SEPT TVC 2016 8.30.indd - Catholic Diocese of Brownsville
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SEPT TVC 2016 8.30.indd - Catholic Diocese of Brownsville
Volume 8, Issue 4 Serving More Than A Million Catholics in the Diocese of Brownsville Moved by the Holy Spirit Special Mass set for lay ecclesial movements, apostolates, asssociations The Valley Catholic Bishop Daniel E. Flores will celebrate a special Mass for all members of lay ecclesial movements, apostolates and associations at 2 p.m. on Saturday, Sept. 10 at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle-National Shrine. Some of the movements and apostolates in the diocese include Knights of Columbus, Catholic Daughters of the Americas, Cursillos de Cristiandad, ACTS, Movimiento Familiar Cristiano, Marriage Encounter, Encuentro Matrimonial, Couples for Christ, Regnum Christi, Comunidad Catolica AMA, Renovacion Carismatica (Charismatic Renewal), Talleres de Oracion, Ministerio de Sanacion Interior, Apostolado de la Cruz, Apostoles de la Palabra, Evangelizacion Activa USA, Apostolado Nueva Evangelizacion, Asociacion de Mujeres Catolicas de Brownsville, Movimiento de la Llama de Amor del Inmaculado Corazon de Maria, Legion of Mary, Schoenstatt Movement, Real Men Pray the Rosary, RGV Catholic Men’s Fellowship, Marian Conference, Fountain of Mercy, Divine Mercy, Pro-Life Apostolate, Consecration to Mary, Catholics United for the Faith, Benedictine Oblates, Third Order Franciscans, Encuentro Catolico Musical, Altar & Rosary Society, Young Adult Ambassadors, Hospital Chaplains, Jail Ministry Chaplains, and Serra Clubs of the Rio Grande Valley. “When we are anointed at our baptism, we are joined to Christ to share in his mission as priest, prophet and king,” said Deacon Luis Zuniga, director of the Office for Evangelization for the Diocese of Brownsville. “The laity, through the movements and apostolates, answer their baptismal call,” Deacon Zuniga added. “Every movement brings something to the Church. They all have something to offer and they are all moved by » Please see Movements p.11 SEPTEMBER 2016 Inspirados por el Espiritu ANNUAL DIOCESAN APPEAL FAITH HOPE CHARITY Misa para movimientos eclesiales, apostolados y asociaciones programada The Valley Catholic Everyone called to participate; contributions support work of the Church The Valley Catholic SAN JUAN — The Office of Stewardship and Development for the Diocese of Brownsville launched the Annual Diocesan Appeal on Aug. 27-28. Participation and contributions support work being done by parishes and partner organizations in mentoring and educating young people, feeding the hungry, caring for seniors, working for justice and dealing with emerging needs. The appeal, which will continue through 2017, focuses on the theological virtues of faith, hope and charity. The extended period provides parishes autonomy on determining when best to air the videos and distribute pledge cards and envelopes. Bishop Daniel E. Flores said the appeal supports the works of teaching the faith. “When we teach the faith we teach our adults and young people the central mystery of how much God has loved us. …It’s this faith in the love that God has for us that then forms the foundation of the whole Christian life; it allows our young people and our adults to have a renewed since of hope in life and WORKS OF MERCY Courtesy Photos A series of videos in English and Spanish have been released to promote the Annual Diocesan Appeal which will continue through this year and all of 2017. The theme this year is faith, hope and charity. Bishop Daniel E. Flores and Dominican Sister Margarita Ortiz are among those who appear in the videos. a renewed since of purpose,” he said. “All the works we do in our parishes and in our diocese to teach the faith,” he added, “is an essential work to build up a community that is more hopeful and more committed to the works of charity and ultimately to giving witness to the love that we have first received. “I ask you to continue supporting, in whatever way you can, big or small, the work of the Church in teaching the faith to our young people, to our families, and to our adults.” As with past campaigns, every participating parish and CONVOCATION school will receive a 30 percent rebate of funds raised toward the Annual Diocesan Appeal for its own use. The 70 percent retained by the diocese will be granted out, in its entirety, to parishes and ministries applying for assistance. The appeal video is divided into three segments, one for each virtue, in English and Spanish. They are available on the diocese YouTube channel. Please call the Stewardship and Development Office at (956) 787-8571 with any questions regarding the Annual Diocesan Appeal. El Obispo Daniel E. Flores celebrará una Misa especial para todos los miembros de los movimientos eclesiales laicos, apostolados y asociaciones a las 2 p.m el sábado, 10 de septiembre en la Basílica del Nuestra Señora del Valle - Santuario Nacional. Algunos de los movimientos y apostolados en la diócesis incluye a los Caballeros de Colón, las Hijas Católicas de las Americas, Cursillos de Cristiandad, ACTS, Movimiento Familiar Cristiano, Encuentro Matrimonial, Parejas por Cristo, Regnum Christi, Comunidad Católica AMA, Renovación Carismática, Talleres de Oración, Ministerio de Sanación Interior, Apostolado de la Cruz, Apóstoles de la Palabra, Evangelización Activa USA, Apostolado Nueva Evangelización, Asociación de Mujeres Católicas de Brownsville, Movimiento de la Llama de Amor del Inmaculado, Corazón de María, Legión de María, Movimiento Schoenstatt, Los Hombres de Verdad Rezan el Rosario, RGV Compañerismo de Hombres Católicos, Conferencia Mariana, Fuente de Misericordia, Divina Misericordia, Apostolado Pro-Vida, Consagración a María, Católicos Unidos por la Fe, Oblatos Benedictinos, Tercera Orden de Franciscanos, Encuentro Católico Musical, Sociedad de Altar y Rosario, Jóvenes Adultos Embajadores, Capellanes de Hospital, Capellanes de Ministerio de Prisión, y Clubs Serra del Valle del Río Grande. “Cuando somos ungidos en nuestro bautismo, nos unimos a Cristo para compartir su misión como sacerdote, profeta y rey,” dijo el Diácono Luis Zúñiga, director de la Oficina para la Evangelización de la Diócesis de Brownsville. “El laicado, a través de movimientos y apostolados, responde su llamado bautismal,” añadió el Diacono Zúñiga. “Cada mov» Por favor lea Misa p.10 THOSE WHO SERVE EN ÑOL ENESPA ESPAÑOL La columna del Señor Obispo Daniel E. Flores y articulos sobre la Madre Teresa de Calcuta y las obras corporales de misericordia “VERBUM MITTITUR SPIRANS AMOREM” (“The WORD is sent breathing love.”) Children with special needs Event set for Sept. 24 Deacon Benito Saenz Page 3 Page 4 Page 7 Páginas 2, 9-10 2 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - SEPTEMBER 2016 Año de elecciones requiere un discernimiento cuidadoso El obispo Daniel E. Flores comparte sus opiniones sobre este año de elecciones en una entrevista reciente para Cruz, un sitio de noticias en línea. El siguiente artículos son algunas de sus respuestas. Estamos en el centro de un ciclo de elecciones absolutamente absurdo. Asumo que muchas suposiciones y visiones ofrecidas por las cabezas parlantes en CNN, Fox News, y MSNBC no son compartidas por personas a las que usted atiende. ¿Qué podemos aprender de sus acercamientos? Los medios de comunicación tienden a encausar la discusión alrededor de ganadores y perdedores, conservadores y liberales, quién tiene el poder y quién lo quiere. Las personas en mi diócesis, como en muchos lugares del país, están preocupados primeramente en poder cuidar a su familia y proveer para sus hijos. Aprendo mucho de los padres que hacen todo para proveer un hogar seguro y feliz. Hay muchas dificultades; veo mucho heroísmo. Los padres se preocupan de que sus hijos se puedan volver aislados, o escojan un camino equivocado debido al cinismo. Personas jóvenes están preocupadas de estar atrapados en un sistema económico del cual no tienen control, o de no poder continuar su educación debido a restricciones económicas o migratorias. Hay preocupaciones sobre la violencia, no solamente aquí, pero en México. Y no solamente porque afecta a nuestra sociedad de alguna forma abstracta, o porque los amenaza, sino porque afecta a nuestros vecinos. En mi diócesis, hay una amable y fuerte preocupación por el bien de la comunidad. Republicanos y Demócratas a menudo trabajan juntos a nivel local para mejorar la educación, tratando de mantener a los niños en la escuela y conectados, y tratan de asistir las necesidades de los pobres. Como ya mencioné hay mucha generosidad aquí. También hay un sentido de que el tejido social se está rompiendo. Las personas saben instintivamente que la mejor manera de abordarlo es al ayudarse mutuamente por medio de actos de bondad y asistencia práctica. Lo que escucho más a menudo de las personas con las que he hablado aquí en el Valle del Río Grande es lo siguiente: “¿Por qué es que un partido está ciego a la dignidad del no nacido y otro partido está ciego a la dignidad del inmigrante? ¿Por qué un partido exalta la libertad medical incluso más que la vida, y el otro exalta el poder económico incluso más que el bien de la vida familiar?” Dichas preguntas indican que muchos ven a través de la retórica de ambos partidos, y están conscientes de que, en diversas formas, cada uno promueve una estructura de poder que deja a los vulnerables e indefensos de lado. Les digo a los Católicos locales que tienen influencia en el Partido Demócrata que sean una voz fuerte en nombre de la dignidad y el derecho a la vida del no nato, dentro de su partido. Defender al niño no nacido es la problemática mas decisiva de justicia social de nuestro tiempo. Los “altos mandos” en el partido necesitan escuchar su voz. Les digo a los Católicos que tienen influencia en el Partido Republicano que sean una voz para la reforma migratoria comprensiva, que favorezca a la familia y que establezca una norma en la ley que pueda discernir la diferencia entre un inmigrante criminal y un inmigrante huyendo de criminales. Los “altos mandos” en el partido necesitan escuchar sus voces. Puedo dar testimonio a las estructuras de poder de los dos partidos principales de que hay más diversidad dentro de las filas de su partido de lo que están dispuestos a admitir. Hay muchos Demócratas pro-vida. Hay muchos Republicanos proreforma migratoria. Los medios pueden representar las cosas en términos de izquierda o derecha, o ganadores y perdedores, pero ellos podrían aprender algo de la gente humilde que ven las cosas en términos de esperanza para sus hijos, ayudando a las personas en problemas, tratando de no olvidarse de los pequeños, los ancianos, los enfermos y moribundos, los desempleados y los pobres. He escuchado a algunos Católicos decir que, sí, Donald Trump tiene una posición sobre la inmigración que está en contradicción con la doctrina de la Iglesia, pero que se basa en un juicio prudente y no como uno de los “Cinco Negativas.” ¿Cuál es su respuesta a este tipo de argumentos? La prudencia juzga las circunstancias tomando en cuenta los principios que están justamente clasificadas en términos de gravedad. Manteniendo esto en mente, las circunstancias son diferentes este año. Ahora no es posible tomar la cuestión de la 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd., San Juan, TX 78589-3042 Telephone: 956/781-5323 • Fax: 956/784-5082 Bishop Daniel E. Flores Publisher www.cdob.org Brenda Nettles Riojas Editor Subscription rate $15 per year • $17 outside of Texas $25 out of U.S. Rose Ybarra Assistant Editor The Valley Catholic, a publication of the Diocese of Brownsville, is published monthly South Texas Circulation Circulation Member of the Catholic Press Assocition The Valley Catholic email: [email protected] Follow us on Facebook Catholic Diocese of Brownsville Advertising Gustavo Morales (956) 266-1527 Gilbert Saenz (956) 451-5416 Michael Kent (956) 566-7075 MOST REVEREND DANIEL E. FLORES BISHOP OF BROWNSVILLE política migratoria solamente como una cuestión de tener posiciones distintas sobre una reforma altamente necesaria del sistema. Uno podría argumentar que en elecciones anteriores hubo una disputa entre partidos sobre si la reforma era necesaria, y sobre qué principios guiarían una posible reforma. Este año, hay una propuesta sobre la mesa para proseguir con deportaciones masivas de hombres, mujeres y niños indocumentados. Uno, en conciencia, no tolera un programa de deportación masiva. Es una propuesta brutal. En algunas instancias, particularmente en relación con las madres y niños de Centroamérica, y deportaciones hacia algunas partes de México, estamos colocándolos en peligro inmediato de muerte. Considero que apoyar el mandar a un adulto o niño de regreso al lugar a donde él o ella está marcado por la muerte, a donde no hay ley y la sociedad colapsa, es estar en cooperación directa con un mal intrínseco. No sin semejanza con llevar a alguien a una oficina de aborto. Así que, incluso como un Católico encuentra la plataforma pro-aborto del otro partido más que deplorable, no hay consuelo para la conciencia del Católico en el lado del programa radical de deportaciones masivas. Ambas posiciones son asaltos a la dignidad de la vida, y en el caso de las deportaciones masivas, pueden ligarse al no.23 de Formando la conciencia para ser ciudadanos fieles (Ciudadanos Fieles): “tratar a los pobres como objetos desechables.” En general, pienso que debemos de ver los nos. 35-38 de Ciudadanos Fieles cuidadosamente. Todos debemos de leerlo y pensar en sus implicaciones desde ahora hasta el día de elecciones. Pienso que es digno de citar particularmente el número 36: Cuando todos los candidatos tienen una posición que favorece un mal intrínseco, el votante concienzudo afronta un dilema. El votante puede decidir tomar el extraordinario paso de no votar por ningún candidato o, tras deliberar cuidadosamente, puede decidir votar por el candidato que piense que sea quien probablemente menos promueva tal posición moralmente defectuosa y que sea quien probablemente más apoye otros bienes humanos auténticos. Parece que si un Católico vota por cualquiera de los mayores candidatos, él o ella deben de hacerlo con la convicción de que el mal que el candidato apoya puede ser opuesto exitosamente, y que otros aspectos de su propuesta política son suficientemente buenos para merecer el voto. Así que si un Católico vota por un candidato pro-aborto o por un candidato pro-deportación masiva, por lo que Ciudadanos Fieles llama “razones moralmente graves,” porque puede decidir votar por el candidato que piense que sea quien probablemente menos promueva tal posición moralmente defectuosa y que sea quien probablemente más apoye otros bienes humanos auténticos. Sin embargo debe de haber un compromiso consciente por el votante para oponerse contundentemente a la agenda pro-aborto o la agenda pro-deportación masiva. También hay otros factores que Ciudadanos Fieles acertadamente nos pide que consideremos, incluyendo los compromisos, el carácter, la integridad y la habilidad que tiene un candidato de influenciar en un asunto específico. Y nótese que ni siquiera he abordado la cuestión de atacar a inocentes (quienes pueden ser parientes de maleantes) en acciones militares, o uso indiscriminado de drones en la guerra. Ni he mencionado una gran cantidad de cuestiones abordadas en Ciudadanos Fieles y las que debemos de tener en cuenta. Otro tipo de respuesta de los Católicos es negarse a participar. He escuchado llamados a “abstenerse de votar.” El filosofo MacIntyre insistió en el 2004 que cuando se nos dan dos malas opciones no debemos escoger ninguna. ¿Qué piensa de este acercamiento? Bueno pues, Ciudadanos Fieles no. 36 reconoce esa posibilidad. MacIntyre tenía en mente la amplia percepción de que los dos partidos políticos están entrelazados en diferentes formas a posiciones que infringen con el bien común. Puede ser que un Católico juzga conscientemente que es probable que los dos candidatos principales tengan éxito llevando a cabo políticas intrínsecamente malvadas. Aquí, el votante toma la decisión de que el efecto de votar por tal candidato ofende la justicia divina- incluso si uno se compromete a oponer el mal que el candidato apoya- a tal grado que mancha su conciencia delante de Dios. Conozco a un numero de personas ordinarias que están contemplando seriamente la opción de no votar en la carrera presidencial. Otros piensan apoyar a un candidato de un tercer partido o un candidatode nominación directa. Puedo entender tal posición, pero debo añadir que aún estamos ligados de alguna forma a participar en el proceso político, en este caso para votar en las carreras del congreso, y carreras por candidatos estatales y locales que de hecho apoyan la protección de los no natos, que trabajarían para la justicia económica y racial, justicia para inmigrantes, y cuidarían de los pobres y marginalizados. Entonces, la decisión de no apoyar al candidato presidencial principal no es una decisión para abstenerse del proceso político totalmente, sino una decisión de registrar una voz que dice que las dos opcio- nes principales para presidente son inaceptables, mientras que al mismo tiempo se vota con conciencia bien fundada en otras carreras. No hay duda que muchos católicos de hecho van a votar en la elección presidencial. Rezo para que lo hagan con gran seriedad, y con una mente clara sobre lo que sea digno de apoyar de las posiciones de cada candidato, y qué en su posición debe de ser seriamente opuesto de ser elegidos. Cuando MacIntyre dice “¿Por qué deberíamos de rechazar a ambos? No principalmente porque ellos nos dan respuestas equivocadas, pero porque responden a preguntas equivocadas,” Tengo mucha simpatía por su perspectiva. El hecho es que para un Católico la actual dinámica de posicionamiento que gobierna el sistema partidario es precisamente inadecuado porque no fluye desde una reflexión considerada sobre lo que de hecho es bueno en y para la vida humana. En ese sentido, ambos partidos políticos a menudo dan respuestas a preguntas equivocadas. Un Católico siente esto fuertemente cuando se enfrenta con la estridente retorica que emana de ambas esquinas del rin. Aún así, el Catolicismo es realista sobre la dinámica política en la historia. Nosotros no esperamos que con la política entremos en un nuevo escatón, pero tampoco lo consideramos inútil. Tratamos de trabajar con la política, participar, promover su progreso, y oponer las propuestas que dañen el bien común. En su mejor momento, la política es una expresión imperfecta de seres humanos tratando de organizar una sociedad más justa. El peligro histórico ha sido siempre que la dinámica política se convierta, ante todo, en una batalla cínica de poder y control. Esto es veneno en una republica democrática. Finalmente, mientras tratamos de hacer nuestro paso a través de este fango de elección, ¿tiene alguna práctica espiritual u oraciones que recomendar? Además de repasar los mayores principios de las Enseñanzas Sociales Católicas y Ciudadanos Fieles, yo recomendaría meditar el Sermón del Monte cuidadosa y frecuentemente, a partir de aquí y hasta el día de elecciones. Y recomendaría rezar el Rosario para el bienestar del país, para que los vulnerables sean protegidos, y que el bien provenga del juicio general del electorado. Y recomendaría meditar la Pasión del Señor, reconociendo que Él se hizo carne y padeció la Cruz para recordarnos que lo que hagamos al más pequeño de nuestros hermanos y hermanas, lo hacemos a Él. Esa enseñanza nos sigue hacia la casilla electoral, nos demos cuenta o no; es mejor que nos demos cuenta y votemos con una conciencia que vea la cara del Señor en las consecuencias de nuestras decisiones. Bishop Flores’ Schedule - SEPTEMBER 2016 Sept. 6 7 p.m. Weslaco Confirmations at San Martin de Porres Sept. 10 2 p.m. San Juan Mass for Lay Movements at Basilica Sept. 11 5 p.m. Brownsville Mass for Conferencia Manda El Fuego Events Center Sept. 15 6 p.m. McAllen Mass, 75th Anniversary Our Lady of of Sorrows Parish Sept. 22 7 p.m. McAllen San Juan Nursing Home Gala at Valencia Event Center Sept. 24 10 a.m. Pharr Confirmations at St. Jude Thaddeus Sept. 24 2 p.m. McAllen Catechetical Convocation at Convention Center SEPTEMBER 2016 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic 3 ‘They can be who they are’ Church offers Mass for children with special needs The Valley Catholic Father Jorge Gomez greets parents and children after the monthly Mass for children with special needs at Holy Family Church in Brownsville. Editor’s note: Join us as we witness mercy in action each month during the Year of Mercy By JESSICA CARLOS The Valley Catholic BROWNSVILLE – “If they cry, let them cry,” said Father Jorge Gomez, pastor of Holy Family Parish in Brownsville. “If they scream, let them scream. That’s probably the way they pray to God, and he listens to them.” For more than two years Father Gomez has been celebrating a Mass on the first Sunday of every month for children with special needs. He said parents have shared with him that people from other parishes often don’t understand the needs of their children. Sometimes the children need to move or need to make noise, he said, and their parents get looks from other people as if they should be shushing their children, as if their children are a distraction. Holy Family parishioner Sergio Zarate, a parent of a daughter with special needs, said, “Now our kids can be themselves, we don’t have to hush them or shush them. They can be who they are and express themselves the way they are.” When 7-year-old Diego attends Mass, he responds to the priest’s “The Lord be with you” by shouting to the heavens, “And with your spirit!” Father Gomez said all of Diego’s honorary aunts and uncles, the parishioners of Holy Family who have embraced him as a member of their family, love the way Diego prays. He prays with the enthusiasm that he wishes all parishioners would share. The Mass for children with special needs was initiated after Zarate along with Leonel Lopez and other members of the Order of Alhambra approached Father Gomez with a request for such a Mass. “As long as you get 10 people, I’ll do the Mass,” he said. Much to Father Gomez’ surprise, about fifty attended the first Mass. Now Families travel from as far as La Feria and Weslaco to attend. Mass is Mass, said Father Gomez. It doesn’t change. The only difference is that he preaches to the needs of the children and their parents. “I just love it,” he said. A year ago, Holy Family Church celebrated the sacrament of first communion for the first time for children with special needs. “That was one of the most fulfilling things in my ministry, in my 12 years as a priest,” Father Gomez said, “to see the Church packed because 14 of them were going to receive their first communion, but parents, grandparents, uncles and aunts, relatives, friends—they came to be with them on that special day.” Holy Family Church also offers catechism classes once a month for children and young adults with special needs. One student, a 27-year-old woman with Down syndrome named Rocio, has made a life-lasting impression on Father Gomez. Every month, he said, she would run up to him and say, “Father, I’m getting married,” and every month he’d respond, “Oh yes, Rocio, The corporal works of mercy: Feed the hungry; Give drink to the thirsty; Clothe the naked; Shelter the homeless; Visit the sick; Visit the prisoners Bury the dead that’s good. Congratulations.” One day, after her regular remark, his curiosity prompted him to ask, “Really, and who’s your boyfriend?” She answered, “Jesus.” Her response astounded him – This special girl, he said, could understand what some of his parishioners struggled to. Special indeed. On the day of her first communion, Rocio’s self- proclaimed wedding day, Father Gomez offered her “The body of Christ,” and she responded, “That’s my boyfriend. Amen.” Father Gomez couldn’t help but let his tears fall. Each month, the Mass receives a generous turnout, but Zarate, also the grand commander of the Order of Alhambra’s Alva Caravan, hopes more families will join them in celebrating the Mass and that whoever needs a peaceful place of rest and prayer, Catholic or not, can find a home at Holy Family Church and parishes like it. The community has already begun reaching out in support. On July 31, Driscoll Health Plan in partnership with “Down” by the Border, an organization cofounded by Zarate geared towards helping children with special needs, distributed backpacks to the children after Mass and invited them to A Day at the Movies on Aug. 13 and October Fest for Children with Special Needs. Father Gomez encourages other pastors to celebrate a Mass for children with special needs, with the hope that someday there will be such a Mass at one parish in each county. “I really would like that other priests would open their hearts to receive these children and be open to learn from them. It’s not what you can teach them but what you can learn from them, as I have. I’ve learned a lot from them,” he said. For more information, contact Holy Family Parish at (956) 546-6975. Annual gala supports mission of Catholic nursing home Photos by The Valley Catholic Daily pastoral care sets facility apart from others Left photo: Msgr. Pat Doherty, a retired priest of the diocese, celebrates Mass at 10:30 a.m. every Sunday for the residents of San Juan Nursing Home and their loved ones. Right photo: Joel Ramirez, an assistant chaplain at San Juan Nursing Home, gives the Body of Christ to a resident of the Catholic facility. The Valley Catholic SAN JUAN — Four rows of wheelchairs line the St. Francis of Assisi Chapel at San Juan Nursing Home where Mass is celebrated at 10:30 a.m. every Sunday morning. The residents and their loved ones listen intently to the Word of God and the homily from Msgr. Pat Doherty, who celebrates the Mass each week. They sing along – and clap, when appropriate – with the cantos or songs of praise during the bilingual liturgy. More importantly, the residents receive the Body of Christ. Armed with her rosary and prayer books, Juanita Flores, 98, parks her wheelchair in the first row for every Sunday Mass and prayer service. For her family, the Catholic pastoral care was the deciding factor for choosing San Juan Nursing Home. The facility has a full-time pastoral care team that includes Fina Suarez, director of pastoral services, Sister Maria Elena Reyes, chaplain and assistant chaplain Joel Ramirez. In addition to Sunday Mass, the nursing home provides daily chapel services with the readings of the day, they pray the Rosary, say grace before each meal and receive the anointing of the sick on a regular basis. They also attend the Mass for the Elderly at 10 a.m. on the last Tuesday of every month at the nearby Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del ValleNational Shrine. “We visited many different nursing homes and they all provided physical care but only this facility provides the spiritual care that Mom needs,” said her daugh- ter Yolanda Hernandez of McAllen. “Her Catholic faith is a big part of who she is, it’s in her heart – she was in the Legion of Mary, a Rosary prayer group and in the church choir, just very active in the church.” San Juan Nursing Home, which operates under the guidance of the diocese, is the only Catholic long-term care facility in the Rio Grande Valley. The non-profit, 122-bed facility is hosting its annual gala, “The Golden Years: Decorating Life’s Moments” from 6:30 p.m. to 10 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 22 at the Memorial Events Center, 208 E. Canton in Edinburg. Bishop Daniel E. Flores will serve as the keynote speaker. Assistant chaplain Ramirez said that when Catholic families tour the facility, they are enamored by the chapel. “The pastoral care we provide makes all the difference in the world for the residents and their families,” said Ramirez, who previously worked as a music minister and enjoys singing for the residents. “They start the day off right with prayer, praise and worship. We meet them where they are spiritually and help them grow.” The nursing home is located on the grounds of the basilica in San Juan. For more information, call (956) 787-1771. DIOCESE »Women en la Frontera The Valley Catholic - SEPTEMBER 2016 4 »Convocation What death brings with our goodbyes M y father died a year ago at 79 and most recently my father-inlaw who was 89 died on Aug. 20. Several co-workers have also suffered the loss of a loved one this past year. We have become too familiar with one of the seven corporal works of mercy, that of burying the dead. Each of us is walking a different grief journey, but we do not walk alone. With each funeral I attend I become more cognizant of the graces that come from each part of the funeral ritual. I have come to understand the beauty inherent in each funeral. I confess I was surprised when I first heard someone describe a funeral as beautiful. How could an occasion tied to death and grieving be beautiful? Is it the flowers, the music, the readings, the eulogies? It is and so much more. Death comes entwined with multifaceted layers as we grieve the loss of someone we loved, a mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, child. It is a good bye to the person we loved as they “leave the body and go home to the Lord” (2 Cor 5:8). Tears flood us, memories emerge, and in the midst of our grief, some of us still shocked and numb, we are surrounded by family and friends who help us find space to celebrate. Together we celebrate life, the Brenda Nettles Riojas Editor of The Valley Catholic gift of the one we loved in our lives and the life God has given to each of us. In preparation for my fatherin-law’s funeral, we gathered photos for a slideshow. The photos streamed forth with images of a life well lived. As the patriarch, his legacy is marked by a strong work ethic and unwavering love and commitment to his wife of 64 years, his five children (all adults and married now), 12 grandchildren and seven great grandchildren. From teaching his grandchildren how to ride a bike or keeping them busy with wood projects, he devoted countless hours making sure not to miss any milestones. Even those of us who married into the family came to see him as a second father. He was a constant presence in each of our lives. So as we cried, we also celebrated what he gave to the world. Additionally, death makes us pause, reminds us of our pilgrim status. It is a reminder of our mortality, our “memento mori,” Latin for “remember that you have to die.” More than a reminder, it should shake us to ask ourselves “how we are living our own life. What will be our legacy?” After my father died, I was overwhelmed by the number of people who took the time to accompany our family for the funeral services. To this day I am most thankful for each person who was present in some way – each hug, prayer, condolence card, meal, flowers, phone call. Your kindness will always be remembered. As the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops notes, “Funerals give us the opportunity to grieve and show others support during difficult times. Through our prayers and actions during these times we show our respect for life, which is always a gift from God, and comfort to those who mourn.” How beautiful that we do not walk alone. God is present every step of the way. Family and friends too give us strength as we deal with death. The presence of the people in our lives who pause from their own dayto-day commitments to accompany us on our journey brings light to darkness. This as well is cause for celebration, as it gives us hope for the days ahead. Lydia Pesina from our Family Life Office gave me a journal a year ago, “The New Day Journal: A journey from grief to healing” by Mauryeen O’Brian, which has been most helpful. After the loss of Lydia’s mother, and later her brother, we met together over the course of a year with another friend to work through what the book refers to as the “four tasks of mourning.” While we know that death is not the end and we have hope in the resurrection, death for those of us who remain is painful. Death can also be a transformative experience. My mother’s death more than 20 years ago instilled in me the urgency of living each moment as a gift. Each death that has followed emphasizes the lesson. Each life we celebrate at each funeral reminds us life is a gift, a gift we have to honor by living it the best we can. Pope Francis, in this Year of Mercy, prompts us to live it the best we can serving others. Death brings us bitter-sweet moments. I have found it is most helpful to count my blessings daily. It is important as well to be there for family and friends who experience a loss. As we journey togehter, I know in time, grief and darkness will loosen its grip and light will fill our days. St. Augustine prayed, “There are days…when our lives have no music in them and our hearts are lonely, and our souls have lost their courage. Flood the path with light, we beseech thee Lord. Turn our eyes to where the heavens are full of promise.” »Family Life Family rituals we cultivate can enrich daily life F amily Rituals are an important element in family life and each family has their own special rituals which can range from how we say “goodbye” to one another when we leave home for work or school to how we gather for meals or say “good night.” Some rituals are passed on generation to generation and others arise from that particular family’s experience. Growing up next door to my grandparents, my siblings and I would say “Hasta mañana Mamagrande” to our grandmother at bedtime and she would say “Que Dios sea servido” and would trace a sign of the cross on our forehead. When our daughter Liana was growing up, we continued that ritual. When she was about five or six years old I was attending a conference out of town and called her from a pay phone at a restaurant. At the end of the conversation, she told me “Mom, put the telephone on your forehead” and I asked her what for; and she said, “So that I can give you a blessing.” To this day, anytime either of us is out of town, we say “Who goes first” and place the cell phone on our forehead for the blessing. Lydia Pesina Director, Family Life Office In the past several years, one of the rituals which our extended family has enjoyed is having the school-age children in the family read a blessing prayer for the birthday celebrants from the prayer book by Father Ed Hayes, “Prayers for the Domestic Church” and then we as adults add to it. Praying and eating together are always great ways to celebrate special days. Our daughter and threeyear-old grandson Elian are living with us and our family time and meal time is doubly blessed! In the past year, Elian’s “job” at dinner time has been to shake a little basket we have with names of people to pray for and select a name. (His favorite is selecting his Uncle Art’s name!). On the first Sunday of Advent last year I did not put the basket on the table because we were going to light the first candle of the Advent wreath and do the Advent prayer and reflection and he cried because he wanted to pick a name from the basket so we did both. At the end of Advent, he insisted on lighting a candle still so to this day, we light a candle at dinner time every night along with the prayer basket. Now I don’t know about your family, but in our household things are not always nice and neat or calm: sometimes someone is hurried or in a bad mood or too quiet or the little one is fussy; but I believe having the consistency of these rituals bonds us in a special way. St. John Paul II stated in his Apostolic Exhortation “Familiaris Consortio” that the family is the “domestic church” and that the sacredness of life lies in the ordinary things in family life such as cooking, cleaning, changing diapers, sharing a meal, or washing dishes. I often say that family life is “messy” but nonetheless “sacred.” Elian is blessed to have wonderful godparents. Mike and Audrey Guerra have made it a point to come see Elian on the first of every month (his birthday is March 1) since they baptized him. We either share a meal or have cupcakes and coffee and then say a blessing prayer that we adapted from a Joyce Rupp prayer book. A few lines from this prayer: “Elian, May the miracle of your birth always be a source of joy for you. Elian, may you be blessed with wise, caring people who will guide you and protect you. Elian, may you be aware of the tremendous love that the Creator has for you. Eternal parent, our child is your child. Guide and direct us as we nurture Elian with the qualities he needs to live life to the fullest. Thank you for the wonderful gift of Elian. We know we are richly blessed. Amen.” Regardless of our family’s size, shape, age, or form, family life is sacred and the rituals that we can cultivate can enrich our daily life. Rituals such as daily meals around the dinner table (without electronics) as often as is possible with varied work schedules, have the potential to nurture happy, healthy and holy families. Life presents many challenges (financial, health, relationships, and faith) but our loving God accompanies us and guides us with his Holy Spirit always and in All Ways. Mass for Lay Ecclesial Movements, Apostolates & Associations Videos available on Diocese of Brownsville YouTube channel. Join Bishop Daniel E. Flores 2 p.m., Saturday, September 10, 2016 Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle Catechists invited to ‘get on fire’ for new year The Valley Catholic Catechists, please mark your calendars for the annual Catechetical Convocation, which is set for Saturday, Sept. 24 at the McAllen Convention Center. Doors open at 11:30 a.m. The Convocation offers an afternoon of prayer, fellowship and reflection for those who have dedicated their time and talents to the ministry of religious education at the 71 parishes and 44 mission churches in the Rio Grande Valley. All catechists are invited and encouraged to attend. Presentations at the Convocation Bishop Flores will be available in both English and Spanish. There will also be exhibit booths featuring religious resources and goods. Speakers include Bishop Daniel E. Flores and Sister GuadaSister Ramirez lupe Ramirez of the Missionary Catechists of Divine Providence. Bishop Flores will celebrate Mass and award service pins to catechists who have completed 10, 20, 25 and 30-plus years of faith formation ministry. Sister Ramirez, who has been in religious life for almost 50 years, has served as a workshop presenter at numerous events throughout the country. She earned a Doctor of Ministry degree in adult spiritual formation from the Catholic University of America in 2013 and provides leadership formation for pastoral ministers, especially Hispanics. She also facilitates retreats, provides catechist formation and RCIA team development. For Luis Espinoza, director of the Office of Catechesis and the Office of Liturgy and Worship, the goal of the convocation is to give the catechists an opportunity to network with their brothers and sisters from other parishes and celebrate the vocation of the catechist. “I dare use the word pep rally,” Espinoza said. “Our hope is that the catechists will gather, get on fire and get energized. They’ll hear from the bishop what the expectations are and then go, fully inspired and ready to spread the gospel.” Please register for the Convocation by Tuesday, Sept. 6. For more information, call the Office of Catechesis at (956) 784-5013. The Convocation is held in honor of Catechetical Sunday, which is celebrated every year in September by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops to recognize catechists and the important role they play in handing on the faith to others. The theme of the nationwide Catechetical Sunday celebration is, “Prayer: The Faith Prayed.” SEPTEMBER 2016 FAITH - The Valley Catholic »Sunday Readings 5 Consecration to Jesus through Mary The Word of God in the Life and Mission of the Church SEPTEMBER 4 (Twenty-third Sunday in Ordinary Time) Courtesy photo A painting of St. Jerome by artist Philippe de Champaigne, (1602-1674) is housed in the Cincinnati Art Museum. Reading 1 WIS 9:13-18B Responsorial Psalm PS 90:3-4, 5-6, 12-13, 14-17 »Feast Day Reading 2 PHMN 9-10, 12-17 Sept. 30 Alleluia PS 119:135 Spotlight on St. Jerome Gospel LK 14:25-33 SEPTEMBER 11 (Twenty-fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time) Catholic News Agency/ EWTN News Reading 1 EX 32:7-11, 13-14 Responsorial Psalm PS 51:3-4, 12-13, 17, 19 Reading 2 1 TM 1:12-17 Alleluia 2 COR 5:19 Gospel LK 15:1-32 OR LK 15:1-10 SEPTEMBER 18 (Twenty-fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading 1 AM 8:4-7 Responsorial Psalm PS 113:1-2, 4-6, 7-8 Reading 2 1 TM 2:1-8 Alleluia CF. 2 COR 8:9 Gospel LK 16:1-13 Or LK 16:10-13 Derek Janik/The Valley Catholic A Mass of Total Consecration was held on Aug. 22, on the Feast Day of the Queenship of Mary, at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle. Montfort priest Father Hugh Gillespie of New York, who served as the principal celebrant, was joined at the altar by eight priests from the diocese. The Mass, which was organized by the Real Men Pray the Rosary apostolate, was celebrated for those who made the Act of Total Consecration to Jesus Through Mary over a 33-day period. »Making Sense of Bioethics Talking to kids about porn SEPTEMBER 25 (Twenty-sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading 1 AM 6:1A, 4-7 Responsorial Psalm PS 146:7, 8-9, 9-10 Reading 2 1 TM 6:11-16 Alleluia CF. 2 COR 8:9 Gospel LK 16:19-31 The word of the Lord abides for ever. This word is the Gospel which was preached to you. (1 Pet 1:25; cf. Is 40:8). With this assertion from the First Letter of Saint Peter, which takes up the words of the Prophet Isaiah, we find ourselves before the mystery of God, who has made himself known through the gift of his word. This word, which abides for ever, entered into time. God spoke his eternal Word humanly; his Word “became flesh.” (Jn 1:14). This is the good news. This is the proclamation which has come down the centuries to us day. Foster parents needed If interested please call (956)233-1811 A growing concern today involves the role of pornography as the next generation’s instructor in human sexuality. For many young people, pornography has become the only guide to sexuality they have ever known. For Catholic parents, this raises the critical challenge of how best to approach these matters with their children, given that kids as young as 8 or 9 may already be acquiring information and viewpoints about human sexual behaviors from internet pornography. I would like to present six practical suggestions for parents, culled from parental testimonies and insights, from other experts in the field, and from ex-users of pornography. First, steer away from “The Talk” towards a more integrated approach. Having “The Talk” relies on the misguided notion that parents have educational content or factual knowledge that they are duty-bound to try to deposit into their children’s brains. This approach is not only awkward and paternalistic, but can convey a sense that sexual education is a one-time, get-it-over-with ordeal. Kids require ongoing guidance and support from their parents — an expressed willingness to enter into these important discussions that stress the beauty of sexuality in marriage and what it is really for, rather than just telling them what not to do or scaring them away from sexually transmitted diseases. Second, be attentive to opportune moments to share wisdom and stories. Because Tadeusz Pacholczyk Priest of the Diocese of Fall River, Mass. we live in a highly pornified culture, opportunities for parents to share and discuss important value assessments regarding human sexuality with their children arise often. Driving by a billboard with a risqué picture or seeing something on TV might, for example, serve as an opportunity to note how it’s against the love of women to use them as sex objects. Passing through a part of town where prostitutes are plying their trade might spark a discussion about how many women involved in prostitution are victims of human trafficking and the vast majority wish they could break free of it, etc. Third, avoid internet access in the bedroom. Sometimes parents will say, “The kids have access at school and everywhere else, so I let them have unrestricted access at home — they’ve got to learn how to handle it anyway.” But the home setting needs to differ from the outside world, serving as an oasis and a protected environment for children. If someone offered to install a pipe into your child’s bedroom that could be turned on to pump in raw sewage, you would not agree to it. Yet many parents fail to restrict what is entering their children’s bedrooms through the internet and TV. Fourth, be wary of internet access on cell phones. “Due diligence” with cell phones for children might mean looking for handsets that function strictly as phones without internet access, or maybe the kids should be given a phone only at those times when they are dropped off at events like piano practice, soccer, etc. As children grow older and show signs of maturing, restrictions and limitations can be scaled back. Fifth, monitor internet usage. Check browser history, and make use of monitoring software, even though a particular child may be an angel. Keep the family computer in a shared space like the living room with the screen visible so family members can be aware of each other’s online activities. Laptops and tablets can pose an inadvertent temptation in this respect as teens sit cuddled up on the couch with screens not visible to others. In family life, we are called to serve as our brother’s keeper. Set limits on “screen time” for children, and maintain password/access control over devices. Have the neighbor’s kids deposit their electronic devices on the kitchen table during visits to diminish the temptation to slip away to a private part of the house and surf the net, perhaps with younger siblings in tow. Such practices may also serve to indirectly evangelize other families in the neighborhood regarding the serious threats from internet porn. Sixth, set appropriate rules » Please see Talking p.11 St. Jerome, the priest, monk and Doctor of the Church renowned for his extraordinary depth of learning and translations of the Bible into Latin in the Vulgate, is celebrated by the Church on Sept. 30. In order to be able to do such work, Jerome prepared himself well. He was a master of Latin, Greek, Hebrew and Chaldaic. He began his studies at his birthplace, present-day Croatia. He was born around 340 as Eusebius Hieronymous Sophronius After his preliminary education he went to Rome, the center of learning at that time, and thence to Trier, Germany, where the scholar was very much in evidence. He spent several years in each place, always trying to find the very best teachers. He once served as private secretary of Pope Damasus. After these preparatory studies he traveled extensively in Palestine, marking each spot of Christ’s life with an outpouring of devotion. Mystic that he was, he spent five years in the desert of Chalcis so that he might give himself up to prayer, penance and study. Finally, he settled in Bethlehem, where he lived in the cave believed to have been the birthplace of Christ. On Sept. 30 in the year 420, Jerome died in Bethlehem. The remains of his body now lie buried in the Basilica of St. Mary Major in Rome. Besides his contributions as a Church Father and patronage of subsequent Catholic scholarship, Jerome is also regarded as a patron of people with difficult personalities—owing to the sometimes extreme approach which he took in articulating his scholarly opinions and the teaching of the Church. It is true that he had a very bad temper and could use a vitriolic pen, but his love for God and his Son Jesus Christ was extraordinarily intense; anyone who taught error was an enemy of God and truth, and St. Jerome went after him or her with his mighty and sometimes sarcastic pen. While his great work was the Vulgate, his achievements in other fields are valuable; to him we owe the distinction between canonical and apocryphal writings; he was a pioneer in the field of Biblical archeology. He is also notable for his devotion to the ascetic life, and for his insistence on the importance of Hebrew scholarship for Christians. 6 DIOCESE Sacred Hearts Missions 45-713 POOKELA STREET P. O. BOX 1365 KANEOHE, HI 96744 (808) 247-5035 E XT. 111 WWW.SSCC.ORG Good Mother Henriette Aymer de la Chevalerie Good Father Pierre Joseph Marie Coudrin Founders of the Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary Saint Damien of Molokai, pray for us! St. Damien DeVeuster, ss.cc. 1840-1889 “Father Damien of Molokai” by Peggy Chun *used with permission The Valley Catholic - SEPTEMBER 2016 A PROVINCIAL APPEAL Dear Friends of the Sacred Hearts, Serving the poor and marginalized… Formation of men for Religious Life…Care of our Elderly Brothers… The mission of the Brothers of the Congregation of the Sacred Hearts in the United States Province is to commit ourselves to contemplate, live, and proclaim the Love of God to the world through the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary. Father Damien De Veuster, ss.cc., 1840-1889, our brother priest and first saint of our religious community, continues to serve as our model of serving God through serving humanity. Through the intercession of Saint Damien and as a result of your continued prayers, involvement Temporarily professed Brothers and financial support, our Sacred Hearts (SS.CC.) Brothers are bringing Christ to people and people to John and Daniel Christ. We do this through the formation of men for with Fr. Richard Lifrak, ss.cc. religious life; serving the poor and the marginalized in the missions of India and Tonga; building and strengthening the youth and young adults of the province in their faith and commitment to the Church and the Lord; and serving the spiritual needs of the people entrusted to our care, especially in parishes, schools, retreat programs and chaplaincies. Our 98 Sacred Hearts (SS.CC.) Brothers throughout the province serve God's people in Hawaii, Massachusetts, California, Rome, Belgium, the Kingdom of Tonga, Fiji and right here in the Diocese of Brownsville at Queen of Peace Parish in Harlingen, Sacred Heart Church in Edinburg and Capilla San Jose in Lull. In each of their ministries, they work and pray to heal the broken and bring hope to those in despair. In the Region of India, we administer tribal schools, clinics and provide social work where there would otherwise be little or no educational, medical or community services available especially for the weak and the poor. Very Reverend Johnathan Hurrell, ss.cc. Provincial Superior Sacred Hearts Seminarians, Suva, Fiji TOGETHER, let us build God's Kingdom and proclaim His redeeming Love to the world! To the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary, HONOR & GLORY! In the Kingdom of Tonga, our Brothers build and repair homes for the poor and those living in the swamp areas of the low-lying islands. Our Brothers also educate a population of young people in this developing country that struggles desperately to meet its own needs. The Congregation of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary (SS.CC.) in the U. S. Province continues to be blessed with men discerning religious life with the SS.CC. There are seven temporarily professed Brothers preparing for their ordination to priesthood through their education at Pacific Regional Seminary of Saint Peter Chanel in Suva, Fiji. There are four men preparing to make their initial vows of chastity, poverty and obedience to the Congregation in Hawai'i. There are 15 men in formation for religious life in the Region of India and four men in the Kingdom of Tonga. We invite you to be a part of our venture - our mission - especially for our missions, the solid formation of men for religious life with the SS.CC. and for the proper care of our elderly Brothers. SEPTEMBER 2016 DIOCESE - The Valley Catholic 7 Those Who Serve: Deacon Benito Saenz Discovering the many gifts of the diaconate Deacon serves people of God in his hometown By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic GARCIASVILLE — For Deacon Benito Saenz of Holy Family Parish in La Grulla his journey to the permanent diaconate was a natural progression of his faith beginning with the first, ‘yes’ to be an altar server at his church as a boy. “We lived right across the street from the church,” Deacon Saenz said. “Desde chiquito (since I was little) I was at the church helping out.” Parishioners and friends alike said that Deacon Saenz has a willingness to help wherever he is needed. Over the years, he has served as a catechist, led prayer groups, organized fundraisers, helped parishioners prepare for marriage and other sacraments and so much more. “He has been a great gift to the community in Starr County,” said Sister Nancy Boushey, prioress of the Benedictine Monastery of the Good Shepherd in Rio Grande City. “Every time he has helped with a retreat here at the monastery, I would see him very zealous and concerned about the welfare of our people.” Deacon Saenz, 71, was born in La Grulla, a small community in Starr County, on Nov. 20, 1944 and grew up there. “Back then, doctors delivered babies in the home,” said Deacon Saenz, the third of five children. Deacon Saenz said his family was poor, but that he had a solid upbringing in La Grulla. Most of the area’s residents worked in agriculture, harvesting cotton, Eric Sánchez/The Valley Catholic Deacon Benito Saenz has served Holy Family Parish in La Grulla and its missions, Our Lady of Peace Church in Garciasville and Cristo Rey Church in La Victoria since 1985. watermelon and tomatoes. “It was a close-knit community where everyone knew each other,” he said. “Everybody worked hard and we were raised to respect our elders. The worst insult to a parent was to hear that their child was disrespectful. “And though La Grulla has grown, there’s still some vestige of that left.” As a teenager, Deacon Saenz earned $12.50 a week picking cotton, money he used to buy school clothes. He was the first in his family to go to college, attending the University of Texas at Austin to study mathematics. He survived on $10 a week, which was all his parents could afford to send. Deacon Saenz earned his bachelor’s degree in three years and returned to Starr County to work as a teacher for the Rio Grande City school district. He had work opportunities outside of the Rio Grande Valley but came back to take care of his mother and father and to make a difference in his own communi- »Birthday & Anniversary Wishes The list of birthdays and ordination anniversaries is provided so that parishioners may remember the priests, deacons and religious in their prayers and send them a note or a card. September » Birthdays 3 Rev. Msgr. Juan Nicolau 4 Rev. Raymond Nwachukwu 7 Rev. Leonel Rodriguez Bazan 9 Rev. Jesus G.Garza 10 Rev. Jose E. Losoya, CO 13 Rev. Richard Lifrak, ss.cc. 16 Rev. Mario A. Aviles, CO 17 Rev. Rafael Jaime Cabañas 19 Rev. Thomas Luczak, OFM 22 Rev. George A. Gonzalez 23 Rev. Jose Rene Angel, JCL 26 Rev. Martin De La Cruz 30 Rev. Juan Rogelio Gutierrez 19 Deacon Ramiro Davila, Jr. 20 Deacon Agapito Cantu 22 Deacon Michael Myers 29 Deacon Roberto Ledesma 6 Sister Colette Kraus, SSND 21 Sister Nancy Boushey, OSB 27 Sister Mmachimerem O. Onyemelikwe, DDL » Anniversaries 1 Rev. Ignacio Luna 7 Rev. Paul Wilhelm, OMI 8 Rev. Rafael Jaime Cabañas 8 Rev. Richard Philion, OMI 9 Rev. Vicente Azcoiti 19 Rev. Esteban Hernandez 30 Deacon Martin Jaques, Jr. ty. “I wanted to help my parents, that was important to me,” Deacon Saenz said. Upon returning to the area, Deacon Saenz also organized and led the CYO (Catholic Youth Organization) at Holy Family Church in La Grulla. In 1980, Deacon Saenz participated in the diocesan lay ministry program. By the second year of the three-year program, Mercy Sister Cecilia Casas (1934-2013), who led the classes in Starr County, was asking him if he was interested in becoming a deacon. He was ordained to the permanent diaconate in 1985. “It has been a very good experience,” said Deacon Saenz, who recently retired after 50 years as an educator. He was a teacher in Rio Grande City for 14 years and an administrator for the La Joya school district for 36 years. “I am grateful to be able to serve the people because I am a people person. I thank the Lord for giving me the patience to work with people of all backgrounds and situations. I believe the temperament required as an educator has helped me in my ministry as a deacon.” Holy Family Parish in La Grulla has two missions, Cristo Rey Church in La Victoria and Our Lady of Peace Church in Garciasville and Deacon Saenz serves all three churches. He delivers the homily at the three Masses every other Sunday. “I enjoy preparing the homily and the reading and research it entails,” he said. “Through a lot prayer and reading, one of the many gifts of the diaconate is to better discern the Word of God.” Now that he is retired from the school district, Deacon Saenz will be volunteering with the diocesan jail ministry and at Catholic radio station KSGS 99.9, Good News in addition to his responsibilities at the parish. “I’m very happy to have him join the jail ministry because I know that he is a religious, committed man,” said Ofelia De los Santos, director of the Jail Ministry and Immigration Services for the diocese, who has known Deacon Saenz for years. “I have always admired his enthusiasm as an educator and for this reason, I try to recruit retired educators who have worked as teachers because like Deacon Saenz, they have the compassion, the care and the knowledge that is needed in jail ministry.” “He is ‘onboard’ as a volunteer for our radio station,” Sister Boushey said. “He will be a wonderful advisor for the team and also a participant doing much needed hands-on work. “I thank the Lord for this man of God and my friend, who has served the diocese for the long haul.” Deacon Saenz and his wife, Adoracion, have been married for 43 years and have four children and six grandchildren. CDA Court earns national honors 5 Deacon Jesus P. Galvan 5 Deacon Sergio Garcia 6 Deacon Bruno Cedillo 6 Deacon Francisco R. Flores 15 Deacon Eduardo Reyna 17 Deacon Guillermo Castañeda Jr. 20 Deacon David Espinoza 22 Deacon Oscar Garcia 23 Deacon Alvin H. Gerbermann Courtesy photo Catholic Daughters of the Americas, Immaculate Heart of Mary, Living Rosary Court #2540 Newsletter Committee from Holy Spirit Church in McAllen, received first place in Category I Division I of the National Newsletter Contest. This national honor was presented at the 58th Biennial National Convention held in Pittsburgh on July 24. DIOCESAN MASS FOR LAY ECCLESIAL MOVEMENTS, APOSTOLATES AND ASSOCIATIONS… SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 10, 2016 BASILICA OF OUR LADY OF SAN JUAN AT 2PM 10 Brother Moises A. Lopez, MSC 20 Sister Jane F. Ambrose, SHSp 25 Sister Elizabeth Iruka, DMMM 27 Sister Gayle Hurban, SSND » Anniversaries 17 Rev. Roy Lee Snipes, OMI 11 Deacon Sergio Gonzalez 11 Deacon Michael Myers Sister who served the diocese dies The Valley Catholic HOUSTON — Sister Ann Margaret Savant of the Houstonbased Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word died on Aug. 23 at the age of 76. Sister Savant was born in Fenton, La. and entered the Congregation of the Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word on February 13, 1959 at Villa de Matel. Sister Savant dedicated her ministry to serving the poor and infirmed in Texas, California and Louisiana. In her biography on her religious community’s website, Sister Savant stated that the most memorable moments in her life as a religious were ministering to the Central American refugees in the Diocese of Brownsville. She was well-known for her ministry in Harlingen, serving as the refugee ministry administrator at Refugio del Rio Grande; pastoral and administrative assistant at St. Anthony Parish and as the business manager of Loaves & Fishes. In 2005, Sister Savant was recognized by the City of Harlingen for her contributions to the city. Later, she also served at Monica’s House, a child advocacy center in Brownsville. Sister Savant was laid to rest on August 27 at Villa de Matel Cemetery in Houston. Flame of Love event promotes Marian devotion, families The Valley Catholic October » Birthdays 2 Rev. Anthony O’Connor, SM 2 Rev. Marco Antonio Reynoso 4 Rev. Francisco Acosta 8 Rev. Robert DeLong, MSF 10 Rev. Cesar Uriel Partida 11 Rev. Paul H. Roman, FSSP 13 Rev. Eduardo Villa 14 Rev. Eka Yuantoro, MSF 16 Rev. Msgr. Heberto M. Diaz, Jr. 18 Rev. Jean Olivier M. Sambu 30 Rev. Rene Gaytan 31 Rev. Tomas Mateos Sister Ann Margaret Savant, CCVI Oct. 16, 1939 - Aug. 23, 2016 Bishop Daniel E. Flores invites all members of the Lay Ecclesial Movements, Apostolates, Associations, Organizations, Communities and Ministries in the Diocese to participate and give witness on this day. Please bring banners and wear respective shirts. For more information please contact: Deacon Luis Zuniga, Office for Evangelization ([email protected]) Local organizers of the Catholic Marian movement, the Flame of Love of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, are hosting a conference about the devotion in September at three parishes in the Diocese of Brownsville. Anthony Mullen, the national coordinator for the Flame of Love movement in the United States, will lead each conference and provide more insight on the movement and its effectiveness in evangelizing to families and setting hearts of fire. The first conference is scheduled from 6 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 15 at the Immaculate Conception Cathedral, 1218 E. Jefferson St., Brownsville. The second will follow on from 6 to 9 p.m. Friday, Sept. 16 at Holy Spirit Catholic Church, 2201 Martin Ave., McAllen. The final session is set from 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. Saturday, Sept. 17 at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church, 500 South Canal St., La Feria. There is no cost to attend and translations in Spanish will be provided. For more information contact Edna Urias, a local coordinator of the movement, at (956) 739-8383 or via email at [email protected]. 8 NEWS The Valley Catholic - SEPTEMBER 2016 WORLD YOUTH DAY Dallas bishop appointed to Vatican post Don’t be afraid to say By CINDY WOODEN Catholic News Service “Yes” Photos for The Valley Catholic Three groups from the diocese recently returned from Poland, where they attended World Youth Day in Krakow. The pilgrims, which included a group from the diocese and groups from Holy Family Parish in La Grulla and St. Joseph Parish in Donna, visited historic and religious sites in addition to participating in the World Youth Day festivities. Pope Francis delivered the homily at the closing Mass on July 31 for a crowd of more than a million. The theme of the Holy Father’s remarks focused on how to overcome obstacles to building a real relationship with Jesus, whether they be obstacles that arise in one’s own soul or obstacles one will inevitably encounter in the world and in society. “Dear young friends, don’t be ashamed to bring everything to the Lord in confession, especially your weaknesses, your struggles and your sins,” Pope Francis said. “He will surprise you with his forgiveness and his peace. Don’t be afraid to say ‘yes’ to him with all your heart, to respond generously and to follow him! Don’t let your soul grow numb, but aim for the goal of a beautiful love which also demands sacrifice. Say a firm ‘no’ to the narcotic of success at any cost and the sedative of worrying only about yourself and your own comfort.” VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis has named Bishop Kevin J. Farrell of Dallas to head the Vatican’s new office for laity, family and life. The Dublin-born bishop will celebrate his 69th birthday Sept. 2, the day after the new Vatican office officially begins its work. In a statement a few hours after his appointment was anBishop Farrell nounced in Rome, Bishop Farrell said he was “extremely humbled” Pope Francis chose him to lead the new office. “I look forward to being part of the important work of the universal church in the promotion of the laity and the apostolate of the laity and for the pastoral care of the family in accordance with the pope’s recent apostolic exhortation, ‘Amoris Laetitia,’ (‘The Joy of Love’), and the support of human life,” he said. At the same time, Bishop Farrell said he had “mixed emotions” about leaving Dallas, its people and priests. Bishop Kevin Farrell is the brother of Bishop Brian Farrell, secretary of the Pontifical Council for Promoting Christian Unity. Both brothers were ordained to the priesthood for the Le- gionaries of Christ, but the Dallas bishop was later incardinated in the Archdiocese of Washington and served as an auxiliary bishop there 2002-2007. When the Dallas bishop arrives in Rome, it will be the first time the two brothers have ever ministered in the same city, the Vatican’s Bishop Farrell told Catholic News Service Aug. 17. The appointment “was a huge surprise to me and a huge surprise, of course, to him. But he has such a long experience of pastoral work and administration as well,” he added. Pope Francis, in a brief apostolic letter formally establishing the new “Dicastery for Laity, Family and Life,” said the office should respond “to the situations of our age and adapt to the needs of the universal church.” The church, as an “attentive mother,” must show special care and concern for the lay faithful, for families and for the sacredness of human life, he wrote in the letter, which was released Aug. 17. “We want to offer them support and help so that they would be active witnesses of the Gospel in our age and an expression of the goodness of the Redeemer.” Pope Francis created the new office by combining the pontifical councils for the laity and for the family. Bishop Farrell, has been bishop of Dallas since 2007. Before that, he was an auxiliary bishop in the Archdiocese of Washington. Grandpa’s new app inspires positivity By MARY REZAK Catholic News Agency/ EWTN ORANGE COUTY, Calif. — For twenty-five years, Tom Riles has carried a stack of index cards in his shirt pocket. On the cards, in his neat, all-caps handwriting, Riles scrawled scripture verses and affirming quotes in blue and black and red ink to inspire him throughout his day. That’s because 25 years ago, Tom Riles had a bad attitude. After being rejected for a job scraping gum off the sidewalks with a powerwasher in his then-hometown in New Jersey because of his attitude, Riles realized something needed to change. “My attitude was way out of whack,” he told CNA. “And then somebody gave me a book called ‘The Power of Positive Thinking’ by Norman Vincent Peale.” Peale, a Christian, encouraged readers to write down inspirational quotes to reference throughout the day in order to change their thinking and ultimately their lives. Since following that advice, Riles, now a 67 yearold grandfather of 10, has never been the same. “I trained myself to use these positive affirmations to bring me into God’s Immaculate Conception Cathedral Gift Shop Leonard Ortiz/Orange County Register Tom Riles displays his handwritten affirmation cards. presence throughout the day, and when we’re in his presence, we experience peace and joy,” he said. That’s why Riles wants to turn the idea of his index cards into an app that people throughout the world can use. Four years ago, Riles started using his smartphone to schedule alerts with affirmations throughout the day. When Riles told this to his friend from church, app developer Aaron Horvath, he suggested they create an app. The pair launched a Kickstarter campaign last month to raise $30,000 to build a free mobile app that will send out positive messages and affirmations, at a frequency that the user selects. “Tom is proof that technology is not just for over-caffeinated millennials,” Horvath told The Orange County Register. “If you have an idea, a passion and funding, there are no boundaries in the world of technology.” The name for the app is OnPath, because of how the quotes can bring a person back into the presence of God and keep them on the right path throughout the day, Riles said. For himself, Riles said his cards help remind him of God both during ordinary, daily life and before big events, like when he was taking a test to become a captain of a fishing boat on the Jersey Shore. His daughter used them before she took her boards test to become a nurse. And fifteen years ago, when Riles was diagnosed with a serious blood disorder, he was able to recall the presence of God even in the midst of a life-altering diagnosis. Riles said he’s been very humbled to be involved in the process of creating an app at his age. 1158 East Jefferson Street OPEN 10AMBrownsville, Texas, 78520 5PM Tel: 956-546-9927 Monday Saturday Rosaries Prayer Cards & DVD’s Bibles & Missals Spiritual Reading SEPTIEMBRE 2016 NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL - The Valley Catholic »Mujeres en la frontera »Vida Familiar Lo que trae la muerte con nuestras despedidas M i padre murió hace un año a los 79 años y más recientemente mi suegro, que tenía 89, murió el 20 de agosto. Varios compañeros de trabajo también sufrieron la perdida de seres queridos este año pasado. Nos hemos familiarizado demasiado con uno de los siete trabajos corporales de la misericordia, aquel de enterrar a los muertos. Cada uno recorre un diferente camino de duelo, pero no caminamos solos. Con cada funeral al que asisto me vuelvo más consiente de las bendiciones que vienen con cada parte del ritual funerario. He podido comprender la belleza inherente en cada funeral. Confieso que me sorprendí la primera vez que escuché a alguien describir un funeral como hermoso. ¿Cómo puede ser hermosa una ocasión atada a la muerte y el duelo? Serán las flores, la música, las lecturas, los panegíricos? Es eso y mucho más. La muerte viene enredada con capas multifacéticas conforme vivimos la pérdida de un ser amado, una madre, padre, abuela, abuelo o hijo. Es un adiós a la persona que amamos mientras ellos “dejan el cuerpo y se van a la casa del Señor” (2 Cor 5:8). Lágrimas nos inundan, las memorias emergen, y en medio de nuestro duelo, algunos de nosotros aún conmocionados y entumidos, estamos rodeados por miembros de la familia y amigos que nos ayudan a encontrar espacio para celebrar. Juntos, celebramos la vida, el regalo de la persona que amamos en nuestras vidas y la vida que Dios nos ha dado a cada uno de nosotros. En preparación para el funeral de mi suegro, reunimos fotos para una presentación de fotografías. Las fotos se presentaban con imágenes de una vida bien vivida. Como el patriarca, su legado está marcado por la fuerte ética de trabajo y el constante amor y compromiso con su esposa por 64 años, sus cinco hijos (todos adultos y casados), 12 nietos y siete bisnietos. Desde enseñarle a sus bisnietos a andar en bicicleta o mantenerlos ocupados con proyectos de madera, él dedicó incontables horas a asegurarse que no se perdiera ningún momento clave. Incluso aquellos de nosotros que llegamos a su familia con el matrimonio lo llegamos a ver como un segundo padre. Fue una presencia constante en nuestras vidas. Así que mientras llorábamos, también celebrábamos lo que le dio al mundo. Adicionalmente, la muerte nos hace detenernos, nos recuerda que somos peregrinos. Es un recordatorio de nuestra mortalidad, nuestro “memento mori,” Latín para “recuerda que tienes que morir.” Más que un recordatorio, debe sacudirnos para preguntarnos a nosotros mismos “¿cómo estamos viviendo nuestra propia vida? ¿Cuál será nuestro legado? Después de que mi padre muriera, estaba sorprendida con el número de personas que se tomó el tiempo para acompañar a mi familia en el servicio funeral. Hasta este día estoy 9 Brenda Nettles Riojas Editora, The Valley Catholic sumamente agradecida con cada persona que estuvo presente de alguna forma – cada abrazo, oración, tarjeta de condolencia, llamada. Su bondad siempre será recordada. Como señala la conferencia de Obispos Católicos, “El funeral da la oportunidad de afligirse y mostrarle a otros el apoyo en tiempos difíciles. A través de nuestras oraciones y acciones durante estos tiempos mostramos nuestro respeto por la vida, que siempre es un regalo de Dios, y confortamos a aquellos que están en duelo.” Qué hermoso que no caminemos solos. Dios está presente en cada paso del trayecto. La familia y amigos también nos dan fuerza mientras lidiamos con la muerte. La presencia de otras personas en nuestras vidas, que pausan por un momento sus compromisos diarios para acompañarnos en nuestro camino trae luz a la oscuridad. Esto es causa de celebración, ya que nos da esperanza para los días venideros. Lydia Pesina de nuestra Oficina de Vida Familiar me dio un diario hace un año, “The New Day Journal: A journey from grief to healing” por Mauryeen O’Biran, el cual ha sido de gran ayuda. Después de la pérdida de su madre y después su hermano, nos reunimos a través del curso de un año con otra amiga para trabajar en lo que el libro se refiere como “las cuatro tareas del duelo.” Si bien sabemos que la muerte no es el fin y esperamos la resurrección, la muerte para aquellos que nos quedamos es dolorosa. La muerte también puede ser una experiencia transformativa. La muerte de mi madre hace más de 20 años me marcó una urgencia de vivir cada momento como un regalo. Cada muerte que le ha seguido enfatiza esta lección. Cada vida que celebramos en cada funeral nos recuerda que la vida es un regalo, un regalo que tenemos que honrar a vivirla de la mejor manera posible. El Papa Francisco, en este Año de la Misericordia, nos alienta a vivir de la mejor manera que podamos sirviendo a otros. La muerte nos trae momentos agridulces. He encontrado de mucha ayuda contar las bendiciones diariamente. Es importante también estar ahí para los familiares o amigos que enfrentan una perdida. Conforme viajamos juntos, se que con el tiempo, el duelo y la oscuridad perderán su atadura y la luz llenará nuestros días. St. Agustín rezó, “Hay días… en que nuestras vidas no tienen música y nuestros corazones están solos, y nuestras almas han perdido su valor. Inunda el camino con luz, te suplicamos oh Señor. Voltea nuestra mirada hacia donde los cielos están llenos de promesa.” L Los rituales de la familia os rituales son un elemento importante de la vida familiar y cada familia tiene sus propios rituales especiales que pueden variar desde cómo nos decimos “adiós” cuando salimos de la casa rumbo al trabajo o la escuela hasta como nos reunimos para comer o nos decimos “buenas noches”. Algunos rituales pasan de generación en generación y otros surgen de la experiencia particular de cada familia. Al crecer en una casa al lado de mis abuelos, mis hermanos y yo solíamos decir a nuestra abuela “Hasta mañana Mama grande” antes de acostarnos, a lo que ella contestaba “Que Dios sea servido” y nos hacía la señal de la cruz en nuestra frente. Durante el crecimiento de nuestra hija Liana, nosotros continuamos ese ritual. En una ocasión, cuando Liana tenía 5 o 6 años de edad, yo estaba en una conferencia fuera de la ciudad y le llame de un teléfono público en un restaurante. Al final de la conversación ella me dijo “Mami, pon el teléfono en tu frente” y le pregunte para que; y ella contesto “para poder darte una bendición.” Hasta el día de hoy, cada vez que una de nosotras esta fuera de la ciudad, decimos “Quien va primero” y ponemos el celular en nuestra frente para la bendición. Uno de los rituales que nuestra familia extendida ha disfrutado en los últimos años es que los niños de edad escolar en la familia lean una oración de bendición para los que celebran su cumpleaños, tomada del libro de oraciones del Padre Ed Hayes “Prayers for the Domestic Church”, y después los adultos ampliamos la oración. ¡Orar y comer juntos siempre son maneras excelentes de celebrar días especiales! Lydia Pesina Directora, Oficina de Vida Familiar Nuestra hija y nuestro nieto Elián, de 3 años de edad, están viviendo con nosotros y nuestro tiempo familiar y en la mesa familiar es doblemente bendecido. Durante este año pasado, la “tarea” de Elián a la hora de la cena ha sido sacudir una pequeña canasta con nombres de personas que necesitan nuestra oración y seleccionar uno. (¡Su selección favorita es su tío Art!). En el primer domingo de Adviento del año pasado no puse la canastita en la mesa porque íbamos a encender la primera vela de la Corona de Adviento y hacer la respectiva oración y reflexión, y el lloró porque quería escoger un nombre de la canasta, entonces hicimos ambas cosas. Al final del Adviento, el insistía en encender una vela, entonces hasta el día de hoy encendemos una vela cada noche durante la cena al igual que la canasta de oración. No sé cómo será en su familia, pero en la nuestra las cosas no son siempre agradables, ordenadas y calmadas: algunas veces alguien esta apurado o de mal humor o muy callado o el pequeño esta exigente; pero creo que el ser consistente con estos rituales nos une de una manera muy especial. San Juan Pablo II declaró en su Exhortación Apostólica “Familiaris Consortio” que la familia es “la iglesia doméstica” y que lo sagrado de la vida radica en las cosas ordinarias de la vida familiar como cocinar, limpiar, cambiar pañales, compartir una comida, o lavar los platos. A menudo comparto que la vida familiar es “desordenada” pero sin embargo es “sagrada”. Elián ha sido bendecido con unos padrinos maravillosos. Mike y Audrey Guerra se comprometieron a venir a ver a Elián el día primero de cada mes desde que lo bautizaron (su cumpleaños es el 1ro de Marzo). Ese día compartimos una comida o simplemente panecitos y café y luego decimos una oración de bendición que adaptamos de un libro de oraciones de Joyce Rupp. He aquí algunas líneas de esta oración: “Elián, que el milagro de tu nacimiento siempre sea una fuente de alegría para ti. Elián, que siempre seas bendecido con personas sabias y amorosas que te guíen y protejan. Elián, que siempre reconozcas el gran amor que el Creador tiene para ti. Padre eterno, nuestro hijo es tu hijo. Guíanos y dirígenos para educar a Elián con las cualidades que el necesita para vivir una vida plena. Gracias por el maravilloso regalo de Elián. Somos abundantemente bendecidos. Amen.” Independientemente del tamaño, la forma o edad de nuestra familia, la vida familiar es sagrada y los rituales que cultivemos pueden enriquecer nuestra vida cotidiana. Rituales como comer juntos diariamente en la mesa familiar (sin electrónicos) tan a menudo como sea posible con los horarios de trabajo tan variados, tiene el potencial de formar familias saludables, felices y santas. La vida presenta muchos retos (finanzas, salud, relaciones y Fe) pero nuestro Dios amoroso nos acompaña y guía con Su Espíritu Santo siempre y en Todas Formas. » La Alegría de Vivir Mártires y bárbaros de nuestros tiempos E l trágico evento que sucedió hace unas semanas, en una provincia del norte de Francia, donde en plena misa, frente al altar, un sacerdote llamado Jacques Hamel fue asesinado por dos terroristas que cobardemente sometieron al anciano de 86 años y grabaron en video cuando lo degollaron, según los testigos que estaban ahí para celebrar la misa diaria, hace pensar que en Europa anda el diablo suelto. Los atacantes fueron abatidos por las fuerzas del orden en menos de hora y media, y el presidente de Francia François Hollande tuvo una vez más que salir a denunciar este ataque de los terroristas yihadistas en su país, después del terrible atropellamiento de cientos en Niza y la matanza en los centros nocturnos y un concierto que había ocurrido en Paris meses atrás dejando más de un centenar de muertos. Esto marca el primer ataque provocando específicamente a los cristianos/católicos en Europa por quienes reclamaban pertenecer al ISIS, Msgr. Juan Nicolau Sacerdote jubilado de la Diócesis de Brownsville el movimiento autodenominado Estado Islamico que tiene una distorsionada y fanatizada versión del islam que desean imponer como forma de gobierno pero que nada tiene que ver con la religión y los preceptos que inculca el Islam en el Coran. Como lo hizo notar el Papa Francisco que se encontraba en ese momento en Polonia para iniciar la XXXI Jornada Mundial de la Juventud. El Papa expreso su “dolor y horror” por este acto barbárico pero insistió que no debemos caer en el juego de esos desquiciados terroristas que desean levantar una guerra entre religiones, en Medio Oriente y en África el grupo terrorista Boko Haram, cometen cotidianamente actos repudiables y abominables contra católicos y ortodoxos, como en contra de la población musulmana que no comparte su fanatismo, todos tenemos presente el rapto de 300 jovencitas que fueron secuestradas en una escuela y de las cuales solo algunas han sido encontradas. Y como olvidar las imágenes de 20 cristianos cópticos de Egipto siendo decapitados por unos barbaros radicales que tratan de imponer un estado islámico (ISIS por sus siglas en ingles) y aunque estas atrocidades las llevan a cabo en nombre de Ala, los mismos líderes musulmanes los han denunciado y repudiado, pues desacreditan al Islam como religión, al tratar de imponerlo como un estado político y barbárico. Como ciudadanos del mundo, este es el momento de la serenidad y da la unidad con quienes controlan la lucha antiterrorista, y también es el tiempo de defender más que nunca la libertad y el respeto por los derechos individuales, lo contrario sería renunciar a los principios básicos que sustentan nuestra convivencia. 10 NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL The Valley Catholic - SEPTIEMBRE 2016 ‘Pueden ser quienes son’ ‘Una pequeña mujer Parroquia ofrece Misa para niños con necesidades especiales Por JESSICA CARLOS The Valley Catholic BROWNSVILLE – “Si lloran, déjenlos llorar,” dijo el Padre Jorge Gómez, pastor de la parroquia Santa Familia en Brownsville. “Si gritan, déjenlos gritar. Probablemente esa sea la forma en la que oran al Señor, y Él los escucha.” Por más de dos años el Padre Gómez ha estado celebrando la Misa el primer domingo de cada mes para niños con necesidades especiales. Él dijo que los padres han compartido con él que personas de otras parroquias a menudo no entienden las necesidades de sus hijos. Algunas veces los niños necesitan moverse o necesitan hacer ruido, dijo él, y sus padres reciben miradas de otras personas como si tuvieran que callar a sus hijos, o si sus hijos fueran una distracción. Sergio Zarate, feligrés de la Santa Familia y padre de una hija con necesidades especiales, dijo, “Ahora nuestros hijos pueden ser ellos mismos, no tenemos que callarlos o silenciarlos. Ellos pueden ser quienes son y expresarse de la manera que son.” Cuando Diego de siete años asiste a misa, cuando el Padre dice “El señor esté con ustedes” él responde gritando hacia el cielo, “¡Y con su espíritu!” El Padre Gómez dice que todos los tíos y tías adoptivos, los parroquianos de la Santa Familia que lo han adoptado como un miembro de su familia, aman la forma en la que Diego reza. Él reza con el entusiasmo que desea que todos los feligreses compartiéramos. La Misa para los niños con necesidades especiales fue iniciada después de que Zarate, junto con Leonel López y otros miembros de la Orden de Alambra se acercaran al Padre Gómez con la petición para dicha Misa. “Mientras tengan a diez personas, daré la Misa,” dijo él. Para la sorpresa del Padre Gómez, cerca de cincuenta asistieron a la primera Misa. Ahora las familias viajan desde La Feria y Weslaco para asistir. La Misa es Misa, dijo el Padre Gómez. No cambia. La única diferencia es que se predica para las necesidades de los niños y sus padres. “Me encanta,” dijo él. Hace un año, la Iglesia Santa Familia celebró el sacramento de la primera comunión por primera vez con niños con necesidades especiales. “Esa ha sido una de las cosas más gratificantes en mi ministerio, en mis 12 años como sacerdote,” dijo el Padre Gómez, “ver la Iglesia llena porque 14 de ellos iban a recibir la primera comunión, pero los padres, abuelos, tíos y tías, parientes y amigos – vinieron a estar con ellos en ese día especial.” enamorada de Dios’ La Madre Teresa será canonizada el 4 de septiembre ACI Prensa Jessica Carlos/The Valley Catholic Los niños presentan el pan y vino que se transformarán en el Cuerpo y Sangre del Señor en la misa para niños con necesidades especiales en Brownsville. Las obras corporales de misericordia: Dar de comer al hambriento; Dar de beber al sediento; Vestir al desnudo; Dar posada al necesitado; Visitar al enfermo; Socorrer a los presos; Enterrar a los muertos. La Iglesia Santa Familia también ofrece clases de catecismo una vez al mes para niños y adultos jóvenes con necesidades especiales. Un estudiante, una mujer de 27 años con síndrome de Down llamada Rocio, ha hecho una impresión de por vida en el Padre Gómez. Cada mes, dijo él, ella corría hacia él y le decía, “Padre, me voy a casar,” y cada mes él le respondía, “A si, Rocio, que bueno. Felicidades.” Un día, después de su comentario usual, su curiosidad le hizo preguntar, “Enserio, y ¿quién es tu novio?” Ella respondió, “Jesús.” Su respuesta lo asombró – Esta niña especial, dijo, puede entender lo que muchos feligreses batallan para entender. Verdaderamente especial. El día de la primera comunión, el proclamado día de bodas de Rocio, el Padre Gómez le ofreció “El Cuerpo de Cristo,” y ella respondió, ese es mi novio. Amen.” El Padre Gómez no pudo evitar dejar ro- dar sus lágrimas. Cada mes, la Misa recibe una concurrencia generosa, pero Zarate, también el gran comandante de la Orden de Alambra’s Alva Caravan, espera que más familias se unan en la celebración de la Misa y que quien sea que necesita un lugar tranquilo de descanso y oración, Católico o no, pueden encontrar un hogar en la Iglesia Santa Familia y las parroquias como esta. La comunidad ya ha empezado a hacer llegar el apoyo. El 31 de julio, Driscoll Health Plan, en asociación con “Down” en la Frontera, una organización cofundada por Zarate orientada hacia la ayuda a niños con necesidades especiales, distribuyó mochilas a los niños después de Misa y los invito a Un Día en el Cine el 13 de agosto y a October Fest par niños con Necesidades Especiales. El Padre Gómez alienta a otros pastores a celebrar Misa para niños con necesidades especiales, con la esperanza de que algún día haya una Misa como está en una parroquia en cada condado. “Me gustaría mucho que otros sacerdotes abrieran sus corazones para recibir a estos niños y que estén abiertos para aprender de ellos. No se trata de lo que podemos enseñarles sino de lo que puedes aprender de ellos, como yo lo he hecho. He aprendido mucho de ellos, dijo él. Para mayor información, contacte a la Parroquia Santa Familia al (956) 546-6975. For the latest news Watch Tuesdays at noon on Facebook ROMA – “De sangre soy albanesa. De ciudadanía, india. En lo referente a la fe, soy una monja católica. Por mi vocación, pertenezco al mundo. En lo que se refiere a mi corazón, pertenezco totalmente al Corazón de Jesús”, decía la Madre Teresa. Será canonizada por el Papa Francisco el 4 de septiembre en Roma. Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhia nació el 26 de agosto de 1910 en Skopje (actual Macedonia). Desde pequeña recibió una profunda formación religiosa en la Parroquia Sagrado Corazón, que estaba a cargo de los jesuitas. Su padre murió cuando ella tenía ocho años. Esta pérdida trajo problemas económicos a su familia. A los 18 años ingresó al Instituto de la Bienaventurada Virgen María, conocido como las Hermanas de Loreto, en Irlanda. Allí tomó el nombre de Hermana María Teresa en honor a Santa Teresa de Lisieux. La llamada dentro de la llamada El 10 de septiembre de 1946, durante un viaje que realizó a Darjeeling para realizar su retiro anual, la Madre Teresa recibió lo que ella llamó la “inspiración” o su “llamada dentro de la llamada”. Aquel día la sed de amor y de almas se apoderó de su corazón. En las siguientes semanas, mediante locuciones interiores y visiones, el mismo Jesús le reveló su deseo de encontrar “víctimas de amor” que “irradiasen a las almas su amor”. “Ven y sé mi luz. No puedo ir solo.”, le dijo. En respuesta a ese llamado, 17 de agosto de 1948 se visitó por primera vez con el sari blanco orlado de azul y salió del convento de Loreto para introducirse en el mundo de los más pobres. Recorrió los barrios paupérrimos, visitó familias, lavó las heridas de los niños y ayudó a los Misa continua de la pág. 1 imiento aporta algo a la Iglesia. Ellos tienen algo que ofrecer y ellos son movidos por el Espíritu Santo – es por eso que le llamamos movimiento, porque son guiados por el Espíritu, ellos se llenan del Espíritu en la Iglesia para servir a la Iglesia. “ Las asociaciones Laicas han existido en la Iglesia por siglos y son importantes porque ellas complementan la misión de la Iglesia, de acuerdo con el prefacio del Directorio Internacional de Asociaciones para los Fieles, la cual es publicada por el Concilio Pontífice para los Laicos en el Vaticano. “Vemos constantemente el fenómeno de los grupos de varios tamaños que son espontáneamente llamados a unirse, guiados por un misteriosa provocación del Espíritu para conseguir un propósito caritativo o espiritual Michael Collopy/Catholic News Service La Madre Teresa de Calcuta en 1992. olvidados. Todos los días recibía la Eucaristía y salía de su casa con el rosario en la mano. Meses después se le unieron algunas de sus antiguas pupilas. Cristo le pidió que fundara una congregación religiosa, que más tarde sería las Misioneras de la Caridad, dedicada al servicio de los más pobres entre los pobres. En 1950 se estableció oficialmente la Congregación de las Misioneras de la Caridad. Tiempo después envió a sus hermanas a otras partes de la India y abrió otras casas en Venezuela, Roma, Tanzania e incluso en casi todos los países que entonces formaban parte de la Unión Soviética. En 1979 se le otorgó el Premio Nobel de la Paz. Desde entonces los medios de comunicación siguieron atentamente sus obras, que daban testimonio de la alegría de amar y de la grandeza y dignidad de cada persona humana. Después de encontrarse por última vez con San Juan Pablo II, retorna a Calcuta y el 5 de septiembre de 1997 partió hacia la Casa del Padre. Durante la Misa de Beatificación, el 19 de octubre del 2003, San Juan Pablo II dijo de ella: “Veneremos a esta pequeña mujer enamorada de Dios, humilde mensajera del Evangelio e infatigable bienhechora de la humanidad. Honremos en ella a una de las personalidades más relevantes de nuestra época. Acojamos su mensaje y sigamos su ejemplo”. Para más información, se puede ingresar al sitio http://motherteresa.org/espanol/layout.html para cumplir necesidades especificas de la iglesia en su propio tiempo y también para cooperar en su misión esencial y permanente,” señala el prefacio. “Todos somos parte del Cuerpo de Cristo, es por eso que la Misa de este 10 de septiembre es tan importante para nosotros, para reunirnos en unión con nuestro obispo,” dijo el Diacono Zúñiga. “El obispo quiere afirmar estos movimientos laicos y los regalos y carisma que ofrecen a la Iglesia.” El Padre Fernando Gonzales sirve como el Vicario Episcopal para los Movimientos Laicos de la diócesis y alienta a todos a participar y dar testimonio en este día mientras continuamos nuestros esfuerzos de evangelización. Aquellos que asisten a Misa se les pide traer estandartes y pancartas y que usen sus playeras respectivas. Para mayor información, enviar un correo electrónico al Diacono Zúñiga a [email protected] o llame al (956) 784-5059. SEPTEMBER 2016 DIOCESE 11 - The Valley Catholic »Media Resource Center White Mass set for Oct. 6 in McAllen September 1 El Amor Conyugal - Roma Recommended by SISTER MAUREEN CROSBY, SSD Coordinator of the Media Resource Center - Diocese of Brownsville 2 El Amor Conyugal - Brownsville 5 »From the Bookshelf The Vatican in Plain English Format: paperwork Length: 368 mins Author: William Huebsch, Paul Thurmes Publisher: Thomas More Association Publication Year: 2004 The Second Vatican Council, which met from 1962 through 1965, is the most significant event in the last 400 years of Christian history. It changed the face of the Roman Catholic Church forever and dramatically affected all the people of the world. In this three-volume set, author and theologian Bill Huebsch has provided a thorough and thoroughly readable telling of the story of Vatican II.the dynamic duo ever muster enough power to break out of the womb and return home to their garage? »Worth Watching The Day the Sun Danced Format: DVD Length:30 mins Audience: All Ages Directors: Steven Hahn Producers: Steven Hahn, John E. Williams Studio: CCC Of America June 21, 2005 In 1917, three children named Lucia, Francisco and Jacinta experienced a great miracle. While herding a flock of sheep outside the tiny village of Fatima, Portugal, the Blessed Mother visited them, not once, but many times, telling the children great and wondrous secrets that would affect all of creation. When the children tried to share the joyous news of Our Lady of Fatima, no one believed them, until the day the sun seemed to dance in the sky. The Faithful Revolution (Diocesan Offices Closed) 10 Sponsor Couple Training Il - English (Family Life Office) 10 Sponsor Couple Training Il- Spanish (Family Life Office) The Valley Catholic Bishop Daniel E. Flores will celebrate the 13th annual White Mass for health care professionals at 6:30 p.m. on Thursday, Oct. 6 at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, 2209 Kendlewood Ave. in McAllen. All health care professionals of all faiths are invited to attend. A reception and conference will be held in the parish hall after the Mass. Named for the white garments traditionally worn by medical professionals, the White Mass provides healthcare professionals an opportunity to unite as a medical community and to reaffirm their vocation as a healing ministry of Jesus Christ. The White Mass is generally held on or around the feast of St. Luke (Oct. 18), the patron of physicians. The event is free to attend, but kindly RSVP so organizers may plan accordingly. To RSVP, call Gloria Morales in the Office of Health Ministry at (956) 784-5007. Movements continued from pg. 1 the Holy Spirit — that’s why it’s called a movement, because they are led by the Spirit, they grow out of the Spirit in the Church to serve the Church.” Lay associations have existed in the Church for centuries and are important because they complement the mission on the Church, according the preface of the Directory of International Associations of the Faithful, which is published by the Pon- Talking continued from pg. 5 regarding relationships, and be involved in the kids’ dating practices. Too often parents are tempted to take a “handsoff ” approach to this area of their children’s lives. When I was growing up, we knew (and Presence continued from pg. 12 and support she received from Chapa and others at the McAllen Pregnancy Center. Her baby, an eight-monthold boy named Samson is tifical Council for the Laity at the Vatican. “We have constantly seen the phenomenon of groups of varying sizes being spontaneously urged on to join together, driven by a mysterious prompting of the Holy Spirit, to pursue specific charitable or spiritual purposes to meet particular needs of the Church in their time and also to cooperate in her essential and permanent mission,” the preface states. “We are all part of the Body of Christ, that’s why this Sept. 10 Mass is so important for us to gather in unity with our bish- op,” Deacon Zuniga said. “The bishop wants to affirm these lay movements and the gifts and charisms they offer the Church.” Father Fernando Gonzalez serves as Episcopal Vicar for the Lay Movements in the diocese and he encourages everyone to participate and give witness on this day as we continue our evangelization efforts. Those who attend the Mass are asked to bring banners and stands and wear their respective shirts. For more information, email Deacon Zuniga at [email protected] or call (956) 784-5059. eventually appreciated) my father’s rule that we couldn’t date until we were 18. Setting appropriate rules for kids serves as a sign of a parent’s love and concern for them. Whenever parents determine that dating should begin, it offers further opportunities and occasions to discuss problems and scenarios that can help teens set moral boundaries. Talking to kids and helping them to become good stewards of the gift of human sexuality bestowed by God is hard work. In a culture that forcefully communicates a pornified countergospel, though, it is certainly one of the most important and enduring gifts a parent can seek to provide for the happiness and well-being of their children. healthy, despite the fact that she had taken abortifacient pills she acquired on the street before she went to the abortion center. The pills can cause birth defects. Today, Soto also volunteers at the sidewalk and urges others to do the same because she knows firsthand how a peaceful, prayerful, non-judgmental presence can make the difference between life and death. Soto noted that representatives from the abortion center continued to call her and offer their services even after she told them she had decided to keep her baby. Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Peña’s Calendar September 2-4 September 15 September 19-22 September 24 September 28 All Day 6 p.m. All Day 2 p.m. 6:30 p.m. Border Bishops 75th Anniversary Mass/Dinner at Our Lady of Sorrows Pilgrimage Mass at Our Lady of Guadalupe Evins Ministry Cuidad Juarez McAllen Mexico Brownsville Edinburg Ongoing: Monday - Saturday Every Tuesday: Format: VHS Length: 5 tapes Publisher: 2014 by RCL Publishing LLC A major goal of The Faithful Revolution video series is to keep alive the vision and spirit of Vatican II. Many historians claim that Vatican II is one of the greatest religious and cultural events of this century. This series presents a balanced view of Vatican II and how it changed the church and in doing so changed everyone’s worldview. Labor Day 9-11 Engaged Encounter (Family Life Office) The Secret of the Shamrock Format: paperbacl Length: 128 pgs Audience: Grades 2 -5 Editor: Lisa M. Hendey Illustrated: by Jenn Bower Publisher: More Servant Publications Gifts 2015 When Patrick has to work on his church’s cleaning team on a Saturday, he thinks his weekend fun is ruined. But when the old church bells start chiming, Patrick and his pet frog, Francis, are suddenly taken back through time to ancient Ireland. Find out in The Secret of the Shamrock. » Calendar of Events Every Thursday Every Sunday: 8 a.m. 3 p.m. 12:15 p.m. 2 p.m. 7-8 p.m. 6 p.m. Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo Mass at UT-RGV/Edinburg Counseling at UT-RGV, Edinburg Holy Hour at 727 Bowie St., Alamo Mass/Confessions at UT-RGV, Edinburg 1st: Intention to the Consecrated Life (active and contemplative) and for the Sisters and Brothers in our diocese and the success of their mission 2nd: Intention to the Permanent Diaconate the deacons (permanent and transitional) of the diocese and their families 3rd : Intention to Married Life: for the welfare and sanctification of all the families in the diocese and for building up the Kingdom in our domestic churches 4th: Intention to the priesthood and the priests of the diocese for the success of their ministry 5th: Intention to Pope Francis 10 Diocesan Mass for Lay Ecclesial Movements, Associations, Apostolates 11 Mass for children with special needs, Holy Family Church – Brownsville 15 Vocation Hour, Family Life 17 Convaldation Conference Spanish ( Family Life Office) 22 San Juan Nursing Home Gala - Edinburg 24 Catechetical Convocation (Office of Catechesis) 24-25 For Better & For Ever (Family Life Office) 28 - Nov. 6 40 Days for Life, McAllen October 1 Amor Conference (Family Life Office) 2 Mass for children with special needs, Holy Family Church – Brownsville 2-5 54th Annual Stewardship Conference of the ICSC 6 White Mass (Health Ministry) 15 Retreat/Marian Conference VirgenMariaUnaSolaMadre.org 15-16 New Life Remarriage Retreat (Family Life Office) 20 Vocation Hour, Family Life 22 Fully Engaged Sponsor Couple Training I - English (Family Life Office) 22 Fall Festival - Our Lady of Mercy, Mercedes 22 Matachines Festival - St. Margaret Mary Church, Pharr 27 Red Mass, Harlingen 29 Fortaleciendo su matrimonio (Family Life Office) Please submit your schedule to be published in The Valley Catholic by the first Friday of each month by email to [email protected] or fax: (956) 784-5082. Tune into KSGS- LP 99.9 FM Catholic Radio Listen live online at ksgs999.com 12 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - SEPTEMBER 2016 Our Catholic Family Couple takes the reins for 40 Days for Life Campaign Courtesy photo 80-100 babies are aborted in our community weekly Rosita and Edwin Rodriguez of McAllen are leading the next 40 Days for Life campaign, which will kick off on Sunday, Sept. 25 in front of McAllen City Hall. By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic McALLEN — “Every time that a baby is aborted, Jesus is being crucified again because the Word of God says whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, you do it to me,” said Rosita Rodriguez, who, along with her husband, Edwin, is coordinating the next 40 Days for Life Campaign in McAllen. A kickoff event is set for Sunday, Sept. 25 from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m. in front of McAllen City Hall, 1300 W. Houston Ave. The campaign will run from Wednesday, Sept. 28 to Sunday, Nov. 6. The 40 Days for Life is a peaceful and prayerful campaign to end abortion. Through prayer, fasting, constant vigil and community outreach, the goal is to create awareness about the realities and consequences of abortion. Eighty to 100 babies are aborted each week in our community, according to estimates by the McAllen Pregnancy Center, a Catholic, pro-life facility that serves families facing a crisis pregnancy. Nationally, more than a million babies are aborted each year, according to the National Right to Life Educational Foundation. “In the gospels, Jesus relates that certain evils can only be cast out by prayer and fasting and so this campaign of prayer and fasting and witnessing to life really is our attempt to end abortion in the Valley and create a flourishing culture of life,” said Father Alex Flores, director of Respect Life Apostolate for the diocese. Creating a loving environment Courtesy photo Mercedes Soto, left, who contemplated aborting her son, now volunteers at the sidewalk urging other women to choose life for their unborn babies. The Valley Catholic Mercedes Soto was 13 weeks pregnant when she sought an abortion at a McAllen facility. As she was walking into the facility, Yolanda Chapa, a pro-life sidewalk counselor and founder of the McAllen Pregnancy Center, handed her literature outlining the help that is available to women in a crisis pregnancy and told her, ‘You are beautiful and Jesus loves you.” “I listened to her because no one had ever spoken to me about Jesus Christ,” Soto said. A security guard and another employee quickly pulled Soto away from Chapa and whisked her into the abortion facility. The employees immediately began mocking Chapa, Soto said. “They said, ‘Pobrecita (poor thing), she is crazy and off her meds,’” Soto recalled. “But I knew she wasn’t crazy. I could tell she was nice right off.” Chapa’s peaceful presence and kind words made an impact on Soto. “It was comforting to hear such a gentle voice reach out to me,” she said. Soto described the inside of the abortion clinic as dark and melancholy. She said she had an uneasy feeling throughout her visit. Before she could have an abortion, Soto was given a statemandated sonogram. By law, the ultrasound technician is supposed to display and describe the image on the screen unless the patient refuses. Soto said the image of her baby was not shown to her and in fact, the technician turned the screen away from her when she tried to take a closer look. After the ultrasound, she had a consultation with the doctor who was to perform the abortion. She felt uncomfortable while in his presence. “I just wanted to get out of there,” she said. Soto told the abortion center staff that she had forgotten her credit card and left. Once outside, she approached Chapa, who took her to the McAllen Pregnancy Center. Soto ultimately decided to keep her baby and has given her life to Christ, thanks to the care » Please see Presence p.11 The focal point of the local 40 Days for Life campaign will be a 40-day prayer vigil outside the abortion facility in downtown McAllen. Volunteers are needed to come and pray on the sidewalk, not only for the mothers and babies affected by abortion, but also for those who work in the abortion industry. “We’re not there to shame the people going inside,” Father Flores said. “We’re trying to witness that we care about them and that we’re praying for them and hopefully our prayers can touch their hearts. From there, we want to continue to help them.” Rosita and Edwin Rodriguez have come forward to lead the 40 Days for Life campaign in our community after the last coordinator stepped down for health reasons. The couple, who are parishioners of Holy Spirit Church in McAllen, attended the 40 Days for Life Summer Symposium in Orlando in July to exchange ideas and network with other campaign coordinators from around the country. “Research has shown that parish involvement is the key to a successful 40 Days for Life, campaign” Edwin Rodriguez said. “We are asking that each parish commit to adopting a day – or more, to witness for life outside the abortion facility.” The faithful are asked to sign up and commit to a specific hour and day during the 40 Days for Life campaign, which is endorsed by Pope Francis. Rosita and Edwin Rodriguez, who are parents to, “six children on earth and two in heaven” admit they weren’t always as pro-life as they are today. “When we were first married, we were indoctrinated,” Rosita Rodriguez said. “We believed that having more than two children would be irresponsible.” Life experiences, including two miscarriages, and a devotion to the Green Scapular of the Immaculate Heart of Mary led to the conversion of the Puerto Rico natives. “I know the power of prayer,” Rosita Rodriguez said. “I am devoted to Mother Mary and she’s crying because of abortion. I want to console her heart.” Edwin Rodriguez said he developed a cavalier attitude about death during his time as a combat veteran. “I was a soldier and I believed, if you died, you died, big deal,” he said. “Life didn’t have any value, but slowly, God has changed me and I have come to value life. “If you don’t have life, you don’t have anything.” Rosita and Edwin hope to create more awareness about the pro-life movement and show that the message of the movement is a message of love. “We are not there to judge anyone,” Edwin Rodriguez said. “We are there to love them and pray for them – that’s why this movement is so powerful because of the love.” Since the first coordinated 40 Days for Life campaign took place in 2007 through the end of 2015, local campaign leaders have reported that 11,796 lives were saved from abortion, 133 abortion workers quit and 73 abortion facilities closed nationally.