage Day (Family Life Office) 9 Teen Sexuality & Relationship Retreat St, Paul Mission 13 Ash Wednesday 14 Valentine’s Day 14 Advisory Team Blessing, continued from p. 1 25, 30, 40, 50 and 60-plus years of marriage in 2013. The longest married couple in attendance will be recognized and receive a special blessing from the bishop. “The Celebration of Mass for World Marriage Day in our diocese is such a wonderful opportunity to see about 300 married couples witness by their presence the sacredness of married life and how God transforms us through our living and loving to become people who learn to strive to live self emptying love as Jesus teaches us,” said Lydia Pesina, director of the Family Life Office for the diocese. World Marriage Day is celebrated around the globe on the second weekend of February each year, honoring and affirming the vocation of married couples and highlighting the impact that a strong marriage has on society. The Mendezes, who now reside in McAllen, recalled the early days of their courtship. Mr. Mendez had left Mexico to attend college in the U.S., first in Edinburg and then at what is now Texas A&M University – Kingsville. The pair maintained their relationship long-distance for months before they married. “We wrote letters,” Mrs. Mendez said. “There was no Internet then. I remember being excited to check the mail to see if he had written.” “I didn’t have a phone in my apartment so I would go to the pay phone at the convenience store to call her,” Mr. Mendez said. “I would scrape up five dollars in change just so I could talk to her for a few minutes.” The Mendezes, who are trained Natural Family Planning (NFP) Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Peña’s Calendar Feb. 2 Confessions – OLS Knights of Columbus McAllen Feb. 2 4:30 p.m. Mass/St. Margaret Mary Church Pharr Feb. 3 9 a.m. Mass/St. Anne Pharr Feb. 4 – 6 All day NCCB Bioethics Workshop Dallas Feb. 8 7 p.m. Gala San Antonio Feb. 9 4:30 p.m. Mass/St. Margaret Mary Church Pharr Feb. 10 9 a.m. Pharr Feb. 20 – 23 All Day Feb. 25 -28 All Day Mass/St. Anne Church and pray before every decision you make as a couple.” Mr. Mendez recalls a conversation he had with his mother before his wedding. When Mr. Mendez was a boy, his parents went through a rough patch and considered splitting up, but he advised his mother against it, telling her a divorce would have a negative ripple effect on him and on the whole family. “My mother reminded me of the time that I, as a little boy, told her that marriage should be forever and that divorce causes the whole family to suffer,” he said. “That has stayed with me throughout our marriage. You have to stick with your marriage, no matter what happens.” To register for the World Marriage Day celebration in the Diocese of Brownsville, please call (956) 784-5012. The Pill, poses, the Pill is quite the opposite of health care — being, in fact, detrimental to women’s health — in light of its frequent side effects of weight gain, headaches, and depression, as well as its heightened and well-documented risk of thrombotic stroke, myocardial infarction (heart attack), and breast cancer. The International Agency for Research on Cancer, an arm of the World Health Organization, classifies hormonal contraception as a Group 1 carcinogen. When a married couple has a proportionately serious reason not to become pregnant — for example, when pregnancy itself would seriously threaten the woman’s life or health — they can opt for periodic abstinence during part of her cycle by assessing various indicators of fertility. This is sometimes referred to under the general heading of “Fertility Awareness Methods,” and offers a morally acceptable, safe and effective approach to spacing children. To sum up, then, the use of the Pill for medical (non-contraceptive) purposes requires a disciplined approach to the matter. Alternative medical therapies should be seriously considered, the great good of fertility should be respected, and unspoken sexual agendas should not be allowed to trump the duty to exercise moral responsibility and sound medical judgment. continued from p. 4 9:45 a.m. Talk - OLS Knights of Columbus 2 p.m. instructors, believe the NFP lifestyle has strengthened their marriage. Natural Family Planning is a safe and healthy Catholic-approved way for couples to prevent or achieve pregnancy that uses no drugs, devices or other artificial means. “Nowadays people say the chemistry is not there but with Natural Family Planning, the chemistry is going to be there all the time because it’s really chemistry,” Mr. Mendez said. “It’s a hormonal chemistry that is going on and the man’s body will perceive all those signs. It is a real bonding experience.” The Mendezes said the secrets to their lasting marriage have been God, respect and perseverance. “Respect each other and put the other one first,” Mrs. Mendez said. “The more you give, the more you will receive and it will be better for both of you. Have God in your life El Paso Confirmations (Pending) San Antonio 1st: Vocations to the Consecrated Life (active and contemplative) and for the On going: Sisters and Brothers in our diocese Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual and the success of their mission Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo 2nd: Vocations to the Permanent 8 a.m. Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Diaconate the deacons (permanent Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., and transitional) of the diocese and Alamo their families 3rd : Vocation to Married Life: for Every Tuesday: noon – 6 p.m. at the welfare and sanctification of all UTPA/Edinburg the families in the diocese and for building up the Kingdom in our Holy Hour will be held Weekly every domestic churches Thursday at 7 p.m., 727 Bowie St., 4th: Vocations to the priesthood Alamo and the priests of the diocese for the success of their ministry Every Sunday: 6 p.m. & 9 p.m. 5th: Vocations to the Pro-Life Confessions/Mass at UTPA-Edinburg Intentions the root cause of the problem. As Lili Cote de Bejarano, M.D., has noted: “For most of these conditions, the Pill is only treating the woman’s symptoms, while her underlying medical problem —the cause of the symptoms — remains unaddressed and undiagnosed.” Lines become further blurred when medical professionals start to insist that the Pill, taken purely to avoid pregnancy, is “health care.” It is not, in fact, health care, but a lifestyle decision. This lifestyle decision is frequently made in the midst of a cultural backdrop that encourages “neutered” sex in an endless array of forms, and sanctions the misguided view that “health” means we have the right to practice consensual indiscriminate sex without consequences. The Pill, when chosen strictly for these contraceptive purposes, fails the test of being healthcare because it does not heal or restore any broken system of the human body. On the contrary, it actually breaks a smoothly working system — the reproductive system — by disrupting the delicate balance of hormonal cycles regulating a woman’s reproductive well-being and fecundity. 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A classically-trained violinist from Roma, Mayne was selected as an Outstanding Soloist her freshman and sophomore years in high school at the Texas State Solo and Ensemble Contest. . She started playing when she was six years old. Before that she Commandments, continued from pg. 4 day. Love the Sunday Eucharistic Liturgy. It is from the Table of the Lord that we receive the nourishment we need to live our lives from the Proclamation of the Word of God and from the Body and Blood of Jesus in the Eucharist. 4) Honor your father and mother. Love your mother and your father, or your stepparent, adopted parent, grandparent and all those who not only bring you into life but sustain you in this life through food, shelter, wisdom, Courtesy photo samantha Mayne, a high school student at roma High school, plays the violin. she inspires to make a difference in the world, starting with her parish and the community of el sauz. “fame isn’t everything,” said Mayne. first learned to play the guitar and later the piano. Mayne said music has been a part of her life since before she was born. “My mother sang to and guidance.5) You shall not kill. Love and respect life; your own and everyone else’s from inception to natural death because they belong to God who is author of all life. 6) You shall not commit adultery. Love yourself and your body and keep it healthy and holy and share it only with your espoused. Do not allow promiscuity or pornography to diminish who you are. 7) You shall not steal. Love what you have and possess with a grateful heart; give generously of what you have; and respect and be happy for what others have and posses. 8) You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor. Love your neighbor as yourself and raise him up with words that are each of us in the womb.” Mireya Resendez of El Sauz, who took care of Mayne from the time she was three weeks old, said she remembers Mayne liked to true and uplifting and correct only with gentleness and humility. 9) You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife. Love your spouse as Christ loved the Church. Love your spouse everyday like the day you espoused them to love, honor, enjoy, protect, guide and grow old with. 10) You shall not covet your neighbor’s goods. Love to count your blessings that your blessings and those of your neighbors may be multiplied and shared with those most in need. Perhaps last year’s cell phone is outdated but The Ten Commandments are as true today as they were a few thousand years ago. May we allow the truths of God to guide us to learn to truly LOVE. hold a microphone and sing from an early age. “Desde chiquita era una niña muy talentosa.” (From a young age she was a talented child.) A junior at Roma High School, Mayne said she is thankful to God for her music. “I pray every day. Without God in my life, I wouldn’t have my voice.” “My voice has shaped me into who I am,” she said. Mayne said she wants “to use it (her music) to move people’s hearts.” In addition to her music interests, Mayne is also a journalist. As a field reporter at Roma High School for the district’s Gladiator Television Network, she covers stories about school and extra curricular activities. Mayne’s interests are reflected as well in her future ambitions. She wants to be a human rights activist, a singer, maybe a country singer, and open a performing arts school. “Even if I don’t make it big, I just want to make a difference in the world,” she said, adding, “Fame isn’t everything.” She said she is inspired by her father and his friends who are active in jail ministry. She said her faith life has helped her see, “There’s a gift inside you; it’s for the greater good.” Mayne said the Sisters of the Benedictine Monastery of the Good Shepherd in Rio Grande City, who she has known all her life, have also been an important part of her faith life. “The sisters (Sisters Nancy Boushey, Luella Walsh and Fran Solum) have really helped me and supported me.” At 16, Mayne is the youngest Benedictine Oblate. She made her oblation when she was nine years old at the Benedictine Monastery of the Good Shepherd. The Benedictine Oblates are a lay association and members live out the spirituality of St. Benedict in the work place and at home. Sister Solum said members come to the monastery to experience community and pray the Litany of the Hours. Sister Solum said Mayne is an inspiration for young people. “Samantha is very talented and very simple and unassuming about her God-given talent.” “Her music comes right from the soul. What she is feeling comes through in her violin. She plays so beautifully and prayerfully at Mass,” Solum said. Meatless Recipes for Lent A collection of recipes from the Rio Grande Valley Published by The Valley Catholic To order call (956) 784-5055