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Cursillo: Changing Communities by Changing Hearts Our Cathedral: One Faith, One People A Cathedral and so much more Challenges and Opportunities St. Therese, Wrightsville Beach f r o m T t h e b i s h o p “It is in giving that we receive” he beautiful Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi reminds us that “it is in giving that we receive.” At Christmas, that reality is highlighted in so many different ways. We rejoice in our belief that God the Father has given us the most precious gift of all: the gift of His Son, Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. The Gospel on Christmas Day describes clearly what we receive: “And the Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us, and we saw His glory, the glory as of the Father’s only Son, full of grace and truth.” With profound gratitude, we thank God for the amazing graces bestowed upon us in the Eucharist, in the forgiveness of our sins and in all the Sacraments. We are also grateful for the Word of God, the Truth that leads us, guides us and sets us free. midst most affected in this time of economic turmoil. One of the most precious gifts we can offer to others is the gift of our time. However, it seems that it is becoming more and more difficult for spouses, families and friends to spend quality time together. Perhaps that could be a promise and resolution we make for the New Year. In doing so, we will receive so much in return. When spouses give time to each other, they help to rekindle the love that unites them. When family members give time to each other, they renew the concern and support they have for one another. When friends give time Our gratitude for God’s abundant graces is reto each other, they rediscover a bond that is a flected in the giving of ourselves to Him in prayer, source of encouragement and comfort. in faithfulness to His commands, in the integrity Another gift that we can give to others is that and holiness with which we live our particular of forgiveness. Jesus Christ came to reconcile vocations and in our generous service to the Lord, us to the Father and to one another. In order to His Church and one another. celebrate the true peace of In giving of ourselves, Christmas, we need to restore In giving of ourselves in such a way, we receive the peace and any relationship that has been we receive the promjoy that can be discovered only fractured and to extend forgiveise and assurance that ness to anyone who has hurt or in and through Jesus Christ. the This month’s magazine highdisappointed us. Remember, lights the extraordinary “giving” it is in pardoning that we are that takes place in our Diocese pardoned. through our Catholic ChariOn a personal note, I take this ties offices, parish outreach opportunity to thank you, my programs, Diocesan and parish brother priests, our religious and pastoral ministries and the lay faithful for your goodness especially and prayerful support. You are a tremendous generosity of time, those in most need. talent and resources offered special gift to me, our Diocese by the faithful throughout our and the entire Church. deaneries and communities. In Please be assured of a special giving of ourselves, we receive the promise and remembrance at the Christmas Masses I will assurance that the Lord is using us to be instrucelebrate. May you continue to give yourself to the ments of His healing and compassionate love to Lord and to one another and, through the intercesothers, especially those in most need. May we sion of Mary Our Mother, may you receive the be renewed in this spirit of giving throughout the Lord’s abundant graces and blessings in this sacred Christmas season, ever mindful of those in our season, throughout the New Year and always. Lord is using us to be instruments of His healing and compassionate love to others, NC Catholics 2 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Liturgical calendar: St. Francis Xavier, priest December 3 | St. Nic t a b l e o f c o n t e n t s 16 “God Has Been Good to Me” NC Catholics and Catholic Charities share the joy of Christmas On the Cover: Warren Harris distributing food at Catholic Charities’ Durham food pantry. Above: A student from St. Thomas More School in Chapel Hill carries donated food destined for Catholic Charities’ Durham food pantry. inside this issue from the Bishop 2 “It is in giving that we receive” – Bishop Michael F. Burbidge Our Cathedral 7 One Faith, One People – A campaign for the faithful of the Diocese of Raleigh From the Editor 13 What’s Going On? saint of the month local news: 26 Cursillo: Changing Communities by Changing Hearts e l h i spano el hispano Católico «Dios ha sido bueno conmigo» Católicos y Caridades Católicas de NC comparten la alegría de la Navidad 20 4 Faithful to Witness for Life in January | 5 Four Diocesan Seminarians Receive Cassocks | 10 John J. Carey Award and Local CCHD Grants Presented | 11 Catholic Parish Outreach Receives $10,000 IBM Grant 14 Believing = Obeying = Living – St. Juan Diego voices in our church 15 Native and African Americans Celebrate – Father Marcos Leon 15 “Hágase en mí según tu Palabra” (Lc. 1:38) – Padre Carlos N. Arce C at ól i co Obispo Burbidge “Es dando que recibimos” 22 – Obispo Michael F. Burbidge nuestra cathedral Nuestra Cathedral – Una Fe, Un Pueblo 23 parish profile 30 Challenges and Opportunities – St. Therese, Wrightsville Beach cholas, bishop December 6 | St. Ambrose, bishop and doctor of the Church December 7 | Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary December 8 l o c a l n e w s Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge PUBLISHER Frank Morock DIRECtOR OF COMMUNICAtIONS December 2011 • Vol. 8 : Issue 10 Richard Reece EDItOR IN CHIEF Anjanette Wiley ADVERtISING MANAGER Bishop Michael F. Burbidge Father Carlos Arce Rachelle D. Garbarine FatherMarcos Leon Anjanette Wiley CONtRIBUtING WRItERS Lettie Banda tRANSLAtOR Denmark Photo & Video (cover) CONtRIBUtING PHOtOGRAPHERS FAITH Catholic Rev. Dwight Ezop CHAIRMAN Patrick M. O’Brien PRESIDENt AND CHIEF EXECUtIVE OFFICER Elizabeth Martin Solsburg EDItORIAL DIRECtOR Jillane Job EDItORIAL ASSIStANt Patrick Dally ARt DIRECtOR Lynne Ridenour GRAPHIC DESIGNER/WEB MAStER Janna Stellwag Abby Wieber GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Derek Melot PROOFREADING Jennifer Baron Rachelle Garbarine CONtRIBUtING WRItERS InnerWorkings PRINt MANAGEMENt NC CathlolicsTM (USPS 715-940) is a membership publication of the Catholic Diocese of Raleigh, 715 Nazareth St., Raleigh, NC 27606. Published Monthly except for February and August. Subscription rates are $16 per year. Individual issues are $2.00. Advertising inquiries, subscription requests and address changes can be sent to 715 Nazareth St., Raleigh, NC 27606; 919.821.9700; fax 919.821.9705 or e-mail [email protected]. Periodicals Postage Paid at Raleigh, NC or additional offices. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to: NC Catholics, 715 Nazareth St., Raleigh, NC 27606. ©2005 FAITH CatholicTM, Catholic Diocese of Lansing. ©2005 Catholic Diocese of Raleigh provided content. No portion of NC Catholics may be published, broadcast, rewritten or otherwise reproduced or distributed in whole or in part, without prior written authority of FAITH CatholicTM and/or Diocese of Raleigh. For reprint information or other questions regarding use of copyright material, contact NC Catholics, Catholic Diocese of Raleigh. Give the gift of NCCatholics: Order a subscription today 919.821.9730 NC Catholics Faithful to Witness for Life in January I n January Diocesan faithful will gather in Raleigh and Washington, DC, to celebrate human life, from conception to natural death, through prayer and advocacy. At 8 a.m. on Saturday, January 14, the Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge will celebrate the annual Mass for Life at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Raleigh. At 11 a.m. the same day, the second annual Pro-Life Youth Rally, Love My Life, will be held in Sacred Heart Cathedral parking lot. It is an opportunity for Catholic teens to celebrate life, to connect with others from across the Diocese and to learn more about living and promoting the pro-life culture. The Love My Life Rally will feature dynamic speakers, music, and great free food. Teens who attend will also be introduced to advocacy, as they are encouraged to join with all the faithful in the annual Rally and March for Life in Nash Square at 1p.m. The Annual Rally for Life, sponsored by NC Right to Life, will feature headline speakers, followed by a procession to the state legislative building. 4 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org For more information on the Love My Life event or other pro-life events on January 14, contact Jackie Bonk, Office of ProLife, 919-645-4438 or Jackie.bonk@ raldioc.org. On Monday, January 23, many of the faithful will leave their parishes at 4:30 or 5 a.m. on buses bound for Washington, DC. The buses will first go to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception where Bishop Burbidge and Bishop Peter J. Jugis of Charlotte will concelebrate Mass. Buses will then take people to the March for Life downtown. Marchers will also have the opportunity to meet with North Carolina’s Congressional Representatives or their staffers in the afternoon to discuss life issues. Buses will return to the Raleigh area by midnight. Cost for the trip is $50.00. This year there is also an overnight option: One bus will leave for DC around 10 a.m on Sunday, January 22 and return on Monday evening, January 23. Price per person for the overnight trip is $72.20. The price includes hotel, light breakfast on Monday and round trip bus ticket (the hotel rate is based on four occupants per room. For more information about the buses to DC contact Bob and Kathy Klein at [email protected]<mailto:blk4jmj@ gmail.com St. Juan Diego Cuauhtlatoatzin December 9 | Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe D The Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge, Bishop of Raleigh, cordially invites and warmly encourages all the Diocesan faithful to demonstrate their respect for human life at these events: Seminarian Evan Waniewski, Rev. Joseph Bongard (Vice Rector of the seminary), Msgr. Gerald L. Lewis, Fr. Shaun Mahoney (Rector of the seminary) and seminarian Christian Cook on Cassock Day at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia. Four Diocesan Seminarians Receive Cassocks An important event for seminarians in their first year of study for the Priesthood is the bestowal of cassocks to wear at liturgies on campus. This year, four first-year seminarians for the Diocese of Raleigh received cassocks. On Wednesday, October 12, 2011, Juan Carlos Garcia and Noe Ramirez de Paz were given their cassocks in a Mass and ceremony at Seminario Hispano de Santa Maria de Guadalupe in Mexico City. On Saturday, October 29, Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary in Philadelphia celebrated Cassock Day, and among the seminarians receiving cassocks were Evan George Waniewski and W. Christian Cook. The black cassock worn by seminarians and priests is a long, close fitting, ankle-length robe and takes its origin from the tunic that was worn under the toga in classical antiquity. The color of the cassock differs for Cardinals, Bishops, and Monsignors when serving at liturgies. When at non-liturgical functions, a Cardinal, Bishop or Monsignor may don a black cassock with colored buttons, trimmings and sash that represent their title. The Holy Father wears a white cassock. Saturday, January 14, 2012 • Mass for Life, 8 a.m. at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Raleigh • LML Pro-life Rally for High School Teens, 11:00 a.m. – 12:45 p.m. at Sacred Heart Cathedral Parking Lot, Raleigh • Raleigh Rally and March for Life, 1 p.m. Nash Square, Raleigh Monday, January 23, 2012 • Mass and March for Life, 11:30 a.m. – 4 p.m. in Washington D.C. WHAt: Pro Life Rally for High Schoolers WHEN: January 14, 2012 11:00 a.m.-12:45 p.m. WHERE: Cathedral School Parking Lot, 204 Hillsborough Street, Raleigh WHO: Pro Life Office, Diocese of Raleigh, For more information 919.645.4438 Speakers: Bishop Burbidge | Fr. Tony DeCandia Caryn Walsh | Christina Geradts | Russell Hoyt First-year Diocesan seminarians Noe Ramirez de Paz and Juan Carlos Garcia in their cassocks at Seminario Hispano de Santa Maria de Guadalupe. Music by: Tom Young and Matt Merry December 12 | St. Lucy, virgin and martyr December 13 | St. John of the Cross, priest and doctor of the Church December 14 | St. Peter Canisius, priest and doctor of the Church December 21 l o c a l n e w s National Migration Week 2012: January 8-14 Each year the United States Catholic Bishops set aside a week to highlight the dignity and concerns of the migrants among us. The week focuses attention on Catholic Social Teaching, which is rooted in our fundamental beliefs that all persons are created in the image and likeness of God and are to be treated with respect and dignity. Thus, all persons need to be given the opportunity to achieve dignity through work so that they may be able to support themselves and their families. Our beloved Blessed John Paul II stated that workers who enter a country to labor temporarily should be afforded the same rights as workers who live there permanently. While there are no simple solutions to this issue, the U.S. Bishops stress that we must find a way to respond realistically to the labor demands of our nation, support the right of people to immigrate and protect the human dignity of every person.” Bishop Michael F. Burbidge stated, “The theme of this year’s Migration Week, “Welcoming Christ in the Migrant,” is a reminder that, just as Christ met His disciples on the Road to Emmaus in the guise of a stranger, so He makes Himself present to each of us in the lonesome traveler, the newcomer, and the migrant. We are called to open our hearts and provide Death of Archbishop Donoghue The Most Reverend John Francis Donoghue, retired Archbishop of Atlanta and former Bishop of Charlotte, died the evening of Friday, November 11, 2011. Archbishop Donoghue was born in Washington, D.C., on August 9, 1928, the son of Daniel and Rose Ryan Donoghue. Both of his parents were natives of Ireland. Archbishop Donoghue was ordained to the priesthood in Saint Matthew’s Cathedral, Washington, on NC Catholics June 4, 1955. After ten years as a parish priest, he was appointed Chancellor/Vicar General for the Archdiocese of Washington, where he served until his ordination as Bishop and appointment as the second Bishop of Charlotte in 1984, succeeding Bishop Michael Begley. He was appointed by Pope John Paul II as Archbishop of Atlanta in 1993, and was installed as Archbishop on August 19, 1993. Archbishop Donoghue retired on December 9, 2004, but remained active in priestly ministry October 2011 November 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org | www.NCCatholics.org 6 December hospitality to those in need. It is our duty to create a space of welcome and acceptance to the migrant who finds himself or herself far away from home and in a vulnerable situation.” The USCCB provides a number of resources that reflect on this theme. Some of these items will be available for download only while others will be available in bulk for a nominal price through the USCCB publishing office. To purchase National Migration Week material, please contact USCCB publishing at 800-235-8722 or visit their website to browse Migration and Refugee Services material. throughout the Archdiocese. Bishop Burbidge extended his deepest sympathy to Archbishop Gregory and the faithful of the Archdiocese of Atlanta, as they mourn the death of their beloved Archbishop Donoghue. “He was a devoted shepherd to all of those entrusted to his care, faithfully guiding the Church here in the southeast to grow, not only in number, but in holiness of life,” Bishop Burbidge said. “With deep trust in God’s promises, I ask the faithful of the Diocese of Raleigh to join with me in prayer to Our Lord, the Good Shepherd, for Archbishop Donoghue, that he may know the fullness of joy and eternal happiness in the eternal Kingdom for which he longed.” St. John of Kanty, priest December 23 | Solemnity of the Nativity o u r c a t h e d r a l Our Cathedral: One Faith, One People A Cathedral and so much more A s the Cathedral Campus project unfolds, Bishop Burbidge encourages feedback and questions from the faithful. Each month, together with the Chairs of the various committees of the Cathedral Campus project, the Bishop will provide answers to those questions in NC Catholics and on the new Cathedral Campus website, www.holynamecathedralnc.org. Q: What are the parish receptions and who will be involved? A: These receptions will give each parishioner the best opportunity to understand all that the project entails. It will also allow for parishioners to clarify any questions they may have pertaining to the campaign. The parish phase of Our Cathedral: One Faith, One People campaign begins in January for approximately half of the parishes in the Diocese. This first portion of the parish phase will be called the Block 1 parishes. One of the first aspects of the campaign for every parish will be a series of receptions held in the local parish community. These receptions will give each parishioner the of the Lord December 25 | St. Stephen, first martyr December 26 | Feast of St. John, apostle and evangelist December 27 | Feast of the Holy Innocents, martyrs December 28 How are we working with North Carolina State University and the city of Raleigh to be good neighbors as the project progresses? Every parish faces its own challenges and will set its own objectives for the funding it receives. Parish needs range from maintaining aging church structures to building new structures to accommodate spiritual and educational formation needs. Other parishes are hoping to reduce parish debt or establish endowments that will generate income for parish and school ministries and services in the future. Still others may need to augment parish services through increased personnel or resources for faith formation for adult, children, youth and young adult needs. This parish funding may be used any way the parish deems appropriate, as determined by the pastor after reviewing recommendations from the parish advisory councils and parish leaders. In this way, our parishes will realize the maximum benefit from this campaign to strengthen our local Church in the eastern North Carolina. A: Q: best opportunity to understand all that the project entails. It will also allow for parishioners to clarify any questions they may have pertaining to the campaign. Parishioners will also be asked to consider how they can be involved in making the campaign a success. Parishes in the Block 1 time frame will be conducting receptions beginning in January and running through March. Every registered parishioner will be invited to attend a reception. These receptions last about an hour and involve several presentations, a campaign video, and a question and answer period. Reception locations will vary based on the decisions of parish leadership. Q: Throughout the initial phases of this process, the Diocese has kept the lines of communication open with North Carolina State University and the city of Raleigh. Before choosing a site, the Diocese met with city officials, including former Mayor Charles Meeker and his development team, who offered their advice and guidance as various locations were considered. After thorough review, it was determined that available land in the downtown area did not exist that had adequate acreage for the full scope of the project. Shortly after the announcement in September, Russ Elmayan, Chief Financial Officer/Chief Operating Officer of the Diocese, and Tim Mann, co-chairman of the Cathedral Campus Project, met with residents of the Nazareth neighborhood, which is near the Cathedral Campus project site, to review the development plans, answer questions and lay the foundation for an open and honest dialogue about the project. The Diocese has also taken steps to keep the leadership of N.C. State University informed about plans for the Cathedral, which will be located on property directly adjacent to its Centennial Campus. Bishop Burbidge and Msgr. David Brockman, Vicar General, Diocese of Raleigh, met recently with Chancellor W. Randolph Woodson and his Vice Chancellor for Finance and Business to update them on the status of the Cathedral Campus Project and to review in greater detail how the Diocese and the University will collaborate with regard to mutual interests as the project moves forward. Q: How will the parishes directly benefit from the Our Cathedral: One Faith, One People campaign? A: Each parish will have a financial target that will include its portion of the Bishop’s Annual Appeal for 2012. Once a parish surpasses its BAA target, 20% of the net funds will be returned to the parish. When a parish exceeds its Cathedral Campaign target, 50% of all funds raised over the target will remain at the parish. This formula will pertain to parishes that conduct a regular campaign. NC Catholics 8 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org What if a parish has a large project? A: “When a parish has a large need that is vital for the growth and service of that parish, the “piggyback” (or “combined”) option is often the best course of action. It allows the parish to address its own needs while simultaneously supporting the greater Diocesan need.” If a parish has needs that extend beyond what it is likely to raise in the regular campaign they will have the option of conducting a combined parish campaign. This option, affords a parish the ability to give primary focus to their own parish needs while at the same time offering parishioners the opportunity to contribute to the Diocesan needs being presented. This type of campaign requires a more intensive effort at the local level. A combined option would guarantee the 2012 BAA and 80% of the remaining Cathedral Campus Campaign target. This guarantee, in most cases, would be payable over four years in installments. The parish would retain all monies raised over the guarantee for the parish case. This is the option that St. Mary Catholic Parish utilized in their Serving God by Serving Others Campaign. The parish has almost reached the $2,000,000 mark with close to $1,200,000 targeted for parish needs. “When a parish has a large need that is vital for the growth and service of that parish, the “piggyback” (or “combined”) option is often the best course of action. It allows the parish to address its own needs while simultaneously supporting the greater Diocesan need,” remarked Campaign consultant Michael Goodwin from Guidance in Giving. Parishes opting for the combined option will still follow normal Diocesan policies and procedures. St. Thomas Becket, bis l o c a l n e w s St. Catherine of Siena Breaks Ground for New Church On Saturday, October 22, 2011, St. Catherine of Siena Parish in Wake Forest broke ground for its new church. The Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge blessed the ground and presided at the groundbreaking, followed by a Mass of Thanksgiving at the outdoor chapel on the parish grounds. Concelebrating with Bishop Burbidge were Fr. Philip Tighe, Pastor of St. Catherine, and Fr. Brendan Buckler, St. Catherine’s Parochial Vicar. The Bishop delivered the homily. The number of parishioners at St. Catherine, the second oldest Catholic Church in Wake County, has grown from about 500 in 1990 to more than 10,600 – more than 3,000 families. The new building, expected to be completed in eight months, will seat 1,450, with room for another 400 in overflow areas. The growth of St. Catherine reflects the influx of Catholics to the Triangle from other parts of the country, as well as Latin America, Africa and Asia. Since 1990, the number of Catholics in Wake County has quadrupled to more than 100,000. “Any architect would tell us,” the Bishop said in his homily, “that no matter how splendid a building is, it must be able to depend and rely on that which holds it up: the Ground Broken for New St. Isidore Church On Sunday, November 6, 2011, following the parish Sunday Mass, members of St. Isidore Mission Parish in Stedman, NC, broke ground for a new church, expected to be completed by May 15, 2012, the Feast of St. Isidore. Growth of the parish and new real estate development in the area as well as the planned widening of U.S. Highway 24 made the new church necessary, and planning and fundraising have been going on for 10 years. In addition to funds raised by the parish, the church will be funded by a grant of $183,000 from the Diocesan Home Mission Society. The Home Mission Society was formed in 2007 to secure funding for the construction and furnishing of mission churches and chapels in the mission areas of the Diocese of Raleigh. A special emphasis is placed on building churches and chapels in areas where the parishioners are not presently able, because of economic circumstance, to fund the construction of sacred worship space in the traditional manner of capital campaigns, loans, and parish savings. Rev. Msgr. David D. Brockman, Vicar General of the Diocese, represented the Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge, Bishop of Raleigh, at the groundbreaking. Also participating in the ceremo- foundation. Only then will the building be able to withstand the weight of the construction as well as the obstacles nature will send. “The same is true in our lives. We must depend completely and totally on the Foundation of our lives: Jesus Christ. That understanding was reflected tonight as we echoed the words of the psalmist: “You, O Lord, are my strength, my rock, my fortress and my deliverer!” Only with Christ holding us up can we endure in the midst of the storms of our lives. He alone gives us the amazing grace and divine assistance we need.” In a letter to parishioners, Fr. Tighe noted that “one of the unique aspects of our [fundraising] campaign has been the blessing of our brothers and sisters from other faiths who have ... contributed $2.1 million or 22 per cent of our campaign.... And the heroic stories of families are numerous. We have had donors who have lost homes to natural disasters, families who have lost work, individuals who have reached deep down to make personal sacrifices, and even children who have set aside their savings. In addition, we have had countless prayer warriors who have spent hours in prayer and adoration for the success of our project.” Following the Mass, the Bishop carried the Blessed Sacrament in procession to the adoration chapel in the current church building. nies were Rev. Msgr. Jeffrey Ingham, Dean of the Fayetteville Deanery, Deacon Nay Enriquez, Pastoral Administrator of St. Isidore, Rev. Jack Kelly, priestly minister for St. Isidore, and Rev. Thomas Davis, Administrator of Good Shepherd Parish in Hope Mills. St. Isidore is a Mission of Good Shepherd. shop and martyr December 29 | Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph December 30 | St. Sylvester I, pope December 31 “Many of us have two feelings today,” Deacon Enriquez said. “It saddens us to leave, but the idea of a new church is exciting. The most important thing to remember is that we bring with us our community and Our Lord in the Holy Eucharist, who is our strength.” l o c a l n e w s John J. Carey Award and Local CCHD Grants Presented Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Raleigh held its annual banquet October 27, 2011, at which time the 2011 John J. Carey Award and eight local Catholic Campaign for Human Development (CCHD) Awards were presented. The event took place at St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Cary. Mr. Sylvester Bryant, a parishioner at St. Mary Catholic Church in Wilmington, was honored as this year’s John J. Carey Award recipient. He was introduced by Fr. Robert Kus, Pastor of St. Mary Church, who detailed the volunteer commitment Mr. Bryant has made to the St. Mary Parish outreach ministry for a number of years. Fr. Kus cited Mr. Bryant’s work as food distribution manager, responsible for collecting and distributing food items to the families served by the parish, and his coordination of volunteers to carry out the ministry. Fr. Kus noted that Mr. Bryant is known for his kindness, patience, diligence and compassion for the clients served. The Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge presented Mr. Bryant with the Award. In his comments to the gathering, Bishop Burbidge explained how the annual Catholic Campaign for Human Development banquet provides the Diocese with an opportunity to express its gratitude to local organizations in carrying out the Gospel message of loving our neighbors as ourselves. “We are happy to play a small part in the generosity of our faithful to assist you in your work,” Bishop Burbidge said. This year, a total of NC Catholics $21,800 was allocated in grants to eight parishes or organizations: • Our Lady of the Seas Catholic Church, Buxton – Direct assistance for low-income families affected by devastation and loss of tourism income due to Hurricane Irene. • Family Support Services, Catholic Charities Albemarle Office – Financial literacy and budget/finance planning with emergency assistance for families seeking economic stability. • Annunciation Catholic School Community Garden, Havelock – Garden beds on school grounds; sown and tended by students with harvest given to feed the hungry in the community. • Feed His Sheep/Stellar Peer Recovery, Clayton – Self-care training for those living with mental illness or substance abuse disorder. • Albemarle Hospital Foundation, LaCasa After School Program – Assistance to participants with homework and social learning opportunities. Program works with school system to expand reading, math, technology and ESL skills. • Our Lady of the Rosary Catholic Church, Louisburg – Funding for Hispanic and English financial literacy programs to ensure those in economic need are learning skills to manage their income. • Supporting Family Economic Stability, Catholic Charities Cape Fear Office – Offers education and training for families to improve their economic stability. • The Caring Place, Cary – Provides rent for transi- tional housing for homeless families moving to selfsufficiency. During the ceremony, Diocesan CCHD Committee member Mr. Daniel Ryan noted that two of the CCHD national winners are from the Diocese of Raleigh. The Community Success Initiative of Raleigh received a grant for its work with ex-offenders in transition to society in a productive and stable manner. Triangle CAN (Congregations, Associations and Neighborhoods) received a national grant for its mission to change oppressive structures that affect low-income and poor people in Durham and Orange Counties. Funding for the national and local grants is provided through the annual Catholic Campaign for Human Development Collection. Seventy-five percent of the collection is forwarded to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops’ CCHD office. The remaining twentyfive percent is utilized on the local level. Mr. Sylvester Bryant, recipient of the 2011 John J. Carey Award, with family members at award ceremony held at St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Cary. 10 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Death of Mr. John J. Carey On October 29, 2011, two days after the award named in his honor was presented, John J. Carey, ACSW, Diocesan Director of Catholic Social Ministries (today Catholic Charities) of the Diocese of Raleigh from 1984-1989, died in Michigan. He was 84. Mr. Carey began his career in social work as a caseworker for Catholic Big Brothers in Los Angeles, CA. Before coming to Raleigh he provided and directed social services in Michigan and Iowa, serving from 1974-1984 as Director of Catholic Social Services and Associate Director of Catholic Charities in the Diocese of Lansing. “John Carey did outstanding social ministry in a career dedicated to social work with youth, families and communities,” said a spokesperson for Catholic Charities. Since 1990, Catholic Charities in the Diocese of Raleigh has presented an annual award in Mr. Carey’s name to honor individuals who have made outstanding contributions to social ministry in the Diocese Tina Wilson (center), IBM Corporate Citizenship and Corporate Affairs manager based in Raleigh, presents an IBM “service grant” for $10,000 to Catholic Parish Outreach (CPO). Receiving the check on behalf of CPO are Rick Miller-Haraway, Regional Director of Catholic Charities’ Raleigh office, and Terry Foley, CPO Director. Catholic Parish Outreach Receives $10,000 IBM Grant On Saturday, Nov. 5, 2011, IBM Corporation presented a $10,000 grant to Catholic Parish Outreach (CPO), Catholic Charities’ food pantry in Raleigh. Some 25 volunteers from IBM worked at the pantry handing out food in the morning, and another 25 or more worked in the afternoon, restocking shelves and boxing food for Thanksgiving boxes. The grant check was presented in the afternoon. The grant – known as an IBM Community Impact Grant – is part of IBM’s Centennial Celebration of Service. This year, IBM is marking the 100-year anniversary (http://www.ibm100.com) of its founding with global initiatives and shown a strong commitment to the Church’s social mission. Mr. Carey is survived by his beloved wife of 56 years, Rhea L. Carey, children Lory (J.R.) Holbrook, John (Angela) Carey, Leo P. (Rhonda) Carey, Marion (Kenny) Kaus, and Helen (Pano) Papalekas, 11 grandchildren and 5 greatgrandchildren, one sister, Helen (Carey) Malloy, and many other relatives and friends. The Funeral Mass will be celebrated November 1 in Mr. Carey’s home parish in Detroit, Michigan. to engage in new ways with business leaders, academia, clients, and local communities in the 170 countries where the company does business. The company has announced hundreds of new “service grants” that support employees’ volunteer activities to build a smarter planet. The new technology and cash grants expand the commitment of IBM to communities worldwide by 140 percent over the previous year. In addition, thousands of from the IBM community around the world are volunteering their time and talent throughout 2011 in support of smarter planet initiatives. So far this year, more than 320,000 from the IBM community – three-quarters of its workforce – have committed 2.8 million hours of their time and expertise for 5,200 projects in 120 countries, helping 10 million people in need. That is equivalent to approximately 900 years of volunteerism, valued conservatively at $100 million. Catholic Parish Outreach received the grant to help reach more people in the area by improving its presence on the Web and by improving the wireless connectivity for its computers, making its operations more efficient. “We are honored to be a recipient of the IBM Community Impact Grant, and we are pleased for this generous contribution that will help us meet our goals,” said Catholic Parish Outreach In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Raleigh. Director Terry Foley. “CPO’s mission is to serve the needy families and individuals of our community by providing them food and young children’s clothing. In September we served a record 9,461 people! With limited funding sources (which includes the loss of a $90,000 federal grant) and record numbers of clients over the past 3 months, it’s our relationships with volunteers and community partners that keep us going. “Our continued relationship over the years with IBM and IBM volunteers has helped us to better serve those in need.” “We value the opportunity to give back to the local communities we serve,” said Tina Wilson, IBM Corporate Citizenship and Corporate Affairs manager based in Raleigh. Catholic Parish Outreach is the largest food pantry in Wake County, NC. CPO is a program of Catholic Charities, which is a 501c3 non-profit organization. Clients are referred to CPO by human service agencies, churches, medical providers, and school counselors who see firsthand those who struggle in our community. Clients can receive groceries for their family, clothing (children’s up to age 4 & maternity), and baby items, at most once every 30 days. For more information about CPO, visit their website: www.cporaleigh.org. l o c a l n e w s Holy Spirit Conference Calls Hundreds to Holiness Nearly 600 people, including more than 230 youth, attended the sixth annual Holy Spirit Conference sponsored by Catholic Charismatic Services in the Diocese of Raleigh. The weekend event, with the theme “A Call to Holiness,” began Friday night, October 28, 2011, at the North Raleigh Hilton, and featured prayer, music, Eucharistic adoration, a healing service and teaching from nationally known speakers. The Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge was the principal celebrant and homilist at the closing Mass on Sunday. Speakers included Jim “Butch” Murphy, author and member of the International Catholic Charismatic Renewal Service, who acted as emcee and also addressed the gathering on “What Does It Mean to Be Holy?” Ralph Martin, Catholic Charismatic evangelist, and Fr. Edward Wolanski, CP, Parochial Vicar at St. Peter Greenville, were also featured speakers at the event. The Most Reverend Sam Jacobs, Bishop of HoumaThibodeaux, gave two talks, “What Is the Spirit Saying to the Church Today?” and “Empowered by Ministry.” “Let us be who we are called to be,” Bishop Jacobs said. “Baptized in the Holy Spirit and fire, let us act in the power and fire of love as zealous men and women of God. Let us go forth with the anointing of the Spirit to bring forth the NC Catholics 12 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Kingdom of God with signs and wonders as our credentials.” In his homily at Mass on Sunday, Bishop Burbidge urged those in attendance to “ask the Holy Spirit to guide us in all our endeavors. Bishop Sam Jacobs of Houma-Thibodeaux We pray for the grace to remember that the path to holiness is all about testimony, not titles; humility, not hypocrisy; service, not salary. “If we live this way,” the Bishop concluded, “then in God’s infinite love and mercy, He will say to us on the day we are called home: ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. Come and inherit the dwelling place prepared for you from the beginning of time.’” For more information about the Charismatic Renewal in the Diocese of Raleigh, go to http://www.dioceseofraleigh.org/how/renewal/. f r o m t h e e d i t o r What’s Going On? W Bishop Burbidge Celebrates All Souls Day Mass The Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge celebrated Mass on the Feast of All Souls Day at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Newton Grove on November 2, 2011. The outdoor Mass was conducted at an altar near the burial site of Bishop Vincent S. Waters, third Bishop of Raleigh. Sixteen diocesan priests are also buried in the parish cemetery. The Mass was concelebrated by Msgr. David D. Brockman, Vicar General of the Diocese, and 20 priests serving in the Diocese. Among the faithful who attended the All Souls Day liturgy were students from Cardinal Gibbons High School in Raleigh, Pope John Paul II High School in Greenville, and St. Thomas More Academy, an independent Catholic high school in Raleigh. In his homily, Bishop Burbidge acknowledged the presence of the students, noting how proud Bishop Waters and all who worked to spread the Catholic faith in North Carolina would be to “see our young people here as a reflection of the growth and potential of our Diocese.” “The reality of death and judgment do not cause us anxiety or fear because of the promises proclaimed today in Sacred Scripture,” Bishop Burbidge said. “May these promises fill us with joyful hope as we continue our pilgrimage of faith here on earth; as we try each day, in an exceptional way, to love God and one another.” Following Mass, Bishop Burbidge led a procession as he blessed the gravesites of Bishop Waters, the priests and the approximately 200 lay people buried in the parish cemetery. hile I was visiting the regional offices of Catholic Charities in preparation for this month’s cover story, I was struck by something one of the regional directors told me. “When people come for food we do an ‘intake interview,’” she said, “to get a little more information about their situation. A lot of times when people show up hungry we find out that there are other things going on.” Hunger, she was saying, could be the tip of an iceberg that included unemployment, depression or other mental health issues, family turmoil or even domestic abuse – all problems that Catholic Charities might be able to address. Christmas is a season when we remember how the world hungered for a Savior, and acknowledge our own spiritual hunger. Catholics come to church – in greater numbers than at other times of the year, pastors will tell you – to be fed by the Eucharist, to rejoice in the goodness of a God who so loved the world that He sent His only begotten Son. But when we bring our hunger to the Eucharistic table, do we ask ourselves if there are “other things going on”? Often, there are. Perhaps we’ve fallen into some sinful habit or selfish mindset we can’t shake; perhaps we carry anger towards another, and can’t seem to forgive them; perhaps we are suffering from loneliness or depression that the “holidays” only seem to mock; perhaps we are worn down by worry over things we can’t control. Advent and Christmas are a time to take inventory of those “other things,” to seek reconciliation with God and our brothers and sisters and to acknowledge that without Our Lord we can do nothing, but that with Him we can do all. He waits for us – and not just at Christmas – eager to be our True Bread, to feed us in all the ways our souls require. On behalf of all of us who work to put NC Catholics together, sincere wishes for a Christmas season filled with the blessings Our Savior has promised. – Rich Reece is editor of NC Catholics s a i n t o f t h e m o n t h Believing = Obeying = Living Creer = Obedecer = Vivir In 1531, St. Juan Diego (1474 – 1548) had heard his name being called from a hill. When he ran up the hill, he encountered a Lady who asked him to tell the Bishop of Mexico that she wanted a shrine to be built on the spot where she stood. Recognizing the Lady as the Virgin Mary, St. Juan Diego believed her and so obeyed her. En 1531, Juan Diego (1474 a 1548 A.D.) oyó llamar su nombre desde una colina. Cuando corrió, subiendo, la colina, encontró una dama que le pidió que le dijera al obispo de México que ella quería que se construyera un santuario en el lugar donde ella estaba. Al reconocer a la dama como la Virgen María, Juan Diego le creyó y le obedeció siguiendo sus instrucciones. St. Juan Diego Actions equal believing This is instructive because we can always uncover what we truly believe by looking at our actions. Words can deceive and mislead, but actions reveal ourselves to us and the world. The Bishop doubted St. Juan Diego and asked for a sign. St. Juan Diego returned to the hill to deliver the Bishop’s reply and to beg to be dismissed from service to the Lady. The Lady insisted that it be St. Diego who must speak to the Bishop on her behalf. Again, he did as he was directed and was rejected by the Bishop. After unsuccessfully trying to avoid further contact with the Lady, St. Diego found roses, which he brought to the Bishop per the instructions of the Lady. When he unfolded his tilma before the Bishop, the roses fell out and revealed an image of the Lady. Now the Bishop believed and obeyed by building the shrine. The image of Our Lady that appeared on the tilma of St. Juan Diego continues to reside in the Basilica named after her in Mexico City. Believing equals obedience Here again, belief is equated to obedience is equated to living (or acting). This only makes sense. When we trust in the person who is telling us something, we typically believe in what they say. Naturally, we will act on these words, or obey these words because we believe they are true. This lesson is crucial to spiritual self-knowledge because it allows us to see how far our actions are from what we profess to believe and reveals to us what we really believe in. St. Juan Diego’s belief and subsequent acting on that belief out of obedience to the Lady led to his canonization in 2002 as the first indigenous American saint. More importantly, Our Lady of Guadalupe had a tremendous impact on the spread of Catholicism in Mexico and continues to factor greatly in Catholic spirituality in the Americas. NC Catholics 14 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org San Juan Diego Esto es instructivo porque siempre podemos descubrir lo que verdaderamente creemos examinando nuestras acciones. Las palabras pueden engañar o desorientar, pero las acciones nos dicen quienes somos a nosotros mismos y al mundo. El obispo dudó de Juan Diego y le pidió una señal. Juan Diego volvió a la colina para entregar la respuesta del obispo y para rogar que se le dispensara del servicio a la dama. La dama insistió que fuese Diego quien debía hablar con el obispo por ella. Nuevamente, el hizo como se le instruyó y fue rechazado por el obispo. Después de intentar sin éxito evitar otros contactos con la dama, Diego encontró unas rosas, que llevo al obispo por instrucciones de la dama. Cuando desenvolvió su tilma ante el obispo, las rosas cayeron y revelaron una imagen de la dama. Entonces el obispo le creyó y obedeció construyendo el santuario. La imagen de Nuestra Señora que apareció en la tilma de Juan Diego sigue residiendo en la basílica nombrada por ella en Ciudad de México. Nuevamente, la fe es equiparada con la obediencia y con la vida (o la acción). Esto tiene sentido. Cuando confiamos en la persona que nos dice algo, naturalmente creemos en lo que dice. Naturalmente actuaremos sobre estas palabras, o las obedeceremos porque creemos que son ciertas. Esta lección es crucial para el conocimiento espiritual de nosotros mismos, porque nos permite ver hasta dónde nuestras acciones provienen de lo que profesamos creer y nos revela lo que realmente creemos. La fe de Juan Diego y sus acciones posteriores con base a esa fe por obediencia a la dama llevó a su canonización en 2002 como el primer santo indígena americano. Más importante, Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe tuvo un impacto tremendo en la difusión del catolicismo en México y continúa siendo un factor en la espiritualidad católica en toda la América V p a s t o r ’s o i c e s per spect i v e i n o u r c h u r c h la naturaleza de nuestra fe Native and African “Hágase en mí Americans Celebrate según tu Palabra” T he history of the Catholic Church in the United States reveals that the Native American and African American people have historically been linked together by Catholic missionaries. We invite you to be generous, in the next few months, to the Black and Indian Mission special collection. With this collection, we support national and Diocesan programs for Native and African Americans, continuing the good work begun by St. Katherine Drexel in our Diocese over 70 years ago, and the evangelization efforts of Blessed Kateri Tekakwitha among native peoples more than 300 years ago. The Native American Catholic community has been included and become increasingly more active as part of African Ancestry Ministry and Evangelization (AAMEN) in our Diocese, while retaining and emphasizing its own spiritual traditions. As the celebration of Christmas approaches, we have much for which to be thankful. Native and African Americans are family oriented people, and as Catholics we see the great model of family unity represented in Mary, Joseph, and Jesus. For us, the celebration of Christmas has a special meaning because we know we are God’s children through Baptism. Native American people recognize that the Creator has given us all good things; and so they celebrate with different cultural festivals throughout the year. But when we come to celebrate the feast of the Incarnation, we celebrate not only as Native Americans, but as Catholics who come to the Eucharistic table to share the Body and Blood of Christ with one another. Among those of African ancestry, the unity we have in faith also transcends our cultural and national identities at Christmastime. While African and African American families decorate their homes with traditional crafts and prepare a sumptuous meal to celebrate the festival, the most important meal is the one we share as we partake of the Eucharist. On this jubilant occasion, may we all, Native and African Americans, rejoice in our Catholic faith, whose values and teachings and especially Mass and Sacraments bind us as brothers and sisters, members of the sacred Body of Christ. – Father Marcos Leon H (Lc. 1:38) emos iniciado un nuevo año litúrgico con el Tiempo de Adviento y la mejor manera de hacerlo es con la respuesta de María al ángel Gabriel: “Hágase en mí según tu Palabra”. Este Sí de María, este Amén de nuestra Madre a la voluntad del Señor es un ejemplo a seguir para todos los cristianos. Es una respuesta valiente, consciente, libre y confiada que compromete la vida con todas sus consecuencias. Ella sabía que aceptar tal propuesta del ángel implicaría morir apedreada según la ley de Moisés (Dt. 22:20-21). María estaba muy consciente que aceptar la voluntad de Dios tiene sus grandes riesgos y estaba dispuesta a asumirlos. Sabía que era una decisión que no tendría vuelta atrás. A pesar de todas las dificultades de decirle Sí al Señor, ella confiaba plenamente en el Dios de la vida. Su fe, su amor y su esperanza en Dios eran tan grandes que la mantuvieron firme hasta el final. María, al decir Amén a Dios ofreció todo su ser para permitir la encarnación del Hijo de Dios y hacer posible la construcción del Reino de justicia, igualdad, paz y amor en toda la creación. Su Sí nos abrió las puertas para una nueva creación, para construir un mundo nuevo fundado en el proyecto de la verdad y del amor. Su Amén es el anticipo de que nuestro Amén también es posible. En este año nuevo que iniciamos con el Sí absoluto de María nos podemos preguntar: ¿Hemos respondido a la invitación de Dios a aceptar su amor y vivir en hermandad? ¿Tenemos la suficiente confianza en Él para darle nuestro Sí generoso? Al presentarse las dificultades, ¿nos mantenemos fieles en nuestra entrega? ¿Apoyamos a los demás a mantenerse firmes en la construcción de una nueva sociedad? ¿Es nuestra vida modelo de solidaridad con los empobrecidos de la tierra? ¿Vivimos la Buena Noticia de Jesús en nuestra vida diaria?... Seamos valientes, radicales y generosos como María destruyendo toda clase de desigualdad entre nosotros, entregándonos al Señor y diciéndole “Hágase en mí según tu Palabra” – Padre Carlos N. Arce, Vicario para los Hispanos NC Catholics 16 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org c o v e r s t o r y “For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him might not perish but might have eternal life.” John 3:16 I t’s a sunny Monday morning in late November at Catholic Charities’ Fayetteville office. Volunteers Ron Ingano and Marie Foti are manning the office’s small food pantry, receiving non-perishable food donations from local parishes and distributing them to families who, in the parlance of social services, are “food insecure” – they don’t know where their next meal is coming from. Asked separately why they volunteer at the food pantry, Ron and Marie have the same answer: “God has been good to me. I want to give back.” Ron and Marie are emblematic of Catholics throughout the Diocese of Raleigh. God has been good to us. At Christmas especially we remember that goodness and to show our gratitude we make special efforts to show mercy and kindness to others who are less fortunate. Those “others” are growing in number since the economic downturn. At the same time, for the same reason, the public and corporate monies allocated to helping them are diminishing. The result? Susan Gilbertson, Director of Catholic Charities’ Durham office, puts it succinctly: “We could not do what we do without the parishes.” Susan is talking about a whole range of social services, of which feeding the hungry is only one, but perhaps the most basic and tangible. Today the Durham office has just received 40 bags of food, many NC Catholics with frozen turkeys, from St. Thomas More Parish in Chapel Hill, as well as $695 in food cards. Seventy bags of canned goods and other non-perishables have arrived from the Catholic Newman Center Parish at the University of North Carolina. As families file in to receive the groceries they can’t buy, Susan talks about the changes she has noticed in the last two years. “Our food pantry is open on Wednesdays,” she explains. “We used to get five to ten people coming for groceries. Now we get twenty-five to thirty. For awhile we were running out of food every week. Then Father Dan McLellan at Immaculate Conception here in Durham began taking up a food collection at every Mass. He has the food brought up to the altar at the offertory. The visual impact of that is important; it shows that we are a Church for whom generosity is a central value. “Many of the people we’re seeing now never needed to ask for help before. They’ve lost their jobs, they’re facing foreclosure on their homes, 18 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org or unexpected health bills have put them over the edge.” One of those people, Karen (not her real name), is volunteering with her daughter at the food pantry today. Karen was a single mom when she relocated from Boston to Raleigh several years ago. Then the company she worked for downsized and she lost her job. “All my family and friends were in Boston,” she recalls, “and I hadn’t been here long enough to connect with a church. But Catholic Charities helped us out.” Two years ago severe health issues and surgery put Karen and her children at risk again. “The people here were such a blessing,” she says. “They showed such a kind spirit. So I said if I ever get back on my feet again I’m going to help. I can’t afford to donate money but I can come in and my kids can come in to help.” Karen understands from experience that the goal of the food pantry goes beyond just feeding people’s bodies. Warren Harris exemplifies that attitude. A parishioner at Holy Cross in Durham, he works at the office two days a week, but today he’s volunteering in the pantry on a day off. Watching him engage with the clients and hearing the kindness in his voice is a reminder that “charity” is about love, not just about giving. Lisa Perkins, Catholic Charities Director in Fayetteville, has noticed like Susan Gilbertson how the economy is bringing people to the food pantry who never thought they would be here. “People who used to be supporters of our work are now consumers,” she said. “It’s difficult for them to ask for help. I hear, ‘I don’t know how to do this.’ It’s important for us to assist them with respect and dignity. We’ve all had times in our lives when we needed help.” Both Lisa in Fayetteville and Susan in Durham are aware of the limits in what their pantries are doing. In most cases they may provide a family with just a few meals a month. But they’ve both seen how sometimes a small bit of assistance can bring at least a temporary sigh of relief to a family in need. “Some people need just a little bit to turn them around,” Lisa says. Another point on which the directors agree: The need is accelerating and it is constant. “People are especially generous around the holidays,” Susan says, “but the needs are consistent throughout the year. Whenever I visit schools or parishes I talk about the importance of projects, say with Scouts or classrooms, to collect food.” Just such a project on the coming weekend, conducted by the Knights of Columbus at Good Shepherd in Hope Mills, will help out the pantry in Fayetteville. Catholic Charities operates several food pantries throughout the Diocese, including Catholic Parish Outreach (CPO) in Raleigh, the largest food pantry in the Triangle. With support from Catholic parishes, United Way, corporate donors and over 1,300 volunteers, CPO serves over 2,500,000 pounds of groceries to residents of Wake, Franklin and Johnston counties each year. (For more on CPO, see NC Catholics December 2008) In rural areas, where a centralized pantry is not practical, Catholic Charities facilitates local efforts to feed the hungry. Stephanie Harrell is Director of Catholic Charities’ Albemarle office, which serves thirteen counties in northeastern North Carolina. There are eight parishes in the deanery and most do not have their own food pantries. Catholic Charities works with those that do, such as Holy Trinity Parish in Williamston, or those who want to establish one, such as the Catholic Community of Bertie County, served by the Glenmary Order. Operation Rice Bowl helped Catholic Charities provide seed money to the Bertie effort. Stephanie’s office advised the Glenmarys on other sources of funding, and connected them with a woman who ran a food pantry and could show them where to start. . “We’re a very poor area, and very rural,” Stephanie explains. “Transportation is an issue; the nearest food pantry may be many miles away. Those who are hungry may live in an isolated trailer park or a tiny town, and they need the food to be available closer to them.” How does Catholic Charities know where the need is? “It’s really important that we are part of and in touch with the local communities,” Stephanie says. “So we go to meetings in the communities, in the churches that want to help the poor, and we try to do our part in connecting those in need to local resources. “The local communities are the experts at identifying their poor, what the needs are and what resources are available.” Catholic Charities recently received a grant through Catholic Charities USA, in partnership with Walmart, to help the poor in six counties by collaborating with these local “experts,” including all the food distribution entities in the area. “Different counties are meeting to determine solutions and the directions they want to go,” Stephanie says. Like the other directors, Stephanie has noticed an increase in first-time clients since the economy deteriorated and the price of food has kept going up. And she’s noticed the same reluctance to ask for help among those who in the past have been the helpers. She recalls a woman she worked with after the woman’s husband had left the family. “She had a good job, but I noticed she was losing weight. And I was worried about depression so I asked her, ‘Why are you losing weight?’ “The woman was skipping lunch. Despite being employed, she could not afford to buy three meals a day for herself and her children. And her income was just barely too high for her to qualify for food stamps. “People may be reluctant to ask for help. You need to pay attention, and to encourage them.” Across the Diocese of Raleigh, more and more people are experiencing food insecurity and the other problems that accompany poverty. In the season when we remember God’s love become incarnate in our Savior, the food we bring to the hungry through the work of Catholic Charities is a sign of the love which the Incarnation calls us to share. God has been good to us. e l h i s p a n o C a t ó l i c o «Dios ha sido bueno conmigo» Católicos y Caridades Católicas de NC comparten la alegría de la Navidad «Tanto amó Dios al mundo que dio a su único Hijo, para que todo el que crea en Él no perezca sino que alcance la vida eterna.» Juan 3:16 E s una mañana soleada de un lunes a finales de noviembre en la oficina de Fayetteville de Caridades Católicas. Los voluntarios Ron Ingano y Marie Foti manejan el pequeño centro de distribución de comida gratuita de la oficina, recibiendo donativos de alimentos no perecederos de parroquias locales y distribuyéndolos a familias que, en el lenguaje del servicio social, tienen «inseguridad alimenticia», es decir, no saben de dónde les va a venir su próxima comida. Al preguntarles individualmente por qué ofrecen sus servicios como voluntarios en el centro de distribución de comida gratuita, Ron y Marie dan la misma respuesta: «Dios ha sido bueno conmigo. Quiero devolver el favor.» Ron y Marie caracterizan a los católicos de toda la diócesis de Raleigh. Dios ha sido bueno con nosotros. Especialmente en Navidad recordamos esa bondad y para mostrar nuestra gratitud hacemos esfuerzos especiales para mostrar piedad y amabilidad a otros menos afortunados. NC Catholics 20 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Esos «otros» aumentan en número desde la recesión económica. Al mismo tiempo, por la misma razón, el dinero del público y de las compañías reservado para ayudarles está disminuyendo. ¿El resultado? Susan Gilbertson, Directora de las Caridades Católicas de la oficina de Durham, lo resume así: «No podríamos hacer lo que hacemos sin las parroquias.» Susan está hablando acerca de una gama completa de servicios sociales, de los que dar de comer al hambriento es solo uno, pero quizá el más básico y tangible. Hoy la oficina de Durham acaba de recibir 40 bolsas de alimentos, muchas con pavos congelados, de la parroquia de Santo Tomás More en Chapel Hill, así como $ 695 en tarjetas para comprar alimentos. Setenta bolsas de alimentos en latas y no perecederos han llegado de la parroquia católica de Newman Center en la Universidad de Carolina del Norte. Mientras las familias esperan en fila para recibir los comestibles que no pueden comprar, Susan habla acerca de los cambios que ella ha notado en los últimos dos años. «Nuestro centro de distribución de comida gratuita está abierto los miércoles,» explica. «Entre cinco y diez personas solían visitarnos para recibir alimentos. Ahora nos visitan entre 25 y 30.» Durante algún tiempo nos quedamos sin comida cada semana. Entonces el Padre Dan de la Inmaculada Concepción aquí en Durham comenzó a hacer una colecta de alimentos en cada misa. Él hace que los alimentos se lleven al altar en el ofertorio. El impacto visual de esa acción es importante; muestra que somos una Iglesia para la que la generosidad es un valor central. «Muchas de las personas que vemos ahora nunca necesitaron pedir ayuda antes. Han perdido su empleo, tienen que hacer frente a la ejecución de la hipoteca de sus casas, o las facturas médicas inesperadas las han llevado al límite.» Una de esas personas, Belinda, sirve como voluntaria con su hija en el centro de distribución de comida gratuita hoy. Belinda era una madre soltera cuando se trasladó a Raleigh de Boston hace varios años. Entonces la compañía para la que trabajaba redujo el personal y ella perdió su empleo. «Toda mi familia y amigos estaban en Boston», recuerda, «y no he estado aquí el tiempo suficiente para relacionarme con una iglesia. Pero las Caridades Católicas nos ayudaron.» Hace dos años varios problemas graves de salud y cirugía pusieron a Belinda y sus hijos en peligro de nuevo. «Las personas aquí son una bendición», dice. «Mostraron un espíritu tan amable. Esa fue mi motivación para decir que si algún día me recupero voy a ayudar. No puedo permitirme el lujo de dar dinero, pero puedo venir con mis hijos a ayudar.» Belinda entiende por propia experiencia que la meta del centro de distribución de comida gratuita va más allá que el simple hecho de alimentar el cuerpo de las personas. Warren Harris ilustra esa actitud. Es feligrés de la iglesia Holy Cross en Durham, donde trabaja en la oficina dos días a la semana, pero hoy está ofreciendo su ayuda en el centro de distribución de comida gratuita en su día de descanso. Observarle charlar con los clientes y escuchar la amabilidad en su voz es un recordatorio de que «caridad» es amor, no simplemente donación. Lisa Perkins, Directora de Caridades Católicas en Fayetteville, ha notado al igual que Susan Gilbertson cómo la economía está trayendo a personas al centro de distribución de comida gratuita, que nunca pensaron que estarían aquí. «Personas que solían ser admiradores de nuestro trabajo son ahora consumidores», dijo. «Les es difícil pedir ayuda. Oigo, “No se cómo hacer esto.” Es importante para nosotros ayudarles con respeto y dignidad. Todos nosotros hemos tenido momentos difíciles en nuestras vidas cuando hemos necesitado ayuda.» Tanto Lisa en Fayetteville como Susan en Durham están conscientes de los límites de lo que sus centros de distribución de comida gratuita están haciendo. En la mayoría de los casos pueden proporcionar a una familia solo unas pocas comidas al mes. Pero ambas han visto como a veces una pequeña ayuda puede traer al menos un suspiro temporal de alivio a una familia necesitada. «Algunas personas necesitan simplemente una pequeña ayuda para dar un giro a las cosas», dice Lisa. Otro punto en el que las directoras están de acuerdo: La necesidad se está acelerando y es constante. «Las personas son especialmente generosas en la temporada navideña», dice Susan, «pero las necesidades son consistentes durante todo el año. Cuando visito escuelas o parroquias hablo acerca de la importancia de proyectos, digamos que con los Scouts o con clases, de recogida de alimentos.» Tal proyecto el próximo fin de semana, llevado a cabo por los Caballeros de Colón en Good Shepherd en Hope Mills, ayudará al centro de distribución de comida gratuita en Fayetteville. Caridades Católicas opera varios centros de distribución de comida gratuita por toda la diócesis, incluyendo Catholic Parish Outreach (CPO) en Raleigh, el mayor centro de distribución de comida gratuita en el Triángulo. Con el apoyo de parroquias católicas, United Way, donantes corporativos y más de 1,300 voluntarios, CPO sirve más de 2,500,000 libras de alimentos a residentes de los condados de Wake, Franklin y Johnston cada año. (Para más información sobre CPO, vea Católicos de NC diciembre de 2008) En áreas rurales, donde un centro centralizado de distribución de comida gratuita no es práctico, las Caridades Católicas facilitan esfuerzos locales para alimentar a los que no tienen que comer. Stephanie Harrell es Directora de la oficina de Caridades Católicas de Albemarle, que sirve a 13 condados en el noreste de Carolina del Norte. Existen ocho parroquias en el decanato y la mayoría no tienen sus propios centros de distribución de comida gratuita. Caridades Católicas trabaja con aquellas que lo tienen, tales como la parroquia de Holy Trinity en Williamston, o aquellas que quieren establecer uno, tal como la Comunidad Católica del Condado de Bertie, servida por la Orden de Glenmary. La campaña Tazón de Arroz ayudó a Caridades Católicas a proporcionar fondos iniciales para la iniciativa de Bertie. La oficina de Stephanie le informó a la Orden de Glenmary de otras fuentes de financiación y la puso en contacto con una mujer que maneja un centro de distribución de comida gratuita y que podría mostrarles cómo comenzar. «Somos un área muy pobre, y muy rural», explica Stephanie. «El transporte es un problema. El centro de distribución de comida gratuita más próximo puede estar a muchas millas de distancia. Aquellas personas que padecen hambre pueden vivir en una zona aislada de casas móviles o en un pueblo muy pequeño, y necesitan que la comida esté disponible más cerca de ellas.» ¿Cómo sabe Caridades Católicas dónde está la necesidad? «Es realmente importante que formemos parte y estemos en contacto con las comunidades locales», dice Sterphanie. «Así que vamos a reuniones en las comunidades, en las iglesias que quieren ayudar a los pobres y tratamos de hacer nuestro trabajo en poner en contacto a los necesitados con los recursos locales.» «Las comunidades locales son las expertas en identificar a sus pobres, cuáles son las necesidades y qué recursos están disponibles.» Caridades Católicas recientemente recibió una subvención por medio de Caridades Católicas USA, en asociación con Walmart, para ayudar a los pobres de seis condados colaborando con estos “expertos” locales, incluyendo todas las entidades de distribución de alimentos en el área. «Varios condados se reúnen para determinar soluciones y las direcciones en las que desean ir», dice Stephanie. Como las otras directoras, Stephanie ha notado un aumento en nuevos clientes desde que se deterioró la economía y el precio de los alimentos ha continuado en ascenso. Además, ella ha notado la misma resistencia a pedir ayuda entre aquellos que en el pasado han sido los ayudantes. Ella recuerda a una mujer con la que trabajó después de que su esposo abandonó a la familia. «Ella tenía un buen empleo, pero noté que estaba perdiendo peso. Yo estaba preocupada porque quizás pudiera tener depresión, así que le pregunté, “¿Por qué estás perdiendo peso?” “La mujer no tomaba el almuerzo. A pesar de tener trabajo, ella no podía permitirse el lujo de comprar tres comidas al día para ella y sus hijos. Además, sus ingresos eran ligeramente más altos para que calificara para cupones de alimentos. “Las personas pueden resistirse a pedir ayuda. Usted necesita prestar atención, y alentarlas.” En toda la Diócesis de Raleigh, más y más personas están experimentando inseguridad alimenticia y los otros problemas que acompañan a la pobreza. Si bien muchos reconocen que la Navidad es un tiempo para ser generosos, el trabajo de Caridades Católicas es un recordatorio que las obras de misericordia, y la llamada a amar a nuestros hermanos y hermanas, no conocen estaciones. Dios ha sido bueno con nosotros. Por Rich Reece | Fotografías por Denmark Photo & Video O bi spo Bur bi dge “Es dando que recibimos” L a hermosa oración de San Francisco de Asís nos recuerda que “es dando que recibimos”. En Navidad, se destaca esa realidad en muchas maneras diferentes. Nos regocijamos en nuestra fe que Dios el Padre nos ha dado el más precioso regalo: el regalo de Su Hijo, Nuestro Señor y Salvador, Jesucristo. El Evangelio de Navidad describe claramente lo que recibimos: “Y la Palabra se hizo carne e hizo Su morada entre nosotros, y presenciamos su gloria, la gloria del único Hijo del Padre, lleno de gracia y verdad”. Con gratitud profunda, agradecemos a Dios por derramar sobre nosotros sus gracias sublimes en la Eucaristía, en el perdón de nuestros pecados y en todos los Sacramentos. También estamos agradecidos por la Palabra de Dios, la Verdad que nos conduce, nos guía y nos libera. Nuestra gratitud por las abundantes gracias de Dios se refleja en nuestra entrega a Él, en la oración, en la fidelidad a sus mandamientos, en la integridad y santidad que vivimos en nuestra vocación particular y en nuestro servicio generoso al Señor, a Su Iglesia y a los demás. Al entregarnos de tal manera, recibimos la paz y la alegría que puede descubrirse solo en y por medio de Jesucristo. La revista de este mes destaca el extraordinario “dar” que se lleva a cabo en nuestra Diócesis a través de nuestras oficinas de Catholic Charities, de los programas de ayuda parroquial, los ministerios diocesanos y parroquiales y la tremenda generosidad de nuestro tiempo, talento y recursos que ofrecen los fieles por medio de nuestros decanatos y comunidades. Al entregarnos nosotros mismos, recibimos la promesa y garantía de que el Señor nos usa como instrumentos de Su sanación y amor compasivo a los demás, especialmente a aquellos más Semana Nacional de la Migración 2012: del 8 al 14 de enero Cada año los Obispos Católicos de Estados Unidos reservan una semana para resaltar la dignidad y las preocupaciones de los migrantes entre nosotros. El lema de la Semana de la Migración este año, “Acogiendo a Cristo en el Migrante”, nos recuerda que, justo como Cristo conoció a sus discípulos en el Camino a Emaús en la apariencia del extranjero, así mismo se hace presente en cada uno de nosotros en el caminante solitario, en el recién llegado y en el migrante. La USCCB (por sus siglas en inglés) proporciona una serie de recursos que NC Catholics necesitados. Que podamos ser renovados en el espíritu de dar a lo largo de la temporada de la Navidad, siempre conscientes de los afectados en este tiempo de crisis económica. Uno de los regalos más preciosos que podemos ofrecer a los demás es nuestro tiempo. Sin embargo, parece que resulta ser más difícil para los cónyuges, familiares y amigos pasar tiempo de calidad. Tal vez podría ser ésta la promesa y resolución del Año Nuevo. De ser así, recibiremos mucho más a cambio. Cuando los cónyuges se dedican tiempo, les ayuda a revivir el amor que los une. Cuando los miembros de la familia se dedican tiempo, renuevan el cuidado y el apoyo que tienen el uno al otro. Cuando los amigos se dedican tiempo, vuelven a descubrir que la unión es la fuente de aliento y comodidad. Otro regalo que podemos dar a los demás es el perdón. Jesucristo vino a reconciliarnos con el Padre y con los demás. Para poder celebrar la paz verdadera de la Navidad, necesitamos restaurar cualquier relación que ha sido dañada y otorgar el perdón a quienes nos han lastimado y decepcionado. Recuerden que para ser perdonados primero tenemos que perdonar. En una nota personal, aprovecho esta oportunidad para agradecerles a ustedes, a mis hermanos sacerdotes, a nuestros religiosos (as) y a los laicos fieles por su bondad y apoyo. Ustedes son un regalo especial para mí, para nuestra Diócesis y para la Iglesia entera. Pueden estar seguros que los recordaré de manera especial en las Misas de Navidad que celebraré. Que ustedes puedan continuar entregándose al Señor y a los demás y por la intercesión de María Nuestra Madre, que reciban del Señor abundantes gracias y bendiciones en este tiempo sagrado, a lo largo del Año Nuevo y siempre. reflexionan sobre el tema. Algunos de estos materiales estarán disponibles sólo para descargarse mientras que otros estarán disponibles para hacer pedidos en grandes cantidades a través de la oficina de publicaciones USCCB a un bajo costo. Para adquirir el material de la Semana Nacional de la Migración, por favor contacte a la oficina de publicaciones de USCCB al 1-800-235-8722 o visite la página web de Migrant and Refugee Services para materiales. “La cuestión de migración engendra mucha pasión entre nuestros ciudadanos, pero estamos llamados a abrir nuestro corazón y ofrecer hospitalidad a aquellos más necesitados”, dijo el Obispo Michael F. Burbidge. “Es nuestro 22 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org deber crear un espacio de bienvenida y aceptación a los migrantes que se encuentran lejos de sus hogares y en situaciones vulnerables. La Enseñanza Social Católica procede desde nuestro reconocimiento de que todas las personas tienen derechos humanos básicos y dignidad, mantienen los derechos de las personas a llevar una vida digna por su trabajo para mantener a sus familias. No existen soluciones simples a esta cuestión, pero está claro para los Obispos de Estados Unidos que debemos encontrar la manera de responder de manera realista a la demanda de trabajo en nuestra nación, apoyando el derecho de la gente a inmigrar y proteger la dignidad humana de cada persona”. N u e s t r a C a t e d r a l ELEMENTOS DIOCESANOS • La Catedral de Santo Nombre de Jesús • Salón de Reuniones • • ELEMENTOS PARROQUIALES • Ayuda a los Pobres • Proyectos de Instalaciones de la Parroquia Instalaciones de Estacionamiento • Mejorar el Ministerio de la Parroquia BAA 2012 • Reducir la Deuda de la Parroquia Una campaña para los fieles de la Diócesis de Raleigh Nuestra Catedral: Una Fe, Un Pueblo La Catedral y mucho más A medida que se desarrolla el proyecto del Campus de la Catedral, el Obispo Burbidge desea saber los comentarios y las preguntas de los fieles. Cada mes, junto con los Presidentes de los distintos comités del proyecto del Campus de la Catedral, el Obispo proporcionará las respuestas en la revista NC Catholics y en la página Web del Campus de la Catedral, www.holynamecathedralnc.org. ¿Qué son las recepciones de la parroquia y quienes estarán involucrados? La fase parroquial de la Campaña Nuestra Catedral: Una Fe, Un Pueblo comienza en Las recepciones Enero para las parroquias le darán a cada en el bloque 1. Uno de los primeros aspectos de la cam- feligrés la mejor paña para cada parroquia oportunidad de será una serie de recepciones comprender todo en la comunidad de la parroquia local. Las recepciones le lo que conlleva el darán a cada feligrés la mejor proyecto. También oportunidad de comprenles permitirá a los der todo lo que conlleva el feligreses aclarar proyecto. También les permitirá a los feligreses aclarar cualquier duda cualquier duda con respecto con respecto a la a la campaña. Se les pedirá campaña. a los feligreses considerar su participación para hacer exitosa esta campaña. Las parroquias en el bloque 1 llevarán a cabo las recepciones de Enero a Marzo. Cada feligrés registrado será invitado a la recepción. Las recepciones durarán aproximadamente una hora y se harán varias presentaciones, un video de la campaña y un periodo de preguntas y respuestas. El lugar de las recepciones puede variar y se basará en las decisiones de los líderes de la parroquia. ¿Cómo estamos trabajando con la Universidad Estatal de Carolina del Norte y la ciudad de Raleigh para ser buenos vecinos a medida que vaya avanzando el proyecto? A través de las fases iniciales de este proceso, la Diócesis mantiene abiertas las líneas de comunicación con la Universidad Estatal de Carolina del Norte y la ciudad de Raleigh. Antes de elegir el sitio, la Diócesis se reunió con los funcionarios de la ciudad, entre ellos el Alcalde anterior Charles Meeker y su equipo de desarrollo, quienes ofrecieron asesoría y orientación sobre diversos lugares a considerar. Ellos continuaron proporcionando ideas a lo largo de los meses de selección. La Diócesis también ha sido especialmente sensible con los residentes que viven cerca del sitio del proyecto del Campus de la Catedral. Poco después del anuncio en Septiembre, Russ Elmayan, Jefe de Finanzas y Director Operativo de la Diócesis de Raleigh, y Tim Mann, Co-presidente de la Campaña Nuestra Catedral, Una Fe, Un Pueblo, se reunieron con los residentes de la comunidad de Nazareth para revisar el plan de desarrollo, responder preguntas y presentar las bases para un diálogo abierto y honesto con respecto al proyecto. La respuesta fue positiva y la comunicación con los residentes continuará. La Diócesis también ha tomado medidas para mantener informados a los líderes de la Universidad Estatal de Carolina del Norte sobre los planes de la Catedral, que se ubicará en la propiedad directamente adyacente al Campus Centennial. El Obispo Burbidge y Monseñor Brockman, Vicario General de la Diócesis de Raleigh, se reunieron recientemente con el Canciller W. Randolph Woodson para mantenerlo informado sobre el Proyecto del Campus de la Catedral y para revisar con más detalle como la Diócesis y la Universidad colaborarán con respecto al interés mutuo mientras avanza el proyecto. ¿Cómo se beneficiará directamente la parroquia de la Campaña Nuestra Catedral: Una Fe, Un Pueblo? Cada parroquia tendrá un objetivo financiero que incluirá su porción de la Campaña Anual del Obispo para el 2012. Una vez que la parroquia supere la meta del BAA (por sus siglas en ingles), el 20% de los fondos netos recaudados se devolverá a la parroquia. Cuando la parroquia supere la meta de la Campaña de la Catedral, el 50% de todos los fondos recaudados por encima de la meta serán para la parroquia. Esta fórmula pertenece a las parroquias que conducen una campaña regular. Cada parroquia enfrenta sus propios desafíos y establece sus propias metas por los fondos recibidos. El rango de las necesidades de la parroquia va desde el mantenimiento de las antiguas estructuras de la Iglesia hasta construir nuevas estructuras para satisfacer las necesidades de la formación educativa y espiritual. NC Catholics 24 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org Otras parroquias esperan poder reducir las deudas de la parroquia o establecer fondos que generen ingresos para los servicios y ministerios de la parroquia y su escuela en el futuro. Otras necesitarán incrementar los servicios en la parroquia a través de un aumento de personal o recursos para las necesidades de formación de fe para adultos, niños, adolescentes y jóvenes adultos. Estos fondos parroquiales se pueden utilizar de cualquier forma que la parroquia lo estime conveniente a través de la planificación y coordinación de los líderes de la parroquia. De esta manera, nuestras parroquias obtendrán el máximo beneficio de esta campaña para fortalecer a nuestra Iglesia local en el este de Carolina del Norte. ¿Qué pasa si la parroquia tiene un proyecto grande? Si la parroquia tiene “Cuando una parnecesidades más allá de lo roquia tiene una que se esperaba recaudar en una campaña regular tendrá gran necesidad la opción de realizar una que es vital para el campaña “piggyback” (dos crecimiento y los proyectos en una misma campaña). Esta opción le servicios de esa brinda a la parroquia la parroquia, la opción capacidad de proporcionar de “piggyback” a un enfoque primordial a las necesidades de la propia menudo es el mejor parroquia y al mismo tiempo curso de acción. Le proporcionar información permite a las para los feligreses sobre las necesidades Diocesanas. Este roquias atender tipo de campaña requiere un sus propias neceesfuerzo más intenso a nivel sidades y simullocal. Un “piggyback” en la táneamente apoya parroquia podría garantia la mayor necesizar la Campaña Anual del dad Diocesana” Obispo 2012 y el 80% del resto para el objetivo de la Campaña del Campus de la Catedral. Esto garantiza, en la mayoría de los casos, que sería pagado en cuatro años. La parroquia retendría todo el dinero recaudado como garantía para el caso de la parroquia. Esta es la opción que la Iglesia Católica de Santa Maria utilizó en la Campaña Serving God by Serving Others. La parroquia se acerca a los 2 millones de dólares tratando de lograr el objetivo de 1.2 millones de dólares para las necesidades de la parroquia. “Cuando una parroquia tiene una gran necesidad que es vital para el crecimiento y los servicios de esa parroquia, la opción de “piggyback” a menudo es el mejor curso de acción. Le permite a las parroquias atender sus propias necesidades y simultáneamente apoya a la mayor necesidad Diocesana”, comentó el consultante de la Campaña, Michael Goodwin, de Guidance in Giving. Las parroquias que han escogido la opción piggyback respetarán las políticas y procedimientos normales de la Diócesis. l o c a l n e w s Bishop Burbidge Celebrates Home School Mass The special role of Our Blessed Mother, listening to what God is asking of us, and expressing gratitude to parents were the themes of the homily given by the Most Reverend Michael F. Burbidge at the annual Diocesan Home School Mass, celebrated at St. Anthony of Padua Church in Southern Pines on November 19. Concelebrants were Msgr. Jeffrey A. Ingham, Pastor of St. Anthony of Padua, Msgr. Patrick McCabe and Msgr. Frank Hendrick. The Mass, hosted by the Association for Roman Catholic Homeschoolers, is for all home school families in the Diocese. This is the sixth year Bishop Burbidge has offered the Mass. Reflecting on a quote from Pope Benedict XVI on the important place Mary has in our lives, Bishop Burbidge said, “We must be inspired by her faith and follow her example, especially as we prepare for Thanksgiving, Advent and Christmas.” Calling to mind the beautiful words of Our Holy Mother when she said, “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord,” Bishop Burbidge encouraged the students to “echo those same words as you thank God for His abundant blessings, especially for the precious gift of life itself, for the Holy Spirit living and dwelling in you.” Diocese Donates $10,000 to Prevent Homelessness The Diocese of Raleigh, in partnership with Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Raleigh, has donated $10,000 to the Raleigh/ Wake County Partnership to End and Prevent Homelessness. This donation is twice the amount contributed by the Diocese in 2010. The mission of the Raleigh/Wake Partnership to End and Prevent AAMEN Day of Reflection Presents Nationally Known Liturgist On Saturday, November 19, 2011, the Diocesan Office of Worship and the Office of African Ancestry Ministry and Evangelization presented a Day of Reflection featuring Mr. Rawn Harbor. Mr. Harbor is one of the preeminent African American Catholic liturgists and musicians in the U.S. today. A gifted pianist and composer, he is also a much sought-after workshop facilitator, speaker and liturgist. Approximately 70 catechists and music ministers from 13 parishes in the Diocese attended the day-long presentation, as Mr. Harbor taught and demonstrated the implementation of Gospel Music in the new Roman Missal. He addressed the changes in music and wording and advised the music ministers on approved liturgical music resources. The Church has a tradition of liturgical chant, Mr. Harbor said, referring to Gregorian chant. But black music also has a chant tradition, he explained, which can be heard in many traditional spirituals, and can be incorporated into the Mass. Fr. Marcos Leon, Vicar for AAMEN, said that those in attendance were extremely appreciative that the Diocese had brought someone of Mr. Harbor’s stature to this gathering. “This is the best attendance we have had for a day of reflection,” he said. Homelessness is to reorient the service system from one that manages homelessness to one that prevents and ends homelessness through the power of partnerships. Approximately 78,000 people are estimated to be living in poverty in Raleigh/Wake County with many at risk of homelessness. More than 3,300 people, including 700 children and 500 veterans, experience homelessness during the course of a year. Each night there are on average 1,100 people, including 200 children, who are homeless in Wake County. In a letter to Raleigh Mayor Charles Meeker, Bishop Michael F. Burbidge wrote, “The Diocese is honored to offer its support in this initiative, as well as in many other ongoing works of outreach. With Catholic Charities, we are committed to doing what we can to help alleviate homelessness and to help all those in our midst who are poor and having hardships, especially in this turbulent economy.” cur si l l o Cursillo: Changing Communities by Changing Hearts W alk into the Downtown Café and Soda Shop on Board Street in Edenton and one of the first things you will spot is a sign bearing the Bible verse Joshua 24:15: As for me and my house, we will follow the Lord. It is a fitting description for the shop and for Deacon Frank Jones, the man who owns it. Deacon Jones was ordained in the summer of 2010. But it was after his ordination, said, that he came to truly understand the verse, and to know even more profoundly what it means to be a Catholic and how to make his faith a vital part of his daily life. His cafe, he added, is more than a business, it’s a ministry. His understanding came that fall when he became NC Catholics involved in Cursillo. He said that for him, as for many men and women each year, Cursillo was a rejuvenating spiritual experience. This movement of the Catholic Church – in English and in Spanish - whose full name is Cursillo de Cristiandad or “short course of Christianity,” focuses on the evangelization of environments by individual Catholics. Founded among Catholics 26 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org in Spain in the late 1940s, the movement spread to the United States a decade later when the first Cursillo was held in Texas in 1957; it now has millions of members world-wide. In North Carolina, the first Cursillo weekend for Englishspeaking men was held in the summer of 1963 at St. Gabriel Parish in Charlotte, then part of the Raleigh Diocese. One year later, the first Cursillo for Spanishspeaking men was held in Raleigh; cursillos for women followed later that decade. Father Paul Brant, SJ, Bishop Michael F. Burbidge’s delegate to the Raleigh Cursillo movement for the last three years, said Cursillo recognizes that most people want to live a full Christian life, but the pressures of the world make it difficult to do so. This Christ-centered, Diocesan-based movement offers a method to give us the tools and support “to become witnesses of Christian faith,” Fr. Brant explained. “Its method is simple,” he said. “Be a friend, make a friend, bring a friend to Christ.” At the movement’s core is the three-day Cursillo weekend, with separate weekends for men and women. Participants, called cursillistas, are invited by sponsors to attend the weekend, which Fr. Brant described as “an intense mixture of prayer, talks, testimony and group interaction, aimed at helping candidates know themselves better as they come to know Christ better, in the context of a rich experience of Church as community.” It also helps participants to develop skills to become leaders who will share their faith with others by taking what they learned back into the world. Fr. Brant, who attended the first Cursillo weekend at St. Gabriel’s before he was ordained, said that in the years since the movement took root in the Diocese, between 8,000 and 10,000 people have participated in over 200 men’s and women’s weekends. They are now held at Short Journey Center in Smithfield and Camp Dixie, outside Fayetteville. But the weekend is just the beginning. After the intensity of those three days, Cursillo becomes a lifelong journey shared with others through a post-weekend support program. Consisting of regular group reunions, the program helps participants remain strong in their personal faith renewal and in their efforts to bring Christ into their work, families and neighborhoods, said Steve Levesque,an active member of the Cursillo movement since he moved to North Carolina in 1994. “You cannot grow in your faith in isolation,” he stressed. The Spanish-speaking For more information about the Raleigh Cursillo movement, please visit www.cursillo.org/Raleigh or www.dioceseofraleigh.org/how/cursillo/index.aspx You may also contact Fr. Paul Brant, SJ at [email protected] or 252-229-0584. Fr. Brant said he is very interested in speaking with people who made their Cursillo in other dioceses. By Rachelle D. Garbarine 2012 SCHEDULE FOR CURSILLO DIOCESE OF RALEIGH, NC DATES/ FECHAS LOCATION/LOCAL EVENT/EVENTO (2)-3-4 MARCH Short Journey Center, Smithfield Team Training Workshop (English and Spanish) 10-11-12-13 MAY Short Journey Center, Smithfield Cursillo TRES DIAS (Spanish) Men 31MAYO-12-3 JUNE Short Journey Center, Smithfield Cursillo TRES DIAS (Spanish) Women 14-15-16-17 JUNE Short Journey Center, Smithfield Cursillo TRES DIAS/Three Days (English) (Men and/or Women) Short Journey Center, Smithfield 29- 30 JUNE-1 JULY EJERCICIOS ESPIRITUALES DE COMUNIÓN PARTE I Begin Personal retreats for those learning spiritual direction in Cursillo 6-7-8 JULY Short Journey Center, Smithfield EJERCICIOS ESPIRITUALES DE COMUNIÓN PARTE II Wrap up Personal retreats for those learning spiritual direction in Cursillo Sending forth. 9-10-11-12 AUGUST Short Journey Center, Smithfield Cursillo TRES DIAS/Three Days(English) (Men and/or Women) 30 AUGUST-2 SEPT. Short Journey Center, Smithfield TRES DIAS (Spanish) Men t.b.a. CAMP DIXIE TRES DIAS (Spanish) t.b.a. CAMP DIXIE TRES DIAS (Spanish) Cursillo movement is vibrant in the Diocese of Raleigh, with its growing Hispanic population and candidates open to the religious experience, Fr. Brant said. Andrés Pedroza, a leader in the movement, agreed. “For the majority of people who have made the Cursillo journey, it has changed their lives,” Mr. Pedroza said. The movement’s Englishspeaking counterpart, however, is struggling at this time. While people involved in Cursillo have taken on leadership roles in other ministries in their parishes, their positions within the movement remain unfilled, making it difficult to hold weekends, Fr. Brant said. But he noted that efforts are underway to change that. Carlos Martinez, a Cursillo leader, added: “We have attempted to hold one women’s and men’s [English] weekend a year. Through these weekends we hope to recruit enough volunteers to assist with future weekends and to take on the necessary leadership roles to rebuild the English movement. Our recent successes were a result of teaming up with the Hispanic movement. My hope is that we can identify experienced Cursillistas in the Diocese willing to serve in leadership roles or assist in our rebuilding efforts.” Fr. Brant said a campaign has also started to educate people in the Diocese about Cursillo and its place in the life of parishes. To that end, he said, he will enlist the support of pastors to help publicize Cursillo in parishes throughout the Diocese; and of Bishop Burbidge to encourage priests and deacons who have attended Cursillo to speak about their experiences at meetings of religious leaders in the Diocese. One speaker could be Deacon Jones. “I came away with the ability to see how God works in people’s lives,” he said. “I always knew this in my mind, but never in my heart - until Cursillo.” Cursillistas from the second Men’s Cursillo in the Diocese of Raleigh, October 1963, on the steps of Notre Dame High School in Greensboro, NC. c o m m u n i t y things to do: the Sacred Heart Cathedral Spiritual Choir will present its annual Advent Program on Sunday, December 11, 2011 at 6 p.m. in the Cathedral, 200 Hillsborough Street, Raleigh, NC . Admission is free. Please come for an hour of readings and songs. All are welcome. Quo Vadis Group Meeting, December 13, 7 p.m. – 9 p.m. at Sacred Heart Cathedral. High school aged boys are invited to attend the Quo Vadis Group, which meets once a month, usually on a Tuesday evening. Quo Vadis provides a fraternal environment and an opportunity to gather for fellowship, prayer and a discussion on discernment and vocations. Dinner is provided. Please contact the Office of Vocations for more information at 919.821.9731. Next meeting January 10. Priesthood Discernment Group, December 17, 9 a.m. – 1 p.m. at Sacred Heart Cathedral, 219 Edenton Street, Raleigh, N.C. 27603. Adult Catholic men between the ages of 17-48 discerning a possible call to Priesthood are invited to the Priesthood Discernment Group meetings held on the third Saturday of each month. If you are just beginning to contemplate a vocation or are more serious about a call to priesthood please consider attending this group. The Priesthood Discernment Group provides a fraternal environment in which to discuss your discernment of a possible call to Priesthood with other men who are also examining the call. The group discusses issues central to the call and does so within the context of prayer, presentations, and discussion. The morning begins with Mass. Coffee and doughnuts will be available in the Office of Vocations (two doors down from the Cathedral) after Mass. Morning Prayer, a discussion/presentation about discernment/ Priesthood, Daytime Prayer, and lunch follow. For more information contact the Vocations Office, 919.832.6279. Next group January 14. third Option: Re-defining the power Struggle. December 19, 7 p.m. – 9 p.m. at St. Patrick Church, 2840 Village Drive, Fayetteville, NC 28304. For more information contact Linda Bedo, 919.821.9753 or bedo@ raldioc.org. third Option: Control Issues. January 2, 2012, 7 p.m. – 9 p.m. at St. Patrick Church, 2840 Village Drive, Fayetteville, NC 28304. For more information contact Linda Bedo, 919.821.9753 or bedo@ raldioc.org. Annual Catholic Formation and Evangelization Leadership Retreat, January 9, 2012, 1 p.m. – January 11, 2 p.m. Trinity Center, 618 Salter Path Road, Salter Path, NC 28512. Gather with ministry leaders from across the Diocese as Fr. Greg Spencer leads us through reflections on Jesus’ loving sacrifice present in the Eucharist. Daily Mass, Reconciliation and Lectio prayer will enrich Upcoming events at Avila Retreat Center 711 Mason Road, Durham. 27712. To register or for more information, call 919.477.1285. Advent Blessings, Tuesday, December 6, 9:30 a.m. - 2 p.m. We anticipate Christmas and preparations abound. Yet in the midst of our planning and busy-ness, Advent offers the opportunity to reflect upon preparing our inner selves to welcome Jesus Christ, the Messiah, our Emmanuel. We deliberately slow down and reflect upon the Spirit of God-within-us. In preparing and giving the simple gift of ourselves, we receive abundant blessings of Advent and Christmas. Presenter: Joan Rose, the Director of Faith Formation at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Raleigh, N.C., and a Master Catechist in the Diocese of Raleigh. Donation: $40. Serenity Retreat for Recovering Women: The Gifts of Recovery, January 6-8, 2012, Fri. 7 p.m. - Sun. 11 a.m. This weekend will be a time of reflecting on the gifts we have received in the recovery journey. Realizing this gift has many blessings. Do we value this gift? Presenter: Sister Michelle Marie Lister, OSF, has a M. Div. in SpiriNC Catholics tuality and Counseling. She has been a Licensed Drug and Alcohol Counselor for 25 years and has given recovery retreats on the East Coast and in Hong Kong since 1991. Donation: $160. Glittering Vices and Life Giving Virtues, Wednesday, January 25, 2012, 9:30 a.m. – 2 p.m. Part 1: Greed and Generosity. Part 2: Anger and Peace. This series will explore the ways in which the seven deadly or capital sins shape our lives and the ways in which we might cultivate the virtues emblematic of Christian disciples. Presenter: Fr. Bill McConville, OFM. has been Associate Pastor at St. Francis of Assisi Church in Raleigh since 2001. He has been a member of the Franciscan Order since 1996 and a priest since 1973. Before joining the ministry at St. Francis he served as professor of theology at the Washington Theological Union and as President of Siena College in Albany, NY. Donation (includes lunch): $40. 28 December 2011 | www.DioceseofRaleigh.org | www.NCCatholics.org our retreat. Treat yourself to a respite from the busy holiday season. Enjoy a time of personal reflection as you begin 2012. Contact Mary DiSano at 919.821.9710 or mary. [email protected]. Martin Luther King, Jr. Celebration, January 15, 2012, 10 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. at St. Ann Catholic Church, 357 N. Cool Spring Street, Fayetteville, NC 28301. Celebration of the birth of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and the social justice he preached. Mass begins at 10 a.m. and a reception will follow. Principal celebrant: Bishop Michael F. Burbidge. Contact Lauren Green at 919.821.9762 or aamen. [email protected]. third Option: Listening Beyond Words. January 16, 2012, 7 p.m. – 9 p.m. at St. Patrick Church, 2840 Village Drive, Fayetteville, NC 28304. For more information contact Linda Bedo, 919.821.9753 or bedo@ raldioc.org. 9th Annual Chocolate Affair to Remember benefiting Catholic Charities Fayetteville Region, January 28, 2012, 7-10 p.m. at The Holiday Inn Bordeaux- Marseille Room, 1707 Owen Drive, Fayetteville, NC 28304. Tickets available December 1, 2011 at Catholic Charities 910.424.2020, ext 21; Pollitt Selection, 910.487.9100 and The Chocolate Lady, 910.480.2000. Tickets are $35 in advance and $40 at the door. 10th Annual Ignited By truth Catholic Conference February 24-25, 2012, NC State Fairgrounds, Raleigh Raymond Arroyo, Host of EWTN’s “The World Over Live”; Michael Barber, Ph.D. Professor of Theology, Scripture, & Catholic Thought; Dr. Philip Mango, Catholic Psychotherapist; Sister Miriam James Heidland, Former Volleyball Star; John W. Garcia, Founder of Sober for Christ ; Bishop Michael F. Burbidge, Vigil Mass Celebrant and Homilist. www. IgnitedByTruth.com Death of Sister M. Carol Baden, IHM Sister M. Carol Baden, IHM, of the Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary died on Thursday, October 27, 2011, at Our Lady of Peace Residence in Scranton. Sister Carol served as a principal at St. Monica Elementary School in Raleigh, NC, from 1954 to 1960. She also served as a teacher at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Elementary School in Rocky Mount, NC, from 1941 to 1954. In addition, over a 55-year career in education, Sister Carol served as principal or teacher in various Catholic schools in Pennsylvania and Maryland. Memorial contributions may be made to support the retired IHM Sisters c/o the IHM Sisters Retirement Fund, IHM Center, 2300 Adams Avenue, Scranton, PA 18509. par i sh pr ofi l e Challenges and Opportunities St. therese, Wrightsville Beach the church required an addition, doubling its seating capacity. A seaside church can only expand so far, however. In 1976, the parish finally burst at the seams. At first there was talk of moving St. Therese to Wilmington. (This had occurred with Immaculate Conception Parish, originally at Carolina Beach.) In the end, though, St. Therese parishioners established a new parish, St. Mark, and St. Therese retained its identity and location. In 1996 Hurricane Fran damaged the church so badly that repairs took several months. The disaster turned out to be an opportunity for long-needed repairs and renovations, though, explained Fr. Joseph Vetter, the current t. Therese is the only Catholic pastor of St. Therese. In 2001 St. Therese was able to purchase a church in North Carolina to be building next door, which became the parish office. Today St. Therese comprises 550 registered families. Fr. Vetter built on the beach. At high tide the describes his parishioners as extremely involved in outreach, faith parking lot behind the church is formation, liturgy and spiritual support. “We spoke with our only a hundred yards or so from the Atlantic parishioners,” Fr. Vetter said, “and they indicated they wanted a very active church.” Sr. Catherine Michael Fee, SSJ, has joined Ocean. A seaside church faces problems parish staff in order to provide additional pastoral support most parishes don’t share; it also enjoys some the and spiritual enrichment. And it’s in the area of spiritual enrichunique opportunities for ministry. ment that Fr. Vetter sees unique opportunities for a church on the beach. For example the parish has hosted retreats, such as a week-long summer camp for children with HIV/AIDS. The lot on which St. Therese stands was donated in 1895 as “In some ways,” he said, “we can’t be like other parishes. We the site for a vacation cottage for Msgr. Christopher Dennen, the can’t expand the church. Parking is always going to be scarce, pastor of St. Mary Church in Wilmington. In the summer Msgr. especially in the summer. We have special Dennen offered Mass there, and before long needed a challenges with maintenance and insur60-seat church to accommodate his congregathe Diocese of ance and local rules and restrictions. tion. The church, known then as Our Lady “But many people who come to the Star of the Sea, became a mission of St. beach are looking for something that we Mary. As the Wrightsville Beach commucan offer. Young people come out here after nity continued to grow, a year-round resident college. Retired people come here. And both pastor was installed and eventually a new brick groups are asking some of the same questions: St. therese, church was built. Bishop Eugene J. McGuinWho am I now? Where do I go from here? Wrightsville ness dedicated that church and established the People come to the beach to be renewed or Beach parish in honor of St. Therese the Little Flower to untangle problems, and that’s a wonderful in 1944. 207 South opportunity for ministry. The question is ‘How One problem faced by a church on the Lumina Avenue, do we engage these people?’ It’s not just about beach is its vulnerability to storms. In 1954, Wrightsville programs, it’s about being a place for those Hurricane Hazel severely damaged the church Beach, NC who come here with doubts and questions. and destroyed the rectory. Both were restored, That’s a challenge but a special opportunity.” 910.256.2471 and parish growth did not diminish. By 1963 S Raleigh December 2011 715 Nazareth St. Raleigh, NC 27606 919.821.9730 Online: www.DioceseofRaleigh.org www.NCCatholics.org The Diocese of Raleigh is now on Facebook to share news, stories, photos and video from across Eastern North Carolina. 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